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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite
But, are they mostly male or female?
I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.
*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’
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"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite
But, are they mostly male or female?
I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.
*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’
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Hey Woody, I’ve got a few. Some women, some couples, some guys and a lovely trans.
I like the fact we can have a bit of personal chat away from the forums, just for a giggle or to catch up.
How about you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. We speak to a few couples on here more often than not. Whether here or on other messaging services. Also speak to some women on here more often than anyone else  . We're very nice people when you get to know us
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Mostly men.
Not because any eyeroll inducing reasons like 'oh I'm not like other women tehehehe', it's just how it's happened.
I do get on very well with some women and non-binary people from here but yes, I definitely talk to more men from here than women (as friends!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In life I have all male dominated hobbies plus all my jobs  so on here I talk to mainly men. Actual friends from fab ... met them all and talk to them via other means phone/whatsapp  |
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I've always got on better with women than men, at least as an adult. On here, though there are loads of amazing men, male friendship isn't what I'm looking for. All my Fab friends, and most - definitely not all - of my offline friends are women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got a lot of men friends on fab who helped me with advice and techniques to help me have few lady friends on fab in non sexual way even in work get on more with lady’s then I do with men  |
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I chat daily, with a woman I first met in Fab around 5 years ago. We both enjoy the fact we can tell each other everything, and anything, about our lives. She would be a huge hole in my life if I were to lose her for some reason  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite
But, are they mostly male or female?
I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.
*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’
Hey Woody, I’ve got a few. Some women, some couples, some guys and a lovely trans.
I like the fact we can have a bit of personal chat away from the forums, just for a giggle or to catch up.
How about you?"
More personal chats are mostly with women, and a couple would be classed as a friend , and I talk to a male or 2. |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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I chat via DM frequently with one lady on here, and that's it. Away from here, my closest friends are all women - all platonic. I seem to get on better with women than men.
Im open to having a good natter with other ladies on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.
Can I see you naked?
Sorry….can I add you as a friend?
Perv"
Haha. What site are we both on?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.
Excuse me.
F
You're excused. "
I want to be friends  I needn't fill the bath with water, I'll use my own tears
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I seemed to have befriended mostly women. They are instinctively tuned into my metrosexual and stylistic traits. The 'befriendship' isn't exclusively sexual but mostly platonic.
With that said, I do have a few male friends on here whose harmonic friendship I treasure dearly. |
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Currently keep in touch with one couple away from the site - who we also meet up with from time to time - and one lady. We’ve always found it quite easy to make connections, but it’s not so easy keeping them over time. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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On here several women one guy we've been friends many years
Away from the site do have guy friends loads but more women we just seem to really connect talk about anything even the odd time late at night when they just need someone to chat with I value each and everyone of them |
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Our good friends progress from here to group chats and other social media. It’s seldom we chat on here as we are in contact a lot by other means.
If we start a group chat it usually means we’re happy to know them much better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve got a few fab friends we talk to regularly on here. We did have a few we talked to off here but that’s fizzled out and it’s rare we chat off here anyway tbh.
Mainly couples but there’s also a couple of fab ladies we chat to regularly |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really have many friends on here. I don't tend to chat much on here for a few reasons.There are two people I chat to daily and a few people I chat to occasionally but that's it's.Unfortuntely I found most guys who chatted expected more and got annoyed when they didn't get meets even when I made it clear from the start that I wasn't interested in them sexually.
I was also backstabbed by a woman who I thought was a good friend before on here who has shared my pics and private info with others so that made me a lot more wary on here.
I'm also quite introverted anyhow and I have never needed a load of people to chat to or be one of the popular people. I'm quite happy having a small amount of true friends rather than a lot of people who actually don't care. |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite
But, are they mostly male or female?
I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.
*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’
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I have female and male friends on here, i don’t think it works the same in life i have no relatives my parents are both dead i have mostly female friends but no reason for that, i like my own company, my ex said i flirted with women but i would say i enjoy life and enjoy making people smile so maybe thats a reflection of that. |
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We have a M/F couple we speak to. We have spoken to a few couples in the past but when it cones to arranging a social meet there is no longer a reply. It would be nice to make friends out if this lifestyle too. |
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None
Been on here a while and just not happened for us. Luckily we have an awesome relationship and not that bothered. Our original plan was to try and meet a couple we could meet with on a regular basis and see wher it would go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a female friend on here who I knew offsite before I found she was here. We chatted offsite, we went walking together, got on real well without there being anything sexual in the relationship (though I sure as hell fancied her and still do).
Sadly the relationship broke down (My fault) and we don't really speak now except I sent her a birthday and Xmas message.
She's not blocked me on here or privately, so I hold out hope things can be repaired one day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really have many friends on here. I don't tend to chat much on here for a few reasons.There are two people I chat to daily and a few people I chat to occasionally but that's it's.Unfortuntely I found most guys who chatted expected more and got annoyed when they didn't get meets even when I made it clear from the start that I wasn't interested in them sexually.
I was also backstabbed by a woman who I thought was a good friend before on here who has shared my pics and private info with others so that made me a lot more wary on here.
I'm also quite introverted anyhow and I have never needed a load of people to chat to or be one of the popular people. I'm quite happy having a small amount of true friends rather than a lot of people who actually don't care. "
I'm really sorry to hear that - must have been quite a betrayal. |
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"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite
But, are they mostly male or female?
I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.
*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’
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There's no 'surely' Woody. I don't talk to people here in DM. I don't talk to people from here offsite.
I read a lot of comments here from women who say they get on better with men than women ..... and basically , I thought along the same lines as you .... |
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"I chat daily, with a woman I first met in Fab around 5 years ago. We both enjoy the fact we can tell each other everything, and anything, about our lives. She would be a huge hole in my life if I were to lose her for some reason "
I would dearly love a friend like this…you’re very lucky.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….
Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….
Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”
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Harry is so wrong.
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"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….
Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way” "
Whilst I love the film (who doesn’t?) I’ve never agreed with that premise.
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"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….
Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”
Harry is so wrong.
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Affirmative. Harry is so very wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….
Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”
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Literally all my friends are women and I don’t talk about sex at all with the vast majority of them. I don’t like the viewpoint (same with the idea of friendzoning) because it implies that there’s no value in being nonsexual friends with someone. |
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Until about 4 or 5 years ago I could genuinely claim to have no male friends at all.
Plenty of work colleagues but I didn't spend any time with them outside of work.
Claiming that men and women can't be friends without the sex getting in the way is a load of bull in my opinion.
I'm definitely not the exception to the rule.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….
Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”
Harry is so wrong.
Affirmative. Harry is so very wrong "
We are wise women.
Isn't that what they used to call witches? |
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"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite
But, are they mostly male or female?
I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.
*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’
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I'm equally as good with ladies and guys...have a bunch of them I talk on daily basis.meeting up for giggles and few drinks too.
It's great. |
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Actual Fab friends is a fairly even split between men, women, couples and TVs. Some are just friends and some are friends where our intentions are less than honourable
The same goes for our fab inbox, a very even split.
Off fab we're in a social chat and I also have some lovely ladies I talk to 
J |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actual Fab friends is a fairly even split between men, women, couples and TVs. Some are just friends and some are friends where our intentions are less than honourable
The same goes for our fab inbox, a very even split.
Off fab we're in a social chat and I also have some lovely ladies I talk to
J"
Our ambition this year is to become besties with you, the sort where I can ship Mr to yours when I need a break
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"Actual Fab friends is a fairly even split between men, women, couples and TVs. Some are just friends and some are friends where our intentions are less than honourable
The same goes for our fab inbox, a very even split.
Off fab we're in a social chat and I also have some lovely ladies I talk to
J
Our ambition this year is to become besties with you, the sort where I can ship Mr to yours when I need a break
F"
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