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Newby, looking to chat and go to my first club meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning fab!
So I recently joined, and had a club booked but didn't go, because I was worried I might bump into someone I know aha.
It'd be wicked to meet a couple, or a woman to go to my first club meet with, even if it's just a chat and chill before
Any advice welcome
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"Morning fab!
So I recently joined, and had a club booked but didn't go, because I was worried I might bump into someone I know aha.
It'd be wicked to meet a couple, or a woman to go to my first club meet with, even if it's just a chat and chill before
Any advice welcome
x"
If you meet someone you know in a club never look down maintain eye contact and don't touch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahh that's a fair point, that's a good way to look at it x"
By the looks of your profile picture I don’t see you having too many issues seems very attractive 
The only thing I will say is you have that your gf knows about your account … would you not have them just made a couples account and if she didn’t want to play stated this on the account
Could've got you more interest?
With clubs and being a single guy best advice is to not be pushy or lurking around every corner, try to be smiley and polite.
Ask people is it ok to sit with them, stand and chat by them.
I can’t imagine how it must feel as a single genuine male for your first club visit good luck to you ! |
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ace if you bump into someone you know at the club. you have to ask urself the question, why are they there!!!!!!!!!!!!1 listen m8. live once, but live it to the full with no regrets, thats wat ive learned on my journey. good luck   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you come across someone you know, I wouldn't be worried after all they are there two
Try a club I think you will like it I loved my first club experience.
Just be polite, engage in conversation and give people space. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ahh thank you 
And I was thinking about that at first, but saw a lot of people that were apparently single guys just saying the other half didn’t want to play, and I didn’t want people to think it was a fake account aha.
Really appreciate the advice thankyou, good to meet you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey! It was hellfire club mate "
Yes I have been there . Not my favourite club. There is a social party on May 19 at AbFabs . It’s near Heathrow T5. Maybe put your name down for that ? The last time they also waived the joining fee. Not sure if they will do that again but if so would also save you a fair few pounds. Worth considering I would say. |
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Keep that mentally online and club.
Beyond that it’s statistics, social skills and dumb luck.
