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By *odders88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Northampton

Does anyone use winks? I use them to break the ice as such, a little token of interest instead of just jumping straight in. Anyone else?

Or does FAB generate them randomly to keep things interesting?!

Thoughts….ta

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer winks, shows interest on both sides. I wish fab would introduce a system where you both have to wink at each other before the message filter opens. This would stop a lot of time wasting, dented egos and overwhelmed inboxes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don't respond to winks

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman  over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"I prefer winks, shows interest on both sides. I wish fab would introduce a system where you both have to wink at each other before the message filter opens. This would stop a lot of time wasting, dented egos and overwhelmed inboxes. "

If someone is outside or your set filters (too old/young etc) they can wink you but unless you wink them back they cannot message you.

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By *ent1000Man  over a year ago

swanley

I understand the principle of the wink can be a non intrusive way of showing interest but feel most people just ignore them

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By *aggonerMan  over a year ago

for a penny

I don’t understand winks.

I responded to a wink with a wink yesterday. They just winked back.

Another time I responded to a wink with a wink and they responded with a “Thanks for your wink”. No more.

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By *odders88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Northampton


"I prefer winks, shows interest on both sides. I wish fab would introduce a system where you both have to wink at each other before the message filter opens. This would stop a lot of time wasting, dented egos and overwhelmed inboxes. "

Great idea, would save a lot of time for you ladies with all the messages!

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By *odders88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Northampton


"I don’t understand winks.

I responded to a wink with a wink yesterday. They just winked back.

Another time I responded to a wink with a wink and they responded with a “Thanks for your wink”. No more. "

Random I know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we use inks to show interest or to ink back if something perks our curiosity.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"I don’t understand winks.

I responded to a wink with a wink yesterday. They just winked back.

Another time I responded to a wink with a wink and they responded with a “Thanks for your wink”. No more. "

They are showing interest in your profile so send a message(basedon target profile) and a face pic and they will work from there, still the same premise as the message but they liked your profile

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By *odders88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Northampton


"We don't respond to winks"

That’s fair, I just see it as a way of if you get a wink back then it shows interest. Instead of another message in the inbox

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By *ighly SexedMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

I’ve been using winks as a show of initial interest, hoping for something back. However, this approach seems to have little effect, so thinking of sending an initial message instead.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We don't respond to winks

That’s fair, I just see it as a way of if you get a wink back then it shows interest. Instead of another message in the inbox "

Used to message back to winks and they either didn't respond or sent total crap in their replies lol.

Shows a lot more effort in a message

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By *odders88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Northampton


"We don't respond to winks

That’s fair, I just see it as a way of if you get a wink back then it shows interest. Instead of another message in the inbox

Used to message back to winks and they either didn't respond or sent total crap in their replies lol.

Shows a lot more effort in a message "

I’ll bare that in mind

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By *ellhungvweMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think winks are useful. They are a way to show interest - if someone winks back then it is worth a message.

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes Rodders, I do

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By *odders88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Northampton


"Yes Rodders, I do "

Wink Wink

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

Never use them but I do respond. I got a wink the other day and sent a thanks and asked how their week was going and what I was about Reply was 'I am fine'. Left it at that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer to send a message. Winks are often ignored by many

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By *obilebottomMan  over a year ago

All over

Someone just winked and their profile is hidden. What's all that about?

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By *MandMMCouple  over a year ago

Welwyn


"We don't respond to winks

That’s fair, I just see it as a way of if you get a wink back then it shows interest. Instead of another message in the inbox

Used to message back to winks and they either didn't respond or sent total crap in their replies lol.

Shows a lot more effort in a message "

This

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine

Testing theory, will report my result later.

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE

Yep, nobody responded to me.

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I think winks are useful. They are a way to show interest - if someone winks back then it is worth a message. "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why do people with zero pics not even a profile and a three word bio 200 miles away send them.

Genuinely interested to know.

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"I prefer winks, shows interest on both sides. I wish fab would introduce a system where you both have to wink at each other before the message filter opens. This would stop a lot of time wasting, dented egos and overwhelmed inboxes. "

Love this idea, helps avoid a lot of time wasting from both parties

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham

We will send a wink to people that catch our eye. Good things can happen from a simple wink.

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