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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all  |
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"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all "
Nope! I get your point, but I have to have some level of chemistry and connection. I can’t bring myself to shag someone I don’t fancy. |
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"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all "
I can have sex without chemistry.. fun and giggles needs to be there. However mostly 121 I need some chemistry x |
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"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.
But you've still gotta eat at some point though right? "
That's where the analogy breaks down, yes. I'd definitely rather be celibate for life than ever have to force myself into sex. |
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"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.
Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis.
Aww, thank you! I was just saying the other day how nice you are, to a mutual friend. "
I’m flattered! Likewise, old sausage |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.
Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis.
Aww, thank you! I was just saying the other day how nice you are, to a mutual friend.
I’m flattered! Likewise, old sausage "
Hee hee... you said sausage   |
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Interesting. I think it's possible to have enjoyable sex without chemistry. I doubt there's individual chemistry in gang bangs, glory holes, dark rooms, blind fold meets etc. It's the situation rather than the individuals in those circumstances isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.
But you've still gotta eat at some point though right? "
No-one needs sex to live. Many here are proof of that…. |
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"Yeah I think things like that activate the wild crazy fun side of us just cos we’re there. Love em. They’re exceptions to the supposed rule "
Are you referring to my post (reply+quote will quote the post you want to answer)?
I think you're right when you say 'supposed rule '. Some need chemistry to enjoy sex but some don't every time. |
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"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.
Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis.
Aww, thank you! I was just saying the other day how nice you are, to a mutual friend.
I’m flattered! Likewise, old sausage
Hee hee... you said sausage "
Haha good job I didn’t say clam!
Oh FFS. |
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"Interesting. I think it's possible to have enjoyable sex without chemistry. I doubt there's individual chemistry in gang bangs, glory holes, dark rooms, blind fold meets etc. It's the situation rather than the individuals in those circumstances isn't it?"
Agreed. I think in such circumstances the chemistry comes from the fizzing desire they have to be part of that scenario ie a gang bang or a glory hole. If that’s the proclivity of everyone involved, they each bring chemistry with them |
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"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all "
How can you get turned on if you don't remotely like the person, i got used by a woman once  |
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Sex without chemistry is simply a mechanical exercise and forgotten within days.
Sex with chemistry and a connection intensifies the pleasure and puts a smile on your face whenever you recall it. More of this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the thrill of spur of the moment sex
I don't need a mental contact
Physical attraction is enough
I think it is kind of looked down on, but we all play differently and we all have different triggers
If I get to know people, I tend to lose any sexual attraction I have to them
Familiarity usually leads to friend zoning
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"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all "
Chemistry is something that develops not an instant thing.
But in answer to your question, yes I'd have sex without 'chemistry', hoping it may develop if I like a guy enough. If not I don't meet him again!! |
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Define chemistry.
I've had few experiences where they've created enough chemistry to blow a whole in nuclear bunker without saying a word.
And had an awesome friend who I love to bits and when we had sex it was just hilarious, you couldn't blow a hole in a paper bag with the chemistry. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest.
I don't think I've ever really enjoyed it, even when I was in my cock starved nymph phase. There's always been some sort of chemistry else my foof would be sandpapering their cock.
Connection? That's different. Very different. Now I'm not interested unless there's a connection. I don't think I can find someone sexually attractive until that level is there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another analogy. ….
It’s like looking at the great wonders of the BBC world in a book or the internet, or actually going there and seeing it’s beauty with your own eyes
Anyone else? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another analogy. ….
It’s like looking at the great wonders of the BBC world in a book or the internet, or actually going there and seeing it’s beauty with your own eyes
Anyone else? "
Wtf does my phone add words? BBC?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all "
Sex without a connection is just a waste of time for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to be chemistry otherwise my body won't cooperate."
Try being a man, my cock does not get hard if I’m not turned on, and I need more than just an image. |
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"I struggle to see how sex would even be initiated without chemistry. "
quite easily if its just a body part function you are looking for ... bukkake / gangbangs / random blowjobs glory holes etc. gay sauna / swinging club dark rooms etc |
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