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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not regularly.
Far from it.
Never been ghosted.
But this year I had the pleasure of experiencing a date being cancelled (fair enough, it was mutual) to then find out it wasn't because of reasons we'd discussed. It was because they wanted to meet someone else more than me.
It stung a bit. Quite a bit. I remember excitedly starting to plan, looking forward to it as a final distraction before a very important and scary hospital appointment. You know, the chance to be a woman who is desired, dress up, have fun and a laugh before something that could have been really life changing. I guess a chance to be normal once more.
And then realising it wasn't happening.
And then finding out someone else was a better choice.
It's the first time it's happened to me. Ever. And not an experience I'm in a hurry to repeat. Ever again.
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"Not regularly.
Far from it.
Never been ghosted.
But this year I had the pleasure of experiencing a date being cancelled (fair enough, it was mutual) to then find out it wasn't because of reasons we'd discussed. It was because they wanted to meet someone else more than me.
It stung a bit. Quite a bit. I remember excitedly starting to plan, looking forward to it as a final distraction before a very important and scary hospital appointment. You know, the chance to be a woman who is desired, dress up, have fun and a laugh before something that could have been really life changing. I guess a chance to be normal once more.
And then realising it wasn't happening.
And then finding out someone else was a better choice.
It's the first time it's happened to me. Ever. And not an experience I'm in a hurry to repeat. Ever again.
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Horrible behaviour to another human bean. The irony is, your prospective partner probably didn’t even hit it off with their intended.
I hope they realised that’s not how you treat people and won’t do it to any other women. |
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"Not regularly.
Far from it.
Never been ghosted.
But this year I had the pleasure of experiencing a date being cancelled (fair enough, it was mutual) to then find out it wasn't because of reasons we'd discussed. It was because they wanted to meet someone else more than me.
It stung a bit. Quite a bit. I remember excitedly starting to plan, looking forward to it as a final distraction before a very important and scary hospital appointment. You know, the chance to be a woman who is desired, dress up, have fun and a laugh before something that could have been really life changing. I guess a chance to be normal once more.
And then realising it wasn't happening.
And then finding out someone else was a better choice.
It's the first time it's happened to me. Ever. And not an experience I'm in a hurry to repeat. Ever again.
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Oh Meli, sorry to hear that.
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I'm sorry to hear this OP. I hope there were genuine and compelling reasons around this.
I've been quite fortunate and never experienced this. Intuition, gut feel and the fact that I (mostly but not exclusively) chat for weeks or months before meeting could be my saving grace. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Can't say I actually have dates from off fab so none. As it stands I've never been ghosted ot cancelled on...but then I'm fucking amazing  "
I'll ghost you harder than a Scooby Doo episode |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Not regularly.
Far from it.
Never been ghosted.
But this year I had the pleasure of experiencing a date being cancelled (fair enough, it was mutual) to then find out it wasn't because of reasons we'd discussed. It was because they wanted to meet someone else more than me.
It stung a bit. Quite a bit. I remember excitedly starting to plan, looking forward to it as a final distraction before a very important and scary hospital appointment. You know, the chance to be a woman who is desired, dress up, have fun and a laugh before something that could have been really life changing. I guess a chance to be normal once more.
And then realising it wasn't happening.
And then finding out someone else was a better choice.
It's the first time it's happened to me. Ever. And not an experience I'm in a hurry to repeat. Ever again.
Horrible behaviour to another human bean. The irony is, your prospective partner probably didn’t even hit it off with their intended.
I hope they realised that’s not how you treat people and won’t do it to any other women."
Oh it's fine, really. They're not a bad person. Far from it. I still think they're brilliant. They'd rather spend time with someone else and that's fair. I'm not the *best* of company. Not particularly sexy.
I think it hurt more because of how excitedly I'd spoken about wearing red lipstick and heels and needing it to stop me dwelling on health stuff.
Hey ho! I'm focusing on being better. More desirable company. Hopefully people will see I'm not too bad.  |
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"Not regularly.
Far from it.
Never been ghosted.
But this year I had the pleasure of experiencing a date being cancelled (fair enough, it was mutual) to then find out it wasn't because of reasons we'd discussed. It was because they wanted to meet someone else more than me.
It stung a bit. Quite a bit. I remember excitedly starting to plan, looking forward to it as a final distraction before a very important and scary hospital appointment. You know, the chance to be a woman who is desired, dress up, have fun and a laugh before something that could have been really life changing. I guess a chance to be normal once more.
And then realising it wasn't happening.
And then finding out someone else was a better choice.
It's the first time it's happened to me. Ever. And not an experience I'm in a hurry to repeat. Ever again.
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Oh wow, that’s some proper cunthousery  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve not experienced this. However. I have had the misfortune of a guy legging it “to get something out of his car” after he’d cum, only never to return. Although he still had the cheek to message me on WhatsApp for years after for another meet.
In that instance I’d rather he had ghosted me rather than me thinking he’d parked his car in a different town and had walked there via Scotland.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it keeps happening to you, it's probably worth re-evaluating how you go about things "
Yeah I wondered if it was me. But I'm no different now than I was a few months ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks like I've been let down today .
It happens it's extremely annoying but hey ho. "
Will never understand someone who cancels last minute! Generally you know in advance unless it’s an (unlikely) emergency |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's no avoiding it on here, that's why I don't meet anymore. Even the so called 'good guys' bail, its exhausting to say the least."
Exhausting is a good word for it x |
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Not regularly but it happens.
Cancelling is fine to me. I wouldn't want someone to meet for any other reason than they wanted to, obviously more notice is better. Same applies for me.
The limbo state of I want to meet but... That can be a problem, if it drags out, because of course at some point attentions and feelings will shift. That's just human.
Sometimes these things are about timing, rather than anything personal.
Ghosting meh lol... I got submarined after year, a few weeks back. I couldn't tell you who ghosted who ??. We were both laughing about it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I totally agree it’s suddenly worse this year!
I should be out on a meet right now, after chatting for several days, but she cancelled suddenly last night and ghosted.
Oh well, it’s her loss "
Same! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry to hear this OP. I hope there were genuine and compelling reasons around this.
I've been quite fortunate and never experienced this. Intuition, gut feel and the fact that I (mostly but not exclusively) chat for weeks or months before meeting could be my saving grace. "
There's always a reason... one woman had 6 in a row lol |
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Going through a phase of being ghosted. Some I had been talking with for a long time and even met several times. To me it's just wank talk and then reality hits and they can't do it, for different reasons. |
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"Can't say I actually have dates from off fab so none. As it stands I've never been ghosted ot cancelled on...but then I'm fucking amazing "
Fabulous daaaaarrrling! Haha
PS I think i've been ghosted by Casper though! Pretty sure he gave me wet willies when i'm sleeping.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty regularly. I find that hard to believe and I wonder if you read that with sarcasm. "
I read everything with sarcasm.
But its actually the truth. For once. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Pretty regularly. I find that hard to believe and I wonder if you read that with sarcasm.
I read everything with sarcasm.
But its actually the truth. For once. "
I was being sincere, I do find that hard to believe.
Don't get use to me being sincere though. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes. It happens.
I hardly ever plan anything with anyone now because I'm pretty certain it would happen again."
Easier said than done, very much so. Try and not let past experiences prevent you from having future ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty regularly. I find that hard to believe and I wonder if you read that with sarcasm.
I read everything with sarcasm.
But its actually the truth. For once. I was being sincere, I do find that hard to believe.
Don't get use to me being sincere though."
You are male, so therefore I never would. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"...Oh Meli, sorry to hear that.
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Oh, save your pathos for those who are more deserving! Mèlí is made of stronger stuff, the battle-hardended wench.  "
Wench. I'm biting. Wench. Ha, thank you Nerolatte. |
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"...Oh Meli, sorry to hear that.
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Oh, save your pathos for those who are more deserving! Mèlí is made of stronger stuff, the battle-hardended wench.
Wench. I'm biting. Wench. Ha, thank you Nerolatte. "
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SëxPøt. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"If it keeps happening to you, it's probably worth re-evaluating how you go about things "
totally agree with this .... i cant remember the last time i was let down
and your not being ghost your pmly ghost when you know the person well ie long term friends or relationship ... people stop chatting because they can they owr you nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most weekends for me , I could be chatting for weeks, arrange a meet then about 15 mins before due either ghosted or profile disappeared,I've been on here a few year's and before lockdown it was rare now it's quite frequent and annoying |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Pretty regularly. I find that hard to believe and I wonder if you read that with sarcasm.
I read everything with sarcasm.
But its actually the truth. For once. I was being sincere, I do find that hard to believe.
Don't get use to me being sincere though.
You are male, so therefore I never would. "
Just take the compliment, it's not easy being nice, I have a attitude to maintain.
Hand on heart, I do find it strange that anybody would ghost you or not turn up for a date, social or any other meeting with you, therefore, they are the ones that have lost out as you seem to be fun, not in a sexual way but someone who can have some banter with you are very attractive,it is their loss.
Now, can I get back to my life of sarcasm, and meaningless comments. |
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"I was chatting with a lady for a bit with a view to an FF meet. I shared a face pic and was ghosted. Stung a little.
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I’d still do you "
You haven't seen my face yet. Or are you a paper bag sort. 
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"I was chatting with a lady for a bit with a view to an FF meet. I shared a face pic and was ghosted. Stung a little.
J
I’d still do you
You haven't seen my face yet. Or are you a paper bag sort.
J"
Two. One for me, one for you. Can’t take any chances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many get ghosted or cancelled on regularly. I'm going through a spell of it. Before this year I hadn't really experienced it. "
It's shite when it happens
I had a guy cancel on me as I was leaving my hotel room to meet him, he was honest at least and said he was meeting someone else...
Ironically he messaged an hour later to say she never turned up, and was I still available....
Absolutely not, I had a sure thing offer - by that time I was back in bed with a Chinese takeaway and the telly remote 
I'm no one's second Best and I hope it was a lesson to him |
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"How many get ghosted or cancelled on regularly. I'm going through a spell of it. Before this year I hadn't really experienced it.
It's shite when it happens
I had a guy cancel on me as I was leaving my hotel room to meet him, he was honest at least and said he was meeting someone else...
Ironically he messaged an hour later to say she never turned up, and was I still available....
Absolutely not, I had a sure thing offer - by that time I was back in bed with a Chinese takeaway and the telly remote
I'm no one's second Best and I hope it was a lesson to him "
Idiot. He should have been beating a path to your door |
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"I was chatting with a lady for a bit with a view to an FF meet. I shared a face pic and was ghosted. Stung a little.
J"
That's always rough isn't it.
Send the pic.
Message opened.
Radio silence for half an hour.
Then they fuck off into the sunset. |
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"I was chatting with a lady for a bit with a view to an FF meet. I shared a face pic and was ghosted. Stung a little.
J
That's always rough isn't it.
Send the pic.
Message opened.
Radio silence for half an hour.
Then they fuck off into the sunset. "
You learn to shrug that off |
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"I was chatting with a lady for a bit with a view to an FF meet. I shared a face pic and was ghosted. Stung a little.
J
That's always rough isn't it.
Send the pic.
Message opened.
Radio silence for half an hour.
Then they fuck off into the sunset. "
Ooft.. Thats only happened to me once. They not onlu ghosted BUT blocked me too. I was mortified to say the least |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many get ghosted or cancelled on regularly. I'm going through a spell of it. Before this year I hadn't really experienced it. "
A guy had earlier commented on such things that he was the same , he was dealing with Timewasters and Ghosters.and his thread was removed.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say I actually have dates from off fab so none. As it stands I've never been ghosted ot cancelled on...but then I'm fucking amazing
I'll ghost you harder than a Scooby Doo episode "
Don't bring Scrappy along with as he is a cunt that ruined it  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Can't say I actually have dates from off fab so none. As it stands I've never been ghosted ot cancelled on...but then I'm fucking amazing
I'll ghost you harder than a Scooby Doo episode
Don't bring Scrappy along with as he is a cunt that ruined it "
I'm bringing Scrappy and leaving him with you - had enough of the yappy bugger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the one thing guaranteed.
people will let you down in life.
confusion reigns supreme Lot's of fake people around that's life. Lol  "
Nope, I'm 100% certain that all my work colleagues exist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s happened a lot recently. I’ve now stopped any meets due to the time and effort wasted.
I meet in a local club, if they don’t turn up it’s no big loss now. |
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"the one thing guaranteed.
people will let you down in life.
confusion reigns supreme Lot's of fake people around that's life. Lol
Nope, I'm 100% certain that all my work colleagues exist "
Oh think i got confused . Com blonde moments do happen. Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the one thing guaranteed.
people will let you down in life.
confusion reigns supreme Lot's of fake people around that's life. Lol
Nope, I'm 100% certain that all my work colleagues exist Oh think i got confused . Com blonde moments do happen. Haha "
Wrong thread for memory issues |
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"the one thing guaranteed.
people will let you down in life.
confusion reigns supreme Lot's of fake people around that's life. Lol
Nope, I'm 100% certain that all my work colleagues exist Oh think i got confused . Com blonde moments do happen. Haha
Wrong thread for memory issues "
That would be your thread golden oldies. Haha Still lots of fakes around in regards to this thread |
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We once had someone cancel on us half an hour before we were due to meet. He knew we had booked a hotel for us and travelled an hour or so..upside was we were near to Chams Darlaston and ended up having a great night there. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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i would like to think most do not intend to ghost but just get overcome with nerves.
of course the answer is to contact in advance and say so which is no consolation if youve been looking forward to it |
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"We once had someone cancel on us half an hour before we were due to meet. He knew we had booked a hotel for us and travelled an hour or so..upside was we were near to Chams Darlaston and ended up having a great night there."
There's a lot of fantasists out in the wild |
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over a year ago
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"We once had someone cancel on us half an hour before we were due to meet. He knew we had booked a hotel for us and travelled an hour or so..upside was we were near to Chams Darlaston and ended up having a great night there."
That really sucks! |
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"We once had someone cancel on us half an hour before we were due to meet. He knew we had booked a hotel for us and travelled an hour or so..upside was we were near to Chams Darlaston and ended up having a great night there.
That really sucks!"
We had chatted for ages before agreeing to meet..his loss. It's part of the reason we prefer to meet at Chams then the evening is never wasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the one thing guaranteed.
people will let you down in life.
confusion reigns supreme Lot's of fake people around that's life. Lol
Nope, I'm 100% certain that all my work colleagues exist Oh think i got confused . Com blonde moments do happen. Haha
Wrong thread for memory issues That would be your thread golden oldies. Haha Still lots of fakes around in regards to this thread "
Who you calling oldie!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get ghosted so often that yesterday after being left on unread for 24 hours I assumed todays date had ghosted and I made other plans. Ensuring a rather awkward conversation when he finally answered and assumed we were still meeting.
I had a fabulous evening drinking bubbles with a friend but it could have been more fun. I think I’m quite jaded by fab now. |
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I've never experienced a no show in 6 years or been one and I've never been ghosted so I don't agree with anyone saying that it happens to all of us as it's pretty obvious from many other threads that I'm not unique.
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"I get ghosted so often that yesterday after being left on unread for 24 hours I assumed todays date had ghosted and I made other plans. Ensuring a rather awkward conversation when he finally answered and assumed we were still meeting.
I had a fabulous evening drinking bubbles with a friend but it could have been more fun. I think I’m quite jaded by fab now."
You getting ghosted, are the men of fab fucking crazy nuts or what |
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"I get ghosted so often that yesterday after being left on unread for 24 hours I assumed todays date had ghosted and I made other plans. Ensuring a rather awkward conversation when he finally answered and assumed we were still meeting.
I had a fabulous evening drinking bubbles with a friend but it could have been more fun. I think I’m quite jaded by fab now."
What a moron! (Him, not you )
If I wasn’t dying on my sofa I’d offer to buy you a capri sun and a cherry bakewell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had been speaking to someone about a month and we were going to meet then couldnt make it
Then she said possible after this Thuraday gone and noticed she met someone else.
So it was not solid but doeant feel great all the same
Think I maybe to sensitive to rejection for this world. |
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"I get ghosted so often that yesterday after being left on unread for 24 hours I assumed todays date had ghosted and I made other plans. Ensuring a rather awkward conversation when he finally answered and assumed we were still meeting.
I had a fabulous evening drinking bubbles with a friend but it could have been more fun. I think I’m quite jaded by fab now.
What a moron! (Him, not you )
If I wasn’t dying on my sofa I’d offer to buy you a capri sun and a cherry bakewell "
I bloody love Capri Sun |
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"I get ghosted so often that yesterday after being left on unread for 24 hours I assumed todays date had ghosted and I made other plans. Ensuring a rather awkward conversation when he finally answered and assumed we were still meeting.
I had a fabulous evening drinking bubbles with a friend but it could have been more fun. I think I’m quite jaded by fab now.
You getting ghosted, are the men of fab fucking crazy nuts or what "
It’s like it on dating sites, I think people forgot how to be decent humans during the pandemic. |
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"I get ghosted so often that yesterday after being left on unread for 24 hours I assumed todays date had ghosted and I made other plans. Ensuring a rather awkward conversation when he finally answered and assumed we were still meeting.
I had a fabulous evening drinking bubbles with a friend but it could have been more fun. I think I’m quite jaded by fab now.
What a moron! (Him, not you )
If I wasn’t dying on my sofa I’d offer to buy you a capri sun and a cherry bakewell
I bloody love Capri Sun "
Phew! I do get slightly more sophisticated but Panda Pops are my limit. I’m all about the class. |
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"I get ghosted so often that yesterday after being left on unread for 24 hours I assumed todays date had ghosted and I made other plans. Ensuring a rather awkward conversation when he finally answered and assumed we were still meeting.
I had a fabulous evening drinking bubbles with a friend but it could have been more fun. I think I’m quite jaded by fab now.
You getting ghosted, are the men of fab fucking crazy nuts or what
It’s like it on dating sites, I think people forgot how to be decent humans during the pandemic."
Not all some still have respect integrity and dignity....there still fucking mad in my opinion |
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Ghosted after arranging a meet, ghosted after a meet, ghosted and they see they met someone else, cancelled on and cancelled on and see they met someone else, think I fill the bingo card on them when I was single. Used to sting but then it just became water off a ducks back
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not regularly.
Far from it.
Never been ghosted.
But this year I had the pleasure of experiencing a date being cancelled (fair enough, it was mutual) to then find out it wasn't because of reasons we'd discussed. It was because they wanted to meet someone else more than me.
It stung a bit. Quite a bit. I remember excitedly starting to plan, looking forward to it as a final distraction before a very important and scary hospital appointment. You know, the chance to be a woman who is desired, dress up, have fun and a laugh before something that could have been really life changing. I guess a chance to be normal once more.
And then realising it wasn't happening.
And then finding out someone else was a better choice.
It's the first time it's happened to me. Ever. And not an experience I'm in a hurry to repeat. Ever again.
Horrible behaviour to another human bean. The irony is, your prospective partner probably didn’t even hit it off with their intended.
I hope they realised that’s not how you treat people and won’t do it to any other women.
Oh it's fine, really. They're not a bad person. Far from it. I still think they're brilliant. They'd rather spend time with someone else and that's fair. I'm not the *best* of company. Not particularly sexy.
I think it hurt more because of how excitedly I'd spoken about wearing red lipstick and heels and needing it to stop me dwelling on health stuff.
Hey ho! I'm focusing on being better. More desirable company. Hopefully people will see I'm not too bad. "
I'm sorry you were made to feel like this- but however you dress it up, it is still fundamentally shitty behaviour from that other person who let you down. For what it's worth, I think your profile is great and you seem witty, down to earth and you look so sexy. If we were closer, I'd definitely love us to get to know each other better and perhaps meet for coffee and a chat...there are people out there who will worship the ground you walk on, and they will be worth waiting for
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shit happens. Shitty people happen! Dodged a bullet is my perspective. No second chances.
I rarely meet because my sensitive constitution cant take rejection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recently got ghosted myself... messaging went fine, even arranged a social, which she then re-scheduled... Then nothing....
I guess she'd went back to Specsavers, and got her glasses corrected.... |
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