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Your definition of "swinger"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've seen a lot of posts about "genuine swingers" lately or lack thereof. Are you a genuine swinger? Do you think Fab is over run by frauds? Shall singles be banned and the swinging just be left to couples? What about the ones wanting single guys? Are we only swingers if we full swap every weekend at a club or in a hotel? Do we need to be regulars at our local club to count?
What is the check list to be classed as a genuine swinger and do you fit the bill?
I'm a fraud btw for anyone wanting to know 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t think people should be penalised for being single, they can’t control that. The amount of couples that play separately, they should be banned by the same rules.
Swinging has different meanings for different people. If people are having fun, what does it matter |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve never been a swinger. I wouldn’t be a swinger (in that I wouldn’t happily share my partner). But I was here for the casual sex. And that worked when I wanted it.
But it turns out that for me, casual sex is over rated. And I wouldn’t have discovered that without Fab. I do chat to some lovely folk though, so I’ll not be leaving. |
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I have to be honest I don't understand it at all . I've vast experience with women and training subs and cpls and other doms and domies and poly lifestyle
But no experience of the swingers lifestyle or clubs . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People's definition of swinging varies depending on experiences and preferences so you'll never get a definitive answer...
I do think the concept of swinging being something only couples do is outdated as people's relationship dynamic changes, not everyone wants to be part of a couple but do want to indulge in the lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"all i know is:
couples and single women can be swingers but single men cannot.
everytime i see that its a couple saying it, who were at one point ( thats right!) single."
Yeah I've seen a lot of this too. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there's anything that needs banning around here, it's the word "genuine".
Or at least it should be restricted to those who can use it responsibly. Words *mean* things!"
I feel a bit bad now because I think I use the word "genuinely" for emphasis waaaaaaaaay to much on here   |
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I don't know what the definition is, but fairly sure I'd not meet it.
Over on SC, there's a thread running which suggests it's linked to going to clubs, which would mean the location of the sex you're having (or not!) is the basis of being awarded swinger status... |
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Yeah and probably a bit polyamorous and demisexual.
I'd say in modern usage swingers are people who share their partner sexually, or who have sex with partners that share.
All just labels in the end. |
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"If there's anything that needs banning around here, it's the word "genuine".
Or at least it should be restricted to those who can use it responsibly. Words *mean* things!
I feel a bit bad now because I think I use the word "genuinely" for emphasis waaaaaaaaay to much on here "
I think you know what it means though   |
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"Didn't join Fab because I thought I was a swinger (I'm not), I just thought there might be people here who were more open sexually. "
This is genuinely the same as me, good friend of mine recommended it to me she said I needed get laid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there's anything that needs banning around here, it's the word "genuine".
Or at least it should be restricted to those who can use it responsibly. Words *mean* things!
I feel a bit bad now because I think I use the word "genuinely" for emphasis waaaaaaaaay to much on here
I think you know what it means though "
Oh I definitely get what you mean. Those who think being "genuine" stands them above others who don't feel the need to state as it should be a given. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I mention the word swinger in conversation most seem to have the view of couples putting keys into the bowl and it been a free for all.
As for do I consider myself a swinger, God no, I could wrote a book how not to be a swinger. We are over 3 months into the year and I've had sex once this year lol
Thankfully to be on this site don't have to hit a certain number of rides a year |
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"If I mention the word swinger in conversation most seem to have the view of couples putting keys into the bowl and it been a free for all.
As for do I consider myself a swinger, God no, I could wrote a book how not to be a swinger. We are over 3 months into the year and I've had sex once this year lol
Thankfully to be on this site don't have to hit a certain number of rides a year "
I'm still at a big fat zero
I do consider myself a swinger, but I suppose those who would impose a purity test would say that other life shit shouldn't get in the way of putting out. |
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I don't class myself as a swinger as I joined to explore the previously unexplored.
It's a hobby not a lifestyle and is way down my list of priorities and in some people's minds I shouldn't be here for those reasons alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm single so I guess I'm not technically a swinger.
I like couples and singles so whilst I'm here I will play. This is a distraction for me though , it's rather a low priority. I'm a busy lady but I love fab always have done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really not sure what defines a swinger but I don’t think we’re it to be honest. We’re just here to enjoy ourselves and to meet amazing people, this seems to be the place for that |
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