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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi guys, for those who know i am sure they will wanna know how much has been raised so far....
so the grand total today is.....
£550!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
how great is that!!, thanks to everyone here who has helped and donated.
Many of you knew so much about Alfie.
But i dont relise how many of you know how much that touched me.
from the day he was born till the day we sadi goodbye i had never had so many people asking after him and willing him on!
he was Fabs little mascot and every one of you should know how much your support emails and chats have helped me so so much through the worst time of my life. and every single one of you should be so proud of yourselfs.
i will always remeber how much you all cared for him. always......
Thank you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its good to see so many help out regardless..
If not mistaken the total needed is around 1500.. but whatever is raised WILL get a fitting and long lasting memorial stone.. It would be awsome if the one really wanted could be gotten..
Well done Kitty... and well done all I say.. Warms the heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the headstone you want to get is lovely and so fitting for Alfie. We are sure that with all the friends you have on here the target will soon be reached
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
"My punishment shall be to share a bed with your hairy minge for a night xxxx
Punishment should be for both of you to sepnd the night with me   "
You me and Kitty - who the punishment for again?????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know if I'm allowed to do this but the Facebook group is called - Creating A Perfect Memorial For Alfie Joe xxx
And there are some lovely pictures on there too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Visited the facebook website but i cant log onto my paypal account we'd like to send a donation if someone can tell us where to send it please!
PM us"
You don't need to have a paypal account to pay. You can pay through paypal with a credit card  |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
"ahhahahah just fucking with ya lol"
Well Kitty- it may help if you had SOME tits in the first place - they can only up you one size at a time you know!!!
You wanting tits to match ya fanny size by any chance???
PMSL xxx |
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Hi all we have just read this ourselves,
We have never meet kitty but since we came on here have always chatted with her,
We would also like to had a donation to the fund if some kind person would send us the details
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any one wanting to donate that is going to the barnsley social on the 12th, we will be sending a bucket around then and donating via the website. The web address is also on all confirmation mails sent out and on the links age of the pub website.
Soon hit the target you need kitty  |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
"Any one wanting to donate that is going to the barnsley social on the 12th, we will be sending a bucket around then and donating via the website. The web address is also on all confirmation mails sent out and on the links age of the pub website.
Soon hit the target you need kitty "
Yay!!!
thats so good of you guys xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just so u know, those who have been to his webiste there have been a load of pics o him added so u can see the handsome man"
and they are gorgeous pics too :0) |
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Kitty, have sent a donation. Not much i'm afraid but added to everything else you are getting it all mounts up.
Also joined the FB group, hope you don't mind. Alfie was such a gorgeous little man, you must be so proud to say that you are his mummy. xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do you know kitty.
I was ther when alfie was born and cried when we lost him, he was our baby.
And reading this had made me cry buckets and made me realise how small my pain is compared to yours.
You have been so strong my lovely and tried to cope with all the shite .
I know you act like a tuffy but you aint really but i so admire your bravery.
You are my hero ya know.
My pain is nowt. believe me.
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well done on the collection |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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some people have asked me why the hell are u talking so much about ur son here.
i will explain
when i fell preg you was all the first to know ever step of the pregnancy everyone wanted to know how it was going...
do u remeber when we found out it was a boy??? i do do you remember when we was thinking about names?? i do
i remeber some rows about what to wear while preg weither i should even be here.
i remeber giving birth too early and you know where all my support came from???
here.
i had never in my life seen such caring people was supisred and shocked at how many people was willing him on.
when he died my heart broke and my spirt left me. but do you know who i was more worried about telling the bad news too...
you guys... after everything you had all done for him i knew it would be heartbreaking for you all....
so for some people it might be weird i talk about him here, but for me, this is not just a swinging site, this is where i have some of the best people in my life who i know cared for my son as much as me.
you all got me through it, after he died i was here alone at the house, no one here, but coming on here talking to you all helped me so much.
Alfie also brought a lot of us together in friendship. he should be what it was truly like to care and support someone with him, we would not know how kind and caring we are really are....
and for some people who was confused about who his dad was IT WAS NOT TATTOOEEDUGLYGIT hhahahahahahhahahahahhaha
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"thank you friendlybifem ( i think ya gonna get some emails with that name on there lmao xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx)
Its _riendlyfunfem but I'll let you off, and who gives a shit if I do, lol. "
LMAO sorry lol i got bi on the brain today lol xxxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some people have asked me why the hell are u talking so much about ur son here.
i will explain
when i fell preg you was all the first to know ever step of the pregnancy everyone wanted to know how it was going...
do u remeber when we found out it was a boy??? i do do you remember when we was thinking about names?? i do
i remeber some rows about what to wear while preg weither i should even be here.
i remeber giving birth too early and you know where all my support came from???
here.
i had never in my life seen such caring people was supisred and shocked at how many people was willing him on.
when he died my heart broke and my spirt left me. but do you know who i was more worried about telling the bad news too...
you guys... after everything you had all done for him i knew it would be heartbreaking for you all....
so for some people it might be weird i talk about him here, but for me, this is not just a swinging site, this is where i have some of the best people in my life who i know cared for my son as much as me.
you all got me through it, after he died i was here alone at the house, no one here, but coming on here talking to you all helped me so much.
Alfie also brought a lot of us together in friendship. he should be what it was truly like to care and support someone with him, we would not know how kind and caring we are really are....
and for some people who was confused about who his dad was IT WAS NOT TATTOOEEDUGLYGIT hhahahahahahhahahahahhaha
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some people can go n fuck a brick!! everythin u said was true and the people who cant understand why u are talkin about it need to realise there is more to this site than swingin and sex. swinging is like a wee community we all have thoughts n feelings and lifes outside it and things happen in our lifes! we may all never meet each other in our lifetimes but we still show a concern x |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"some people have asked me why the hell are u talking so much about ur son here.
i will explain
when i fell preg you was all the first to know ever step of the pregnancy everyone wanted to know how it was going...
do u remeber when we found out it was a boy??? i do do you remember when we was thinking about names?? i do
i remeber some rows about what to wear while preg weither i should even be here.
i remeber giving birth too early and you know where all my support came from???
here.
i had never in my life seen such caring people was supisred and shocked at how many people was willing him on.
when he died my heart broke and my spirt left me. but do you know who i was more worried about telling the bad news too...
you guys... after everything you had all done for him i knew it would be heartbreaking for you all....
so for some people it might be weird i talk about him here, but for me, this is not just a swinging site, this is where i have some of the best people in my life who i know cared for my son as much as me.
you all got me through it, after he died i was here alone at the house, no one here, but coming on here talking to you all helped me so much.
Alfie also brought a lot of us together in friendship. he should be what it was truly like to care and support someone with him, we would not know how kind and caring we are really are....
and for some people who was confused about who his dad was IT WAS NOT TATTOOEEDUGLYGIT hhahahahahahhahahahahhaha
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Kitty hun.. I came into the story half way but have thus far been impressed with your strength and spirit.
Some say you don't get to choose your family - I think you're an example that statement is untrue. A family embraces, nurtures, cares, shares and accepts. for you, you've found another family here. *HUGS* hun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kitty my lovely fucked up mate.....
shut the fuck up, ok
me eyes are red raw with crying.
so shut up...........
now ...or i will call ya the c word
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what a cunt lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kitty my lovely fucked up mate.....
shut the fuck up, ok
me eyes are red raw with crying.
so shut up...........
now ...or i will call ya the c word
what a cunt lol"
Yerrrrrrrrrr a CUNT.
but such a nice one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember coming back on here after being offline for a while and seeing the anouncement about Kitty having had Alfie and tbh I did say to my hubby why would anyone anounce they have given birth and he said you daft mare she has been on fab forever and it saves emailing loads of people to tell them.
When I read the sad sad anouncement I sat in tears and desperatly wanted to help in anyway I could even tho I am so far away.
I think thats why Kitty has posted what she did hun.
I never meant to offend or hurt Kitty, maybe other people who werent members before asked because they thought it was inappropriate even tho it is very apt.
Shona
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remember coming back on here after being offline for a while and seeing the anouncement about Kitty having had Alfie and tbh I did say to my hubby why would anyone anounce they have given birth and he said you daft mare she has been on fab forever and it saves emailing loads of people to tell them.
When I read the sad sad anouncement I sat in tears and desperatly wanted to help in anyway I could even tho I am so far away.
I think thats why Kitty has posted what she did hun.
I never meant to offend or hurt Kitty, maybe other people who werent members before asked because they thought it was inappropriate even tho it is very apt.
Shona
x x x "
i am weird anyway if i have another baby gonna give birth in the chat room live on cam hahahhahah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember coming back on here after being offline for a while and seeing the anouncement about Kitty having had Alfie and tbh I did say to my hubby why would anyone anounce they have given birth and he said you daft mare she has been on fab forever and it saves emailing loads of people to tell them.
When I read the sad sad anouncement I sat in tears and desperatly wanted to help in anyway I could even tho I am so far away.
I think thats why Kitty has posted what she did hun.
I never meant to offend or hurt Kitty, maybe other people who werent members before asked because they thought it was inappropriate even tho it is very apt.
Shona
x x x
i am weird anyway if i have another baby gonna give birth in the chat room live on cam hahahhahah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
Right just let me know in advance and I will have the tickets sold hun we can split the takings!!
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember coming back on here after being offline for a while and seeing the anouncement about Kitty having had Alfie and tbh I did say to my hubby why would anyone anounce they have given birth and he said you daft mare she has been on fab forever and it saves emailing loads of people to tell them.
When I read the sad sad anouncement I sat in tears and desperatly wanted to help in anyway I could even tho I am so far away.
I think thats why Kitty has posted what she did hun.
I never meant to offend or hurt Kitty, maybe other people who werent members before asked because they thought it was inappropriate even tho it is very apt.
Shona
x x x
i am weird anyway if i have another baby gonna give birth in the chat room live on cam hahahhahah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
Would the Father be present? or will he be busy at his day job chasing sinners with his pitchfork through fire and brimstone... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remember coming back on here after being offline for a while and seeing the anouncement about Kitty having had Alfie and tbh I did say to my hubby why would anyone anounce they have given birth and he said you daft mare she has been on fab forever and it saves emailing loads of people to tell them.
When I read the sad sad anouncement I sat in tears and desperatly wanted to help in anyway I could even tho I am so far away.
I think thats why Kitty has posted what she did hun.
I never meant to offend or hurt Kitty, maybe other people who werent members before asked because they thought it was inappropriate even tho it is very apt.
Shona
x x x
i am weird anyway if i have another baby gonna give birth in the chat room live on cam hahahhahah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Would the Father be present? or will he be busy at his day job chasing sinners with his pitchfork through fire and brimstone... "
i dont need men to get preg, i have god on my side LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some people have asked me why the hell are u talking so much about ur son here.
i will explain
when i fell preg you was all the first to know ever step of the pregnancy everyone wanted to know how it was going...
do u remeber when we found out it was a boy??? i do do you remember when we was thinking about names?? i do
i remeber some rows about what to wear while preg weither i should even be here.
i remeber giving birth too early and you know where all my support came from???
here.
i had never in my life seen such caring people was supisred and shocked at how many people was willing him on.
when he died my heart broke and my spirt left me. but do you know who i was more worried about telling the bad news too...
you guys... after everything you had all done for him i knew it would be heartbreaking for you all....
so for some people it might be weird i talk about him here, but for me, this is not just a swinging site, this is where i have some of the best people in my life who i know cared for my son as much as me.
you all got me through it, after he died i was here alone at the house, no one here, but coming on here talking to you all helped me so much.
Alfie also brought a lot of us together in friendship. he should be what it was truly like to care and support someone with him, we would not know how kind and caring we are really are....
and for some people who was confused about who his dad was IT WAS NOT TATTOOEEDUGLYGIT hhahahahahahhahahahahhaha
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If all swinging involved was putting my cock in someone's pussy I'd stop swinging altogether.
Like you kitty, I have made some great friends over the years, some that have stood by me in darker days and are still there now.
I understand exactly where you are coming from when you say you were more worried about telling us about Alfie's passing. Swinging isn't just about sex, not for those who believe in the community that are nurtured on sites like these. We laugh, we scold, we joke and we comfort each other when we sense one of us is in pain. We all have that deep understanding that can only come from being cut from the same cloth as each other. Sure, we lead different lifestyles, have different jobs, have a vast range of experiences, but it's this diversity and wealth of knowledge that makes this such a strong circle of friends. Do you know, I've lost track of the amount of times I've read these forums to see someone asking for help and someone else has provided the answer.
If we have helped you, in some small part, to assuage the deep sense of loss you must still be feeling, then I feel good as a human being for being a part of that. Furthermore, if those that don't understand why you post on here about an intensely personal thing then they obviously have no clue that when Alfie died, we all felt it.
You stay just the way you are. We wouldn't have it any other way. xx |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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Kitty Darling.
There are many people on here who care very deeply about you - and who were all touched and saddened with the horror you had to go thru.
Many of us would not have been so strong - but at least we are fortunate enough to never have to know.
You are dear to us, as was little Alfie - and we will never tire of listening to you talk about him.
He was a little angel in ALL our hearts and just goes to show that as a circle of friends here - we really do all pull together when there is a friend in need.
I am honoured to have met many a good people on the site, and look forward to meeting many more.
Friends are for a reason, a season or life - but whichever catagory they come in - they are our building blocks of each chapter of our life.
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Big hugs to you Kitty, and big kisses for our little angel. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some people have asked me why the hell are u talking so much about ur son here.
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I personally can not believe that anyone would ask such a question
All i can say to the people is i hope you never need a shoulder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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kitty, be yourself, if that means pouring your heart out on here then so be it!
This site has helped me with my own recovery from my late partner's death.
Although there is a part of me that is not ready to move on, I am having a lot of fun, thanks to this site and the peeps on here.
So you go girl, don't hold back, and give those who do not understand or appreciate you the two finger salute! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats awsome....
Happy for you, truly is a lovely thing that people care...
I'd say i'm touched.. but no need to start rumours here eh pmsl..
Well done babes... Mwah x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some people have asked me why the hell are u talking so much about ur son here.
i will explain
when i fell preg you was all the first to know ever step of the pregnancy everyone wanted to know how it was going...
do u remeber when we found out it was a boy??? i do do you remember when we was thinking about names?? i do
i remeber some rows about what to wear while preg weither i should even be here.
i remeber giving birth too early and you know where all my support came from???
here.
i had never in my life seen such caring people was supisred and shocked at how many people was willing him on.
when he died my heart broke and my spirt left me. but do you know who i was more worried about telling the bad news too...
you guys... after everything you had all done for him i knew it would be heartbreaking for you all....
so for some people it might be weird i talk about him here, but for me, this is not just a swinging site, this is where i have some of the best people in my life who i know cared for my son as much as me.
you all got me through it, after he died i was here alone at the house, no one here, but coming on here talking to you all helped me so much.
Alfie also brought a lot of us together in friendship. he should be what it was truly like to care and support someone with him, we would not know how kind and caring we are really are....
and for some people who was confused about who his dad was IT WAS NOT TATTOOEEDUGLYGIT hhahahahahahhahahahahhaha
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Nope i most certainly wasn't..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't believe anyone even thought that lol...
As for the mad Ma... Mad as a box of frogs and some lol.. "
check in a few newts too and thats closer to the mark |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't believe anyone even thought that lol...
As for the mad Ma... Mad as a box of frogs and some lol..
check in a few newts too and thats closer to the mark"
But.... fair to say, lovely with it all the same eh?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't believe anyone even thought that lol...
As for the mad Ma... Mad as a box of frogs and some lol..
check in a few newts too and thats closer to the mark
But.... fair to say, lovely with it all the same eh?
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She rocks infact when you getting ya ass up here kitty babes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"finshed talking about me fuckers lol"
No Ive got something to say
When we met you your last words to me as I walked to the car.............Im gonna do your man!!! Rob did'nt even hear it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"finshed talking about me fuckers lol
No Ive got something to say
When we met you your last words to me as I walked to the car.............Im gonna do your man!!! Rob did'nt even hear it "
and u was busy asking random men if they was the father of alfie hahahahaha |
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