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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Please excuse the whine but I feel this needs saying

I'm aware we can't discuss messages so I'm risking a ban

But why do men think its acceptable to send a first message, full of what they want to do to a woman, some of it being violent end of kink

I'm not kink shaming, each to their own and all that. But check its welcome.

Cos frankly, if anyone tried the stuff I've been messaged lately, they would come off a lot worse.

Gents, know your audience

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Pass

Nice tits though OP

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By *hinstrapMan  over a year ago

Barnsley

Maybe they are going for full on frontal attack. Trying to stand out so to speak. Me being the polite kind of guy rarely gets a reply to my messages.

Who knows maybe some people like it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Disclaimer - not ALL gents do that !!!!!!!!!!!

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

it isnt acceptable not something i would ever do,, but this is fab theres are fair few weirdos,,

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I find the overly aggressive word vomit copy pastes probably less offensive than the 6 pages about how they're planning to go down on me ones.

If they cared who their audience was they wouldn't be pasting the same one handed word vomit to every viable profile with an F flag.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Please excuse the whine but I feel this needs saying

I'm aware we can't discuss messages so I'm risking a ban

But why do men think its acceptable to send a first message, full of what they want to do to a woman, some of it being violent end of kink

I'm not kink shaming, each to their own and all that. But check its welcome.

Cos frankly, if anyone tried the stuff I've been messaged lately, they would come off a lot worse.

Gents, know your audience "

Exactly wish people would know their audience we’ve had this a few times and be unsettling. Not that I like but have been using the bloc button a lot recently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

1 Don’t send women Messages

2 Would never send message what I want to do woman

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman  over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Oooh I do love those messages! They make for perfect sarcastic responses!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


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Oooh I do love those messages! They make for perfect sarcastic responses!

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I may have asked one if he wanted the same slapping about. He declined

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally get where you're coming from Emma.

Some messages really make me shake my head and roll my eyes.

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By *ulldog_71Man  over a year ago

Sedgefield

I don't understand why they bother whats wrong with a simple introduction and a nice compliment and see how the conversation goes.

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By *empest2KMan  over a year ago

Derby


"Please excuse the whine but I feel this needs saying

I'm aware we can't discuss messages so I'm risking a ban

But why do men think its acceptable to send a first message, full of what they want to do to a woman, some of it being violent end of kink

I'm not kink shaming, each to their own and all that. But check its welcome.

Cos frankly, if anyone tried the stuff I've been messaged lately, they would come off a lot worse.

Gents, know your audience "

I'm baffled how anyone even considers sending stuff like that, especially in the first message, but maybe that's just me and my naivety. My first message is usually consists of a self introduction and some bits I've gleaned from the recipient's profile, along with one of my face pics.

Of course, I like to know my audience, and I'm respectful enough to avoid contacting anyone looking for something I'm not.

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Because they are trying to recreate what they see in porn.

Fab is about making sexual fantasy come true for most

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

My messages are always polite. There's no need for uncouth behaviour

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By *tephanjMan  over a year ago

Kettering

I would never dream if sending kinky messages, when it's the first message very uncalled for

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By *oofy321Man  over a year ago

moon base zero

I would guess that the actual message content is their kink

More to do saying it and not actually doing it

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By *ultured Gent16Man  over a year ago

close.

Sounds like you’re getting some properly disrespectful messages.

You can report things to admin.

As per usual.

Some guys making life harder than it has to be for others.

I apologise on behalf of all respectful men.

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By *4bimMan  over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Use message filters and block men.

Then you are in control of who gets to message you.

And if they turn out to be a jerk block them.

The site has controls in place to make this an enjoyable experience.

Granted not everyone will behave but you can help your situation by using filters.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get messages like that but I just block them and move on. It's not always pleasant but then not everyone is pleasant. If your really hating it you can block single guys and look for them yourself. I haven't blocked them because I'm pretty lazy

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"Use message filters and block men.

Then you are in control of who gets to message you.

And if they turn out to be a jerk block them.

The site has controls in place to make this an enjoyable experience.

Granted not everyone will behave but you can help your situation by using filters.

Good luck "

Very much this. Take more control by using the options on here. It might not stop them completely but you can be in charge of your narrative here.

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