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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno what the terminolgy is..but Ive friends that sometimes I'd visit or them visit me...we can watch films, drink , shag nothing is set as stone...and its rarely planned things
I've never really been the in and out type though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And we don't mean the kind of benefits that George Osborne wants to stop.
Honest question: does it really exist? "
Didn't for me when I tried...Ended with someone saying 'I Love You' but not hearing it back.
Felt so guilty too but couldn't lie to her because of our friendship
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have them. Just wanted to know other people's take on this.
It's important to us that it's this and not just turn up and shag! "
Not from here; my friend and I sometimes meet up for lunch or go to the cinema, doesn't always end up with sex as we were looking for companionship and friendship, not just sex but without the bf/gf label |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friends with benifits playmates whatever you wish call them. Yes you can have these peeps in your life. But please be aware sometimes feelings get involved. Which can ruin a special understanding. Nd leave one hell of a mess in their place.  |
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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago
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I have a few FWB'S, they are in the most part social friends, people who can be relied on to offer company for something other than sex, some have actual skills which they will offer to use to help me, a female electrician, and a plumber, also someone who manages an agency and calls on me to help fill various positions when they need someone at short notice.
Because I am also a friend with benefits, because to survive, all relationships have to works in both directions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Meeting one of ours tonight. Should be fun as always. 
The reason we posed the question is that despite us writing that we wanted FWBs in our profile, we still get so many messages that imply that they just want to show up and shag. We just thought we were either out if step with the way the site operates, or just too old fashioned for our own good!
It's pleasing to know we aren't on our own xxx |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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"Meeting one of ours tonight. Should be fun as always.
The reason we posed the question is that despite us writing that we wanted FWBs in our profile, we still get so many messages that imply that they just want to show up and shag. We just thought we were either out if step with the way the site operates, or just too old fashioned for our own good!
It's pleasing to know we aren't on our own xxx"
You get from the site exactly what you put into it. You 2 sound like you're a good laugh, if these guys don't want to take the time to get to know you then its their loss. Xx |
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"We have them. Just wanted to know other people's take on this.
It's important to us that it's this and not just turn up and shag!
Not from here; my friend and I sometimes meet up for lunch or go to the cinema, doesn't always end up with sex as we were looking for companionship and friendship, not just sex but without the bf/gf label"
 that's what it's about. I couldn't have worded it better x |
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I have found that ex's make the best friends with benefits/fuckbuddies. Once you have gone through the falling in and out of love but still remember the brilliant sex you had together...
I have 2 ex's that i might not see for a few mths at a time but everytime we do meet....  |
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"Has anyone else found that with some the second time meets aren't as good as the first time. Only rarely will you find a true friend with benefits.
I have found only one so far. "
This can be the case but then theres those meets that get better with time  |
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we are thinking of one of our best friends to have benefits with just not sure how, he and carol deffo fancy each other we have huge trust so thats not an issue its how to let it happen weve been on hols together with other friends as well but to busy laughing and carrying on to take it further but we want it to happen any tips and watch this space ps funky hes on benefits lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And we don't mean the kind of benefits that George Osborne wants to stop.
Honest question: does it really exist? "
They do for lots of people but more so singles I would say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I really do. Like meeting new people. And I find they want to do stuff other than play.
I know friends that do have them and seems to work. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
Having an fb means:
You have freedom - to see who you want or don't want without any comebacks
They don't run your life - as some relationships can end up
There's no pressure - you don't have to explain where you are going, where you have been, when you will be back,etc
You can have great sex regularly
You can socialise
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was awesome she was like my best mate, we would just have a blast and the sex was fantastic but she passed away about 7 year ago by some nob d*unk driver but as long as I remember her she still alive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I've been fixing a ladies wobbly legs today!! Her table legs I mean!!
The sexy playmate did my family tree recently so it was the least I could do.. |
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Yeah there are for sure,many names for it but all mean same. Mine,well was, is now unfortunately 150 odd miles away,due to me moving to sunny wales(lol). Used to meet up,chat,pizza,dvd and then benefits and cuddle,well cwtch ( is that what its called here?) miss it as was easy going and no pressure!! |
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