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Does anyone practice tantric sex and or attend any nudist spa's?
I'm still new to the scene and single,
I find the idea of going to clubs solo kinda offputting,
But I'm in need of a good body /back rub and looked into getting a massarge,
Here's the catch,
I haven't been near a naked body for almost a year, And obviously it's all nude in these type of places, so things will "arise" no doubt,
The websites mention that hand relief is optional & included,
But I dont like the idea of paying to be relieved or using someone I don't know is fully independent,
So here's my question,
Have you ever been to a naturist / nudist Spa & What's it like?
Do you practice tantric sex?
I've been on a Semen retention for around 3 months (after quitting porn)
And its something I'm curious about,
That's about it for this one,
Thanks all,  )
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask,"
Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's. |
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's."
Genuine question here (and apologies to op for hijacking), why can’t I meditate? My mind will absolutely not stay on topic. Ever. And trying to meditator I get about 5 seconds before it’s gone  |
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's.
Genuine question here (and apologies to op for hijacking), why can’t I meditate? My mind will absolutely not stay on topic. Ever. And trying to meditator I get about 5 seconds before it’s gone "
Accept that thoughts will come and go. Return your focus to your breathing. How does the air feel? Cool on the way in? Warmer on the way out? You can always to the breath and the current moment. Hope that makes sense, it helps me.
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's.
Genuine question here (and apologies to op for hijacking), why can’t I meditate? My mind will absolutely not stay on topic. Ever. And trying to meditator I get about 5 seconds before it’s gone
Accept that thoughts will come and go. Return your focus to your breathing. How does the air feel? Cool on the way in? Warmer on the way out? You can always to the breath and the current moment. Hope that makes sense, it helps me.
J"
How many times do you do that before you give up?  |
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By *rder66Man
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's.
Genuine question here (and apologies to op for hijacking), why can’t I meditate? My mind will absolutely not stay on topic. Ever. And trying to meditator I get about 5 seconds before it’s gone
Accept that thoughts will come and go. Return your focus to your breathing. How does the air feel? Cool on the way in? Warmer on the way out? You can always to the breath and the current moment. Hope that makes sense, it helps me.
J"
This, also take into account where you are meditating and as well as focus on your breath you can also focus on you third eye area. Just do a couple of minutes then 5 minutes and keep trying to go longer each time. |
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's.
Genuine question here (and apologies to op for hijacking), why can’t I meditate? My mind will absolutely not stay on topic. Ever. And trying to meditator I get about 5 seconds before it’s gone
Accept that thoughts will come and go. Return your focus to your breathing. How does the air feel? Cool on the way in? Warmer on the way out? You can always to the breath and the current moment. Hope that makes sense, it helps me.
J This, also take into account where you are meditating and as well as focus on your breath you can also focus on you third eye area. Just do a couple of minutes then 5 minutes and keep trying to go longer each time."
Where is my third eye? Sorry for the questions, I really want to get the hang of it |
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Third eye is in the middle of your forehead.
It might be worth you trying alternate nostril breathing. It helps to deactivate your sympathetic nervous system and turn on the parasympathetic system. And because you're focusing on using the correct finger and breathing pattern, your thoughts don't wander as much.
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By *rder66Man
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"Third eye is in the middle of your forehead.
It might be worth you trying alternate nostril breathing. It helps to deactivate your sympathetic nervous system and turn on the parasympathetic system. And because you're focusing on using the correct finger and breathing pattern, your thoughts don't wander as much.
J"
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Chicken, if you want to message me we won't be taking up the poor OP's thread. But I don't actually like focusing on my third eye, it makes me feel jittery. I prefer to focus on the heart centre (in the middle of the chest)
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I definitely prefer guided meditation! I struggle without it and find myself having to centre myself over and over again if I just meditate alone in silence 
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By *rder66Man
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"Exacrly, This is pretty much my new way of being, Its been a rough year But I'm rebuilding from the inside out "
Then may I recommend some reading: Ram Dass, Osho, Paramahansa Yogananda, Kabbalah and some seminars on youtube by Raja Choudhury are goos as well. |
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's."
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By *rder66Man
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"I definitely prefer guided meditation! I struggle without it and find myself having to centre myself over and over again if I just meditate alone in silence
Mr"
Have you tried some Kriya guiden meditation, also just focusing on a lit candle can help. |
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's.
Genuine question here (and apologies to op for hijacking), why can’t I meditate? My mind will absolutely not stay on topic. Ever. And trying to meditator I get about 5 seconds before it’s gone
Accept that thoughts will come and go. Return your focus to your breathing. How does the air feel? Cool on the way in? Warmer on the way out? You can always to the breath and the current moment. Hope that makes sense, it helps me.
J"
Epmty the mind. .. deep breath in, all the way fully out. |
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"Tantra isn't about sex.
Yea I get that, but it's brought up a lot when looking this up so thought I'd ask, Try learning about kundalini and reaching a higher spititual level. Look at kundalini yoga, breathing and meditation. Learn to contol the energy through your seven main chakra's.
Genuine question here (and apologies to op for hijacking), why can’t I meditate? My mind will absolutely not stay on topic. Ever. And trying to meditator I get about 5 seconds before it’s gone "
Had similar problems when learning to meditate - I would recommend True Meditation by Adyashanti, it strips away a lot of the mystique & bullsh*t around meditation so well worth a look. |
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