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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me.
I'm not looking for a relationship.
I like to talk to a guy a lot, but I'm not after romance. In fact romance has me running in the opposite direction. |
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When I initially joined this site the less talking the better.
With time and the repeated felt experience of being approached like a hole-to-fuck I’ve come full circle. You can have great casual sex but I’ve found it’s even greater with connection - which includes an exchange of charm.
I’m taking a break from the whole casual sex experience for now because it’s just not feeling authentic or connected enough anymore. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Anyone I've met off here I've chatted to and gotten on really well with I don't need to be 'wooed' by anyone on here it certainly would not sway me in the direction to meet anyone who tried.
In fact I find the whole messaging offering me dinner,nights away or gifts from men I don't know to be extremely creepy.
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"I want to be flirted with, to be given someone's full attention and made to feel desired... Not just a set of holes to be filled
Why have you stole part of my bio?  "
I never had you down as a sensitive soul (or hole!) |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"Not for me.
I'm not looking for a relationship.
I like to talk to a guy a lot, but I'm not after romance. In fact romance has me running in the opposite direction. "
Wooooooooooooo, no fk that FAF.  That will get me blocked. |
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I don't do wooing
Someone said that to me a while back. I'm a traditional woman I want to be courted. It was quite funny we were getting on really well till then.
I just said... Yeah I may as well tell you now that's not me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this is a swingers site, but isn't it nice to be wooed a little bit, rather than feel that you're here to provide a service lol, isn't it a wonder why some guys OR GIRLS are unsuccessful. Discuss"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not for me.
I'm not looking for a relationship.
I like to talk to a guy a lot, but I'm not after romance. In fact romance has me running in the opposite direction. "
What about bromance? We can be bros right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now "
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again "
Correct,and they can change their own flat tyres from now on,you wanted equality ladies you can have it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to be flirted with, to be given someone's full attention and made to feel desired... Not just a set of holes to be filled"
I totally get you. It's not necessarily woeing, more mutual respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to be flirted with, to be given someone's full attention and made to feel desired... Not just a set of holes to be filled
I totally get you. It's not necessarily woeing, more mutual respect. "
Yes respect each other and treat each other as humans not a glorified sex toy.
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"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now "
I disagree. Just be respectful. I don't think many women would call sexual harassment if you just chatted nicely without being creepy. Also holding a door open would you hold it open for a man? I'm a woman and would hold the door open for the person behind me regardless of what sex they are. I agree that there are some radical feminists but most people just like to be treated in a nice respectful way. I love it when a guy talks to me but not in a creepy leary kind of way. There is a difference
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wooing a woman means to persuade her to marry him.
I don't want that.
But if a man wants to take me out to dinner or do anything that's like a date then why not. Only I'll insist on going Dutch. If he resists that I'll not like it and he won't do well.
Others won't want that kind of date experience. It's not their thing. And that's perfectly fine too.
Surely you end up with a mixture of everything and need to account for the fact that some guys will need or want certain things to feel enough of a connection or build up before they get their clothes off too.
It's not all about the woman in these scenarios.
Don't get me wrong grand gestures done continuously will have me feeling like running quite easily. But surely there should be a balance between both of the sexes not feeling like a disposable commodity or just a pound of flesh.
Men do post on here saying they don't always like feeling they're just a dildo replacent and only wanted for their cock.
So if there's a bit of a date like experience in the mix it's not so bad is it?
I do get that it can come across creepy though.
I've had meals out with partners and others we haven't ever done anything like that.
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"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again "
That's a shame you let one bad experience put you off. I hold the door open for the person behind me regardless of sex |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
newcastle |
"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again "
Fucking hell that’s bad I didn’t even think it was a gender thing just common courtesy I always hold the door for whoever behind not to the point of them going through it just so they don’t have open it again be it man or woman and have had the door held by men and women alike can’t believe some cunt would make an issue of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again
Fucking hell that’s bad I didn’t even think it was a gender thing just common courtesy I always hold the door for whoever behind not to the point of them going through it just so they don’t have open it again be it man or woman and have had the door held by men and women alike can’t believe some cunt would make an issue of it"
I've held the door for a woman and she said "I can do that myself" true story,but have others have said in this thread,you should hold the door for everyone,it's common courtesy |
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"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again
Fucking hell that’s bad I didn’t even think it was a gender thing just common courtesy I always hold the door for whoever behind not to the point of them going through it just so they don’t have open it again be it man or woman and have had the door held by men and women alike can’t believe some cunt would make an issue of it
I've held the door for a woman and she said "I can do that myself" true story,but have others have said in this thread,you should hold the door for everyone,it's common courtesy "
If someone has a problem with a door being opened for them whether a man or woman the problem is with them. Please don't stop doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this is a swingers site, but isn't it nice to be wooed a little bit, rather than feel that you're here to provide a service lol, isn't it a wonder why some guys are unsuccessful. Discuss"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again
Fucking hell that’s bad I didn’t even think it was a gender thing just common courtesy I always hold the door for whoever behind not to the point of them going through it just so they don’t have open it again be it man or woman and have had the door held by men and women alike can’t believe some cunt would make an issue of it
I've held the door for a woman and she said "I can do that myself" true story,but have others have said in this thread,you should hold the door for everyone,it's common courtesy If someone has a problem with a door being opened for them whether a man or woman the problem is with them. Please don't stop doing it"
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I had a guy who I saw for many years and we used to chat regularly but if he wanted to come over he used to say is her majesty open for an afternoon of tea and discourse. Basically he was asking for a shag but I loved the way he said it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy who I saw for many years and we used to chat regularly but if he wanted to come over he used to say is her majesty open for an afternoon of tea and discourse. Basically he was asking for a shag but I loved the way he said it"
Sooooooo is her maj.....oh forget it  |
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"I had a guy who I saw for many years and we used to chat regularly but if he wanted to come over he used to say is her majesty open for an afternoon of tea and discourse. Basically he was asking for a shag but I loved the way he said it
Sooooooo is her maj.....oh forget it "
lol her majesty has called time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess there are those that love a woo and those that don't, similarly there are those that woo and those that don't
Personally I like to build the relationship and woo but if that's not requited then it isn't the end of the world
If that makes sense |
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I’m not sure it counts as woo’ing. But I think manners, respect and kindness go a long way.
Then there has to be a connection. I don’t do quick or one off meets (well I don’t go into them thinking it’s a one off). So for me getting to know the person and building ‘something’ is essential. As a part of that a certain amount of compliments and ‘woo’ing’ surely takes place. Though I’d call it making an effort. After all, it’s not too much to ask |
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"I’m not sure it counts as woo’ing. But I think manners, respect and kindness go a long way.
Then there has to be a connection. I don’t do quick or one off meets (well I don’t go into them thinking it’s a one off). So for me getting to know the person and building ‘something’ is essential. As a part of that a certain amount of compliments and ‘woo’ing’ surely takes place. Though I’d call it making an effort. After all, it’s not too much to ask"
Yes. I'd largely agree with this. |
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"The age of wooing has gone,it's called feminism,talk to a woman at a bar it's called sexual harassment,the days of chatting a women up have gone,fuck me hold a door open for a women now is frowned at,I despair at the state of this world now
Got called a pig for holding a door open. Never do that again
Fucking hell that’s bad I didn’t even think it was a gender thing just common courtesy I always hold the door for whoever behind not to the point of them going through it just so they don’t have open it again be it man or woman and have had the door held by men and women alike can’t believe some cunt would make an issue of it"
Some elderly guy had a go at me for holding the door open for him, just some impolite people out there I guess. |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"So this is a swingers site, but isn't it nice to be wooed a little bit, rather than feel that you're here to provide a service lol, isn't it a wonder why some guys are unsuccessful. Discuss"
woooooooooo.... Man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to be treated with respect, old fashioned manners and good old flirting is more likely to get my knickers wet. Rather than talking to me like I'm a whore"
I'm the same. Being talked to like I'm a whore is for later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think I Wooo I take an interest and enjoy getting to know people. But I also like to be a gentleman if it’s a weekend meet and enjoy the whole courtship display  |
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"I don’t think I Wooo I take an interest and enjoy getting to know people. But I also like to be a gentleman if it’s a weekend meet and enjoy the whole courtship display "
When did you sneak back in! |
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"I like to be treated with respect, old fashioned manners and good old flirting is more likely to get my knickers wet. Rather than talking to me like I'm a whore
I'm the same. Being talked to like I'm a whore is for later. "
Lol depends on the guy for me, if he's coming on a good place and i know he really respects me, he may get a chance but TBF I'm too much of a Domme to enjoy it. It probably turn me off mid sex and i never want to see him again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to be treated with respect, old fashioned manners and good old flirting is more likely to get my knickers wet. Rather than talking to me like I'm a whore
I'm the same. Being talked to like I'm a whore is for later.
Lol depends on the guy for me, if he's coming on a good place and i know he really respects me, he may get a chance but TBF I'm too much of a Domme to enjoy it. It probably turn me off mid sex and i never want to see him again "
It is completely up to you and no man should ever assume you will enjoy being spoken to that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think I Wooo I take an interest and enjoy getting to know people. But I also like to be a gentleman if it’s a weekend meet and enjoy the whole courtship display
When did you sneak back in!"
You know me back from adventures and straight back where I belong |
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