"This is the reason a lot of single women and couples won’t fab pics.
Because someone says thanks for the fab,surly its only good manners."
I've never done it. Imagine if women had to thank everyone fabbing their pics. |
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"This is the reason a lot of single women and couples won’t fab pics.
Because someone says thanks for the fab,surly it’s only good manners."
It’s a show of appreciation for an individual picture, not a conversation starter. |
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"This is the reason a lot of single women and couples won’t fab pics.
Because someone says thanks for the fab,surly it’s only good manners."
If I Fab a picture it’s because I like their picture. It may not be the person within the picture I am fabbing, could be because I like what they’re wearing or the act they’re indulging in for example.
So I wouldn’t expect them to thank me for the fab at all. |
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I usually do send a wee message of gratitude for a fab. It doesn't happen too often. I'm always concerned a message may not be wanted but a simple thankyou shouldn't ne viewed as anything other than that. |
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"Must be an age thing,I was always taught to say thankyou if someone gives you something or gives you praise."
Nothing to do with age, some women will get hundreds of fabs on a new picture posted. If she sent a thanks message to everyone it would take quite some time and could create mix messaging, those guys thinking she’s interested in them. |
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"Must be an age thing,I was always taught to say thankyou if someone gives you something or gives you praise."
I don't think it works in quite the same way on social media. You haven't replied to everyone who's responded to your post for instance and nobody would expect you to, it would be far too time consuming. |
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"This is the reason a lot of single women and couples won’t fab pics.
Because someone says thanks for the fab,surly it’s only good manners.
It’s a show of appreciation for an individual picture, not a conversation starter. "
This and it doesn't mean they have to reply *shrug |
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"Don't check this now tbh, but when I did in the past I tried to return the gesture by fabbing in return.  "
I sometimes winked (I think) kinda let them know that I know.. if you know!?! 
But I don’t even bother with that anymore.
I just feel no matter what a guy does to initial any contact will be deemed wrong by the masses.  |
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"Don't check this now tbh, but when I did in the past I tried to return the gesture by fabbing in return.
I sometimes winked (I think) kinda let them know that I know.. if you know!?!
But I don’t even bother with that anymore.
I just feel no matter what a guy does to initial any contact will be deemed wrong by the masses. "
Just fabbing them is enough, it's the ladies that wear the trousers here but don't tell them that  |
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"Don't check this now tbh, but when I did in the past I tried to return the gesture by fabbing in return.
I sometimes winked (I think) kinda let them know that I know.. if you know!?!
But I don’t even bother with that anymore.
I just feel no matter what a guy does to initial any contact will be deemed wrong by the masses.
Just fabbing them is enough, it's the ladies that wear the trousers here but don't tell them that "
Most don’t have any on in their pics though? That why I didn’t know that.  |
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"This is the reason a lot of single women and couples won’t fab pics.
Because someone says thanks for the fab,surly its only good manners."
Do you really mean "good manners" or an opportunity to create conversation?
My thinking is, they may appreciate a picture, though if they wanted contact, they'd message or at least wink.
Fabbing a picture, to me is simply expressing it's appreciated. |
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"Does anybody else send a thankyou message to people who fab your pics?
Or is it just me?"
On one video we have over 300 fabs, that would be a few hours sending messages if we don't have an interest in the particular person especially if there outside age range/distance etc |
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"This is the reason a lot of single women and couples won’t fab pics.
Because someone says thanks for the fab,surly its only good manners."
I've never known a place as obsessed for good manners as fab. Which is surprising considering how many cocks are about. |
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"Does anybody else send a thankyou message to people who fab your pics?
Or is it just me?
On one video we have over 300 fabs, that would be a few hours sending messages ….."
Copy and paste. work smarter, not harder. |
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"The lady who is at the top of the most fabbed, has had (when I last checked) 2973 fabs in 12 hours. That’s an awful lot of ‘Thank you’ messages. "
And then quite a few thank you for the thanks messages to follow  |
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"This is the reason a lot of single women and couples won’t fab pics.
Agree ,when i take part in dab a fella thread i always say no messages thanks,but its ignored."
It is the main reason it’s mostly men who join the thread! Most men join thinking it will give them a window into someone’s inbox 
if we all just joined,
did what it said on the tin,
all the forum blokes would fill page one of mens hotpics! |
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I've often said on the fora that I never send the first message, other than piecemeal interactions with forumites. That mantra still stands.
However, I'm going to go against the grain on some of the responses here: YES, I have on a •few occasions• sent a thank you message. And EVERY message was favourably received AND graciously responded to. The impetus wasn't so that I could get into their knickers, but I was somewhat cognisant that I was, humbly, on their hotlist and I wanted extend my thanks. |
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"Does anybody else send a thankyou message to people who fab your pics?
Or is it just me?"
We don't send thank you messages to people fabbing our pics, no. We do check out the profiles of people who have fabbed our pics and if there's anyone who takes our fancy then we will wink, message and take it from there
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Nope if they wanted to chat they would message. Just because someone fabs a pic it doesn't mean they actually want to take it any further than that.
I only actually fab pics after chatting for a while and knowing that I'm genuinely interested in them. |
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I have received a couple of messages of thanks in the past which I have replied to and compliment them further.
I've also had the opposite and quite a rude message saying they would not be interested. A fab is an appreciation of the photo, I'd not looked at the profile and no intention of anything more than appreciating the pic.
I sometimes go through the latest pics and fab the ones I think look great - no intention of striking up a conversation or seeing if they want to meet, most of the time I don't look at the profile - its as simple as I like the photo.
A message either way is unnecessary unless you want to chat/meet. |
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If I receive a fan I'll thank if fan a profile pic or two or if I like profile text I'll compliment the owner and always happy to chat no matter where they might be in the country or without a thought of meeting .I only meet people I've chatted to for sometime or unless Im meeting them at a social . |
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Do what you want.
If you want to say thankyou you, that's fine.
Don't feel bad about it. Just don't expect a reply thanking you for your thankyou, besides I'm sure women get sent alot worse than a simple thankyou. |
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