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How come many women are not into South asian guys?
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By *haz23 OP Couple
over a year ago
dagenham |
We have come across so many profiles that say sorry not interested in asian or South asian men?
Don't want to sound rude but facts are facts but not all of there veris are great looking etc but they hold high standards for South asian men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have come across so many profiles that say sorry not interested in asian or South asian men?
Don't want to sound rude but facts are facts but not all of there veris are great looking etc but they hold high standards for South asian men?"
So you think south asian men are ugly? |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
"?Ideally other South Asians only
?If you are other than South Asian we may consider of you have a decent size cut cock. But she will have to approve."
Ermm you may want to readjust your own profile before pulling that card… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, I would look at someone's profile, and make my decision. If the profile is not appealing, it won't happen, no matter what colour you are."
This for me too,you've worded it better than I would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did and it clearly doesn't exclusively disregard any ethnicity. Still open to others...
Better than stating sorry not into asian men lol..."
It’s really not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given that your own profile pretty much rules out evveryone other than se Asians unless they fit your specific criteria, I find this a very odd thread "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd just accept it as part of Fab life. There's no point trying to wrack your brain as to why people have those "preferences" as it doesn't benefit you or your Fab journey.
FWIW, I think there is an existing stigma and narrative around South Asians and their behaviour when it comes to sex as a subject that could put people off which is why SOME people might put that on their profile. The best we can do is just find those that look past it ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have come across so many profiles that say sorry not interested in asian or South asian men?
Don't want to sound rude but facts are facts but not all of there veris are great looking etc but they hold high standards for South asian men?"
Your are confusing. Your pref is south Asian men and it seems it's only your wife playing while you watch yet you're complaining about getting no interest from women then claiming it's because you're south asian. Maybe a re write making it clear what you really want. Also wouldn't hurt if people could see what's on offer too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op, you need to get the chip of your shoulder. Or put one on the other.
Your own profile, suggests your the pot calling the kettle. If someone doesn't want to meet you for whatever reason, they don't want to meet you. Get over it and move onto looking for someone who does. Will save you a lot of energy and lifes to short. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I'm confused here. You are complaining that some people's profile states that they do not wish to meet Asian men. You are not happy about that.
BUT.... your own profile states a preference about who you will be willing to meet. Only South Asians unless your wife decides otherwise.
Why is it OK for you to have preferences; but not fair when others do the same?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused here. You are complaining that some people's profile states that they do not wish to meet Asian men. You are not happy about that.
BUT.... your own profile states a preference about who you will be willing to meet. Only South Asians unless your wife decides otherwise.
Why is it OK for you to have preferences; but not fair when others do the same?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given that your own profile pretty much rules out evveryone other than se Asians unless they fit your specific criteria, I find this a very odd thread "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s no different to a profile saying the wants to meet Asian men only
Ooh! Where ARE these profiles? Point me in their direction please! Lol"
I believe it's in reference to the OP's preference expressed openly in profile. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Missing out the point. No one said they can't see who they want.
But to rule out a whole ethnicity lol really. "
Perhaps you should ask first to your lady why she is ruling out ALL ethnicities in your couples profile except South Asians, that would give you an answer to your own question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Missing out the point. No one said they can't see who they want.
But to rule out a whole ethnicity lol really.
Perhaps you should ask first to your lady why she is ruling out ALL ethnicities in your couples profile except South Asians, that would give you an answer to your own question. "
Or ask why this thread was resurrected despite the last reply being a week ago and the OP 10 weeks ago. Any particular reason? |
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"I'd just accept it as part of Fab life. There's no point trying to wrack your brain as to why people have those "preferences" as it doesn't benefit you or your Fab journey.
FWIW, I think there is an existing stigma and narrative around South Asians and their behaviour when it comes to sex as a subject that could put people off which is why SOME people might put that on their profile. The best we can do is just find those that look past it "
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