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Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ? |
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over a year ago
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It's interesting isn't it? If we do see someone we fancy and want to chat to, what's the best way to approach them without thinking we should mind our own business? I wouldn't compliment her legs OP, but try and find another way to chat to her  |
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Do you have any form of conversation with this lady?
If you've never spoken to her before,and you randomly tell her she has great legs, you will probably make her feel very uncomfortable. |
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"It's interesting isn't it? If we do see someone we fancy and want to chat to, what's the best way to approach them without thinking we should mind our own business? I wouldn't compliment her legs OP, but try and find another way to chat to her "
Yeah I agree with this. If you like her maybe just try and strike up a general chat. |
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"It's interesting isn't it? If we do see someone we fancy and want to chat to, what's the best way to approach them without thinking we should mind our own business? I wouldn't compliment her legs OP, but try and find another way to chat to her "
Well yes, if OP was to strike up a conversation about the weather (good old British craic), and edge it towards if she has nice plans for the weekend? Then that's very different  |
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"Probably call the security and have you removed or call the Police to question you and I bet your family would be delighted to find out "
I doubt the police would attend a leg complimenting incident |
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"Probably call the security and have you removed or call the Police to question you and I bet your family would be delighted to find out
I doubt the police would attend a leg complimenting incident "
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"It's interesting isn't it? If we do see someone we fancy and want to chat to, what's the best way to approach them without thinking we should mind our own business? I wouldn't compliment her legs OP, but try and find another way to chat to her "
I agree. If you like her OP try and strike up a conversation with her about something and take it from there. If you’ve never spoken to her before , complimenting her legs could come off as a little weird. |
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"Probably call the security and have you removed or call the Police to question you and I bet your family would be delighted to find out
I doubt the police would attend a leg complimenting incident "
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Head to the bakery aisle and pick up a baguette. Drop a subtle hint about how big baguettes are these days and how you can't wait to tuck in when you get home.
The way she responds will tell you all  |
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"I should of pointed out that there's usually a bit of banter when there , not a straight out the blue that she's got good pins . But definitely wouldn't say now"
This is a situation that's frequently misinterpreted. You have to take into consideration that she's essentially a captive audience whose job description is 'be nice to customers'. You complimenting her legs however well intentioned might make her feel uncomfortable...it might not but the problem is you don't know. Hence our advice to keep it as it is.
Do you hope for more or just a pleasant bit of friendly banter? |
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"Nicecouple, no not after it going further, was just a compliment thing"
Ok, keep the friendly banter going and avoid mentioning her legs
If you use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to we will see who you're talking to |
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"Nicecouple, no not after it going further, was just a compliment thing
Ok, keep the friendly banter going and avoid mentioning her legs
If you use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to we will see who you're talking to "
Ahhhhh new one on me lol |
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"Nicecouple, no not after it going further, was just a compliment thing
Ok, keep the friendly banter going and avoid mentioning her legs
If you use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to we will see who you're talking to
Ahhhhh new one on me lol"
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?"
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?"
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
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"Nicecouple, no not after it going further, was just a compliment thing
Ok, keep the friendly banter going and avoid mentioning her legs
If you use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to we will see who you're talking to
Ahhhhh new one on me lol
every day's a school day "
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"Nicecouple, no not after it going further, was just a compliment thing
Ok, keep the friendly banter going and avoid mentioning her legs
If you use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to we will see who you're talking to
I've learnt my one new thing every day now...anything else is a bonus
Ahhhhh new one on me lol
every day's a school day "
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
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I just think that particular compliment could potentially make someone feel uncomfortable. It’s definitely not a call the police situation though ffs |
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
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There's an appropriate time and place to compliment people on their body. |
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
I just think that particular compliment could potentially make someone feel uncomfortable. It’s definitely not a call the police situation though ffs "
And talking about great legs.. |
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
I just think that particular compliment could potentially make someone feel uncomfortable. It’s definitely not a call the police situation though ffs "
We would need a considerably bigger police force  |
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
There's an appropriate time and place to compliment people on their body. "
For me, if i want to compliment someone, i do it. A little compliment can really brighten someones day. I am not sure if she would find it wierd if they are on friendly terms |
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"Probably call the security and have you removed or call the Police to question you and I bet your family would be delighted to find out "
Holy sugar honey ice tea. They might if it was a frozen leg of lamb and a nice rack of ribs. |
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
There's an appropriate time and place to compliment people on their body.
For me, if i want to compliment someone, i do it. A little compliment can really brighten someones day. I am not sure if she would find it wierd if they are on friendly terms"
I'm not sure how she would interpret it either because I don't know her. I do however speak from direct experience and when I was working in a shop I didn't want men complimenting my body. It made me uncomfortable |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all "
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how. |
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?
Its a bad situation when you cant give someone a genuine compliment
There's an appropriate time and place to compliment people on their body.
For me, if i want to compliment someone, i do it. A little compliment can really brighten someones day. I am not sure if she would find it wierd if they are on friendly terms"
Depends on the compliment, no? That colour really suits you, or have you had your hair done? Can feel really uplifting to me personally... Nice tits, or pins. Probs less so |
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"I'm not sure what they sell on the market stall in there but maybe ask her for recommendations or something. Definitely not what the juiciest plums are though. That is also creepy!"
That made me smile. Noted though |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how."
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way? |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way? "
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to"
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great"
Thanks.
See you complimented me, and i didnt get upset.
as a matter of favt i do compliment men and or women of i feel the urge, again a compliment can give someone a wee lift |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great
Thanks.
See you complimented me, and i didnt get upset.
as a matter of favt i do compliment men and or women of i feel the urge, again a compliment can give someone a wee lift "
I don't think people get upset by genuine compliments. I think women get upset by inappropriate comments. Some men who make these comments then act all offended saying things like "you can't say anything nowadays".
A little understanding goes a long way. |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great
Thanks.
See you complimented me, and i didnt get upset.
as a matter of favt i do compliment men and or women of i feel the urge, again a compliment can give someone a wee lift
I don't think people get upset by genuine compliments. I think women get upset by inappropriate comments. Some men who make these comments then act all offended saying things like "you can't say anything nowadays".
A little understanding goes a long way. "
We've shared a few witty one liners and she is always friendly so not like a totally cold comment. But I won't be saying anything for sure now |
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Slam a tin of Heinz down at checkout and announce she scans the beans you’ll add the sausage. Wink at her.
When the burly men carry you out yell how the prices are better at (other supermarket) and this is all very “end of the aisle treatment”. |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great
Thanks.
See you complimented me, and i didnt get upset.
as a matter of favt i do compliment men and or women of i feel the urge, again a compliment can give someone a wee lift
I don't think people get upset by genuine compliments. I think women get upset by inappropriate comments. Some men who make these comments then act all offended saying things like "you can't say anything nowadays".
A little understanding goes a long way.
We've shared a few witty one liners and she is always friendly so not like a totally cold comment. But I won't be saying anything for sure now"
I know you won't . You asked, took comments on board and we all learned a little.
I can't speak for all women obviously but in general I preferred to be able to work at my job without being complimented on my body by men. By all means chat, be friendly and compliment my work though |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great
Thanks.
See you complimented me, and i didnt get upset.
as a matter of favt i do compliment men and or women of i feel the urge, again a compliment can give someone a wee lift
I don't think people get upset by genuine compliments. I think women get upset by inappropriate comments. Some men who make these comments then act all offended saying things like "you can't say anything nowadays".
A little understanding goes a long way.
We've shared a few witty one liners and she is always friendly so not like a totally cold comment. But I won't be saying anything for sure now
I know you won't . You asked, took comments on board and we all learned a little.
I can't speak for all women obviously but in general I preferred to be able to work at my job without being complimented on my body by men. By all means chat, be friendly and compliment my work though "
How do you feel about being complimented by women or any other gender?
its a genuine question, because i know many women accept things said by women, they would never accept from men. |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great
Thanks.
See you complimented me, and i didnt get upset.
as a matter of favt i do compliment men and or women of i feel the urge, again a compliment can give someone a wee lift
I don't think people get upset by genuine compliments. I think women get upset by inappropriate comments. Some men who make these comments then act all offended saying things like "you can't say anything nowadays".
A little understanding goes a long way.
We've shared a few witty one liners and she is always friendly so not like a totally cold comment. But I won't be saying anything for sure now
I know you won't . You asked, took comments on board and we all learned a little.
I can't speak for all women obviously but in general I preferred to be able to work at my job without being complimented on my body by men. By all means chat, be friendly and compliment my work though
How do you feel about being complimented by women or any other gender?
its a genuine question, because i know many women accept things said by women, they would never accept from men."
It depends on the context. I don't want anyone of any gender commenting on my body when I'm at work.
If I'm walking down the street I don't want anyone of any gender saying any version of "nice tits".
I receive (some might be aghast at this) compliments fairly regularly from people I know and strangers, I can usually distinguish between the ones with sexual intent and the ones that are just genuinely because they want to be nice. |
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"Its weird because you are sexualising her in her work place, i know a woman who's on here and works in my local supermarket i would never dream of telling her, i make small talk is all
"If yoi dont mind me saying so, your legs look great in those jeans." does not in anyway sexualise anyone, if it does please explain to me how.
Do you think the op means it in a non sexual way?
you would need to ask the Op, i kmow as a leg lover myself, i can appreciate nice legs, without wanting to fuck the person they belong to
So you appreciate and compliment men's legs too, that's great
Thanks.
See you complimented me, and i didnt get upset.
as a matter of favt i do compliment men and or women of i feel the urge, again a compliment can give someone a wee lift
I don't think people get upset by genuine compliments. I think women get upset by inappropriate comments. Some men who make these comments then act all offended saying things like "you can't say anything nowadays".
A little understanding goes a long way.
We've shared a few witty one liners and she is always friendly so not like a totally cold comment. But I won't be saying anything for sure now
I know you won't . You asked, took comments on board and we all learned a little.
I can't speak for all women obviously but in general I preferred to be able to work at my job without being complimented on my body by men. By all means chat, be friendly and compliment my work though
How do you feel about being complimented by women or any other gender?
its a genuine question, because i know many women accept things said by women, they would never accept from men."
Honestly...if I had a compliment, of a guy or girl, if not crude, I'd be chuffed. |
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Keep in mind op she’s at work, in a place she’s not free to be herself, she’s forced to be polite and smile and make conversation and put a happy face on, otherwise she’s shouted at by managers
If you saw her while she was out of work that would be different, she’d be free to speak as she wanted
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"Keep in mind op she’s at work, in a place she’s not free to be herself, she’s forced to be polite and smile and make conversation and put a happy face on, otherwise she’s shouted at by managers
If you saw her while she was out of work that would be different, she’d be free to speak as she wanted
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This is a valid point |
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Avoid at all costs, if you are ever to meet said lady out of work you could pay her a compliment if she ever brings up anything about how she looks but don’t be forward or you will end up on a list somewhere |
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"Keep in mind op she’s at work, in a place she’s not free to be herself, she’s forced to be polite and smile and make conversation and put a happy face on, otherwise she’s shouted at by managers
If you saw her while she was out of work that would be different, she’d be free to speak as she wanted
Yeah true, we are all different ia and outside of work. Fair point
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"Avoid at all costs, if you are ever to meet said lady out of work you could pay her a compliment if she ever brings up anything about how she looks but don’t be forward or you will end up on a list somewhere "
Yeah, wiser now |
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If you give the compliment as “just so you know, you look really nice!” And don’t ogle her like a horny beast, you’ll be fine.
It’s creepy otherwise. Make it about her whole look, not about one part of her body you check out. |
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"Avoid at all costs, if you are ever to meet said lady out of work you could pay her a compliment if she ever brings up anything about how she looks but don’t be forward or you will end up on a list somewhere "
You don't end up in lists for paying compliments |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?"
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment |
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"Weird.
Definitely weird.
Damn so we can’t role play this?"
Depends where I work, if it's Aldi I don't have time for your idle chat. I got a deadline to keep, move!!!! |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment"
What the fuck???
Not all women. |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment"
Reporting someone for sexual harrasment doesn't mean they get arrested. |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women. "
I think we've reached a stage where *some* men (and women) are confused about what constitutes a genuine compliment and what can be interpreted as sexual harrasment. As a general rule if you wouldn't be happy with someone saying what you're about to say to your mum,sister or legal aged daughter,then keep your trap shut. |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment"
No wonder men are scared to say or do fuck all these days! |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women. "
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days  |
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"Probably call the security and have you removed or call the Police to question you and I bet your family would be delighted to find out
I doubt the police would attend a leg complimenting incident "
And just wait until Tom heard about, if they did. It'd be all over the news - he'd be outraged!
(Only joshing, Tom) |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days "
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs |
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"Probably call the security and have you removed or call the Police to question you and I bet your family would be delighted to find out
I doubt the police would attend a leg complimenting incident
And just wait until Tom heard about, if they did. It'd be all over the news - he'd be outraged!
(Only joshing, Tom)"
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"Recently when popping to the supermarket I've noticed I often get served by the same lady...40 something, on the market stall counter. Anyway she wears black jeans every time as her uniform. I think she has great legs, question is should I tell her as a compliment or is it weird ?"
She'll probably fill you in. |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs "
My mate nearly lost his job as a firefighter by saying to a femail firefighter do you know how to start the pump. She took that as sexest |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
My mate nearly lost his job as a firefighter by saying to a femail firefighter do you know how to start the pump. She took that as sexest"
Did he, genuinely just for asking that? |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
My mate nearly lost his job as a firefighter by saying to a femail firefighter do you know how to start the pump. She took that as sexest
Did he, genuinely just for asking that? "
Im afraid so. She took that as sexest,and a women wont know how to start it. |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
My mate nearly lost his job as a firefighter by saying to a femail firefighter do you know how to start the pump. She took that as sexest
Did he, genuinely just for asking that?
Im afraid so. She took that as sexest,and a women wont know how to start it."
Obviously I have no background but *if* one remark meant helpfully lead to him being disciplined to the point of nearly losing his job then something is seriously wrong. |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
My mate nearly lost his job as a firefighter by saying to a femail firefighter do you know how to start the pump. She took that as sexest
Did he, genuinely just for asking that?
Im afraid so. She took that as sexest,and a women wont know how to start it.
Obviously I have no background but *if* one remark meant helpfully lead to him being disciplined to the point of nearly losing his job then something is seriously wrong. "
Welcome to a large organisation that is being looked at by the inspectorate. And accused of sexual harasment and bullying. Its a world gorn wrong but it has |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
My mate nearly lost his job as a firefighter by saying to a femail firefighter do you know how to start the pump. She took that as sexest
Did he, genuinely just for asking that?
Im afraid so. She took that as sexest,and a women wont know how to start it.
Obviously I have no background but *if* one remark meant helpfully lead to him being disciplined to the point of nearly losing his job then something is seriously wrong.
Welcome to a large organisation that is being looked at by the inspectorate. And accused of sexual harasment and bullying. Its a world gorn wrong but it has"
If sexual harrasment and bullying is going on then I agree it's a world gone wrong |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs "
When I worked in care I got two disciplinaries for called the residents dear, poppet, darling, sweetheart etc  |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
When I worked in care I got two disciplinaries for called the residents dear, poppet, darling, sweetheart etc "
Yes and i bet you meant nothing more than kind words |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
When I worked in care I got two disciplinaries for called the residents dear, poppet, darling, sweetheart etc "
Did you? The people who looked after my mum usually called her by her christian name but occasionally used dear or darling . |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
When I worked in care I got two disciplinaries for called the residents dear, poppet, darling, sweetheart etc
Yes and i bet you meant nothing more than kind words"
To me they were all extended grandparents, if you can make someone smile with a few kind words then where’s the harm  |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
When I worked in care I got two disciplinaries for called the residents dear, poppet, darling, sweetheart etc
Did you? The people who looked after my mum usually called her by her christian name but occasionally used dear or darling . "
I argued that if you used names all the time it became a bit formal, the odd term of endearment breaks it up a bit  |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
When I worked in care I got two disciplinaries for called the residents dear, poppet, darling, sweetheart etc
Yes and i bet you meant nothing more than kind words
To me they were all extended grandparents, if you can make someone smile with a few kind words then where’s the harm "
We call everyone 'love' from Yorkshire. I'd be sacked pretty quickly then  |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
What the fuck???
Not all women.
The women on fab probably not but in the real world possibly. Shit you can get the sack for calling a women dear these days
Blimey can you? I'm glad nobody told the carers who looked after my mum they'd have all lost their jobs
When I worked in care I got two disciplinaries for called the residents dear, poppet, darling, sweetheart etc
Did you? The people who looked after my mum usually called her by her christian name but occasionally used dear or darling .
I argued that if you used names all the time it became a bit formal, the odd term of endearment breaks it up a bit "
I suppose it depends on the client. A woman in the next bed to my mum in hospital preferred to be treated very formally. She found personal care much easier to cope with if the people doing it called her Mrs. Smith (not her real name). I suppose flexibility is required |
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"Go for it opp. And tell us how it got on. Thats if they allow you a phone in police cells
Why would he be in a police cell?
Some women would call that as very creapy and report him for sexual harasment
No wonder men are scared to say or do fuck all these days! "
I knew you’d be in this thread somewhere with those legs 
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