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"Absolutely not.
But sometimes other people make me feel sexy, its the look in their eyes! At those moments, yes, i feel incredibly sexy x  "
So like someone wanting you and thinking you’re sexy makes you feel sexy? x |
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over a year ago
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Right now?
No.
But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.
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"Right now?
No.
But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.
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I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference |
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"A person can make me feel sexy.  right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be. 
If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….?"
…Unzip my pants and say you’ll blow!? 
I don’t know the words, I’m improvising |
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"A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be.
If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….?
…Unzip my pants and say you’ll blow!?
I don’t know the words, I’m improvising "
You may be a bit young for that song I quoted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right now?
No.
But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.
I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference "
Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. |
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"Right now?
No.
But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.
I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference
Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. "
So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy? |
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"Right now?
No.
But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.
I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference
Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works.
So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?"
That just means they want sex. 2 different things. |
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"Right now?
No.
But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.
I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference
Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works.
So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?
That just means they want sex. 2 different things. "
Depends who it is though. Does for me anyhoo |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that.
But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do?
Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute. |
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I don’t know it’s a vibe I guess, it can either be me thinking gut once in a shirt I look good, instead of the hobo look I tend to go with
Or a female admirer or even a stranger smiling at me in a way that they approve.
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"I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that.
But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do?
Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute. "
I do think it’s linked to confidence |
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over a year ago
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I don’t think I ever feel sexy in myself. Sometimes I’ll think ohh yeah , I look hot today. I think I rely on other people to make me feel that way too much. |
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"Right now?
No.
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I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference
Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works.
So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?"
That’s the end result. All that leading to the fumbling got me feeling sexy enough to get to that point. The, the lead up, everything they do and say, the subtle beauty and sexyness and attraction they try to hide. It get you feeling ‘it’. Makes you heart race and the just fullness to dive in yourself and start tearing at each other.
It’s more than words.
#weallknow 
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"Define what feeling sexy is, I'm not sure. I accept who I am and I'm gratefull for what I have and do and have learned to love myself but, I'm not sure what feeling sexy actualy is."
I can’t define it really. It will be different for different people. Not sure I even have my own definition to put into words |
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Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy.... |
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"If not what makes you feel sexy?think with most guys its waking up 
I don’t mean feeling like sex. I mean feeling sexy "
If its erect you feel sexy, they just knock one out and all the effort needed to feel sexy goes |
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy...."
Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC |
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....
Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC"
Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning.....  |
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....
Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC
Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning..... "
was he peeking ? |
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....
Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC
Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning.....
was he peeking ?"
No, he was a very happy husband receiving a blow job |
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....
Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC
Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning.....
was he peeking ?
No, he was a very happy husband receiving a blow job "
Oh! Haha |
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over a year ago
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There are very rare occasions I feel sexy.
One is when I perform, weirdly after my first fringe I didn't but last year it happened once or twice.
The other is lost in the moment with someone, knowing you are giving them pleasure, seeing them react. A kiss, a touch, even just that eye contact and laughter before you even get to the the sex stuff.
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"Absolutely not.
But sometimes other people make me feel sexy, its the look in their eyes! At those moments, yes, i feel incredibly sexy x "
This is the same for me, being looked at a certain way and being wanted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only feel sexy when I'm naked with a man who is thoroughly enveloping me in lust and pleasure."
I must agree with that, once I'm at that stag lust takes over. |
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over a year ago
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It’s transient, I find. Some days yes, and often I just like myself in a particular outfit, or feel especially confident about my body. But like most, I often feel like a blob.
It definitely helps having someone interested in me though, being desired has a nice way of papering over the cracks. |
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I think having energy is a big part of it.
Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.
However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.
Today I'm Meh!
So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.
So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really.
I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy.
Yeah. I get this "
I try so hard to get rid of my tummy, I hate it and it has stopped me from playing so many times as I just get so self conscious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right now?
Not at all. Once I've shaved my legs, tinted my brows, had a facial (the skincare kind) and possibly done my nails I might feel a little sexier
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"I think having energy is a big part of it.
Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.
However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.
Today I'm Meh!
So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.
So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!"
Just realised how that reads.
That was not supposed to come across like that! |
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"Not really.
I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy.
Yeah. I get this
I try so hard to get rid of my tummy, I hate it and it has stopped me from playing so many times as I just get so self conscious."
I’m self conscious about some things too. And it does stop me meeting people sometimes. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that.
But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do?
Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute.
I do think it’s linked to confidence "
Yes definitely. Feeling secure, well more secure in who you are.
I think I feel desirable more than sexy. And I like that other people can influence that to some extent, it's very clear when I'm feeling desired and when I'm not - my words are softer and more charged, I feel happier in myself. My libido rockets.
I'm also just a bit of a slut for that feedback loop of desire. |
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"I think having energy is a big part of it.
Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.
However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.
Today I'm Meh!
So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.
So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!
Just realised how that reads.
That was not supposed to come across like that!"
Not sure how you felt it came across, seemed OK to me. Can understand the running on fumes, I have felt that for a while, but currently feel wanted - plus the sun is out in Lisbon and its still 24° at 17.00 hours. My tank feels full! |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
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Right now? No I don’t Nora. I ache and I’m sore and it’s not shifting. Right now I feel all of my years.
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Putting on some of my fav underwear, putting on heels, putting on lippy, my hair just done. Those are the sorts of things do it for me. It’s those things that make me feel confident in myself and that’s what makes me feel sexy. |
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"Right now? No I don’t Nora. I ache and I’m sore and it’s not shifting. Right now I feel all of my years.
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Putting on some of my fav underwear, putting on heels, putting on lippy, my hair just done. Those are the sorts of things do it for me. It’s those things that make me feel confident in myself and that’s what makes me feel sexy."
Yeah I think the confidence thing is definitely linked. It is for me anyway. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Define what feeling sexy is, I'm not sure. I accept who I am and I'm gratefull for what I have and do and have learned to love myself but, I'm not sure what feeling sexy actualy is.
I can’t define it really. It will be different for different people. Not sure I even have my own definition to put into words "
I been trying to think what feeling sexy is so,
When you look at someone and think they are sexy is because the tern you on and you feel aroused, do I every look at myself and feel aroused then no.
When I wear something new, I sometimes feel more confident but, not aroused as this is the same happy feeling I get when buying a piece of furniture or a new car.
When I do deep meditaion and I'm in the zone, I get the emotional enegy and feeling of an orgasm but it doesn't make me feel aroused though.
The first hot day, fills me with good energy and vitamin D and I suppose as an after effect I can look at someone a feel more aroused but, I would say it makes me feel sexy.
I don't have much of an ego so, perhaps this is why I lack feeling sexy although I do feel confident and love myself for who I am.
But I also look at things too deeply sometimes. |
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Sometimes yes, sometimes no!
All depends on my mood and my feeling at the time, somedays I feel like I'm glowing where as others ill feel a bit meh. This is normally reflected in how I'm dressed and how outgoing I am as well. A fresh haircut always help bring that feeling back when it fades. |
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Hell no! I've only ever had one person that has ever made me feel sexy and desireable, and that was a long time ago. I live in hope that one day it might happen again |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex
Odd that isn't it?
Who'd have thunk it?"
Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous |
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"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex
Odd that isn't it?
Who'd have thunk it?
Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous "
Don't wear anything you mind being torn to shreds. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Depends on the occasion, setting and circumstances.
It's a state of mind which varies and is influenced by a multitude of factors.
Being happy with one's self and of course attention and some external validation from either a loved one or someone we desire can contribute decisively. |
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I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex
Odd that isn't it?
Who'd have thunk it?
Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous
Don't wear anything you mind being torn to shreds. "
Deal |
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"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same. "
You defo have sex appeal!! |
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"I think having energy is a big part of it.
Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.
However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.
Today I'm Meh!
So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.
So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!"
Can totally relate to this, I definitely need to have the energy, to make the effort, to look ok and feel it.
I agree with what others have said about feeling desired. |
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"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same.
You defo have sex appeal!! "
I have 2d boob pics, that's different ! I can't keep a straight face long enough to actually be sexy! But thanks |
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"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same.
You defo have sex appeal!!
I have 2d boob pics, that's different ! I can't keep a straight face long enough to actually be sexy! But thanks "
Your 2d face is also sexy! |
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No I don’t feel sexy. J giving me attention can maybe make me feel a little sexy, but otherwise not at all.
J doesn’t normally feel sexy. But has said I make her feel sexy with the way I speak to her, and the compliments I give her.
That and compliments from other men when we are out at the weekends . |
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Not right now I don’t! But I definitely did earlier today when I got Wolf whistled at by I think it was 3 lasses in a car! Either they were a little bit tipsy or just taking the piss lol all I was doing is filling a skip at the side of the road, I was wearing a vest though so I’m going with enjoying the view |
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