We are looking for help and or advice please.
We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.
We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?
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"We are looking for help and or advice please.
We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.
We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?
Thanks."
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"We are looking for help and or advice please.
We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.
We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?
Thanks."
If she's not happy with another couple don't push her.
She has her boundaries don't cross them, I like seeing the Mr with another woman however I'm unsure about being with another man, if I wanted too he'd be all for it, but wouldn't ever push me to do something I wasn't comfortable with.
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I suggest not going through with it until everyone knows exactly what they want. The last thing you want to do is go and your wife gets upset or you ending putting the other couple in a really uncomfortable situation if it all goes tits up. |
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over a year ago
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"I suggest not going through with it until everyone knows exactly what they want. The last thing you want to do is go and your wife gets upset or you ending putting the other couple in a really uncomfortable situation if it all goes tits up. "
This is good advice
I love seeing my mr with another woman and know its just fun & he comes home with/to me. |
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What help of advice do you want? If she doesn't want to see you with another woman that's the end of it surely.
When we first started swinging I wasn't sure I'd want to see Mr N with another woman but over time that changed and I'm happy to see him enjoy himself. Your partner might change her mind too but also she might not. |
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MFM is the best way forward.
I just used to love see, hear wife get fucked and Mrs was shy before that but then opened up. However, with family and people we knew she still behaves like she used to. However, with stranger blokes, she is never shy to talk and flirt now but always a slow start but never on the phone, not sure why |
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Hello guys
This is what I call “ knickers politics “
Very familiar with this one . Personally
Been there
As I love FFM and I can’t do MMF . So I’m not fair in my sex politics . I know I’m not But is my pattern . I’m genuine . Is how I am . Can’t fake .
And I been discriminated on fabs for don’t offer MMF . On fabs . The most open mind platform . In 2023 is shocking . I didn’t toke any notice
But comments like : no cocaine n no MMF ? U r shit . Oh dear … anyway … ha ha
Back to you :
Your best friend here is Honesty .
Your best tool is clear open communication
And your best product is a pattern that will keep both happy .
I am a FFM lover . I love it . But if I have a loving partner who doesn’t like it ?
I don’t give two fucks about FFM . Simple
As .
Priorities . Fantasies vs dreams .
I’m not a fair lover when it cames to FFM n MMF as she can’t have MM couple with me included . Would have to go with out me .
I can have a FF couple, she can have FM
I only like FF , she likes FM
I have 2 , she has 1 each ? Is fair as we both like women we both happy
But I don’t men , so is. It fair I have to do something I can’t do
And is not fair on her she can’t have what she wants .
So …. There will be a pattern to be talked about n find an answer
I’m single . But I been in this position before
And I couldn’t do MMF so the FFM gone of the window
And I was happy and she was happy
Then later the 1o1 gone of the window too
Sadly. So yeah
I’m sure u guys will find a happy answer
Happy fabs
Honesty n communication don’t hide
Be real . Be 100%
Me personally I have too be 200%real or computer say no
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"We are looking for help and or advice please.
We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.
We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?
Thanks."
Always let the woman have her way its so much easier  |
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"We are looking for help and or advice please.
We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.
We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?
Thanks."
Not invite another women in  |
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