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By *esthetic21 OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

To get a meet around here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has different preferences which they are entitled to. Some people will meet and have sex with others without caring what they look like. Some people have to be attracted to the person they're meeting.

Don't take it personally.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Probably about 2 double gin’s fit

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By *estarossa.Woman over a year ago

Flagrante

"Probably about 2 double gin’s fit

More!!

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By *StepsAheadMan over a year ago

lancs

I get messages telling me im their type then ignored from there haha

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By *arkcrystalMan over a year ago

Bristol

Pulse optional

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

We get meets and I'm just a plain Jane so not that good looking.

Mrs

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

What's this place about.. Op there's a massive clue in the name

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By *ortyairCouple over a year ago

Wallasey

"We get meets and I'm just a plain Jane so not that good looking.

Mrs "
You little fibber lol xxx

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman over a year ago

Next Door

"Probably about 2 double gin’s fit

Only 2!!! Though it was 5?

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"To get a meet around here?

I’ve done everyone on fab except one lady and one couple.

I am your new benchmark.

Follow me, OP, and you shall find enlightenment (and quite a nice minge)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Making an assumption that because your schlong is massive and you look like a God is going to get even one woman is unfortunately the path self dilusion in here.

Balance a beach ball on your nose and flap like a seal and put up a killer bio - and that won't guarantee either. You could try being funny and persistent. Same same. It's a hard nut to crack but from what I see posted it seems worth it if you do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Top 5% of males fit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There has to be some attraction to meet someone from here because that's all you can really go off, but if you meet them in person it's a whole different story. If you can make us laugh and you aren't a total dick you have a better chance. We are not under any illusion we are for everyone so if that's the case then that's fine with us

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"To get a meet around here?

I’ve done everyone on fab except one lady and one couple.

I am your new benchmark.

Follow me, OP, and you shall find enlightenment (and quite a nice minge)"

They've gone unlos so game not quite completed. Replacements coming soon though

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Its all about supply and demand far too many single males supplying and only a small number of females and couples demanding!!!

and to answer your question another way "Its not only about looks for most of us on here there needs to be a spark"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not a model in any way shape or form and I manage. It's never about looks, it's about interactions.

I also think that it's always a bit harder for men because for every female profile there's probably about 40 or 50 male profiles.

Then some men don't make any effort with their profile and so often we don't even open their messages.

However there's someone on here for everyone. Patience and effort are key

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To get a meet around here?

You cannot force people into thinking you are attractive.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

There may not be anything wrong with how you look… you may be very attractive to some people and you may also do well on other dating apps or social media, but you just might not be attractive to the specific person you’re messaging at that moment.

I’ve had people send me face pics and there’s nothing wrong with them at all but they just don’t float my boat

Try not to take it personally and move on to the next

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

It's not about being good looking, it's about being attractive to those you seek... They are very different things

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By *adCherriesCouple over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

We wouldn't meet anyone unverified, just going to a club or on cam could make a big difference.

Also having thick skin is a good attribute to have.

Looks don't really come top of our list for us- more kink and scenarios but obviously not looking like you hit every tree branch on the way down is a given.

Also we've reversed search pictures in the past- not necessarily face pics but you would be surprised how many use fake pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not a model in any way shape or form and I manage. It's never about looks, it's about interactions.

I also think that it's always a bit harder for men because for every female profile there's probably about 40 or 50 male profiles.

Then some men don't make any effort with their profile and so often we don't even open their messages.

However there's someone on here for everyone. Patience and effort are key

It's not just a bit harder though - it's practically impossible without a shed load of effort, consistent application, the hide of a rhino - oh and every one of the norm attractive attributes in decent handfuls. Or have lady bits.

That sounds harsh and judgemental but it's not fake news.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"To get a meet around here?

I'm chunky lost a few strands of hair,my arse stinks, my knees creak, I piss 5 times a night, expect the lady to provide the condoms and a complete twat, but still managed to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Expectations

Standards

Preferences

Egos

Take your pick.

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"To get a meet around here?

I'm chunky lost a few strands of hair,my arse stinks, my knees creak, I piss 5 times a night, expect the lady to provide the condoms and a complete twat, but still managed to get meets.

You must have a slightly better than average mush then, mush

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

OP I am proof it’s not all about looks for women. My impression (a one formed from being on here 10 years) is that women single or as part of a couple are not looking for a relationship partner or a boyfriend. They are looking for someone that brings a certain package or fantasy that lights a fire within their libido. Something that’s not the humdrum norm, something exciting or filthy or kinky that allows them to be slutty or whatever ignites them. Looks are far less important I believe because they are not spending the rest of their life with you. Try thinking about what ‘package’ you bring OP. What’s your USP if you like. Your a good looking guy but so what! What else are you bringing?BTW ladies I stand to be corrected as this is only my humble opinion.

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By *eardedwonder999Man over a year ago

Worcester

Hey lucky you OP I cant even get a reply to a message that I've sent

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

I mean you’ve paid your £5er right OP? I’d would’ve expect to be on at least 3rd base by now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all about how you are meshing with the person you are talking with, always remember you have no automatic right to a meet and even if meet no right to sex.

Just enjoy the chats and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To get a meet around here?

If you as stated you don't have any problems in life or on dating apps then what is the problem if your not getting it on here?

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

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By *nkyCplCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"To get a meet around here?

Women & couples have so much choice they can look elsewhere. You likely just aren’t their type, or in their eyes not attractive.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I mean you’ve paid your £5er right OP? I’d would’ve expect to be on at least 3rd base by now "

What is third base now? Is it kissing?

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By *educing_EmCouple over a year ago

Tipperary

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"I mean you’ve paid your £5er right OP? I’d would’ve expect to be on at least 3rd base by now

What is third base now? Is it kissing? "

A good old fingering, 3 knuckles deep I think

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

But you already did

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By *ilverjagMan over a year ago

swansea

Well this debate about looks has come up before. Some people have said that I bear a striking resemblance to Bryan Ferry, others have said Johnny Cash, even Elvis lookalike did get a mention depending on how I style my hair, but if nobody fancies any of them I'd have more chance of getting a gobble off The Pope.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

But you already did

Also I'm going to remind you that I now require another

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By *educing_EmCouple over a year ago

Tipperary

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

But you already did

Did I?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"To get a meet around here?

I'm chunky lost a few strands of hair,my arse stinks, my knees creak, I piss 5 times a night, expect the lady to provide the condoms and a complete twat, but still managed to get meets.

You must have a slightly better than average mush then, mush

Nah I look like a Dover sole that's been twatted by the whole fishing fleet

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I mean you’ve paid your £5er right OP? I’d would’ve expect to be on at least 3rd base by now

What is third base now? Is it kissing?

A good old fingering, 3 knuckles deep I think

Oh the magic triangle

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

But you already did

Did I?

I believe so, send me another to jog my memory

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"send me another to jog my memory

Smooooooth.

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By *s-two-75Couple over a year ago

"To get a meet around here?

We gave up meeting from just this app and only meet in clubs now, for the reason a few times people don’t look like there pics.

This can be in a good way and bad way.

Some people look better int he flesh them there are those that use 5 year old plus pictures.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"To get a meet around here?

I’m a munter…. I’m having a blast!!!!

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By *eneralKenobiMan over a year ago

North Angus

Offer cake, b*tches love cake

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"send me another to jog my memory

Smooooooth."

My smoothness works a treat though

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By *evonrobMan over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Clearly not very if I’m anything to go by! Lol

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By *eneralKenobiMan over a year ago

North Angus

"Offer cake, b*tches love cake"

Also don’t call them b*tches

They hate that

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

I just uploaded a new face pic to scare the weak ones

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Offer cake, b*tches love cake

Also don’t call them b*tches

They hate that "

That can’t be right…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

To be honest, I’d kiss you even if your face looked like your arse

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

To be honest, I’d kiss you even if your face looked like your arse

Mine or hers?

Also she looks stunning

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"To get a meet around here?

And this is nothing do with my profile it's like this... I often get messages from women saying hi and requesting a face pic. To which I oblige and to get told nah sorry you're not my type or a block. Now im saying I'm a anything but I definitely don't have trouble in life on dating apps ect. So what is it about this place?"
women and couples rule and have plenty of choice they can get guys that are out of their league just because they can and if guys weren't so godamn horny all the time they'd understand why, think it interferes with the thought process horniness

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

To be honest, I’d kiss you even if your face looked like your arse

Mine or hers?

Also she looks stunning

is your arse as hairy as your face?!

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

To be honest, I’d kiss you even if your face looked like your arse

Mine or hers?

Also she looks stunning

is your arse as hairy as your face?!"

Only the crack

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By *ezebel100Woman over a year ago

Birmingham

"It's all about how you are meshing with the person you are talking with, always remember you have no automatic right to a meet and even if meet no right to sex.

Just enjoy the chats and see what happens."

This is so right.

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By *ezebel100Woman over a year ago

Birmingham

"Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

I understand that, I don't ho gor guys that are too good looking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To get a meet around here?

….."

Dude, it’s about an attraction to someone on here, the penny will drop one day, I assure you. And when it does, you’ll feel better.

Most guys and girls will have felt ugly in their lives at sometime, but someone came along and made them feel like they were the sexiest person in the world at that moment in time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

I understand that, I don't ho gor guys that are too good looking."

I don't think I'd attract them, but nonetheless I steer away from really handsome men. I prefer quirky, and I am less cynical about why they're interested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

I understand that, I don't ho gor guys that are too good looking.

I don't think I'd attract them, but nonetheless I steer away from really handsome men. I prefer quirky, and I am less cynical about why they're interested. "

Send the good looking ones my way please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

I understand that, I don't ho gor guys that are too good looking.

I don't think I'd attract them, but nonetheless I steer away from really handsome men. I prefer quirky, and I am less cynical about why they're interested.

Send the good looking ones my way please

Raven, I think they'd be headed your way in any event!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I mean I'm not that good looking but I've still had success here! Keep your head up, you'll find success eventually!

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

I understand that, I don't ho gor guys that are too good looking.

I don't think I'd attract them, but nonetheless I steer away from really handsome men. I prefer quirky, and I am less cynical about why they're interested.

Send the good looking ones my way please

Raven, I think they'd be headed your way in any event!

Nah, she's stuck with the rough ones like myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

I understand that, I don't ho gor guys that are too good looking.

I don't think I'd attract them, but nonetheless I steer away from really handsome men. I prefer quirky, and I am less cynical about why they're interested.

Send the good looking ones my way please

Raven, I think they'd be headed your way in any event!

My inbox says different.

^ how to offend every guy that's every messaged me.

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By *cottish guy 555Man over a year ago

London

I'm bald,overweight and not good looking but I seem to do alright. But then I don't tend to use fab to meet people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m happy to buy anyone gin vodka wine or champagne until I look like Henry Cavill

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To get a meet around here?

You look fit as fuck…would meet you haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got a great face yet I still get told no all the time if that helps?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having smooth, healthy and youthful skin definitely contributes to a man’s overall attractiveness.According to a magazine i read recently,oh and clip your nails and cut down on hair products

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some time ago, admittedly, a lady on here told me I am too good looking. Can't win ffs!...

I understand that, I don't ho gor guys that are too good looking.

I don't think I'd attract them, but nonetheless I steer away from really handsome men. I prefer quirky, and I am less cynical about why they're interested.

Send the good looking ones my way please

Raven, I think they'd be headed your way in any event!

My inbox says different.

^ how to offend every guy that's every messaged me.

Oops

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By *cottish guy 555Man over a year ago

London

"Having smooth, healthy and youthful skin definitely contributes to a man’s overall attractiveness.According to a magazine i read recently,oh and clip your nails and cut down on hair products

Hair products? Yeah right

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By *opetop4UMan over a year ago

Aberdeen

"OP I am proof it’s not all about looks for women. My impression (a one formed from being on here 10 years) is that women single or as part of a couple are not looking for a relationship partner or a boyfriend. They are looking for someone that brings a certain package or fantasy that lights a fire within their libido. Something that’s not the humdrum norm, something exciting or filthy or kinky that allows them to be slutty or whatever ignites them. Looks are far less important I believe because they are not spending the rest of their life with you. Try thinking about what ‘package’ you bring OP. What’s your USP if you like. Your a good looking guy but so what! What else are you bringing?BTW ladies I stand to be corrected as this is only my humble opinion. "

Nice post!

With no six pack or nine inch dick that's my tactic!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Ryan Reyonlds good looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ryan Reyonlds good looking "

I've looked. No one is.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

Much depends on whether or not you have tits

If you’ve not got tits you are gonna need to be reasonably attractive at least.

Try different expressions for your pictures.

I know we personally much prefer to see a smiling picture rather than the standard moody glare that seems to be the norm here.

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By *educing_EmCouple over a year ago

Tipperary

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Remind me to never send you a face pic

To be honest, I’d kiss you even if your face looked like your arse

Thanks I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Much depends on whether or not you have tits

If you’ve not got tits you are gonna need to be reasonably attractive at least.

Try different expressions for your pictures.

I know we personally much prefer to see a smiling picture rather than the standard moody glare that seems to be the norm here."

That implies that a woman can be pig-ugly and it won't matter? Is that what you mean?

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"I’m happy to buy anyone gin vodka wine or champagne until I look like Henry Cavill "

Hello Sailor

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By *ongueFkYouMan over a year ago

Bradford

I don't think it's anything to do with looks if you're not their type then nothing you can do about that but I think most go for personality because looks do end up fading and no point in having good looks but a crap personality!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm bald,overweight and not good looking but I seem to do alright. But then I don't tend to use fab to meet people

This is an interesting point. I do far better in person. Fab defies the natural laws…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To get a meet around here?

I'm chunky lost a few strands of hair,my arse stinks, my knees creak, I piss 5 times a night, expect the lady to provide the condoms and a complete twat, but still managed to get meets.

You must have a slightly better than average mush then, mush

Can confirm he has a face only a mother could love

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

Well given that your username is specifically about 'beauty' maybe you are giving off the impression that you are concerned about it more than anything else?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Much depends on whether or not you have tits

If you’ve not got tits you are gonna need to be reasonably attractive at least.

Try different expressions for your pictures.

I know we personally much prefer to see a smiling picture rather than the standard moody glare that seems to be the norm here.

That implies that a woman can be pig-ugly and it won't matter? Is that what you mean?"

Your words not mine.

It’s well known and well documented that even blank female profiles get bombarded with mail from the very beginning of joining.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"It's just a case of attraction being there or not I think, I've had to say sorry but no attraction quite a few times and I'm rough as

Yeah, some of us are even rougher than

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Did you ever think that maybe there's more to life than being really, really… really ridiculously good looking?

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Trust me, you cannot be everybody’s particular flavour of crisps

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Did you ever think that maybe there's more to life than being really, really… really ridiculously good looking?

Is there?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Much depends on whether or not you have tits

If you’ve not got tits you are gonna need to be reasonably attractive at least.

Try different expressions for your pictures.

I know we personally much prefer to see a smiling picture rather than the standard moody glare that seems to be the norm here.

That implies that a woman can be pig-ugly and it won't matter? Is that what you mean?

Your words not mine.

It’s well known and well documented that even blank female profiles get bombarded with mail from the very beginning of joining.

And that's before they get to see a face at which point either party can say no.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If someone has goth in their username and doesn't show goth, I switch off. If someone has hung in their username and isn't hung, I switch off. Have you considered your username is working against you with the implication that you're notably aesthetic?

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By *elboy1957Man over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Yes looks help, but having a good social and getting on means more. How many times have you looked at a couple and thought,how did he/she pull the other one?

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

"Did you ever think that maybe there's more to life than being really, really… really ridiculously good looking?

Blue Steal me baby

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Did you ever think that maybe there's more to life than being really, really… really ridiculously good looking?

Is there?!

I plan on finding out what that is.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Did you ever think that maybe there's more to life than being really, really… really ridiculously good looking?

Blue Steal me baby

*pouts attractively at Cede*

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s not just about looks…

Everything gets taken into account - whether people fit our dynamics and us theirs. A good connection. Being able to converse with someone is a good quality. Personality. Good body.

I’ll be good looking to some people but I’d prefer to be an all rounder and they like other qualities I have.

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By *irtydevil666Man over a year ago

bristol

Jaffa Cakes.......win win.....

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think."

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think."

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example. "

Yeah, your radar must be broken. Everyone loves George

And sorry, OP. The right answer is there is beauty is in the eye of the beholder, of course. But there's room for us all on here! Just got to find those who like what they see rather than worrying about those that done...that's what I tell myself anyway.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

Yeah, your radar must be broken. Everyone loves George

*That

*Don't

Moral of the story: type more carefully.

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example. "

Even I’d let GC ruin me. But he has to spoon me afterwards

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By *randmrs17Couple over a year ago

Wigan

"I am your new benchmark.

Follow me, OP, and you shall find enlightenment (and quite a nice minge)"

Damn are we the only ones left???

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

So what you have to do is moan about it in a forum and hope every female in here sees it and then changes their mind

Or....

Maybe you should just change yourself!!!

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's not all about looks, it's about a connection, shared interests, being on the same page. I've said no to plenty of really attractive guys because I haven't felt we were a good match.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example. "

I don't fancy George either. Or Brad Pitt!

My tastes run from Chris Hemsworth/Chris Pratt/Ryan Reynolds to Louis Theroux/James Spader/Jimmy Carr!

It's not always about looks, OP. If an Olympic swimmer with a perfect body but an empty head turned up at my door, he ain't getting into my pants.

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

I don't fancy George either. Or Brad Pitt!

My tastes run from Chris Hemsworth/Chris Pratt/Ryan Reynolds to Louis Theroux/James Spader/Jimmy Carr!

It's not always about looks, OP. If an Olympic swimmer with a perfect body but an empty head turned up at my door, he ain't getting into my pants. "

Maybe he’d just do breaststroke

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

I don't fancy George either. Or Brad Pitt!

My tastes run from Chris Hemsworth/Chris Pratt/Ryan Reynolds to Louis Theroux/James Spader/Jimmy Carr!

It's not always about looks, OP. If an Olympic swimmer with a perfect body but an empty head turned up at my door, he ain't getting into my pants.

Maybe he’d just do breaststroke "

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I hold my hands up confess I've shagged some rough looking men in my time.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"I hold my hands up confess I've shagged some rough looking men in my time.

Except I thought they were lovely

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

"Did you ever think that maybe there's more to life than being really, really… really ridiculously good looking?

Blue Steal me baby

*pouts attractively at Cede*

* _ede fan girls and faints*

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By *ezebel100Woman over a year ago

Birmingham

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

I don't fancy George either. Or Brad Pitt!

My tastes run from Chris Hemsworth/Chris Pratt/Ryan Reynolds to Louis Theroux/James Spader/Jimmy Carr!

It's not always about looks, OP. If an Olympic swimmer with a perfect body but an empty head turned up at my door, he ain't getting into my pants. "

James Spader when he was younger drool

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

I don't fancy George either. Or Brad Pitt!

My tastes run from Chris Hemsworth/Chris Pratt/Ryan Reynolds to Louis Theroux/James Spader/Jimmy Carr!

It's not always about looks, OP. If an Olympic swimmer with a perfect body but an empty head turned up at my door, he ain't getting into my pants. "

I know your type, Madam

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't....

I tell people I look like Fiona from Shrek, still manage to pull a few poor sods along the way!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

It's not about looks op. A really well written profile and first message.

Looks are subjective. I like smiley faces. I also like the lived in look faces that tell a story. There is no one size that fit all

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

I don't fancy George either. Or Brad Pitt!

My tastes run from Chris Hemsworth/Chris Pratt/Ryan Reynolds to Louis Theroux/James Spader/Jimmy Carr!

It's not always about looks, OP. If an Olympic swimmer with a perfect body but an empty head turned up at my door, he ain't getting into my pants.

James Spader when he was younger drool"

He really was but I kid you not, I'd still do him now, in all his old man glory

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"The sweet spot is somewhere between Bernard Manning and George Clooney, I think.

I don't seem to find any of the "everyone thinks he's gorgeous" male celebs attractive. Am I broken? I don't fancy George C, for example.

I don't fancy George either. Or Brad Pitt!

My tastes run from Chris Hemsworth/Chris Pratt/Ryan Reynolds to Louis Theroux/James Spader/Jimmy Carr!

It's not always about looks, OP. If an Olympic swimmer with a perfect body but an empty head turned up at my door, he ain't getting into my pants.

I know your type, Madam

Shush, you!

Rex & his Perfect Penis will hear you

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By *ML49Man over a year ago

Burnley

admit it, your egos dented and you don't like it. I agree it is hard work on here though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To get a meet around here?

Now I want to see your face xx Mrs

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By *esthetic21 OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"So what you have to do is moan about it in a forum and hope every female in here sees it and then changes their mind

Or....

Maybe you should just change yourself!!!

"
how do I change my face?

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By *tsJustKateWoman over a year ago

London

"To get a meet around here?

Looks mean nothing to me. Good humour and a big cock are enough.

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

"So what you have to do is moan about it in a forum and hope every female in here sees it and then changes their mind

Or....

Maybe you should just change yourself!!!

how do I change my face?

Ffs... Your outlook and expectations!!!!!!

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By *nandwet69Couple over a year ago

cwmbran

You think you have got it bad We get don’t get block , but we get ignored for just trying to have a chat . I know it’s a swinging sight but surly conversation. is starting point especially if it humorous. .

You need to put your armoured coat on and realise your self worth, is never measured by people likes

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By *oofy321Man over a year ago

moon base zero

Lol..op,im frigging gorgeous and I get nothing

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By *hrek101Man over a year ago

Herts

I supply my own paper bag if anyone was interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did you ever think that maybe there's more to life than being really, really… really ridiculously good looking?

*pouts

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"To get a meet around here?

For me, the personality, attitude and face needs to match the cock. I don't want to waste my time with Mr wrong who I don't find physically and mentally stimulating.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Maybe you appear a different and more approachable person on your dating app? I get strange messages on fab which I doubt they talk like that if they were on a dating site. Not sure why social manners should change because sex is involved?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is looking for something different.

Attraction is so subjective, I like lots of different things in people. Nobody in my past has a similar look, they are all extremely different. Whether that be playmates or partners. They all have personality traits in common though.

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Nobody meets dude.

Now people just sext it's all the rage.

In fact recently I was told the sex was great. And I was thinking but we haven't met wtf are you talking about?

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

So good looking i mean make up artist good looking, supermodel good looking out of the park good looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Send me a picture of your face and I’d be honest and blunt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Send me a picture of your face and I’d be honest and blunt "

Like Emily

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"Send me a picture of your face and I’d be honest and blunt "
i can't take blunt at the minute oh you meant the Op he'll be awake about 11 with a hangover

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody meets dude.

Now people just sext it's all the rage.

In fact recently I was told the sex was great. And I was thinking but we haven't met wtf are you talking about?

It's more convenient. Can sext whilst browsing amazing and eating hula hoops.

Win win.

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Nobody meets dude.

Now people just sext it's all the rage.

In fact recently I was told the sex was great. And I was thinking but we haven't met wtf are you talking about?

It's more convenient. Can sext whilst browsing amazing and eating hula hoops.

Win win."

Yeah been there a few times, although it was match of the day and quavers for me. I don't like Hula Hoops, too much effort - we'd never work Raven I need someone with less motivation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody meets dude.

Now people just sext it's all the rage.

In fact recently I was told the sex was great. And I was thinking but we haven't met wtf are you talking about?

It's more convenient. Can sext whilst browsing amazing and eating hula hoops.

Win win.

Yeah been there a few times, although it was match of the day and quavers for me. I don't like Hula Hoops, too much effort - we'd never work Raven I need someone with less motivation.

You're right, you're far too cheesy for me.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"To get a meet around here?

You’re a single guy in Fab, a site notoriously oversubscribed with single guys, and hilariously undersubscribed by single females. Stick to real life and dating apps mate

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

if you dont look like a movie star yer fucked,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody meets dudes

….

FIFY

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Nobody meets dudes

….

FIFY

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Nobody meets dude.

Now people just sext it's all the rage.

In fact recently I was told the sex was great. And I was thinking but we haven't met wtf are you talking about?

It's more convenient. Can sext whilst browsing amazing and eating hula hoops.

Win win.

Yeah been there a few times, although it was match of the day and quavers for me. I don't like Hula Hoops, too much effort - we'd never work Raven I need someone with less motivation.

You're right, you're far too cheesy for me."

Raven... you without me is like Harold Melvin without the Bluenotes;

You'll never go platinum

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By *esthetic21 OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Send me a picture of your face and I’d be honest and blunt i can't take blunt at the minute oh you meant the Op he'll be awake about 11 with a hangover

"
I don't drink alcohol

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By *esthetic21 OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Send me a picture of your face and I’d be honest and blunt "
lol nah

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By *esthetic21 OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Maybe you appear a different and more approachable person on your dating app? I get strange messages on fab which I doubt they talk like that if they were on a dating site. Not sure why social manners should change because sex is involved?"
I don't message people on here I'm talking about when women message me asking for a face pic and then tell me no

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By *oofy321Man over a year ago

moon base zero

"Nobody meets dude.

Now people just sext it's all the rage.

In fact recently I was told the sex was great. And I was thinking but we haven't met wtf are you talking about?

It's more convenient. Can sext whilst browsing amazing and eating hula hoops.

Win win."

Do you put hula hoops on your fingers then eat them?

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By *mily36CWoman over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I don't message people on here I'm talking about when women message me asking for a face pic and then tell me no "

Are you entirely sure they are genuine women requesting your pic?

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Now im saying I'm a anything but I definitely don't have trouble in life on dating apps ect. So what is it about this place?"

Hate to potentially crush an ego…. But I have just had a thought…

Maybe you have calculated this all wrong…

What if maybe it’s the swinging website that is the norm…. And you are actually over preforming on the dating apps ect…..

That WOULD be a kick in the nuts

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By *he massage manMan over a year ago

filey

"We get meets and I'm just a plain Jane so not that good looking.

Mrs "

I am sorry there is nothing plain Jane about you, your a bit special

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By *mily36CWoman over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Now im saying I'm a anything but I definitely don't have trouble in life on dating apps ect. So what is it about this place?

Hate to potentially crush an ego…. But I have just had a thought…

Maybe you have calculated this all wrong…

What if maybe it’s the swinging website that is the norm…. And you are actually over preforming on the dating apps ect…..

That WOULD be a kick in the nuts

Wait, what? ... you mean there could be more desperate women on dating sites than on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

‘Exceptional’ seems to be the requirement a lot of the

time.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"‘Exceptional’ seems to be the requirement a lot of the

time."

Exceptional should only be used when your mother is talking about you… for anyone else it’s pish! Pardon my Scottish!

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By *earded_GeordieMan over a year ago

cramlington

Ask for a face pic and find out

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By *agerMorganMan over a year ago

Canvey Island

Blimey, spare a thought for the larger peasant class will ya?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"There has to be some attraction to meet someone from here because that's all you can really go off, but if you meet them in person it's a whole different story. If you can make us laugh and you aren't a total dick you have a better chance. We are not under any illusion we are for everyone so if that's the case then that's fine with us "

"Not being a total dick" -(smacks head)

I've been wondering for so long what it was that I was doing wrong on here

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"To get a meet around here?

OP... it's not about your looks.

It's about understanding what swinging is about, managing your expectations and not being a dick.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Now im saying I'm a anything but I definitely don't have trouble in life on dating apps ect. So what is it about this place?

Hate to potentially crush an ego…. But I have just had a thought…

Maybe you have calculated this all wrong…

What if maybe it’s the swinging website that is the norm…. And you are actually over preforming on the dating apps ect…..

That WOULD be a kick in the nuts

Wait, what? ... you mean there could be more desperate women on dating sites than on Fab

No, just more women generally

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By *agpie and RavenMan over a year ago

Leicester

I'd just like to point out to the ladies who say they never have any problems when this type of thread comes up that if you're female you can look like Quasimodo's uglier sister and you'd still easily get cock on this site. Or any site for that matter.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd just like to point out to the ladies who say they never have any problems when this type of thread comes up that if you're female you can look like Quasimodo's uglier sister and you'd still easily get cock on this site. Or any site for that matter.

Frank"

I can confirm this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frank"

Most of us women don't want men who'd shag anyone. Ugh.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

Frank

I can confirm this!"

As can I, and look like a bag of rusty spanners.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"To get a meet around here?

Maybe start of with a dick picture if she likes that she's going to need to like what it's attached to

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By *agpie and RavenMan over a year ago

Leicester

Frank

Most of us women don't want men who'd shag anyone. Ugh. "

How would you know who he'd shag? Not all verifications are displayed.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frank"

hahaha.

Can I ask how you convince a woman you think they are sexy?

I mean?….after your outburst.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frank

I can confirm this!"

Have you coupled up?

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By *irtydevil666Man over a year ago

bristol

Frank

I can confirm this!

As can I, and look like a bag of rusty spanners."

Reminds me I need a spanner to undo my rusty nuts.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frank

Most of us women don't want men who'd shag anyone. Ugh.

How would you know who he'd shag? Not all verifications are displayed.

Frank"

I was talking generally. I don't want to easily get cock because men think "she'll do". I'd rather not have sex.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

Frank

I can confirm this!"

I can confirm that I don't just stick my cock in anyone that offers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im an ugly bugger and I've had meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frank

I can confirm this!

I can confirm that I don't just stick my cock in anyone that offers

I question the judgement of any guy that wants to stick it in me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frank

I can confirm this!

I can confirm that I don't just stick my cock in anyone that offers

Good to know. I don't ..open my legs to the first man who messages "can I ask you a question".

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By *agpie and RavenMan over a year ago

Leicester

Frank

hahaha.

Can I ask how you convince a woman you think they are sexy?

I mean?….after your outburst.

It's not an outburst, imagine me talking in a calm, reasonable voice with a hint of a smile.

In answer to your question, just read the forums. The guys who tell ladies they're gorgeous and how can anyone stand them up? When all they see is a close up of a disembodied tit. Even better, visit the chat rooms and see how many ladies believe they're really sexy after being told so on there.

Remember, all this said with a smile on my face.

Frank

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"Send me a picture of your face and I’d be honest and blunt i can't take blunt at the minute oh you meant the Op he'll be awake about 11 with a hangover

I don't drink alcohol "
lol you don't ok so you woke at 8 am clear headed

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Frank"

Finally someone's talking the truth. Thanks Frank for being so frank; I'd always wondered how a hunchback like me had done so well but it's clearly Pussy Power.

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By *agpie and RavenMan over a year ago

Leicester

Frank

Most of us women don't want men who'd shag anyone. Ugh.

How would you know who he'd shag? Not all verifications are displayed.

Frank

I was talking generally. I don't want to easily get cock because men think "she'll do". I'd rather not have sex. "

Fair enough

Frank

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Send me a picture of your face and I’d be honest and blunt i can't take blunt at the minute oh you meant the Op he'll be awake about 11 with a hangover

I don't drink alcohol lol you don't ok so you woke at 8 am clear headed

You have a face that even a mother might possibly love..

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