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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m a bit conscious about being skinny/slim sometimes, I just find it hard to gain weight personally
Muscular and lean bodys are popular, as they should be, dad bods are kind of a thing, which makes me wonder if girls like skinny/slim guys? |
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I'm in the same boat,behind closed doors it gets me down but i never let it get in the way of having a flirt. be positive, let your personality shine through. As long as you healthy and happy.
Don't read into the bull on the socials we all have are different tastes, I for one cant stand the super model type body and hate the pressure people are put under to look a certain way. Love your self first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a dad. I’ve been to the gym and in a 30inch waist and wear a belt. What do I classify myself as?
I’ve been slim all my life, been mocked and ridiculed and often asked ‘did you now get fed as a kid!’ Like you op, I’ve tried to gain something, I’ve given up.
Rock what you’ve got.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slim, toned, dad bod. I like them all.
Big muscles and veiny I don't like so much.
Being slim and short I'm not so keen on big guys. It makes things difficult.
Plenty of women the same as me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love slim men too ... and have been slim all my life so seriously understand the difficult feelings and attitudes
But I own it and rock it ... and don't care about other's opinions
Confidence shines through aesthetics
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love slim men too ... and have been slim all my life so seriously understand the difficult feelings and attitudes
But I own it and rock it ... and don't care about other's opinions
Confidence shines through aesthetics
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Exactly this   |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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People are a wondrous delight of variety and contradiction, and the entire spectrum of people find the entire spectrum of people attractive. That's not to say that those whom you are attracted to will find you attractive (you being the all encompassing, not the specific).
I find some slim and skinny men attractive, the same as I find some toned, muscular, less so, etc... a range of body types, (I'm talking purely aesthetics, not including any other factors). I'm massive, so I'm always a little worried I'll hurt a skinny man, but it hasn't happened yet.
There are plenty of people who find plenty of body types attractive, OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh man do I feel this OP. When I joined I was so self conscious of taking photos of myself as I didn't feel "manly" compared to others on here and did feel it was compounded if women said they preferred a bit of meat on the bones.
However, I will say this. Fab is filled with different people with different preferences and I'm certain there are some women who find slim men very appealing. Keep your head up and good luck! |
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I used to be a skinny chap and no matter how much work I did in the gym I struggled to gain bulk (which I now know comes mostly from diet). Then I hit 30 and it became a struggle to keep the weight off!
Don't worry OP, embrace what you have! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're not alone mate , I too am slim build, and like you I wonder if my build is what puts people off because as you rightly say the majority prefer the muscle build or dad bod ,it would be easy for people to say go to the gym but as a slimmer build guy it's alot harder to bulk , however don't let that put you down as people have said we all have preferences |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I’m slim but it’s the worst kind because I have a belly so “skinny fat” I need to gain muscle but also gain weight. It’s tricky "
As a fellow ectomorph it’s actually not as tricky as you think. Am happy to give some advice if needed, but wouldn’t want to unintentionally offend. |
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I was always a naturally slim/skinny kid, hated it. I go to the gym now with the aim of gaining size/keeping a bulked up look.
What you need to do is:
Lift heavy weights for 6-8 reps.
A lot of compound lifts.
Eating wise, you have to be getting in 2000+ calories in a day, otherwise your body just will not grow.
Foods like: Oats, eggs, peanut butter, meat, pasta. Calories dense whole foods. |
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I've always been slim and I think I've been a 32 waist since my late teens.
Walking about 15 miles a week helps and I have quite an active job.
But sometimes i wish I was a little more toned and then i go to the gym but I tend to get bored there pretty quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was always a naturally slim/skinny kid, hated it. I go to the gym now with the aim of gaining size/keeping a bulked up look.
What you need to do is:
Lift heavy weights for 6-8 reps.
A lot of compound lifts.
Eating wise, you have to be getting in 2000+ calories in a day, otherwise your body just will not grow.
Foods like: Oats, eggs, peanut butter, meat, pasta. Calories dense whole foods."
The only problem with this is that along with the added muscle, you will add more fat to your body as a result of bulking which can be a tough mental barrier. Espeif you've spent your whole life being slim with low body fat. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I'm 5'7" and weigh 9 stone exactly and have a 30"waste. I've been skinny all my life as well, hated it as a kid though.
My Legs bum and belly look more lady like than manly, which is quite handy. |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I was always a naturally slim/skinny kid, hated it. I go to the gym now with the aim of gaining size/keeping a bulked up look.
What you need to do is:
Lift heavy weights for 6-8 reps.
A lot of compound lifts.
Eating wise, you have to be getting in 2000+ calories in a day, otherwise your body just will not grow.
Foods like: Oats, eggs, peanut butter, meat, pasta. Calories dense whole foods."
Apologies, but although you mean well this just isn’t necessarily correct.
Everyone’s TDEE is different so just saying 2000 cals really isn’t true.
Also lifting heavy for 6-8 reps is another falsehood. It may work for some, but not others and the rep range doesn’t really matter. |
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"I was always a naturally slim/skinny kid, hated it. I go to the gym now with the aim of gaining size/keeping a bulked up look.
What you need to do is:
Lift heavy weights for 6-8 reps.
A lot of compound lifts.
Eating wise, you have to be getting in 2000+ calories in a day, otherwise your body just will not grow.
Foods like: Oats, eggs, peanut butter, meat, pasta. Calories dense whole foods.
Apologies, but although you mean well this just isn’t necessarily correct.
Everyone’s TDEE is different so just saying 2000 cals really isn’t true.
Also lifting heavy for 6-8 reps is another falsehood. It may work for some, but not others and the rep range doesn’t really matter."
No worries, just everyone do whatever works for you then |
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I was skinny till i had kids, before then I couldn’t put weight on no matter how hard I tried. Once i had kids it was like my whole body makeup changed.
As far as what i find attractive with men, I don’t have any particular preference build-wise. Skinny doesn’t necessarily mean not strong, as long as he can still throw me around like a rag doll I’m happy  . If anything I’d probably be more likely to fancy a skinny guy than a super built up gym guy, more so because of the personality that often comes with it. Personality over body type, all day. |
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By *rDxxMan
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Honestly don't be conscious about your body , people attracted to different types, but the most attractive thing to some is personality, you can have the body of a god/goddess and have less personality as a toaster , at the end of the day who you meet off here will meet you for you weather its for your body or personality, |
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Op I understand where you are coming from.
I used to let my weight (or relative lack of it) get me down - I am never going to be stacked with muscles due to my height/build but I realised that eating properly and doing heavy (for me) compound lifts down the gym allowed me to put on some muscle and my relative lack of fat meant that as I started to get older I didn’t have the issues that others worry about.
Your time will come. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can concur with alot if what's bene said on here. I am naturally skinny and has my whole life even to this day effected my confidence and self esteem. Find it very difficult to gain any muscle but have found over the last year or so I have out on weight and am now the heaviest I have ever been |
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Bien slim can be hard 2 except m8 .People think slim guys av it easy as in u can eat all u want .but ur a young guy and ur body can change if u want 2 change it u got 2 put effort in .if ur happy as u are then enjoy ur life and don't let people stop u x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can concur with alot if what's bene said on here. I am naturally skinny and has my whole life even to this day effected my confidence and self esteem. Find it very difficult to gain any muscle but have found over the last year or so I have out on weight and am now the heaviest I have ever been"
I am exactly the same. I have a naturally very high metabolism and a minor medical condition which means i really struggle to gain any weight regardless of how much and what I eat. I don't like how I look at all but just have to accept it and make the best of the cards I have been dealt  Lee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slim, toned, dad bod. I like them all.
Big muscles and veiny I don't like so much.
Being slim and short I'm not so keen on big guys. It makes things difficult.
Plenty of women the same as me. "
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By *rjamesMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
I feel your pain OP, just try to see it as a blessing that many people see it as . Be confident in yourself and those that may be attracted to you will see you in the best light. Just look at the scrawny rock stars of yore - I don't think their lovers were complaining  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 10 stone and a 27 inch waist. Have always been into athletics where I ran. I still run every day and it keeps me a little bit more sane for doing so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a very 'rock chick' friend who adores slim men - skinnier the better! We're all different, all have our own attractions but she is waaayyyy hotter than I am, so maybe it'll work to your advantage !! |
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"I’m a bit conscious about being skinny/slim sometimes, I just find it hard to gain weight personally
Muscular and lean bodys are popular, as they should be, dad bods are kind of a thing, which makes me wonder if girls like skinny/slim guys?"
I'm sure lots do, OP!
I'm the complete opposite - I just need to look at a biscuit and I gain weight, so my challenge is keeping weight off - but I reckon there's room for all shapes and sizes in this big, wide world! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You may have an overactive thyroid? Basically your metabolism, You burn food very quickly. If it's affecting your confidence maybe go to your GP and you look absolutely fine by the way. "
OP. Hyperthyroidism can be quite serious if not kept in check, with symptoms like low mood, anxiety, hair loss, definitely worth checking with your GP. Lee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing is more attractive than happy in your own skin, you me everyone we are a marvel of genetic engineering, embrace who you are, if you can’t put muscle in don’t beat yourself up, just be you, there’s many ‘fit’ people who aren’t attractive because inside they aren’t. Be the best version of you for you not anyone else, that’s attractive OP |
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