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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?"
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women..."
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women...
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point..."
somehow I expected that to come up.. but am I actually actively looking? All im doing is having a good ole perv and labour through the Forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women...
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point...
somehow I expected that to come up.. but am I actually actively looking? All im doing is having a good ole perv and labour through the Forums."
Behind your wife’s back…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women...
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point...
somehow I expected that to come up.. but am I actually actively looking? All im doing is having a good ole perv and labour through the Forums."
Yes.i saw your bio before you changed it and you were clearly looking to meet.
If you wanna cheat, then cheat, that's your choice.
But lying and making out it's all in their head is just plain cruel. |
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Probably your wife feels you're hiding things from her, when you don't know exactly what's going on your mind tends to fill in the gaps.
Have a chat with her. Show her fab, reassure her of your intentions, genuinely, don't fudge it and try to have an open conversation.
Good luck |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
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Yes.i saw your bio before you changed it and you were clearly looking to meet.
If you wanna cheat, then cheat, that's your choice.
But lying and making out it's all in their head is just plain cruel. "
No time for gaslighting narcissists grrrr. |
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women...
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point...
somehow I expected that to come up.. but am I actually actively looking? All im doing is having a good ole perv and labour through the Forums.
Yes.i saw your bio before you changed it and you were clearly looking to meet.
If you wanna cheat, then cheat, that's your choice.
But lying and making out it's all in their head is just plain cruel. "
Yeah dude if you are doing that it's called gaslighting and it's not a cool thing to do to anyone let alone someone you care about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women...
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point...
somehow I expected that to come up.. but am I actually actively looking? All im doing is having a good ole perv and labour through the Forums.
Yes.i saw your bio before you changed it and you were clearly looking to meet.
If you wanna cheat, then cheat, that's your choice.
But lying and making out it's all in their head is just plain cruel. "
Ohhhh lalaaaaa
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women...
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point...
somehow I expected that to come up.. but am I actually actively looking? All im doing is having a good ole perv and labour through the Forums."
yes but just doing that is viewed as cheating.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You can try and defend it all you like. You are on a swinging site end of.
Your saying your just talking to people, where is the line though? Your conversations are purely platonic then and you have no thought of meeting at all.
Even if you are just talking why come on a swinging site to do it. There are other ways to make platonic relationships if that's what your seeking.
It's never a physical act it's the lieing and the deceit that kills people more.
I'm not judging your choice to be here, lots of people have there reasons but you asked a question about her accusing you of cheating when is it enough.
Maybe you don't class it as cheating she obviously does or at least has a hige issue wuth it. Everyone has different opinions on what is and what isn't. If they do not marry up then that is a big issue.
How would you feel if you found out she was doing the same?
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women...
Well, you are on here actively looking to meet. She may have a point...
somehow I expected that to come up.. but am I actually actively looking? All im doing is having a good ole perv and labour through the Forums.
Yes.i saw your bio before you changed it and you were clearly looking to meet.
If you wanna cheat, then cheat, that's your choice.
But lying and making out it's all in their head is just plain cruel. "
I didn't see the profile, so can't comment either way on that.
But I agree, pretty much with what most have said. Be open and honest, she clearly has good reason to suspect such things - she is valid in her feelings about it regardless of if she is wrong in your intentions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do not gaslight her into thinking it's all in her head. I've had it done to me and it's absolutely soul destroying. I actually thought I was loosing my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I know how it looks but I have never made it an issue, and she is welcome to do her own perusing, and I've commented that she can also do so. She is her own person.
Since when did talking and looking at pictures become cheating?
I suppose it all boils down to the individuals definition of Cheating doesn't it?
I don't see it as 'cheating' chatting and looking a pictures.
Where as a number of others see it as otherwise. |
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"Do not gaslight her into thinking it's all in her head. I've had it done to me and it's absolutely soul destroying. I actually thought I was loosing my mind. "
This I've had it too it's awful would rather Take a beating. |
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"Does enough become enough? When the Accusations become enough despite there being no proof, just what she suspects is the truth?
The wife accusing me of Cheating on her by watching porn or chatting to Women..."
She's got a point you've been here over a year, don't like the accusations don't give cause for them.
Unless of course your open and she knows about your profile, if your lying you've given cause for it.
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"I know how it looks but I have never made it an issue, and she is welcome to do her own perusing, and I've commented that she can also do so. She is her own person.
Since when did talking and looking at pictures become cheating?
I suppose it all boils down to the individuals definition of Cheating doesn't it?
I don't see it as 'cheating' chatting and looking a pictures.
Where as a number of others see it as otherwise."
It does in one sense but if your partner has a different perspective of cheating to you then you have an issue.
So either work that out with her or tell her you aren't budging. Simples.
Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks the boundaries of cheating are because they aren't in a relationship with you. |
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"I know how it looks but I have never made it an issue, and she is welcome to do her own perusing, and I've commented that she can also do so. She is her own person.
Since when did talking and looking at pictures become cheating?
I suppose it all boils down to the individuals definition of Cheating doesn't it?
I don't see it as 'cheating' chatting and looking a pictures.
Where as a number of others see it as otherwise."
I didn't see the profile others are saying you've changed
I do know some would regard what you're describing on this thread as cheating.
I also hear, in your description of your wife, someone who feels wounded. I feel for her. |
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Yes.i saw your bio before you changed it and you were clearly looking to meet.
If you wanna cheat, then cheat, that's your choice.
But lying and making out it's all in their head is just plain cruel.
No time for gaslighting narcissists grrrr."
Exactly this, looking elsewhere but blaming the wife for accusing him of what he's actually doing 
Gaslighting isn't cool, leave her and let her find someone decent.
Mrs |
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Yes.i saw your bio before you changed it and you were clearly looking to meet.
If you wanna cheat, then cheat, that's your choice.
But lying and making out it's all in their head is just plain cruel.
No time for gaslighting narcissists grrrr.
Exactly this, looking elsewhere but blaming the wife for accusing him of what he's actually doing
Gaslighting isn't cool, leave her and let her find someone decent.
Mrs "
Exactly this. Cruel and selfish. If on here there shouldn’t be any reason to hide anything. You may not necessarily need to do everything together but just keeping each other in the loop should be given in any relationship for both physical and mental well being for both parties.
The minute someone starts behaving suspiciously doubts will more than likely be correct. If your constantly attached to your phone, turning it off, turning away when using it hiding the screen, turning off locations, deleting messages, coming home with stained pants, constantly defensive at any little question chances are she’s right and probably deserves better and someone who respects her.
Probably no bad thing he’s now decided to leave the site, no doubt will be back under a different name or set up on fabguys instead |
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I'm siding with wifey
Mrs C 
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But thanks for helping lower the ratio 
