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Are you or have you ever been in love?
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"I've thought about this, 4 guys from my life come to mind. In all honesty, I'm not entirely sure if it was love or infatuation. I think real love is very rare, and it's not something everyone gets to experience. I'm guessing it feels pretty nice though. Do I want it? No. Because that would mean one day I would lose it. " A question I ask myself often. | |||
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"It’s nice waking up everyday to a face that make you happy. The mr " You have a picture of Ryan beside your bed aswell! | |||
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"It’s nice waking up everyday to a face that make you happy. The mr You have a picture of Ryan beside your bed aswell! " No he’s above the bed. I can’t wank on my side. The mr | |||
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"Can you explain how it feels or felt to you? Have a lovely evening all. "Nope, never been in love because I have never been loved so I am unable to have those feelings. It’s a long, long story you don’t want to hear about. | |||
"Yes. I fell in love almost 10 years ago. The feeling is indescribable. Yes, feelings change throughout the years but it's more grounded, easier, freeing now. Mr is my whole world and I'd be completly lost without him
F"Oh, I thought we were just friends? | |||
"Yes. Special. Secure. Wanted. Valued. Would like it again "Nailed it | |||
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"I have yes. Being in love is beautiful, but it sure hurts when it ends, however it ends." Being wanted Hurts when they pass Too much  | |||
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"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too. "Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly. (1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating. (2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy. (3) Died. So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. | |||
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"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too. "I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs  | |||
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"Like a feeling beyond lust and attraction, a connection to another being on levels you were unaware you had until you met that person. Someone who sees the real version of you and still sticks around, who’s laugh you can hear when you close your eyes, who’s touch makes your hair stand on end, who you trust enough to hold your heart and take care of it. That person who in your darkest and happiest moments you want to hold your hand. It’s an awe consuming feeling of wonderful moments fused between two souls I’m beyond lucky to have found it xx"Ok these are the words I couldn't write | |||
"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.
(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.
(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.
(3) Died.
So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate."Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for. | |||
"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs "Bless you! x | |||
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"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs Bless you! x "I know it sounds ridiculous but that cat was my absolute rock. Big old fluffy thing who used to put his paws round my neck and sit and have lovely cuddles. Stroking him was such a cathartic experience, it was like he took all the stress away. Was truly heartbroken when he died and I still see him sometimes out of the corner of my eye and in my dreams | |||
"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs Bless you! x
I know it sounds ridiculous but that cat was my absolute rock. Big old fluffy thing who used to put his paws round my neck and sit and have lovely cuddles. Stroking him was such a cathartic experience, it was like he took all the stress away. Was truly heartbroken when he died and I still see him sometimes out of the corner of my eye and in my dreams "Not at all! Animals are family and a big loss too. | |||
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"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.
(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.
(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.
(3) Died.
So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for. "My condolences and thank you. I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway. Bless you x | |||
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"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.
(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.
(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.
(3) Died.
So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.
My condolences and thank you.
I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.
Bless you x "Aww thank you! You are welcome. it's best not to look, What's meant to be will always be. x | |||
"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.
(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.
(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.
(3) Died.
So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.
My condolences and thank you.
I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.
Bless you x "I lost my soul mate last October. I've yet to grieve. I haven't shed a tear I wish I could. He was a lot older than me and we knew we wouldn't have the amount of time together as some people so we spent our time making memories of everywhere we went and although I'm heartbroken I still smile at the memories | |||
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"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.
(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.
(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.
(3) Died.
So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.
My condolences and thank you.
I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.
Bless you x I lost my soul mate last October. I've yet to grieve. I haven't shed a tear I wish I could. He was a lot older than me and we knew we wouldn't have the amount of time together as some people so we spent our time making memories of everywhere we went and although I'm heartbroken I still smile at the memories"Aww so sorry to hear that! Mine died in January my best friend was a lot older too so i can relate to that. I know what you mean! It still doesn't feel real and check my phone i sometimes wake up and forget. it's the adjustment that is hard hugs xo | |||
"Like a feeling beyond lust and attraction, a connection to another being on levels you were unaware you had until you met that person. Someone who sees the real version of you and still sticks around, who’s laugh you can hear when you close your eyes, who’s touch makes your hair stand on end, who you trust enough to hold your heart and take care of it. That person who in your darkest and happiest moments you want to hold your hand. It’s an awe consuming feeling of wonderful moments fused between two souls I’m beyond lucky to have found it xx
Ok these are the words I couldn't write " xx | |||
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"I’ve been in love twice in my life. The first with my wonderful better half, and it’s been 28 years so far and it’s still growing and getting bigger. The second was unexpected and lasted about 18 months, but the experience taught me a great deal. As someone who has spent three quarters of his life in love someone and been loved in return, here is what I have learned about true love: It’s not about the smiles, laughter, sex, romance, intimacy and lust. The good stuff matters, but it’s not really where you find love. True love is when the wheels fall off, when everything goes wrong, when fate conspires against you and pulls your life out from under your feet. If the other person is still there, if they stand beside you so you’re not alone facing the worst time of your life, if they are prepared to sacrifice part of themselves to make sure you’re going to be okay, if they accept the worst of you alongside the best, that’s love. Love needs to be tested. Otherwise it’s just infatuation or lust or even just a good friendship. Actual love requires compromise, patience, tolerance, and the ability to listen, to empathise and put the needs of another above your own. It alters your sense of value and your sense of self, so you become part of something that is greater than just you. A partnership, a union, facing the world and everything it can throw at you together. It’s a journey and an adventure, and it comes with all the wonderful stuff that people always reach for, laughter, romance, sex, passion, but the bad stuff has to be in there too. Otherwise you won’t ever know if it’s really love. Xx" For me it's this ^^^ I still totally love him, will always, be there anytime he needs me without a shadow of a doubt But my wheels came off being seriously ill and he couldn't be there for me ... actually, wonderfully, have no hard feelings Love our shared experiences and I am so much a better person now (friends and family think so too) Will I ever love again ??? Will I ever let anyone near me again ??? Will ... you can answer?? Who knows?? | |||
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"The most common form of love is of oneself. All else is just love of sex or money." Errrrrr no. | |||
"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.
Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.
(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.
(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.
(3) Died.
So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.
My condolences and thank you.
I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.
Bless you x I lost my soul mate last October. I've yet to grieve. I haven't shed a tear I wish I could. He was a lot older than me and we knew we wouldn't have the amount of time together as some people so we spent our time making memories of everywhere we went and although I'm heartbroken I still smile at the memories"I think smiling at the memories is all part of the grieving process. I lost my soulmate almost a year ago (1st May). It was all very sudden so we just went through normal life. I've been very emotional since she passed, sometimes crying for no apparent reason. But also smiling at our shared memories. I can't imagine sharing my life with anyone else and I am so grateful for the time we did have together. | |||
