What is the etiquette? Who should send a pic first? The person that sends the first message or the one who asks for a pic after a few messages have been exchanged? Some here seem to feel entitled that they should be the ones receiving a pic first before showing theirs though they would probably just block if not interested and never show it. Is that somewhat imbalanced. Maybe there should be a vault that you both put your pics in and both view irrespective of what happens next.  |
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over a year ago
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I’d say if you’ve instigated the chat maybe add a couple in your message, or after a while ask in conversation if they’d like to swap a couple of face pics to put a face to a name…
I don’t see the problem myself and I’m happy to send a face pic with an initial message |
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"I’d say if you’ve instigated the chat maybe add a couple in your message, or after a while ask in conversation if they’d like to swap a couple of face pics to put a face to a name…
I don’t see the problem myself and I’m happy to send a face pic with an initial message "
Sounds sensible but it's when they don't commit to sharing but demand one during a conversation that's I think seems like a one way street  |
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By *TG3Man
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"What is the etiquette? Who should send a pic first? The person that sends the first message or the one who asks for a pic after a few messages have been exchanged? Some here seem to feel entitled that they should be the ones receiving a pic first before showing theirs though they would probably just block if not interested and never show it. Is that somewhat imbalanced. Maybe there should be a vault that you both put your pics in and both view irrespective of what happens next. "
couples and women rule if you don't show they'll block you anyway lol  |
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"I’d say if you’ve instigated the chat maybe add a couple in your message, or after a while ask in conversation if they’d like to swap a couple of face pics to put a face to a name…
I don’t see the problem myself and I’m happy to send a face pic with an initial message
Sounds sensible but it's when they don't commit to sharing but demand one during a conversation that's I think seems like a one way street "
At that point I’d be out and say thanks for chatting. but if they don’t really
Have a genuine reason to not share even after seeing mine I’d think they aren’t worth talking to. And maybe a little up
There own self worth. |
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"I’d say if you’ve instigated the chat maybe add a couple in your message, or after a while ask in conversation if they’d like to swap a couple of face pics to put a face to a name…
I don’t see the problem myself and I’m happy to send a face pic with an initial message
Sounds sensible but it's when they don't commit to sharing but demand one during a conversation that's I think seems like a one way street
At that point I’d be out and say thanks for chatting. but if they don’t really
Have a genuine reason to not share even after seeing mine I’d think they aren’t worth talking to. And maybe a little up
There own self worth. "
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