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Being cooked for by someone on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good morning all,
Just a question really but has anyone actually had anyone on here cool for them?
I mean as in a proper full blown the works meal.
I’ve always been of the mindset that you take a lady out for dinner when meeting from this place.
I’m feeling rather fortunate that someone would go to all that effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cook a meal at home? To me that seems a bit full on, unless it’s someone you already know and get along with.
I’d prefer something less formal and less pressured. It sounds a little too “romantic” for a first meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most peoples culinary capabilities are likely better than mine ,however I would need to know them pretty well for that to happen and again it would need to be neutral territory.
I do like an air BnB though!
I think it's a lovely thing to do though and cooking together can be great fun and pretty erotic too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well it’s certainly going to be an experience.
I’m not bad in the kitchen but certainly no pro.
I’m going to have to find a decent desert or something to take, would be rude to go empty handed
As for Airbnb …I’m more Hotel with a palatable restaurant attached |
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It’s a massive risk - I have had someone cook for me once and it was also the first time we’d met too. We had been speaking for a long time before that though and met in public first. He was an amazing cook too which definitely helped. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s a massive risk - I have had someone cook for me once and it was also the first time we’d met too. We had been speaking for a long time before that though and met in public first. He was an amazing cook too which definitely helped."
Fingers crossed….if not…water…lots of water! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've been to quite a few people's homes for dinner with sex as dessert "
It’s something that shall certainly be an experience, when thinking about it, it’s actually rather social. Well….I’ll take desert and a couple of decent bottles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had someone make me a carbonara-ish meal.
I can't usually eat before sex so it wasn't a great idea.
Actually, he wasn't on here at the time, but did join a few years after we met.
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After meeting you why would he need to be on here? Who could hope to compete with the legendary Bad Nanna?
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"We've been to quite a few people's homes for dinner with sex as dessert
It’s something that shall certainly be an experience, when thinking about it, it’s actually rather social. Well….I’ll take desert and a couple of decent bottles."
It's very sociable and a great way to relax, flirt and build tension. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s interesting to see the different points of views on here.
Quite enlightening really.
Not that keen on being poisoned! 
Flirting and tension …..I’ll still say the food nice even it is not lol…..manners!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've done this about half a dozen times.
Only one experience was unpleasant, the others were great. We've been out to dinner a lot with fab meets too. "
Going out for dinner I really enjoy!
It’s the best kind of social for myself, I enjoy eating out and it’s all rather chilled if you pick the right kind of establishment. |
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"Good morning all,
Just a question really but has anyone actually had anyone on here cool for them?
I mean as in a proper full blown the works meal.
I’ve always been of the mindset that you take a lady out for dinner when meeting from this place.
I’m feeling rather fortunate that someone would go to all that effort "
Yes I have, and i really enjoyed it |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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"No we're just here to fuck and then fuck off 
The direct approach haha "
Cant beat it! I think our longest social with a single guy was 2 mins .. Long two minutes
With couples we've always just gone to thiers or a club had a drink and then the fun usually starts (if its going to start) pretty quickly  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No we're just here to fuck and then fuck off
The direct approach haha
Cant beat it! I think our longest social with a single guy was 2 mins .. Long two minutes
With couples we've always just gone to thiers or a club had a drink and then the fun usually starts (if its going to start) pretty quickly "
I one had a social with a lady and you know when you have that moment when you think…what the hell have I got myself into here!!
I was too polite and had dinner and bolted!
I was hungry lol…but jeez! That was a tedious hour! |
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"I’m weird and don’t like eating out of other peoples houses so I couldn’t.
Going out for food before or after I wouldn’t mind. "
Intrigued why it might be different from a restaurant... I've seen some very dubious restaurant kitchens and chefs .
I'd trust someone I was going to be intimate with every bit as much as them! |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
I've been the cook in my family for years. I don't cook elaborate food, but I like it!
I reckon my boef bourguignon and creamed mash could get a marriage proposal out of maybe a third of the guys on the site.
Especially if I threw in a Shiraz and a night of passion to follow. Watch out girls... |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Yes I had some of the best ever meals cooked for me by fab and a homemade desert that literally was better than anything I’ve ever eaten ….but not on the first date. Im a foodie so attract foodies I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met on here many years ago! We watched boxing and had a take away (perfect night to me), it must have worked because we’re now married with children
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I get so nervous cooking for other people! Even if its just for my mum, lol. Im normaly too nervous on a 1st meet to be able to eat anyway. And I prefer to eat after sex rather than before, cant be so enthusiastic with a full tummy. X  |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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"Yes. I’ve had a few very nice meals cooked for me, nothing less than special, I’ve also cooked for others.
One particular person I cooked for though, did not get invited back, for a few reasons (this wasn’t the first time I’d met him) but also because when I cooked for him, a dish involving pesto, he exclaimed loudly as he sat down that he loved pesto and asked to look at the jar. I retrieved it, bemused, only to watch him….spoon the rest of the contents of the jar….over the beautifully presented meal…without even taking a bite….  Willy Dribble  "
He was checking for poison.
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"Yes. I’ve had a few very nice meals cooked for me, nothing less than special, I’ve also cooked for others.
One particular person I cooked for though, did not get invited back, for a few reasons (this wasn’t the first time I’d met him) but also because when I cooked for him, a dish involving pesto, he exclaimed loudly as he sat down that he loved pesto and asked to look at the jar. I retrieved it, bemused, only to watch him….spoon the rest of the contents of the jar….over the beautifully presented meal…without even taking a bite…. Willy Dribble "
Don’t be too pesto-mystic about it…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've cooked for a couple that my husband and I meet with. They rented an apartment near to us so I cooked.
It isn't something I would do very often though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well it’s interesting reading your comments.
She was an excellent cook and it was really rather a pleasant experience, its effort so one appreciates that.
Makes a pleasant change from restaurant dining all the time.
I think I shall return the gesture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't see anything wrong with cooking a meal for someone. Not on a first meet granted and to be honest I've only ever done it for one woman off here but I was well rewarded.  |
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