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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all have our hang-ups about ourselves, things we wish we could change. Well, this is a space for us to say unapologetically what we like - in fact, love - about our bodies. |
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My body is ace. Everything's a nice size and in proportion. I have lovely eyes, cute ears, a slightly non symmetrical but still sweet nose. My arse is fabulous and wobbles beautifully. And my bosom is much admired  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My body is ace. Everything's a nice size and in proportion. I have lovely eyes, cute ears, a slightly non symmetrical but still sweet nose. My arse is fabulous and wobbles beautifully. And my bosom is much admired "
Yes to all of that! |
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I’m very fond of my body. I’ve had many years of pain & I now appreciate it for what it can do. I’ve decided to take as much pleasure from it to replace those memories.
It’s short, stretchmarked, has wobbly bits, scars & sometimes doesn’t want to move.
But it has grown 3 children, survived some trauma & keeps on going.
Also there are quite a lot of people that seem to appreciate it. So by god so will I.
Im comfortable naked. And these days I look in the mirror with satisfied and happy eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As slender as I am, I've always appreciated that I've had a well toned physique for most of my life, I've had the six pack since before I was even 10, and it's slowly morphing into an 8 pack. I still feel inadequate in terms of my overall size, feeling like other guys with more overall mass get more second looks than I do, but I still try to look at the silver lining that at least what I do have is aesthetically pleasing |
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"We all have our hang-ups about ourselves, things we wish we could change. Well, this is a space for us to say unapologetically what we like - in fact, love - about our bodies. "
Yes I agree plenty out there that look perfect just the way they are but have their insecurities about themselves  social media has a lot to answer for!!
You’re all fabulous just the way you are. Beauty is skin deep  Maybe one day I’ll believe it too great post  |
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"My body is ace. Everything's a nice size and in proportion. I have lovely eyes, cute ears, a slightly non symmetrical but still sweet nose. My arse is fabulous and wobbles beautifully. And my bosom is much admired "
When a woman's right she right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like my hands, my nails are natural and long, and make me feel feminine. I like the shape of my lips. I like from under my double chin to my boobs lol I like the curve of my back and my bottom. I go in and out in all the wrong places but the right people love this about me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m very fond of my body. I’ve had many years of pain & I now appreciate it for what it can do. I’ve decided to take as much pleasure from it to replace those memories.
It’s short, stretchmarked, has wobbly bits, scars & sometimes doesn’t want to move.
But it has grown 3 children, survived some trauma & keeps on going.
Also there are quite a lot of people that seem to appreciate it. So by god so will I.
Im comfortable naked. And these days I look in the mirror with satisfied and happy eyes. "
Brilliant and 100% true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As slender as I am, I've always appreciated that I've had a well toned physique for most of my life, I've had the six pack since before I was even 10, and it's slowly morphing into an 8 pack. I still feel inadequate in terms of my overall size, feeling like other guys with more overall mass get more second looks than I do, but I still try to look at the silver lining that at least what I do have is aesthetically pleasing"
Er...as a disinterested observer, I suspect you get a lot of 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc looks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like my hands, my nails are natural and long, and make me feel feminine. I like the shape of my lips. I like from under my double chin to my boobs lol I like the curve of my back and my bottom. I go in and out in all the wrong places but the right people love this about me!"
Great answer! The right people always will and they matter more than everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As slender as I am, I've always appreciated that I've had a well toned physique for most of my life, I've had the six pack since before I was even 10, and it's slowly morphing into an 8 pack. I still feel inadequate in terms of my overall size, feeling like other guys with more overall mass get more second looks than I do, but I still try to look at the silver lining that at least what I do have is aesthetically pleasing
Er...as a disinterested observer, I suspect you get a lot of 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc looks. "
Thanks man, I mean I do have the odd person express their opinion of me being attractive, but I have a lot of years of high school abuse and mockery to overcome, insults like "freak", "chicken legs", "stick insect" etc. have done a lot of damage to my confidence.
It's also especially difficult when I REALLY struggle to pick up on social cues when a woman is flirting with me or showing interest, so it makes it hard to see my value in my appearance when I can't see any subtle hints and suggestion.  |
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I don't usually think about this stuff so maybe it will be interesting to join in.
I get told I have nice eyes, lips and eyebrows on occasion.
I don't really see it myself but hey.
I guess I'm kind of accepting that I got what I got rather than having any love. Never thought about that really. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"My body is ace. Everything's a nice size and in proportion. I have lovely eyes, cute ears, a slightly non symmetrical but still sweet nose. My arse is fabulous and wobbles beautifully. And my bosom is much admired "
I have e been working out at the gym most days a d feeling pretty good about my body. I think k it looks pretty good for a 59yr old
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My body is ace. Everything's a nice size and in proportion. I have lovely eyes, cute ears, a slightly non symmetrical but still sweet nose. My arse is fabulous and wobbles beautifully. And my bosom is much admired
I have e been working out at the gym most days a d feeling pretty good about my body. I think k it looks pretty good for a 59yr old
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You're looking great for 59, well done for getting to the gym and shaping up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't usually think about this stuff so maybe it will be interesting to join in.
I get told I have nice eyes, lips and eyebrows on occasion.
I don't really see it myself but hey"
Believe it! Other people sometimes see us better than we see ourselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a good day I will fully embrace my curves…but sadly not everyday is a good day! Working on it though. "
Judging by your photos you have a great figure Geeky |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have the most amazing set of eyelashes "
Strangely enough I have never noticed your eyelashes - obviously distracted by what's beneath them (and I don't mean your nose). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On a good day I will fully embrace my curves…but sadly not everyday is a good day! Working on it though. "
Well looking at your pictures I think you deserve to have a good day every day. |
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"As slender as I am, I've always appreciated that I've had a well toned physique for most of my life, I've had the six pack since before I was even 10, and it's slowly morphing into an 8 pack. I still feel inadequate in terms of my overall size, feeling like other guys with more overall mass get more second looks than I do, but I still try to look at the silver lining that at least what I do have is aesthetically pleasing
Er...as a disinterested observer, I suspect you get a lot of 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc looks.
Thanks man, I mean I do have the odd person express their opinion of me being attractive, but I have a lot of years of high school abuse and mockery to overcome, insults like "freak", "chicken legs", "stick insect" etc. have done a lot of damage to my confidence.
It's also especially difficult when I REALLY struggle to pick up on social cues when a woman is flirting with me or showing interest, so it makes it hard to see my value in my appearance when I can't see any subtle hints and suggestion. "
I think you have a lovely body x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like my boobs, it's the only part of my body that hasn't changed since my twenties.
I also like my lips.
Yep, that's about it. "
Well that's a start but I think you're being very hard on yourself! |
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I'm starting to embrace my body now,have worked on losing some weight,gaining confidence in my own figure and in general having a better outlook on life. Its an ongoing one,but yeah happier with my body now but still want to lose a few more pounds but it's Easter so chocolate gets eaten and the pounds can wait until next week! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my body . I hate the way it looks, the shape and the size. However I'm very thankful for the way it gave life to my sons , they way it fights off illness , the way it manages to keep going. I'm also thankful for all the pleasures it's given me and others and for it working as it should.
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"I hate my body . I hate the way it looks, the shape and the size. However I'm very thankful for the way it gave life to my sons , they way it fights off illness , the way it manages to keep going. I'm also thankful for all the pleasures it's given me and others and for it working as it should.
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You are stunning
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm starting to embrace my body now,have worked on losing some weight,gaining confidence in my own figure and in general having a better outlook on life. Its an ongoing one,but yeah happier with my body now but still want to lose a few more pounds but it's Easter so chocolate gets eaten and the pounds can wait until next week!"
The pounds are less important than chocolate! But you sound like you're I'm a healthy mindset, which is great. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate my body . I hate the way it looks, the shape and the size. However I'm very thankful for the way it gave life to my sons , they way it fights off illness , the way it manages to keep going. I'm also thankful for all the pleasures it's given me and others and for it working as it should.
You are stunning
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I agree 100% and it's a shame that MsWyld can't see it. I hope she comes to see it soon. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm chubby. There's no point pretending otherwise, I'm very much boobs, bum and a cute tum. Sometimes I dislike it, try and shrink myself or hide it in layers of clothing so the world doesn't have to see it.
But then again... I like my softness. I like the way my thighs feel tensed around a man's head or when I'm riding their thighs and can grip them.
I like the way my body feels. Pressed against a man's firmer body or all gentle curves against another woman's. I like the way my skin feels under someone's hands, their firm hold of my bum as they fuck me, that grab of the hips with every thrust.
I like the way I fill clothes, unashamedly feminine, my breasts straining against a jumper, my thighs moving under a cute dress, when I wear cute lacy sets and my curves are enhanced, confidently saying they're part of who I am but not all of me.
So yes, I like my body. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm chubby. There's no point pretending otherwise, I'm very much boobs, bum and a cute tum. Sometimes I dislike it, try and shrink myself or hide it in layers of clothing so the world doesn't have to see it.
But then again... I like my softness. I like the way my thighs feel tensed around a man's head or when I'm riding their thighs and can grip them.
I like the way my body feels. Pressed against a man's firmer body or all gentle curves against another woman's. I like the way my skin feels under someone's hands, their firm hold of my bum as they fuck me, that grab of the hips with every thrust.
I like the way I fill clothes, unashamedly feminine, my breasts straining against a jumper, my thighs moving under a cute dress, when I wear cute lacy sets and my curves are enhanced, confidently saying they're part of who I am but not all of me.
So yes, I like my body. "
Fabulous response as always Meli. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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I like that at 55 I don't have a beer paunch. I don't think I'd dress if I did. I also like my legs. It never ceases to amaze me that they look as good as they do in stockings. Maybe they're not the best, but I like them. |
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Naturism has helped us so much with our body confidence. It's seems like such a scary exposing thing. But actually it helps you realise that you are just as human, as flawed, as valid and as equal as everyone else. It's a freedom from the self imposed prision we put ourselves in over our perceptions of our bodies. It makes us better happier people. I also think it helps us to socialise better and more genuinely as humans when we are infront of each other completely bare, human, with nothing to hide and free of the clothes that indicate status and/or the projection of the person/image we want to project. I would say to anyone to take the plung and try liberating yourself of clothes in a vanilla nude social space. It's just so grounding and freeing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like my legs and my boobs and my face xx I’m so much more confident in my 40s than I was in my 20s or 30s and Fab has boosted my appreciation for my body no end x |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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Are we ever truly happy is it not in our nature to never be satisfied? Very Briefly I’ll be happy looking blown up in the magic gym mirrors with a seven pump on then in mind I’ll not look like that for another 3 month, body dysmorphia is a twat haga |
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I don’t like the way my body looks but I have come to appreciate that actually it does feel quite good and I can see why people enjoy it. My curves and the softness of my skin. Having now experienced other women’s bodies I know the differences and I can see why people do like how my body feels.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm chubby. There's no point pretending otherwise, I'm very much boobs, bum and a cute tum. Sometimes I dislike it, try and shrink myself or hide it in layers of clothing so the world doesn't have to see it.
But then again... I like my softness. I like the way my thighs feel tensed around a man's head or when I'm riding their thighs and can grip them.
I like the way my body feels. Pressed against a man's firmer body or all gentle curves against another woman's. I like the way my skin feels under someone's hands, their firm hold of my bum as they fuck me, that grab of the hips with every thrust.
I like the way I fill clothes, unashamedly feminine, my breasts straining against a jumper, my thighs moving under a cute dress, when I wear cute lacy sets and my curves are enhanced, confidently saying they're part of who I am but not all of me.
So yes, I like my body.
Fabulous response as always Meli."
Aww you.  I think I might like writing a tad too much. |
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I've just binged Naked Education on chl 4
I found it very interesting but also very sad that the teenagers were really lacking in proper education and knowledge but we're happy to believe porn, social media and even believe at 14 they needed plastic surgery.
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I'm no oil painting, clever camera angles and soft lighting works wonders.... I'm just thankful there's different horses for different courses... Everybody is unique in their own way. Boring world if it wasn't. |
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By *yresMan
over a year ago
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"I hate my body . I hate the way it looks, the shape and the size. However I'm very thankful for the way it gave life to my sons , they way it fights off illness , the way it manages to keep going. I'm also thankful for all the pleasures it's given me and others and for it working as it should.
This sums it up perfectly and what is most important above that on the surface, that we see it for where it has got us ,through pain and pleasure love and loss.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Body confidence is something I've struggled with for most of my adult life, as I'm tall and curvy. I've always stood out, people always comment on my appearance (about how tall I am) and I have felt very self conscious as a result.
However since I got with Mr, and we eventually got round to joining Fab, I'm finally starting to love myself more. I'm beginning to embrace being tall, I love my soft curves and long legs, and my smile and eyes are pretty...and I'm not going to lie - having literally hundreds of people fabbing your pics is such an ego boost. Other people liking my pics means that I'm not all the negative, fat and ugly things I used to think I was
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like my shoulders. They're big and strong - strong enough for me to propel my not-insubstantial frame up hill and down dale in my wheelie chair. I also like my eyes
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Beautiful and practical! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like that at 55 I don't have a beer paunch. I don't think I'd dress if I did. I also like my legs. It never ceases to amaze me that they look as good as they do in stockings. Maybe they're not the best, but I like them. "
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Excellent! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like my legs and my boobs and my face xx I’m so much more confident in my 40s than I was in my 20s or 30s and Fab has boosted my appreciation for my body no end x"
Inspirational for those of us in, or heading towards, our 40s! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing I like about my body. It's old saggy and scarred but you know what I don't care. I'm happy to get naked in front of people and noone has run away yet"
Then it must be better than ypu think! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we ever truly happy is it not in our nature to never be satisfied? Very Briefly I’ll be happy looking blown up in the magic gym mirrors with a seven pump on then in mind I’ll not look like that for another 3 month, body dysmorphia is a twat haga "
It is but you looked jacked to me! |
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Appreciate my body more now when I was younger and probably in better shape. But I think I'm fitter now. We should move the emphasis from you look to how you feel though I know the two are obviously linked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love my body , its definitely become easier as I've gotten older. I love my boobs and eyes  "
Your eyes are incredible (I'm sure your boobs are too but I can't see them very well ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love my bum  I used to be very self conscious of it but I have learnt to love it!! X
Ditto! You got big juicy beautiful bum btw! "
Yay for loving big beautiful bums! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine is in decent shape but its starting to fill out more and to be fair the older i get the less im caring about it"
Age brings acceptance and perspective. It's a good thing. |
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I’ve been on and off Fab for years - and must admit the experience is more positive and fun for me now. Partly because I think people are just a little more accepting of difference, and also because I’m comfortable with my body and actually rather like it nowadays.
The first fab message I ever received was along the lines of ‘get your pics off here, we shouldn’t have to look at people like you’. That hasn’t happened for a long time though. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve learned to love my body and appreciate the hours of hard graft I have put into maintaining it mainly through dancing - it’s given my thick thighs, a reasonably toned physique and allowed me to embrace my love of food!
For 38 I like that my boobs are still perky and my my ass is toned but jiggles!
I’d have liked to have been taller and had legs up to my arm pits but I got pretty eyes from my mumma- can’t have it all!
Love the skin your in xx |
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"I’ve learned to love my body and appreciate the hours of hard graft I have put into maintaining it mainly through dancing - it’s given my thick thighs, a reasonably toned physique and allowed me to embrace my love of food!
For 38 I like that my boobs are still
perky and my my ass is toned but jiggles!
I’d have liked to have been taller and had legs up to my arm pits but I got pretty eyes from my mumma-
can’t have it all!
Love the skin your in xx"
Oh dancer we love the skin your in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay  "
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists "
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times"
You are stunning. They are clearly an idiot. Don't listen to idiots. You look amazing. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times"
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like my tattoos and my face. And my giant baps are okay.
He loves my belly and butt so I'm trying to see them through his eyes and love them as much, too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like my tattoos and my face. And my giant baps are okay.
He loves my belly and butt so I'm trying to see them through his eyes and love them as much, too. "
His eyes will see them more clearly than yours, so listen to him! Love your belly and butt! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx"
Twas someone I said no to  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx
Twas someone I said no to "
Right...so they liked you enough to approach you but insulted your body when you said no? Then that's clearly them being bitter and you should ignore them completely - if they didn't think you were hot they wouldn't have tried it with you in the first place. |
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx
Twas someone I said no to "
Exactly, they have taking the huff and acted like a child. Shown their true colours. I'm willing to bet they do this every time they get a knock back which must be a lot. They ridiculously prob feel hard done by and entitled. That's all on them and their words are no reflection on you or have any truth in them. Block, report and move on. You are better than that. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx
Twas someone I said no to
Right...so they liked you enough to approach you but insulted your body when you said no? Then that's clearly them being bitter and you should ignore them completely - if they didn't think you were hot they wouldn't have tried it with you in the first place."
,,, dead right you can see clearly shes hot,, |
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx
Twas someone I said no to
Right...so they liked you enough to approach you but insulted your body when you said no? Then that's clearly them being bitter and you should ignore them completely - if they didn't think you were hot they wouldn't have tried it with you in the first place."
I know I know. God knows why it bothered me this morning, it usually doesn’t! Thank you for your kind words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing here is to be happy in your own skin , others may not like it but hey they were never your type anyway so don't think or worry about what others think..be happy in your own skin |
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx
Twas someone I said no to
Exactly, they have taking the huff and acted like a child. Shown their true colours. I'm willing to bet they do this every time they get a knock back which must be a lot. They ridiculously prob feel hard done by and entitled. That's all on them and their words are no reflection on you or have any truth in them. Block, report and move on. You are better than that. "
Also I have just had a look at your profile and realised I had already previously fabbed most of your pics. You have plenty going for you. Look great. |
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx
Twas someone I said no to
Exactly, they have taking the huff and acted like a child. Shown their true colours. I'm willing to bet they do this every time they get a knock back which must be a lot. They ridiculously prob feel hard done by and entitled. That's all on them and their words are no reflection on you or have any truth in them. Block, report and move on. You are better than that.
Also I have just had a look at your profile and realised I had already previously fabbed most of your pics. You have plenty going for you. Look great. "
Aw thanks pet sorry Op, I wasn’t intending on turning your thread into a fishing trip! Will shush now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t ‘love’ any of it. But my wrists are okay
Er...are your pictures of somebody else then? Because there's more to love in them than your wrists
Bless you for your kind words. I had deliberately stayed away from this thread because I have nowt positive to add! This morning I have been called ‘tubby’ and asked if I’ve been to fat club recently. I know it’s only words but it’s hard to shake off at times
Who have you been called tubby by? Think about it these people online are for the most part complete strangers adding zero value to your life - it’s easy for others to say but the opinions of others especially when nasty are often a reflection of something they don’t like within themselves - fuck them! (Not literally)
You look fantastic- take no notice lovely xx
Twas someone I said no to
Exactly, they have taking the huff and acted like a child. Shown their true colours. I'm willing to bet they do this every time they get a knock back which must be a lot. They ridiculously prob feel hard done by and entitled. That's all on them and their words are no reflection on you or have any truth in them. Block, report and move on. You are better than that.
Also I have just had a look at your profile and realised I had already previously fabbed most of your pics. You have plenty going for you. Look great.
Aw thanks pet sorry Op, I wasn’t intending on turning your thread into a fishing trip! Will shush now "
It's fine! This is a body positivity thread and we all need some help with that sometimes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love my bum I used to be very self conscious of it but I have learnt to love it!! X
Ditto! You got big juicy beautiful bum btw!
Yay for loving big beautiful bums!"
Yesssss |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
This is a nice thread.
I struggled a lot with body image. Joining Fab 12 years ago has actually helped a lot, for a myriad of reasons .
I’m in my fifties now, but pleased that I look in reasonable shape - certainly better than when I was a beer-bellied 20 something!
I used to hate the fact I was hairy - with the modern emphasis on waxing etc, the pressure over that was ramped up. Now, with some judicious use of a trimmer, I love it - wouldn’t swap the hirstute-ness for the world.
I also love my beard - I look back at photos without one, and I look bland. I simehow feel it adds character .
I even think I’d look daft with a full head of hair and prefer myself without.
The bald/beard/hairy chest look is definitely a niche market, but I love being part of it .
Importantly, I find the wobbles, curves, tummies, lines etc are far more alluring in others than airbrushed “perfection”. |
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"I love my eyes. They are by far my best feature. They change colour with my mood.
I didn't even know that was a thing!"
Or maybe it's just the lighting  They definitely change - hazel, grey to green |
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