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Why do people have conflicting info in their profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've seen profiles written by bi guys who specify they aren't looking for bi guys. Shocking contradictory information  "
I didn’t tick I was looking for a man so shouldn’t be any confusion. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over "
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
A"
Have you seen the length of some of the profiles. Easier to tick the right box save the 10 minutes reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over "
How bloody dare them  |
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"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over "
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
A
Have you seen the length of some of the profiles. Easier to tick the right box save the 10 minutes reading "
I've never seen a profile that took me 10 minutes to read.
And for all the tick boxes and filters the site offers, I'd still read any profile that caught my eye all the way through. There may be something that puts us off even though according to search parameters and filters someone suits a very broad range of potential matches.
Never let the site make decisions for you. Just because someone may tick all the boxes on paper doesn't mean they will at all in reality.
There's no short cut to finding compatible company and any attempt to automate matches is doomed to fail 9 times out of 10.
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"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
A
Have you seen the length of some of the profiles. Easier to tick the right box save the 10 minutes reading "
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The average Cocker Spaniel can tick the right box. I'm drawn to those who can actually read and appreciate a long meaningful profile. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I've seen profiles written by bi guys who specify they aren't looking for bi guys. Shocking contradictory information
I didn’t tick I was looking for a man so shouldn’t be any confusion. "
The fact you ticked the MM couple option says differently. |
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"I've seen profiles written by bi guys who specify they aren't looking for bi guys. Shocking contradictory information
I didn’t tick I was looking for a man so shouldn’t be any confusion.
The fact you ticked the MM couple option says differently. "
you've got him have a haribo  |
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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago
London |
"I've seen profiles written by bi guys who specify they aren't looking for bi guys. Shocking contradictory information
I didn’t tick I was looking for a man so shouldn’t be any confusion.
The fact you ticked the MM couple option says differently. you've got him have a haribo "
He's not looking for a man.
He's looking for men (plural)!
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I've seen profiles written by bi guys who specify they aren't looking for bi guys. Shocking contradictory information
I didn’t tick I was looking for a man so shouldn’t be any confusion.
The fact you ticked the MM couple option says differently. you've got him have a haribo
He's not looking for a man.
He's looking for men (plural)!
G"
Well spotted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The options available don't tell all the story so the 'right' answer in your mind might not be in someone else's.
For example, I don't want to meet smokers but I'm happy to meet vapers. I'd imagine many people that vape would classify themselves as a smoker, given there isn't another option, so I say yes to smokers but my profile clarifies only those that vape.
And at risk of opening a can of worms, I consider myself straight but am quite happy to meet a convincing TV/TS. You might consider me bi but I don't as I'm not attracted to fellas and won't be putting anyone's plums in my mouth.
Even accommodating isn't the whole story as I'm happy to arrange a hotel and therefore 'accommodate', but I won't be doing so in my own home. Personally, I tick that I can't accommodate but am not offended by other people in the same situation who tick that they can. As long as that is clear in their profile, that I always read.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome to the reading club - we are in a minority group!"
Of course just because I read it, doesn't mean I don't go ahead and send a dick pic anyway, just because... |
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"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
A
Have you seen the length of some of the profiles. Easier to tick the right box save the 10 minutes reading
I've never seen a profile that took me 10 minutes to read.
And for all the tick boxes and filters the site offers, I'd still read any profile that caught my eye all the way through. There may be something that puts us off even though according to search parameters and filters someone suits a very broad range of potential matches.
Never let the site make decisions for you. Just because someone may tick all the boxes on paper doesn't mean they will at all in reality.
There's no short cut to finding compatible company and any attempt to automate matches is doomed to fail 9 times out of 10.
A"
It's like people think we write profiles because we enjoy it. |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
A"
He can’t bear the disappointment. Understandable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ….. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. …. "
I dunno. I find the best way to get proper answers is to asks ‘em |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sure if everyone ticked all the correct boxes and fixed this clearly major issue…
Within 5 minutes somebody would create a thread reminiscing about how profiles used to be contradictory and how annoying all this inconvenient accuracy is
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"I’m sure if everyone ticked all the correct boxes and fixed this clearly major issue…
Within 5 minutes somebody would create a thread reminiscing about how profiles used to be contradictory and how annoying all this inconvenient accuracy is
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They'd still chance their arm irrespective of someone's likes being accurate! |
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The guys who have safe sex as an interest but are hanging out of a woman doing bareback…
‘It’s an ex…’
What a lovely and kind ex who allows you to still post pics of her to display on a sex site so you can try and entice other women 
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
A
Have you seen the length of some of the profiles. Easier to tick the right box save the 10 minutes reading "
Mine is bloody long... and can't take more than 3 minutes at most.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys who have safe sex as an interest but are hanging out of a woman doing bareback…
‘It’s an ex…’
What a lovely and kind ex who allows you to still post pics of her to display on a sex site so you can try and entice other women
K"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use the filter to ensure I’m not wasting my or someone else’s time. So why do people show they can accommodate then have s big WE CANT ACCOMMODATE at the bottom lol. Also don’t have any age then add only meet 21 to 40. Some people lol. Rant over
But you've read the profile, identified that you're not compatible and therefore won't be of interest to them.
How much time have you actually wasted? A minute or two?
In the grand scheme of things not really that long.
A
Have you seen the length of some of the profiles. Easier to tick the right box save the 10 minutes reading
I've never seen a profile that took me 10 minutes to read.
And for all the tick boxes and filters the site offers, I'd still read any profile that caught my eye all the way through. There may be something that puts us off even though according to search parameters and filters someone suits a very broad range of potential matches.
Never let the site make decisions for you. Just because someone may tick all the boxes on paper doesn't mean they will at all in reality.
***There's no short cut to finding compatible company and any attempt to automate matches is doomed to fail 9 times out of 10.***
A"
Especially *** |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
The people that annoy me are those that retain the 18 - 99 default setting for age of people they are prepared to meet.
I have messaged people who use that setting only to get a snotty message back saying I am way too old for them. FFS I am only 83 way short of 99. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys who have safe sex as an interest but are hanging out of a woman doing bareback…
‘It’s an ex…’
What a lovely and kind ex who allows you to still post pics of her to display on a sex site so you can try and entice other women
K"
This one I hate |
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