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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"I woukdn't recommend numbing gel, as if something is hurting then you know to stop and not injur yourself, just get a good waterbased lube"
This! You need the feedback to know you're not actually doing any damage.
I personally opt for a silicone lube, the silicone pjur backdoor specifically, it's contains relaxing and moisturising agents (not the spray with the numbing agent)... |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Lots of lube and start cowgirl so you can control it. "
Or doggy but have him stay still and you back onto him (it's hit and miss for me if cowgirl is comfy...)
Oh and be super turned on and horny before you even start. I'd say at least 3 or 4 orgasms! (Like it genuinely helps) |
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"Lots of lube and start cowgirl so you can control it.
Or doggy but have him stay still and you back onto him (it's hit and miss for me if cowgirl is comfy...)
Oh and be super turned on and horny before you even start. I'd say at least 3 or 4 orgasms! (Like it genuinely helps)"
I’ve heard from a girl that she prefers doggy as you described. |
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By *ocalMan
over a year ago
Manchester |
As others have stated, don't use a numbing gel, find a guy with the experience to be patient and lead you into the right state of mind, relaxed and comfortable, obviously don't rush, some girls like plenty of rimming and small anal toy play to build up and vibration toy for the your clit.
Also douching helps you relax knowing that the chance of having an "accident" is greatly reduced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As others have stated, don't use a numbing gel, find a guy with the experience to be patient and lead you into the right state of mind, relaxed and comfortable, obviously don't rush, some girls like plenty of rimming and small anal toy play to build up and vibration toy for the your clit.
Also douching helps you relax knowing that the chance of having an "accident" is greatly reduced. "
Also this!!!
All about the guy being experienced in anal and knowing what he's doing. Makes me alot more relaxed and the sex amazing!!! X |
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