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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?
And why?
Winks?
Messages?
Friend Requests?
Who's fabbed you?
Who's looked at you?
Who's nearby?
Who's online?
Updates?
The forum?
Hot Pics?
New profiles?
New pics?
Or something else?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?
And why?
Winks?
Messages?
Friend Requests?
Who's fabbed you?
Who's looked at you?
Who's nearby?
Who's online?
Updates?
The forum?
Hot Pics?
New profiles?
New pics?
Or something else?
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You forgot Wanking  |
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"Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?
And why?
Winks?
Messages?
Friend Requests?
Who's fabbed you?
Who's looked at you?
Who's nearby?
Who's online?
Updates?
The forum?
Hot Pics?
New profiles?
New pics?
Or something else?
You forgot Wanking "
That falls under the ‘something else’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no idea, I'll view someone random, then view who they've met, then who they'v met and so on and so on until I land on someone I kinda like.
Sometimes I look on who's looked at me and think ohhh he's hot, but he hasn't messaged so he obviously doesn't feel the same. So I just spare myself the rejection and perv quietly.
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"I have no idea, I'll view someone random, then view who they've met, then who they'v met and so on and so on until I land on someone I kinda like.
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Fabs version of the Spotify rabbit hole I find myself in quite often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Searching profiles always seems to end up being a dead end for me, anyone I'm interested in doesn't seem to be interested in me (believe me I've tried all sorts of approaches when sending a first message)
Looking at who's viewed me is pretty pointless as they would've more likely gotten in touch if they liked what they saw
Fabbed pics just means they like what they see, doesn't mean they want to me to message them
I've only ever had one wink (yup, just one and that did result in a meet last summer)
I don't really bother looking at anything else on the site
What has worked for me in terms of making a connection is starting a convo in PMs with another forumite who knows me going off some thread we are commenting on at the time, sadly no meets from but that's mostly due to expenses as everyone who I've shared a mutual interest in meeting with lives fecking miles away |
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I search certain words in usernames firstly, then I'll send a wink and a message if I like him and see if he replies
Secondly is status update fishing. I use carefully tailored sentences and innuendos to see who responds correctly
Thirdly is pulling at socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stopped ‘looking’ a long time ago.
I find I’m more likely to be attracted to people I get talking to, because there’s a reason we end up talking, we have something in common which is hard to find any other way.
It’s amazing how the heat starts to rise when you get to know them, and you know their desires… and it matches what you want to share with them.
You can’t feel that by a wink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of the above. I just cross my fingers and hope that someone I like messages. We’re never in a rush to meet anyone so waiting for someone to come along has worked out well for us so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no idea, I'll view someone random, then view who they've met, then who they'v met and so on and so on until I land on someone I kinda like.
Sometimes I look on who's looked at me and think ohhh he's hot, but he hasn't messaged so he obviously doesn't feel the same. So I just spare myself the rejection and perv quietly.
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Omg this is exactly what I do too!! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've never actively looked. I find that things arise almost organically for me, whether that's through the fora or a message that catches my attention at the right time.
So those two but I'm not really looking for people as such. Staying open and curious but also, just seeing what happens. |
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I can’t remember the last time I actively searched for and messaged someone.
I’m mainly here for the forums now and usually find myself messaging some poor, deluded soul who liked something I posted. |
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For me, it's primarily messages. If I receive a message that is interesting, then I'll look at the profile to see what else he has to say and how he says it. I rarely remember to check winks and I ignore friend requests unless it's someone I'm already chatting to and I'm comfortable with him seeing my private pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?
And why?
Winks?
Messages?
Friend Requests?
Who's fabbed you?
Who's looked at you?
Who's nearby?
Who's online?
Updates?
The forum?
Hot Pics?
New profiles?
New pics?
Or something else?
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Who is nearby. No idea who looks at me and don't get that much attention that way so just check who I think would most likely be interested/who I find interesting nearby and have a look/send a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forums mostly.
Damn. That’s a glamorous profile pic. 
When I wanna do glam I don’t fuck about "
I noticed.
I better up my bloody game in here.
Nice photo.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually just check the forum, if I see something interesting posted than I check the profile, if I like what I see, usually Dm the person, sometimes I get reply sometimes not. |
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Haven't sent a first contact message in more than 3 years and haven't used the search function in even longer.
I don't look at hotpics and don't send winks or friends requests to people I've never spoken to.
I post randomly on the forums and if people like what they read they usually get on touch to say so.
If they don't like what they read they usually block and move on to someone who does catch their eye.
I know I'm not actively looking or meeting for the foreseeable future for personal reasons but even when I am, that's the only approach I take. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve. 
I wait in earnest "
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster "
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not really sure I actively look. I tend to just wander the forums, cross my fingers and see what happens
Crossed fingers worked at times 
And other times not so much  "
There just pricks then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours "
Uh huh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours
Uh huh "
You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours
Uh huh
You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty "
Ditto for me mwah ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours
Uh huh
You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty
Ditto for me mwah ha ha "
Hi, I'm Ditto |
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zWhen I was meeting I'd sort through my messages and browse profiles. I never used the forums. In all the years I've been here I've met very few people from the forums (apart from at socials,) there's a whole website here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours
Uh huh
You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty
Ditto for me mwah ha ha
Hi, I'm Ditto "
You said you were Cookie?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours
Uh huh
You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty
Ditto for me mwah ha ha
Hi, I'm Ditto
You said you were Cookie? "
Cookie is my morning name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours
Uh huh
You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty
Ditto for me mwah ha ha
Hi, I'm Ditto
You said you were Cookie?
Cookie is my morning name "
...backs away slowly... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.
I wait in earnest
Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster
Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours
Uh huh
You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty
Ditto for me mwah ha ha
Hi, I'm Ditto
You said you were Cookie?
Cookie is my morning name
...backs away slowly... "
I glad I still have that effect, for one moment I thought I'd lost my unique talent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take a butchers at the local wildlife, see if there's anyone interesting to Perve. A quick look at my hotlist before moving onto the forums and I select 3 topics to peruse. Almost never use the search, they nowhere to find me if they want me. |
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I feel if your a Joe average it's pointless msging , winking. 99.9% of the time you don't get a response, even a polite bugger off. I understand the reasons why. I figure if someone likes me they will let me know. |
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