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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, and as a request, I’m doing another! So let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.
It might seem a strange idea but at its heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.
Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.
Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via private message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.
Please remember to keep it via PM, not on the thread.
The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Try to think of it like group therapy, it’s not about you, it’s about others too. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...
Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.
Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.
Away you go folks"
Hang on, i send a message to someone that says their in, but i dont know them all i have is what the profile says? Have I got it wrong? Lol i normally do |