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We are a bi couple who meet bi folks but continuously get bombarded by straight guys even though it’s clear on profile. Anyone else experience same timewasting and thoughtless messages? We now no longer reply and just block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a bi couple who meet bi folks but continuously get bombarded by straight guys even though it’s clear on profile. Anyone else experience same timewasting and thoughtless messages? We now no longer reply and just block."
It's a general guy problem none of us read 
We have filtered out their messages that way you can be more selective I you find a guy you both like the look of you can message them and they can message back in return |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
Highly likely they know it won't get a response regardless so just send a message anyway and hope for the best. Throw enough stones, you are bound to hit a target eventually.
The good old pray and spray
Message in a bottle will wash up on shore and be found eventually.
Etc etc etc |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
Use message filters and block single guys.
Then you can message the ones you like the look of.
The site has this feature to put you in control and keep you safe.
Use it or keep getting messages you don't want.
Take care |
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Now we have the opposite problem we are only looking for straight guys but we have bi curious and bi sexual men messaging.
Would saves everyones time if people just took a few seconds to read a profile.
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a bi couple who meet bi folks but continuously get bombarded by straight guys even though it’s clear on profile. Anyone else experience same timewasting and thoughtless messages? We now no longer reply and just block."
I get a lot of messages from men miles away, even though I state only profile Bridgwater only. I fear the only way to stop this, is to block men from messaging and do own searching...
Although my current status seems to be doing the job.
I do notice though OP that the bit about straight men is right down the bottom of your text. It may be helpful in cutting down the unwanted messages to move it higher up. |
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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago
Weston-super-Mare |
"Now we have the opposite problem we are only looking for straight guys but we have bi curious and bi sexual men messaging.
Would saves everyones time if people just took a few seconds to read a profile.
T"
if profile says bi-curious then could just mean they are ok being with other naked men, if bi sexual/ gay then looking for full male play |
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"We are a bi couple who meet bi folks but continuously get bombarded by straight guys even though it’s clear on profile. Anyone else experience same timewasting and thoughtless messages? We now no longer reply and just block."
So and your point is? |
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"We are a bi couple who meet bi folks but continuously get bombarded by straight guys even though it’s clear on profile. Anyone else experience same timewasting and thoughtless messages? We now no longer reply and just block."
I think almost everyone gets messages from those they don't them from, even when its clear on ones profile what you are looking for, seems to be par for the course around here. |
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"Now we have the opposite problem we are only looking for straight guys but we have bi curious and bi sexual men messaging.
Would saves everyones time if people just took a few seconds to read a profile.
Tif profile says bi-curious then could just mean they are ok being with other naked men, if bi sexual/ gay then looking for full male play "
To us that’s not bi-curious. T is happy to be naked around other men as I am women but he has no physical interest in men at all. Whereas I have played with women in the past and wouldn’t rule it out in the future but don’t seek them out.
J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As soon as the social event we're organising in May is done single guy filters will be immediately re-applied. We don't mind talking but not if we've stated what we're looking for and the person either can't be arsed to read or choses to ignore what we're looking for.
Can't wait to get filters back and we can do the looking... |
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By *opilotMan
over a year ago
Heathrow |
I'm straight and not looking for any guys, and yet I get messages from local and long distance asking to meet.
Sometimes I delete and other times I ask, meet for what? They answer with sex of some kind and then I simple say but I'm only looking for women. One guy actually kept going for 4 messages, before he got the message. |
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"I've been told I'm up my own arse for expecting people to read my profile.
I fucking love your profile. Even though I can't message you  "
 It's not you, it's everyone. Which I'm sure my profile makes pretty clear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its very limited to who does read profiles, doesn't make a difference if they are single or a couple. They message you and you dnt reply or you do reply sometimes we end up getting a nasty message back. All because they cnt read a profile thats the idea of them so people can match what your looking for or close to matching it. |
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