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I had a Fab meet years ago, where the female didn’t kiss others. The lack of intimacy just didn’t do it for me, and I walked away. I now ask every potential meet if they kiss, before even arranging a social  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing  "
All it would take is one letter swap. And you would sound really deviant..lol..  |
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing "
I have the solution.
Don’t meet couples that don’t like kissing 
We’re very kissy.
I especially like to give it a lot of tongue, really explore the dentistry of my lovers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is my thing. Its vital for me so while I know I couldn't have sex without it, I do kinda understand couples who want to keep that as something special just for each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer not to kiss! To intimate for casual sex! Plus mouths are so germey! X"
Im with you on this. Ive a bit of a kissing phobia. Although i will kiss anywhere else, neck i love kissing, on the lips mouth vlosed TopGun Take My Breath Away playing in the background is hot. But full on snogs, with tongues, spit, and the noises makes me gag thinking about it.
Everyone is different, we humans are strange animals   |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I don't understand why people think it is acceptable to be rude about people who don't kiss on a meet.
I love kissing, and I'd be sad if that wasn't part of the sex. But weirdly... I respect that the other person has a right to decide what they do with their body  |
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing "
It just sounds like they wouldn’t be for you and you for them OP. It’s their choice the same as it’s yours. There are plenty that do like to kiss if that’s your thing  |
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By *osco78Man
over a year ago
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Def hard pass , I'm craving a good kissing session more than a fuck at the moment
Also what's with the couples that pipe up with you can do anal but no kissing
I appreciate it's all about choice ,but I've always found you can telalot about some one by how they kiss |
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By *ispas22 OP Woman
over a year ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
"Kissing is my thing. Its vital for me so while I know I couldn't have sex without it, I do kinda understand couples who want to keep that as something special just for each other. "
I do completely get ot and want to keep that something special for just them, but for me it's like a huge part of foreplay.....just such a shame when you see someone who you would really enjoy meeting x but respect accross the land ...we are all different and want different things from Fab x |
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When we started, I (Mrs) didn't want to engage in kissing above the neck as a rule. We made it very clear on our profile so if you didn't want to meet us then cool
We had the male half of one couple be very pushy on kissing me and it dried me up to sand
We do kiss now though, we're just all on our own journeys |
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By *ispas22 OP Woman
over a year ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
"Def hard pass , I'm craving a good kissing session more than a fuck at the moment
Also what's with the couples that pipe up with you can do anal but no kissing
I appreciate it's all about choice ,but I've always found you can telalot about some one by how they kiss "
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My partner and I have discussed this, and we agree on no kissing. For us, the thought of sex and satisfaction is good, but the intimacy of kissing others wouldn't work for us. Has to be said we are new to this and haven't had a swap yet any ways. |
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It seems to be more a couple thing not to kiss and to be honest I do totally get that. I don’t meet couples anyway but I would never meet someone who didn’t kiss. I’m sure I’d know beforehand but I would actually leave if that was the case. |
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"Won't have oral performed on me either much as I love it! To many germs in the mouth! X
What if a condom was used flavoured you can choose it "
I will give just won't receive! They can have my mouth germs OK if they want them lol x |
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We are all different. Just respect it and don't meet people who are not interested in what you enjoy.
Personally I love kissing but there are other things I hate that many others enjoy.
I just wouldn't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but that's their preference. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
The dot in the i |
It depends who, some I want to kiss, others I don’t. Some I have started to kiss and haven’t enjoyed so I wanted to stop, being held in place happened a lot so now I don’t kiss unless I feel comfortable they won’t lock me in place, wary would probably be the word I suppose |
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It's an absolute must for me and a deal-breaker without it. For me personally — sex without passionate kissing is hollow and meaningless. I find it impossible to deny my basorexic tendancies and those associated plasma oxytocin levels which heightens any form of tactile intimacy. |
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I'm putting it out there, I'm not particularly fond of kissing in general. I dislike people so close to my face, I find it claustrophobic.
It's seems generally, ok to not like oral or anal for example. But kissing is this sacred thing that must be done, else it's not proper sex. Different things float different people's boats. To me swapping spit just isn't sexy.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I blame Pretty Woman for making it a thing!
It sounds like she was making sense in the movie but the diff is that it was a job to her, she wasn’t looking/wanting to get excited."
I don't think Pretty Woman made it a thing.
Some people don't want to kiss others. It's a rather intimate act. Maybe they're not aroused by it. Maybe they'd rather not have crap kissers drying up their vagina. Maybe they want to keep it for their partner. Maybe jealousy.
There's a myriad of reasons for it, I don't think it necessarily is because they want to keep things more perfunctory.
I love kissing and wouldn't be compatible with those who didn't want to kiss me - for me I can't get aroused with another person without it.
But I don't think there's a right/wrong way about it. You're compatible or you're not. No one is really losing out, just say if it's a thing for you to do or avoid. |
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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago
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I also find this stipulation quite peculiar! I mean each to their own I guess some people hold certain things in high regard but this is just way too fundamental to not be an odd thing omitted from a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing "
The solution is very simple; don't meet people with whom you aren't compatible, whatever the reason may be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally? |
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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally?"
I think everyone has their own ideals on how something should be done, some are more easy going than others too. I think a lot is ingrained into us possibly, so we only see something if it has a specific element to it, sex with no kissing to some is probably like a birthday party with no  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on the type of sexual activity you have in mind really. This lark stretches from anonymous glory holing to polyamorous relationships. Let's face it kissing isn't on the cards at a Bukake party but would be very odd to be missing from a full on boyfriend girlfriend with benefits scenario.
We fit somewhere across intimate Group to FWB so kissing is part of foreplay and during play but if we ever did a dogging meet the guys would probably just use her to cum all over |
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing "
The very first person we met on here years ago didn’t kiss, the most was just a chaste little peck. We knew from then on that kissing and the intimacy that goes along with it is important for us. Xx |
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally?"
Possibly, it always seems odd to me that people who claim to be open minded find it so difficult to accept this one simple thing and insist on making it clear they won't meet without it. Or are rude about people who don't kiss. They're never going to meet us they make that obvious so what's the problem with other people being sexual in a way that's different to how they do it? Are we a threat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally?
Possibly, it always seems odd to me that people who claim to be open minded find it so difficult to accept this one simple thing and insist on making it clear they won't meet without it. Or are rude about people who don't kiss. They're never going to meet us they make that obvious so what's the problem with other people being sexual in a way that's different to how they do it? Are we a threat? "
Yes it's the rudeness that gets me, along with the (incorrect imo) assumption that sex without kissing on the mouth must be cold/passionless/weird/insert other derogatory adjectives here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*walks into meeting room, kneels by hole in wall, presses lips through glory hole*
Good afternoon old chap, any chance af a quick snog before you suck me to completion, i find it rather boring without kissing"
Just laughed out loud at my own mental picture of this scenario. Haha, your own jokes are the funniest when your all alone, ahhhhh im so funny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What we noted when we were here before but mostly bases o eperiences from years ago - the women decided if they wanted to kiss and men were always eager. IE kissing the lilps/face, not referring to neck/breats etc
Mrs Loved to kiss more than full sex intially with me I just loved watchig an the couple of time we met a couple, I was more interested in what was happening with the wife like most guys.
Mrs used to say I wont kiss other guys buy once in bed no clothing, the kissing was the key to being more randy/wet etc.
But as others said, we are all different |
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We like kissing and will in a couple situation or girl on girl kissing. However straight 3 ways we don’t.
Yes this might seem odd to some but in an experience with a threesome we have had guys constantly going to kiss her and making it more an 2 way intimate thing for them and it didn’t work for us. In a three way we basically just want another cock to join in with No intimacy. Girl on girl is a 2 way thing as he likes to watch lol
It’s stated on the profile and if they don’t like it don’t meet it’s their choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally?"
THIS
I am not a big kisser , it has nothing to do with sex for me, I do not see it as foreplay at all. If someone didn't kiss me at all that would do me fine. I will do it with certain people in the moment but it is not essential.
I have red not passionate experiences with or without kissing
Each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a Fab meet years ago, where the female didn’t kiss others. The lack of intimacy just didn’t do it for me, and I walked away. I now ask every potential meet if they kiss, before even arranging a social "
Agree! 110%. sex is way deeper and more intimate than kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can honestly say I would prefer a passionate and erotic kiss from somebody I desired over sex. I could lose myself in that moment of sensuality. Could I climax that way?….
Maybe its the missing of a loving partner I dunno, and finding that similar feeling in a kiss is why I think like this.
But sex without kissing? Yeh sure I could do it…but I wouldn’t want to. |
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"I blame Pretty Woman for making it a thing!
It sounds like she was making sense in the movie but the diff is that it was a job to her, she wasn’t looking/wanting to get excited.
I don't think Pretty Woman made it a thing.
Some people don't want to kiss others. It's a rather intimate act. Maybe they're not aroused by it. Maybe they'd rather not have crap kissers drying up their vagina. Maybe they want to keep it for their partner. Maybe jealousy.
There's a myriad of reasons for it, I don't think it necessarily is because they want to keep things more perfunctory.
I love kissing and wouldn't be compatible with those who didn't want to kiss me - for me I can't get aroused with another person without it.
But I don't think there's a right/wrong way about it. You're compatible or you're not. No one is really losing out, just say if it's a thing for you to do or avoid."
You make a good point well. My previous post was maybe a bit blunt. No judgement intended towards those that prefer not to kiss on meets, but that's not my preference. It feels like leaving out a huge part of the overall eroticism to me. I *really* enjoy the kissing. |
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I enjoy kissing, and I find its the most sensual part of foreplay.
But I would always respect the boundaries, I guess it depends on the type of meet too. Dogging/GB's/FnGo's not seen much kissing going on
If I ever reach my goal of finding my FWB/gf/hotwife then I'd never impose a no kissing rule on my partner, if she was ok with it of course. |
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. So I’d be surprised if someone who didn’t kiss would even contact me.