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"At what point do you agree "yep, your probably right"
Now I know I'm probably going to ruffle a few feathers here."
Interesting question when they talk all this modern nosence think their view is the only one that counts
Try to force their way of thinking on everyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At what point do you agree "yep, your probably right"
Now I know I'm probably going to ruffle a few feathers here."
Why will that ruffle feathers? Most people have age preferences. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
never to old im still playing 11 a side football,, swimming weight lifting,, night clubs,, sex clubs,, like the movie cocoon need a sit down now,, |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"At what point do you agree "yep, your probably right"
Now I know I'm probably going to ruffle a few feathers here."
At no point will I agree that I am too old  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never too old ... my fave two pictures are of a 98 yo lady finishing a 5k race in good time and a 92 yo lady finishing a marathon in a very decent time!
People think themselves old all the time ... people tell others they're too old regularly.
Age isn't guaranteed and it's a blessing not given to all ... shame to waste it imo |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
Never give up.
Never surrender.
I might be too old for you. I'm not too old for me.
My daughter takes me with her to goth nights; we compare notes from when her Mum and I were students 
There are older goths than me there.
Someone can tell you you're too old - you dont have to believe them. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
"Never too old ... my fave two pictures are of a 98 yo lady finishing a 5k race in good time and a 92 yo lady finishing a marathon in a very decent time!
People think themselves old all the time ... people tell others they're too old regularly.
Age isn't guaranteed and it's a blessing not given to all ... shame to waste it imo "
,, well said x |
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"I apply the Creep Factor usually; half your age +7years, never go lower or its creepy, apparently "
This was the rule I went by, but I find that too young now
If there closer to my sons age then mine, it’s a no! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I agree with someone when I think myself I am too old for something or it's something I no longer enjoy doing.
If you're talking about on fab and meeting other people that comes down to personal preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too old for what?
Believe it or not it was for a job, not that I need one but I thought it would be good for a career change"
Whoa!
That's illegal.
If you have it in writing, sue their arse |
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"At what point do you agree "yep, your probably right"
Now I know I'm probably going to ruffle a few feathers here."
I'm sure that they are probably right.
But the profiles I see it on are not usually much to write home about!
This site can give some women and couples a very inflated view of themselves I think.
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"Never too old ... my fave two pictures are of a 98 yo lady finishing a 5k race in good time and a 92 yo lady finishing a marathon in a very decent time!
People think themselves old all the time ... people tell others they're too old regularly.
Age isn't guaranteed and it's a blessing not given to all ... shame to waste it imo "
Very excellent point. |
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"Too old for what?
Believe it or not it was for a job, not that I need one but I thought it would be good for a career change"
 blimey.
Obviously you don't think you're too old or you wouldn't have gone for it.
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"At what point do you agree "yep, your probably right"
Now I know I'm probably going to ruffle a few feathers here.
I'm sure that they are probably right.
But the profiles I see it on are not usually much to write home about!
This site can give some women and couples a very inflated view of themselves I think.
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The profiles you see what on?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At what point do you agree "yep, your probably right"
Now I know I'm probably going to ruffle a few feathers here.
I'm sure that they are probably right.
But the profiles I see it on are not usually much to write home about!
This site can give some women and couples a very inflated view of themselves I think.
The profiles you see what on? "
I don't think he read the thread before engaging brain |
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Lots of things I think I'm too old for and I'm OK with that. Sometimes to do with biology/physicality other times just a feeling i have. I'm too old day to do the kind of work I did 20 years ago. Plenty of other things left so not an issue.
No judgement about other people's age boundaries/limits particularly. However, I'm definitely at my age too old for 18 year olds, and I think you are too if the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of things I think I'm too old for and I'm OK with that. Sometimes to do with biology/physicality other times just a feeling i have. I'm too old day to do the kind of work I did 20 years ago. Plenty of other things left so not an issue.
No judgement about other people's age boundaries/limits particularly. However, I'm definitely at my age too old for 18 year olds, and I think you are too if the same. "
Why would you even consider 18 year olds... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends .
I'm a bit sensitive about my age at the moment as I'm in the last few months of my 30s. I'm not where I wanted to be in my life. There's also still so much I want to do before I'm potentially seen as too old .
Yet, I'm also a firm believer in age being only a number and being told I shouldn't do something makes me want to do it more.
I'm definitely planning a Wyld midlife crisis in a few years time.
When it comes to people's preferences though, we just have to accept and move on when they don't align with our own.  |
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"I think it depends .
I'm a bit sensitive about my age at the moment as I'm in the last few months of my 30s. I'm not where I wanted to be in my life. There's also still so much I want to do before I'm potentially seen as too old .
Yet, I'm also a firm believer in age being only a number and being told I shouldn't do something makes me want to do it more.
I'm definitely planning a Wyld midlife crisis in a few years time.
When it comes to people's preferences though, we just have to accept and move on when they don't align with our own. "
I was exactly the same at 30, now at 40 I couldn’t care less and I do what ever I want |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"You're never too old, never to old enough, obviously by legal age, you've not just grown up yet whatever that means
Eh? "
Exactly only you know when the time is up when you're unable to enjoy |
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"Lots of things I think I'm too old for and I'm OK with that. Sometimes to do with biology/physicality other times just a feeling i have. I'm too old day to do the kind of work I did 20 years ago. Plenty of other things left so not an issue.
No judgement about other people's age boundaries/limits particularly. However, I'm definitely at my age too old for 18 year olds, and I think you are too if the same.
Why would you even consider 18 year olds... "
Judging by the profiles with it on lots it would appear.... |
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"At what point do you agree "yep, your probably right"
Now I know I'm probably going to ruffle a few feathers here."
With certain obvious exceptions, I’m not too old for anything I could choose to do. More often it’s whether I can be arsed and, ironically, that comes down to age!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve not been told I’m too old for anything yet.
I think the day may be approaching though . I pity that fool!!
As long as your hips don’t creak. That would put me off my stride…."
Less of a creak, more like a cat being stepped on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't let the old person in ... people will tell you you're old simply because they want you to be old like them ..it's your life ..live it the way YOU want to ..the rest can go f**k themselves.  |
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"I’ve not been told I’m too old for anything yet.
I think the day may be approaching though . I pity that fool!!
As long as your hips don’t creak. That would put me off my stride….
Less of a creak, more like a cat being stepped on "
Charming!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve not been told I’m too old for anything yet.
I think the day may be approaching though . I pity that fool!!
As long as your hips don’t creak. That would put me off my stride….
Less of a creak, more like a cat being stepped on
Charming!!!!"
I is, you know it |
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Its personal to everyone on an individual basis.
Some people are physically mature but mentally around 15, that's not for us.
We are far too old for some folks and that's fine, we don't have an issue if someone sent us a message saying we are too old for them, rather say at this stage rather than going through the effort of arranging meets.
We are mindful at parties and during swingers holidays a couple we chat along happily during the evening may not want to take it to the bedroom. If we feel this could be an issue we just leave it as a lovely social evening unless they want to take it further, hate to place them in an embarrassing situation.
All in all, we enjoy ourselves, never overthink anything, are confident, approachable and happy in our skins. We never buy in drama. |
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I don't care, I know I am old, I know I'm not for everyone regardless of age and I have no issues with that.
Everybody has the right to decide who to share their body with and it is better to know you ain't right for them than be strung along for days because they do not tell you straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too old
Too fat
Too hairy
Too short
Too ugly
I've had them all
They are all subjective
They're likely also situational
If I approach someone in their early 20's, chances are they will think I am too old
If I approach someone in their late 40's, maybe not so much |
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