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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest...

About a year ago I did a similar thread about a friend who would often forget about her annual screening.

Last week I bumped into a colleague who, during a coffee chat, candidly remarked that she had been chased by her GP to follow up on her cervical screening test.

Do you also delay or sometimes 'forget'? Do you leave it too late?

Do you prefer to take someone with you as a chaperone during the appointment?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As with most things, it's finding the time.

I also tend to prioritise other people in my life other than myself.

I know I know.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I always go and always have. I never take anyone with me, it's normally been done by a woman anyway.

I've always encouraged our daughter to go too.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Oh!

So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof.

I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted.

I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good.

I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Oh!

So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof.

I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted.

I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good.

I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted."

Two women in there, blimey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After having Cin3 cells removed a few years ago I never miss a cervical screening. A few minutes out of your day once every three years can save so much trouble in the future

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve never had a chaperone and never delayed or missed one. Good thing too, I had two lots of severe dyskaryosis (CIN 3). Both treated with LLETZ under general anaesthetic. Had 4 clear years then it returned so had my cervix removed as part of a hysterectomy last month

GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Am always up-to-date with screening, won't being before my manograms start as well

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

I never, ever delay.

I had a major cancer scare many years ago, within 18 months of a smear test. If I had ignored it, I would have been in trouble.

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

I get mine done as soon as it's due! I and friends have had results come back needing follow ups so not worth the risk.

I don't like the fact they have increased the age to 25 either

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES

You know what, I reckon if it was talked about in these terms more frequently more people would go.

I'm sorry for what you've experienced

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

It's not fun, I always bleed due to having a weird cervix - I can't remember the medical term. But I always book when I get the reminder. A few minutes of mortification is so much better than the possible outcome of not doing it.

Thanks for reminding everyone Nero

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"I never, ever delay.

I had a major cancer scare many years ago, within 18 months of a smear test. If I had ignored it, I would have been in trouble. "

CIN3, as with other ladies here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES

You know what, I reckon if it was talked about in these terms more frequently more people would go.

I'm sorry for what you've experienced "

Thank you

I bang on about it on faceache like that, taking the stigma away helps I think!

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Oh!

So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof.

I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted.

I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good.

I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted.

Two women in there, blimey

Ha, yeah. She's a hussy.

I'm glad though, it's one of those things that you really need to keep on top of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES

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By *ickshawedCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I had mine about 10 days ago. I never put them off. But it's handy I'm ok to book appointments during work time.

I have never asked for a chaperone. I did get the fun of a student nurse watching this time. It was quick, painless, and just one of those things that needs doing. No worse than going to the dentist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do like to take my husband because he buys me hot chocolate afterwards. I'm sure I could maybe get some jewellery out of him next time.

However, I do get a little nervous going. Not because of having a nurse fondle me but because of all the trauma I've had. (I'm so sorry to my meets - however I can not fund your therapy). I feel like I've had 100s of cervical and vulva checks and/or procedures throughout pregnancy and beyond.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES

You know what, I reckon if it was talked about in these terms more frequently more people would go.

I'm sorry for what you've experienced

Thank you

I bang on about it on faceache like that, taking the stigma away helps I think!"

Oh absolutely.

I wish they'd put things like this on the side of buses etc. Just demystify the whole thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

A friend and I were chatting about this last week. Both her daughters are very prudish, lord alone knows why she's the least prudish person I've ever encountered. Neither of them have ever had a cervical screening.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve never had a chaperone and never delayed or missed one. Good thing too, I had two lots of severe dyskaryosis (CIN 3). Both treated with LLETZ under general anaesthetic. Had 4 clear years then it returned so had my cervix removed as part of a hysterectomy last month

GET YA FANNIES CHECKED LADIES

I had the LLETZ procedure too, but with a local anaesthetic. All been fine since then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had mine thanks, last week. Fingers crossed my results are OK.

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m all up to date. I don’t find them too bad, just deep breaths and relax, over and done with quickly. Having been the other person down the other end many times, it really is nothing, seen many vaginas and there’s nothing to be embarrassed about

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

"Oh!

So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof.

I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted.

I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good.

I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted.

Two women in there, blimey

Ha, yeah. She's a hussy.

I'm glad though, it's one of those things that you really need to keep on top of."

your friend had two women in her foof ??! she’s definitely a hussy

And Nerolicious I’m up to date after being late. It’s just such a palaver to book a doctor appointment for anything that it always takes weeks to remember to do it after getting the reminder in the post

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!"

Doing mine now, can you tell

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"...And Nerolicious I’m up to date after being late..."

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Terms of endearment such as these makes a thread worthwhile.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!"

If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"Oh!

So I was reminded I needed to book it in a few days ago by a friend talking about two women in her foof.

I've booked it in, as well as ordered a SH:24 kit. Might as well get the quim maintenance done and dusted.

I don't ask for a chaperone. I have a tilted cervix but the nurse who does it I've seen a few times over the years so she's really good.

I don't really delay. Forget? Yes. Then some conversation will remind me and I get it sorted."

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Well done ex-wife.

I shall remind you again next year.

#NationalHealthCervix

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!

If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping

Or if you do you’ll be landing in a puddle

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!

If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping

Or if you do you’ll be landing in a puddle

Of squirt. Sure some man on here would clean that up for you.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"I never, ever delay.

I had a major cancer scare many years ago, within 18 months of a smear test. If I had ignored it, I would have been in trouble. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll also jump on to remind everyone to do pelvic floor exercises!

If you haven't done them you certainly won't be jumping

Or if you do you’ll be landing in a puddle

Of squirt. Sure some man on here would clean that up for you.

They’re more than welcome to, saves me a job

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

Mine should be due this month actually, but not had an invite. I always go for mine, on my own. It's not easy for the person to find my cervix but it's fine in the end. I have chronic cervicitis and so it's actually quite uncomfortable when they take the sample, but much less uncomfortable than treatment for cancer. So I'll take the brief discomfort and post sample bleeding.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm up to date and never delay. Back when I was a youngster women could have smear tests as soon as they were sexually active. Imagine my shock when my first one back abnormal! I had 2 LLETZ procedures and for 4 years had 6 monthly checkups at the colposcopy clinic. If I'd had to wait until I was 25, as women do now, who knows how things would have turned out.

Nell

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I only have them every five years now. I don't know when I'm due the next one but always go when I get the reminder

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"I do like to take my husband because he buys me hot chocolate afterwards. I'm sure I could maybe get some jewellery out of him next time.

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I know it's a long way away (London, not your cervix), but there's a Screening Clinic next to Bond Street, Mayfair. Perhaps next time after your screening you could accidentally stumble into Tiffany™...?

Lucky husband.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Gave up having them probably 20 years ago! The doc at last one said if u have I think it was 7 not absoulutley sure on number clear ones u not likely to have positive she explained why at time but can't remember! I said ohh shall not come for any more! She said best to still have them! But never did! Think at my age they don't do routine ones anymore! They stop at 65 inviting u x

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By *andC1000Couple over a year ago

Ashford

Not worth putting off; always go for mine when I can especially after a couple of abnormal smears and family history of issues

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

I've never put off having it done as witnessed the devastating impact of cervical and gynaecological cancers.

Never required a chaperone as I've always had a female nurse so felt comfortable.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I go to mine whenever I get called especially as a close family member was and was diagnosed with endometrial cancer through a smear. She had a small bleed and went to get it checked straight away as her periods had stopped a few years previously she was very lucky cells were picked up from her womb in the smear test as her cancer was an aggressive type but was caught early. I didn't actually realise until then that a smear does only cover your cervix I thought it helped catch all cancer in your reproductive organs. She was lucky as the bleed is what made hers be picked up so please anyone who has a bleed that isn't normal get it checked out immediately it may be nothing but it may also save your life.

I've always had no issue going for smears alone. It doesn't embarrass me and I think a few minutes of discomfort is worth the chance of catching any changes early and giving a better chance of beating cancer.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've never put it off and have occasionally called to ask, as it seemed to be a long time between screening.

A female nurse does the test and I never had any discomfort or felt the need for a chaperone.

These checks are incredibly important and my trans son had his first cervical screening recently, with no problem.

Nita

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I've just received my text and letter so I'll book mine on Tuesday.

I never miss them or my mammograms.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I usually have a little chat with the nurse doing mine.

There's always something to talk about, like how hard it is to trim my pubes with a fat stomach in the way.

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By *isAdventure69Woman over a year ago

Hampshire

I did leave it late twice , once with consequences, the second time after a request for a repeat test, I left it 5 years … I just didn’t want to know .

Anyway I eventually had to bite the bullet due to an issue and wanting my coil removed (4 years after it’s best before date) and all was good, I’d made a whole nightmare scenario in my mind for nothing .

I go alone, I’m not worried by the test itself , it’s the result that I dread .

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By *sianflower77Woman over a year ago

Emerald City

As much as I detest the thought of getting my screening and the weird feeling once it’s being done I always go to my appointments. Rather struggle for a few minutes than have cancer.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Never missed a test - they saved my life.

J x

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman over a year ago

Markfield

I had to have a colposcopy after my last smear results and now have to go and get checked annually. Would happily have these extra checks than treatment for cervical cancer and I’ll continue to have checks & smear whilst I’m sexually active and for as long beyond as advice suggests.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I delayed my last smear BUT I did have it and it was perfectly fine. If I could just push myself to sort the mammogram...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit overdue with mine atm. Not intentionally but moving house didn't help and I've not registered with a GP where I live now. I don't get why anyone would intentionally avoid having them. They're really not a big deal.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Thank you all for your honest and open replies. Quite humbling really...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was always really good about going but unfortunately I had a lot of severe cells in my womb so I was advised to have a hysterectomy.

No it wasn't cancer it may have taken years to become it or never turn into it but it wasn't worth the risk.

Get checked ladies it's so important.

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By *uri00620Woman over a year ago

Croydon

I don't think there's a gynecological professional that hasn't seen my vag over the years, had plenty of probings so pretty relaxed about them.

One nurse did heat up the speculum first (which I've never noticed before) once upon a time and burnt me so I had to be given a cooling agent. You'd have thought she might have tested it first

Generally they're fine though, even if I always have to have 2 done bc they can never read the first set of results. That's annoying when you're trying to fit appointments around work etc

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By *cotCouple666Couple over a year ago

Central Belt

Got my reminder letter last week. I preferred it when they just made the appointment for you and sent the letter with your date and time. No avoiding it then. Yeah some folk could no-show, but I never miss an appointment for anything!

It's a daunting and uncomfortable process, but it needs to be done and is over in a few seconds. Getting a sweep when pregnant was much worse!

I haven't made my appointment yet, but I will, and I'll go alone as always. Last time the nurse told me I had a beautiful cervix

Whatever that means.

Beth x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How can I forget about it. I've been getting yearly checks for the last two years and will have to go again this year. Always worried about what else they're going to find

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"I don't think there's a gynecological professional that hasn't seen my vag over the years, had plenty of probings so pretty relaxed about them.

One nurse did heat up the speculum first (which I've never noticed before) once upon a time and burnt me so I had to be given a cooling agent. You'd have thought she might have tested it first

Generally they're fine though, even if I always have to have 2 done bc they can never read the first set of results. That's annoying when you're trying to fit appointments around work etc"

Aye. I'm tempted to move into the gynae clinic, because I go there so often

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By *entative_steps7781Couple over a year ago

Home

I have delayed having mine.

I know I need to have it, and I will, but it's my eldests birthday next weekend and have PTSD from her birth (and I only got diagnosed after my last smear threw me into a massive downward spiral) I always find that hard in some respects, so gonna get past that and will then book it in.

I know how important it is, but I am terrified that it gonna throw me back into that trauma state

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By *weety and BossCouple over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Working in Gynaecology I 100% never delay and in fact chase my GP for a date. It’s not something I’m

Prepared to miss ever. Get yourselves checked ladies always

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By *tM-TomMan over a year ago

London

As a trans man who hasn't had a hysterectomy, I make sure I go when it's time. I hate it, it hurts but I lost a friend to cervical cancer as she didn't ever have one. So that's who I think of. I'm lucky I go to same nurse each time and we share a joke or two.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"As a trans man who hasn't had a hysterectomy, I make sure I go when it's time. I hate it, it hurts but I lost a friend to cervical cancer as she didn't ever have one. So that's who I think of. I'm lucky I go to same nurse each time and we share a joke or two. "

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By *ighlandGirl14Woman over a year ago

Inverness

My first job was working in a GP surgery and the Nurse there absolutely drilled it into me how important getting my smear done was.

My very first smear was abnormal and in later years I had CIN3 cells found. It's something I always make sure I get done.

Anyone putting off/forgetting to book - this is your reminder to book it asap.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not actually sure when my next one is due, can't remember if it was 2 or 3 years after my last. Probably given me a kick up the bum to ring up and check though so thanks Nero.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't know why but wife loves having

It done

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Don't know why but wife loves having

It done "

She's probably thrilled to establish whether or not she has a cancer gnawing away at her reproductive organs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I need to book mine in.

My very first one they found severe changes and I had grade 4 CIN. Had to have loop excision so I know the importance of getting checked regularly

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think, like with a lot of things, the pandemic has messed with people’s schedules and memories. So a lot of women find themselves out of routine with smears in the same way lots of us all find ourselves a bit discombobulated with dental check-ups.

It’s never a bad time to get back on track. Those letters from the doctor are worth paying attention to. Who the fuck else sends a letter these days anyhow?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

My letter seems to have gone missing. I know my last smear was April 2020 (yes, I was very surprised to get it done then) but no reminder this far (and it's April 2023 now.....)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I need to check when mine is due. I always get mine done, not bothered by it. I've had one bad result and I was so glad I'd had it done.

My daughter is 25 next year and I'll be making sure she gets hers done if I have to drag her there myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do.

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By *weetkitten65Woman over a year ago

Halifax

It's potentially saved my life twice...so always have them & up to date..

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By *weetkitten65Woman over a year ago

Halifax

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. "

I want to go for cancer gene testing but have a distinct fear that I'll have the drs laugh in my face

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"Don't know why but wife loves having

It done "

I actually quite like the feeling of having it done. If there's any issues though, letz or loop excursion really really isn't anywhere near as pleasant, but obviously very necessary.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman over a year ago

Somewhere

This is the one thing I book as soon as I receive the letter. Never miss it as it is very important.

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By *urvyaliciousWoman over a year ago

Bradford

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do.

I want to go for cancer gene testing but have a distinct fear that I'll have the drs laugh in my face"

I’ve had cancer gene testing due to family history, if you have a family history your GP won’t laugh they’ll take it seriously. Because of mine I now have yearly smear tests and yearly mammograms, I was offered anti cancer drugs as well but I’m not one for taking tablets so I get checked regularly. Down side is I’m not allowed HRT for the menopause

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Always have mine, my 1st smear I was very lucky and caught it in time, several treatments and then the all clear (2 years later), ever since I've gone like clockwork.

Mrs

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By *uri00620Woman over a year ago

Croydon

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. "

Interesting. My doctor referred me on account of the amount of breast cancer in my family. Actually it was to have a mammogram. I got sent away from the hospital bc I was too young (35 at the time). They said they didn't know why I'd been referred (I mean my age must have been on my notes apart from anything else).

Not sure how I was too young, my mum died of breast cancer at 37 after getting it at 34. Maybe now it's a few years later I should follow this up.

I get that about cardiology too, I'd feel like that. But again weird that's not been flagged either..... :/

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had cancer in 2020 and since then I changed as much as possible to reduce risks like booking in for smear, stopped drinking, vaping stopped taking the pill, braca gene testing. Was so happy to have clear smear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have delayed having mine.

I know how important it is, but I am terrified that it gonna throw me back into that trauma state

Absolutely understand. I spoke to my doctor first who made me an appointment with the nurse just to talk through the smear then another one to actually do it. I was able to get through it trauma free

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had cancer in 2020 and since then I changed as much as possible to reduce risks like booking in for smear, stopped drinking, vaping stopped taking the pill, braca gene testing. Was so happy to have clear smear. "

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By *addyAWoman over a year ago

Beside the Seaside

I had mine done recently. The worst bit was having my height, weight and blood pressure done, too. On the up side, I’m still 5’6”

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do.

I want to go for cancer gene testing but have a distinct fear that I'll have the drs laugh in my face

I will stick it back on my to do list then, as having more regular tests is what I want as with my family genes I'm likely to be doomed by my 50s without them.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"I had mine done recently. The worst bit was having my height, weight and blood pressure done, too. On the up side, I’m still 5’6”

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More and more people are going for DEXA/Bone Density Scans to check for Osteopenia.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always go as soon as I get my letter for appointment as I've had a few friends diagnosed with cervical cancer and pre cancerous cells.

I go alone though

Always gives me huge anxiety as my first one was very painful x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few years ago, my friend did exactly that. She put it off and off until simething else flagged uo in her health. Wasbt quite the 40th birthday she imagined as she had to undergo full hysterectomy and treatment for cancer. Was grim to say the least.

It's not something I'd ever put off. In Scotland the frequency has changed and over 50s who were previously screened every 3 years changed to 5.

My 3 or 5 years landed in December 2022, attended the appointment. Took the lab 3 months instead of 6 weeks to feedback results and now I've to undergo in depth screening +/- a procedure in 2 weeks time. I'm keeking my breeks and hope it's nothing too sinister.

Ladies, please don't put it off and get yourself checked out.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

The current smears don't look for pre cancerous or cancerous cells though. They've not done for a few years. They just look for the presence of strains HPV associated with cervical cancer. If your sample is positive for particular strains of HPV, THEN they look for abnormal cells and they might ask you back for more tests. But they don't routinely look for abnormal cells in everyone. The thing is, not all cervical cancer is caused by HPV. Anywhere from 1-5% of cancers are non-HPV, although I accept that is a small minority.

Anyone who has had a negative smear in the UK since 2019 has essentially had a negative HPV test, not a result saying you absolutely have no cellular changes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The current smears don't look for pre cancerous or cancerous cells though. They've not done for a few years. They just look for the presence of strains HPV associated with cervical cancer. If your sample is positive for particular strains of HPV, THEN they look for abnormal cells and they might ask you back for more tests. But they don't routinely look for abnormal cells in everyone. The thing is, not all cervical cancer is caused by HPV. Anywhere from 1-5% of cancers are non-HPV, although I accept that is a small minority.

Anyone who has had a negative smear in the UK since 2019 has essentially had a negative HPV test, not a result saying you absolutely have no cellular changes. "

I was told this at my last smear. Then just got a letter to say I'm negative of hpv. I'm not sure if it's such a good way of doing it x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do.

Not sure how I was too young, my mum died of breast cancer at 37 after getting it at 34. Maybe now it's a few years later I should follow this up.

I get that about cardiology too, I'd feel like that. But again weird that's not been flagged either..... :/

Same with me, I was told I can't have the genetic testing unless my mum had it done, and classed as too young to have regular mammograms even with a strong family history, my mum and aunt had it within a couple of years of each other in their early 50s and nearly every aunt on their dad's side has had breast cancer and other female cancers too

T x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always go. Gives me terrible cramps afterwards but the alternative is much worse

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By *uri00620Woman over a year ago

Croydon

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do.

Not sure how I was too young, my mum died of breast cancer at 37 after getting it at 34. Maybe now it's a few years later I should follow this up.

I get that about cardiology too, I'd feel like that. But again weird that's not been flagged either..... :/

T x"

Crazy my mum and aunt both died younger than what I am now and dad died in 40s and his mum but again won't look into it . Geography plays a part here too unfortunately I think as I know others that have had referrals and investigations for less than this

Interesting what they said about genetic testing. I haven't heard that before. I got told i could only have it if I was Jewish.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Bumping, because it's a worthy endeavour.

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By *istyPeaksCouple over a year ago

braintree

Bumping the bump.

It really is.

Hateful, uncomfortable & just icky..,.

But better than the alternative x

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Stafford

I don't intentionally delay but my ovaries are madams and sometimes it can be 3 months after my due time for a smear because of my silly ovaries.

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By *urvytreatWoman over a year ago

somewhere nice

My cousin and I have nick named it “spread ‘em and wink” lol

Very embarrassing but worth doing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I had mine done recently. The worst bit was having my height, weight and blood pressure done, too. On the up side, I’m still 5’6”

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I had one a few weeks ago and I have osteoporosis have to start treatment for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A few years ago, my friend did exactly that. She put it off and off until simething else flagged uo in her health. Wasbt quite the 40th birthday she imagined as she had to undergo full hysterectomy and treatment for cancer. Was grim to say the least.

It's not something I'd ever put off. In Scotland the frequency has changed and over 50s who were previously screened every 3 years changed to 5.

Ladies, please don't put it off and get yourself checked out."

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Keeping this one near the top until it's full.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's one of the reasons why I am trying to get out of the house. To brave going to the doctors, i am very overdue

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"It's one of the reasons why I am trying to get out of the house. To brave going to the doctors, i am very overdue

You are doing great and this is such an important reason

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Morning bump.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Afternoon bump. Anyone who has been putting it off, this is your gentle push. In the very small sample of cervix owners on this thread there are several who have had abnormal results. A few moments of embarrassment is worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do. "

I always go for my smear as soon as I get the letter it's booked.

Do you have to refer to your Dr for cancer gene testing?

Or is it done privately.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

MsWyld can you help the poster above ^^ at all? Thank you x

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

No I don't forget, I had severely abnormal cells many years ago so I always make sure to have mine on time

If I had of put it off things would be a completely different story for me now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to prioritise everything and everyone else and completely forget mine! I am overdue mine and know the importance of having it done as I have previously required treatment for abnormal cells.

Mrs

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By *uffnmuffCouple over a year ago

London

I go as soon as I am called up for one and have never missed one. I always go on my own.

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

My mum had cervical cancer so I always go for mine much as I dislike it, never had a chaperone though.

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By *ubyBlairWoman over a year ago

Glasgow-ish / Edinburgh

This has actually reminded me that I'm horribly overdue for mine.

I'll need to get this booked sooner rather than later.

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By *hantasmagoriaWoman over a year ago

Newport

Always have mine done, the worst part is the clicking lol its just something about that makes me nauseous

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"This has actually reminded me that I'm horribly overdue for mine.

I'll need to get this booked sooner rather than later. "

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Book it now, my Caledonian Thistle, lest I remind you with my Penny Whistle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am the world's worst when it comes to going to the Dr's. I have a severe hospital hospital phobia.

However I do tend to go for my smear as I've had abnormal cells in the past. Its the cardiology stuff I hide from.

I also had to go for cancer gene testing a few years ago due to breast cancer in the family. It was a very sobering experience.

We are very lucky to have the health care system that we do.

I always go for my smear as soon as I get the letter it's booked.

Do you have to refer to your Dr for cancer gene testing?

Or is it done privately. "

Hey lovely .

I was given a letter from my cousin who was told to contact me about it. There was a number to call on it and I made an appointment. It was NHS. A clinic in a local hospital.

I imagine if you speak to your GP they would be able to refer you x

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve not read the whole thread but I do wish people (especially hcps) would stop dismissing women who find it traumatic, painful etc as merely feeling a little embarrassed.

For one thing they're really not necessary in their current form as the cells aren’t even tested unless you test positive for hpv.

So a waste of time and resources there imo.

As said for some of us they can be very painful physically (not merely a “discomfort” I have endo and a tilted and fragile cervix so they set me off bleeding a lot! And result in several days of cramps and pain) and for women who have trauma issues well I’m sure anyone with any empathy can imagine how difficult that is!

I’ve a good nurse at my current practice who is careful as possible I’ve had some absolute horrors in the past!

There are also religious considerations for some women that the nhs seems rather dismissive of too.

If they want more women being screened as regularly as they require they need to change THEIR attitude to the women going through them.

Quite honestly the very least they could do is reduce screening to an hpv swab for now and any women that test positive then be invited for a full smear test etc as needed.

They certainly should be showing more understanding and empathy for those of us enduring significant pain or trauma going through such screening.

I also agree it’s shit that the min age has been raised to 25.

Jade Goody was just 21 when she first developed abnormal cells.

It used to be as soon as you were sexually active and I think it should be that case again.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Bumped for the sake of fragile humility.

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By * o yWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

OMG ladies. I have a few friends and as soon as i say SMEAR TEST its like ive brought a tabo subject up...

Oh heres a thought just had my letter says not due for another 2years BUT they only test age range 25-64 . I wana know what happens at 64 .. does a cervix go off to a dark room and boxes it self away !!!

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?

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By *luffy FairyWoman over a year ago

west LDN

I booked mine for next week, never taken anyone. My first one I was a tad anxious but it’s fine for the sake of a few minutes of discomfort or embarrassment, I think it’s worth it.

Someone who has experienced a lot of cancer diagnoses recently (not myself but very close family members) I tell people all the time to go get checked. You know your body and abnormal lumps bumps symptoms just get the check done it literally could save a life.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?"

If you get a clear result then usually it's 3 years or more till your next one. It is too long but I guess it's too costly to make it more regular.

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By *luffy FairyWoman over a year ago

west LDN

"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?"

Yes and no if you have normal cells then no but doesn’t mean they can’t develop which is why as humans we should all really get to know our bodies and cycles. You are your best doctor

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?"

It's 3yrs between as standard for women aged 25-54, then every 5yrs from 55-64. In the USA, it's recommended annually (for those who can afford insurance cover) and women have an annual pelvic examination as standard as well as the smear. In the UK, the smear appointment is literally just for that and I doubt that the generalist nurses who do them in GP surgeries would be trained to do these pelvic exams. Lots of women have really bad, symptomatic pelvic organ problems but are not treated because it's not picked up etc. Lots of people think incontinence is normal after giving birth, for example, lots of people make jokes about it. But it's not. Etc.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Thanks to the ³ delightful Sirens above for explaining it to me.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?

Totally agree. If you aren’t already familiar I would suggest you might be interested in reading up on “medical misogyny” it’s not just in gynae medicine we aren’t treated correctly.

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By *anDare70Man over a year ago

kirkby

For the boys reading this … there is something you should get checked too isn’t there?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?

Totally agree. If you aren’t already familiar I would suggest you might be interested in reading up on “medical misogyny” it’s not just in gynae medicine we aren’t treated correctly. "

Thanks. I've read quite a bit about medical misogyny and have experienced it first hand on lots of occasions, unfortunately. There have been lots of occasions where I'm sure possessing a penis would have seen me taken seriously and/or different (better) treatment offered. And yes, I've had it suggested that some of my issues might be mental in origin (or "in my head"). Strange that when the right tests have been done and interpreted by people who know what they're doing, it's clear that it is NOT in my head

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?

Totally agree. If you aren’t already familiar I would suggest you might be interested in reading up on “medical misogyny” it’s not just in gynae medicine we aren’t treated correctly.

Ohh don’t even get me started! I’m aware of your posts and know you’ve been through horrific experiences.

I’ve had visible physical symptoms dismissed as down to my Mh!

ludicrous!

Feel free to pm if you want to exchange war stories

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is two years between screening a tad too long? Or have I misunderstood?

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By *its.and.tatsWoman over a year ago

cardiff

I imagine even the most confident people get some form of anxious thoughts around getting their smear. I was definitely part of the ignorance is bliss crew… took 6 months of symptoms for me to get checked out

I’ll just say, having a smear is much nicer than having injections in your cervix and bits of it burned off, while awake… twice

Had my first 3yr check in 2021, all clear!

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By *sianflower77Woman over a year ago

Emerald City

"I imagine even the most confident people get some form of anxious thoughts around getting their smear. I was definitely part of the ignorance is bliss crew… took 6 months of symptoms for me to get checked out

I’ll just say, having a smear is much nicer than having injections in your cervix and bits of it burned off, while awake… twice

Had my first 3yr check in 2021, all clear! "

So glad you finally got tested and then treated good luck for your future health x

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

I’ll just say, having a smear is much nicer than having injections in your cervix and bits of it burned off, while awake… twice

Had my first 3yr check in 2021, all clear!

So glad you finally got tested and then treated good luck for your future health x "

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

• Bumping This •

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

This thread is always worth a bump

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thankfully my results were fine this time. All negative.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Thankfully my results were fine this time. All negative.

Good news indeed. My reminder hasn't materialised so will phone the docs anyway and find an appt.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As someone who is currently recovering from surgery for removal of cells that were picked up on my smear.

Your never too young, and always always go. My consultant said to me that is wasn't a case of if it turned cancerous, but when.

Go and get them done.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Thankfully my results were fine this time. All negative.

Good news indeed. My reminder hasn't materialised so will phone the docs anyway and find an appt. "

That is good news PW and get it done KC!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"As someone who is currently recovering from surgery for removal of cells that were picked up on my smear.

Your never too young, and always always go. My consultant said to me that is wasn't a case of if it turned cancerous, but when.

Go and get them done. "

Glad it was caught and hope you recover quickly x

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Public Service 'bump'.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Thankfully my results were fine this time. All negative.

Good news indeed. My reminder hasn't materialised so will phone the docs anyway and find an appt.

That is good news PW and get it done KC!

I rang but I'm actually not due till July, so can't make an appointment yet.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was just going to post this aftee seeing sti test reminder post, but quick searched popped up your thread. So here is the bump

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

It's bump worthy, I tell thee.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *injaprincessWoman over a year ago

herehere

"It's bump worthy, I tell thee.

I never miss mine!! As soon as the letter comes in I go

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I never miss mine, after having cervical cancer I encourage all women I know and work with to go. I've even sat at the doctors waiting for a colleague to get hers done.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had accidentally delayed mine. Had it recently ago and all clear

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"I had accidentally delayed mine. Had it recently ago and all clear

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Don't delay / Test today.

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By *injaprincessWoman over a year ago

herehere

Just bumping and a reminder ! Ladies get yourselves booked in today if you’ve missed yours

Have a beautiful day

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By *uer MalusMan over a year ago

Narnia

Writing this to keep this topic at the top of the pile…

Catching things before they can be felt or too late to do anything about is key…

Please don’t delay, these tests matter.

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By *bw44DDWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

Such an important topic OP

No I never delay mine. Soon as I get my letter I get booked in.

As someone who carries out cervical screenings everyday, please don’t put it off. It’s 10 minutes out of your day and almost always pain free. If you are nervous speak to the nurse about it. Some people like to be talked through it and some of us would rather just get it done. Your nurse will fully understand if someone is nervous/anxious/worried/scared and it’s our job to help to make you leave your appointment thinking oh what was I worried about.

We all lead busy lives and we all forget things and don’t put ourselves first. We’re all only human

Get your bits out ladies. Once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

It makes me smile they disceetly cover you with a paper towel yet they are probing inside your vagina and having a good look !

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By *ts the taking part thatMan over a year ago

southampton

"Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest..."

Ladies then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It makes me smile they disceetly cover you with a paper towel yet they are probing inside your vagina and having a good look !"

Hahahaa yesss!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest..."

Ladies then. "

And NB, trans men...

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By *injaprincessWoman over a year ago

herehere

"Such an important topic OP

No I never delay mine. Soon as I get my letter I get booked in.

We all lead busy lives and we all forget things and don’t put ourselves first. We’re all only human

Get your bits out ladies. Once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I get mine done as soon as it's due! I and friends have had results come back needing follow ups so not worth the risk.

I don't like the fact they have increased the age to 25 either

Had they lowered it? When my mother discovered I was sexually active she dragged me to the doctor's for my first smear. I was 17. They said then it was 25 (and this was 26 years ago)

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

My daughter had a text inviting her to make an appointment for her first smear. When she turned up the nurse said she wouldn't do it as the lab wouldn't process it as my daughter was two days under 25.

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By *bw44DDWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

"I get mine done as soon as it's due! I and friends have had results come back needing follow ups so not worth the risk.

I don't like the fact they have increased the age to 25 either

Had they lowered it? When my mother discovered I was sexually active she dragged me to the doctor's for my first smear. I was 17. They said then it was 25 (and this was 26 years ago)"

25-64

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few years ago they found HPV cells. Because of the higher risk of abnormal cells developing,I never ignore a reminder.

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Thank you 'Princesse des ninjas' for bumping this humble thread.

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By *estarossa.Woman over a year ago

Flagrante

I always go.

You should never ignore it.

Ever.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan over a year ago

southampton

""Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest..."

Ladies then.

And NB, trans men...

So that'll be a woman.

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Having had treatment for abnormal cells every year for the last five years I always make sure I attend appointments. After a 6 month test of cure smear I’m back to yearly smears

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

I had mine last week with a student Doc and a female GP to chaperone. I spent most of my time trying to reassure him he was doing great!

When I asked if I was his first they both started laughing

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By *injaprincessWoman over a year ago

herehere

"Thank you 'Princesse des ninjas' for bumping this humble thread."

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By *tM-TomMan over a year ago

London

""Dear Lådìes, Nøn-Bínarìes and Persons of Interest..."

Ladies then.

And NB, trans men...

Thank you!

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By *injaprincessWoman over a year ago

herehere

Another bump for a reason to remind you lovelies to book in if you havnt!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always attend mine and just go myself, I always joke that you spend longer taking your knickers off and putting them on than the amount of time the smear takes lol.

In Scotland they have changed the time period from every 3 years to every 5 years. Which makes me anxious as I almost developed full blown cervical cancer in the 3 years between my last routine smears. If I'd had to wait another 2 years, who knows what would've happened. I had to have half my cervix cut off, which will only be a problem if I ever go on to have more children.

Everyone should attend their smear appointments, and there is support available for anyone who has anxiety about it

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've always gone by myself as it doesn't bother me. It only bothers me that I've had to go yearly for the last few years and I'll be due again in the next month or so x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"It makes me smile they disceetly cover you with a paper towel yet they are probing inside your vagina and having a good look !"

This also makes me laugh too. Lots of faffing with curtains that don't close easily/properly while you take your keks off; two squares of blue roll for "modesty" and then they're rooting around your nether regions.

Me: Just don't bother closing the curtain. I couldn't care less if you see me take off my pants....

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

Another bump for a reason to remind you lovelies to book in if you havnt!

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She's a bumper... ... ... ^

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

Oh this is still here? Bump for those that need a reminder

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By *injaprincessWoman over a year ago

herehere

Bump bump

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I always went for mine. They now deem me too old to go for a test.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

Booked mine for Thurs but now I'm bleeding. Again. Will have to rearrange but no idea when I'll not be bleeding. FFS

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By *eroLondon OP Man over a year ago

Mayfair

"Booked mine for Thurs but now I'm bleeding. Again. Will have to rearrange but no idea when I'll not be bleeding. FFS "

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KC², are you feeling sanguine?

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Just reminded me I need to book mine now I'm virus free

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"I always went for mine. They now deem me too old to go for a test.

So, women over a certain age don't get cervical cancer?

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