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over a year ago
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"you mean as in a best mate kind of way without physical stuff -
yes but with the physical stuff as well lol"
No. I honestly believe that Best Friends + Sex is the formula for finding yourself in a relationship before you know it.
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over a year ago
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Yes I think you can. I don't do romantic love (long story many reasons) but I love my bestie lots and we have been known on a few occasions to have a little bit of naughty fun. Its a different kind of love and I don't equate feelings to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course you can. Love is an emotion that you feel for anybody that makes you feel like you need them in your life. Love has nothing to do with sex. I love my mum, my sister and my dog but I wouldn't sleep with them. Every girl I've ever loved and had a sexual relationship with is no longer around. But every friend or relation that I love still is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would people say that there is a divisable line between someones partner and their best friend?
Am the only soppy git that believes that your partner is also the person with whom you would share that bond the closest?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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also how often - writing this without a lot of thought as dashing out in a min - if it was a very occasional occurance then its possible - if regular then id say its more than it may seem - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would people say that there is a divisable line between someones partner and their best friend?
Am the only soppy git that believes that your partner is also the person with whom you would share that bond the closest?
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I agree with you, my other half is my best friend  I wouldn't be where I am or who I am without him, I tell him everything and I know he does with me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that yes you can love someone without or with intimacy, it is a bond that forms over time and can't be replaced, someone you know inside out...
Hence so many marriages fail imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And to add to that, they are a soul mate, nothing more and nothing less.
You want them in your life, but can be comfortable and yourself around them, love though is a complex word...and means different things to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once the L word comes up your on a slippery slope if you don't want to go there its best avoided."
Sometimes it can't be helped and peoples emotions get involved no matter how hard they try to fight it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a none loving way lol"
Yes, you can... I have recently lost my best friend and it has killed me inside ... I am still not sure what to think or how to feel .... As they were only a friend, but I know right now my world is upside down, and I know deep down I loved as I would a brother.... xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well there are different kinds of love
love for your children
love for your parents
love for your friends
so why not"
Yep, would agree with that.
Personally, I think the 'l' word is much misunderstood, along with the 'r' word.
So there's love.....and love.....and love......and then there's also a loving relationship!    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres a difference between loving someone and being inlove with someone, i love many people im inlove with noone
I think you can love someone your close to and physical without being inlove with them |
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My first ever fb we started spending alot of time together this is going back 4half years ago and we ended it as I started developing feelings we remained friends and I love him now as a friend last year we played and the sex was fantastic every bit if him knew every bit if me and hey he remembered l the best buttons I still love him as a friend and the dynamics of the friendship have remained unchanged
On the other hand I totally love my other male friend in a way that befits a family member again we started out as fb now however the thought of going there is so unbelievably wrong on every level were so close he feels like a brother |
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