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Give up meeting married man, wife doesn’t know?

By *ingdang OP TV/TS over a year ago

Manchester

I’m thinking of stop meeting any man who is married or have a gf, while the wife/gf doesn’t know he is here. Too many times, they tell lies, arrange meet and no show, chat me up for a wank and then delete their profile before meet. Ect ect. I’m sure there are genuine ones, but keeping in touch with someone who would disappear into the air anytime is just pointless.

What’s your experience and thoughts?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Don't do sex chat with them

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

Dear OP, really sorry to hear this.

If it's happened more than once, twice, thrice... perhaps you need to change your approach or apply more due diligence in ascertaining their authenticity or sincerity.

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By *iss E99TV/TS over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

If they are happy to cheat on their partners then they are not going to treat you with any sort of respect.

This is one of the reasons I won’t meet people who are attached.

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By *4bimMan over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

as posted above any sex chat and its wank material and going no further.

dont entertain it

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By *ts the taking part thatMan over a year ago

southampton

Can you be sure you can filter out that precisely?

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By *illsandValleysCouple over a year ago

Wallasey / Malvern

Playing in a club no problem but I won't meet men alone. When in discussion I ask about other partners and if they have another half I ask to speak to them to gain their consent. Needless to say that scares most of them off ?? good luck hun xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never had any issues

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By *andycandy88Woman over a year ago

Northolt

I don't entertain or encourage liars and cheaters don't sit well with me.

Wish people would stop encouraging it to go on

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By *ommyTighMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Dear OP, really sorry to hear this.

If it's happened more than once, twice, thrice... perhaps you need to change your approach or apply more due diligence in ascertaining their authenticity or sincerity."

i think this is great advice.

I presume single guys are 100% reliable/sincere/show up?

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By *onningtonplumberMan over a year ago

Donnington

Win some loose some I guess, you just need to decide if for you the ones that do show up are worth the hadtle of the time wasters. Your life your choice.

Hope it goes well which ever way you decide to go

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