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over a year ago
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Yeah, I woke up in the middle of the night
And I noticed my girl wasn't by my side
Coulda sworn I was dreamin' for her
I was feenin' so I had to take a little ride
Backtracking over these few years
Tryin' ta figure out what I do to make it go bad
'Cause ever since my girl left me
My whole life came crashing and I'm so lonely.. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I woke up in the middle of the night
And I noticed my girl wasn't by my side
Coulda sworn I was dreamin' for her
I was feenin' so I had to take a little ride
Backtracking over these few years
Tryin' ta figure out what I do to make it go bad
'Cause ever since my girl left me
My whole life came crashing and I'm so lonely.."
Well…that was ….interesting ! ????? |
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How are you lonely if she's lost her sex drive? Surely that'd be something you'd feel if she didn't spend any time with you at all? Maybe I'm confused?
Is she going through the menopause? That can squash a sex drive. Stressed? Worried/anxious about something? Does it matter, if it's a short lived thing? Everyone goes through peaks and troughs. |
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Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any  |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any "
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"How are you lonely if she's lost her sex drive? Surely that'd be something you'd feel if she didn't spend any time with you at all? Maybe I'm confused?
Is she going through the menopause? That can squash a sex drive. Stressed? Worried/anxious about something? Does it matter, if it's a short lived thing? Everyone goes through peaks and troughs. "
Maybe lonely isn’t the word ….we are going through some issues. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!!
Maybe she has just gone off sex with you!"
Ouch that's harsh.
He is asking questions to hopefully make things better... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it. "
Teasing her about it probably isn’t going to help the issue. |
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"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!! "
Could be hormones or she's just exhausted. I recommend you take on holiday, pamper her... If its hormones you're never getting it again.
Oh joking about the never again.. You'll get it one day maybe birthday   |
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it. "
If it was me instead of teasing her I’d speak to her nobody knows the insights of your relationship but the two of you. Good luck |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!!
Could be hormones or she's just exhausted. I recommend you take on holiday, pamper her... If its hormones you're never getting it again.
Oh joking about the never again.. You'll get it one day maybe birthday "
Holiday…September!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you love your wife as much as you do, bridging these conversations without get heated or defencive is hard.
Be there for her, but the thein self be true.
Good luck |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it.
If it was me instead of teasing her I’d speak to her nobody knows the insights of your relationship but the two of you. Good luck "
Thanks. Been together 43 years….still don’t know her thought! |
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By *ubyBlairWoman
over a year ago
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it.
Teasing her about it probably isn’t going to help the issue. "
Yeah, this was my reaction too. Everyone has peaks and dips (I mean, I have those just over the course of a month so it’s bound to happen longer term). For example, I’m literally a hornbag one week of the month. A couple of weeks later? No chance…
But if a partner teased me about it? Yeah, that’s gonna shut it down even more.
I get you that it can feel lonely without sex, particularly if physical touch is one of your love languages, but you need to work on this together if you can. Not a “you have no sex drive, I’ll tease you about it and then feel shit myself” thing - nobody wins there. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it.
Teasing her about it probably isn’t going to help the issue.
Yeah, this was my reaction too. Everyone has peaks and dips (I mean, I have those just over the course of a month so it’s bound to happen longer term). For example, I’m literally a hornbag one week of the month. A couple of weeks later? No chance…
But if a partner teased me about it? Yeah, that’s gonna shut it down even more.
I get you that it can feel lonely without sex, particularly if physical touch is one of your love languages, but you need to work on this together if you can. Not a “you have no sex drive, I’ll tease you about it and then feel shit myself” thing - nobody wins there. "
Thank you for that. After 43 years of her being horny and then nothing, maybe I’m too surprised. I’ll take that advice on. Thanks again |
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By *ubyBlairWoman
over a year ago
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it.
Teasing her about it probably isn’t going to help the issue.
Yeah, this was my reaction too. Everyone has peaks and dips (I mean, I have those just over the course of a month so it’s bound to happen longer term). For example, I’m literally a hornbag one week of the month. A couple of weeks later? No chance…
But if a partner teased me about it? Yeah, that’s gonna shut it down even more.
I get you that it can feel lonely without sex, particularly if physical touch is one of your love languages, but you need to work on this together if you can. Not a “you have no sex drive, I’ll tease you about it and then feel shit myself” thing - nobody wins there.
Thank you for that. After 43 years of her being horny and then nothing, maybe I’m too surprised. I’ll take that advice on. Thanks again "
I mean goodness yeah. It must be a massive surprise and a shock to the system.
I bet she’s probably feeling pretty surprised by it too. Hormones are powerful things (if that’s the cause, anyway). And even if/when you ask her, she may not know what’s causing it. She might just not be feeling it.
Maybe time to start increasing the non-sexual touch (if you both want and that feels right for you) so you can some connection back, physically?
Hope you can come to a situation that works well for you both. |
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"Yeah, I woke up in the middle of the night
And I noticed my girl wasn't by my side
Coulda sworn I was dreamin' for her
I was feenin' so I had to take a little ride
Backtracking over these few years
Tryin' ta figure out what I do to make it go bad
'Cause ever since my girl left me
My whole life came crashing and I'm so lonely.."
He's Mr Lonely |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"Yeah, I woke up in the middle of the night
And I noticed my girl wasn't by my side
Coulda sworn I was dreamin' for her
I was feenin' so I had to take a little ride
Backtracking over these few years
Tryin' ta figure out what I do to make it go bad
'Cause ever since my girl left me
My whole life came crashing and I'm so lonely..
He's Mr Lonely "
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Here a different prospective .Maya and I don't have sex because of her I'll health not because she gone off it .yep its frustrating .but its not the end of the world .if your relationship
Is good other wise concentrate on other fun things. That you both can do together sharing humore and do things together communication
People sex drives change over time and come and go and come back again . talk to her see if she having any health issues to do with menapause or anything else .but talk to her .do things that make her feel good and if she feel good then you'll feel better too and who knows you may gain brownie point her desire may come back . |
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"Yeah, I woke up in the middle of the night
And I noticed my girl wasn't by my side
Coulda sworn I was dreamin' for her
I was feenin' so I had to take a little ride
Backtracking over these few years
Tryin' ta figure out what I do to make it go bad
'Cause ever since my girl left me
My whole life came crashing and I'm so lonely..
He's Mr Lonely
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EEW-9NDM5k |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is just one part of a relationship. If there is no physical affection at all such as hugs then you need to be having lots of honest conversations with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I woke up in the middle of the night
And I noticed my girl wasn't by my side
Coulda sworn I was dreamin' for her
I was feenin' so I had to take a little ride
Backtracking over these few years
Tryin' ta figure out what I do to make it go bad
'Cause ever since my girl left me
My whole life came crashing and I'm so lonely.."
I'm Mr. Lonely, Mr. Lonely
I have nobody, I have nobody
For my own, to call my own girl
I'm so lonely, so lonely
I'm Mr. Lonely, Mr. Lonely
I have nobody, I have nobody
For my own, to call my own girl
I am so lonely |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!!
Who is it you want to help ?
What kind of help do you want ?
What is it that needs fixing ?
Does it really need fixing ?"
Me
Chat
Me
Not really ! |
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"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!! "
So what do you want out of this thread? Permission to shag others, advice from forumites as to what you should do? You say you're lonely but your wife is still there talk to her don't be lonely if shes there or has relationship broken down?  |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!! So what do you want out of this thread? Permission to shag others, advice from forumites as to what you should do? You say you're lonely but your wife is still there talk to her don't be lonely if shes there or has relationship broken down? "
Was tongue in cheek. Can one delete these things!!! ????? |
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"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!!
But you still have your wife .
So how are you lonely?"
Possibly because often if sex isn't happening emotional intimacy goes. You can be lonely in a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it. "
Maybe the trading isint helping matters, try a diffrent tact, an open conversation, as to how this has left you feeling...and is a public post about this really necessary. As of it were about, and my partner had posted it I'd be pissed off. You'd be getting no easter eggs off me  |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Won’t she see this if you have a couples profile? Personally if it was me and I seen my husband putting up a post like this he’d certainly not be getting any
She isn’t bothered at the moment. I tease her with it.
Maybe the trading isint helping matters, try a diffrent tact, an open conversation, as to how this has left you feeling...and is a public post about this really necessary. As of it were about, and my partner had posted it I'd be pissed off. You'd be getting no easter eggs off me "
Was d*unk! Thought was light hearted!! |
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By *ash0000Man
over a year ago
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"Woo her, romance her, work that magic on her that you did all them years ago.
Not “fancy a Feckin good shag?” No? "
There’s always man’s best friend to help calm the frustration! Hand, grip, jerk until completion! |
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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago
Weymouth |
"How are you lonely if she's lost her sex drive? Surely that'd be something you'd feel if she didn't spend any time with you at all? Maybe I'm confused?
Is she going through the menopause? That can squash a sex drive. Stressed? Worried/anxious about something? Does it matter, if it's a short lived thing? Everyone goes through peaks and troughs. "
You can be in a room full of people and be incredibly lonely. Just because the OP has a wife doesn’t mean he cant feel lonely. I have a partner however I spend so much time alone I sometimes think I’m single. We sleep in seperate rooms and have t had sex for years and I can honestly say I’m incredibly lonely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe try a night where you just sweep her off her feet without the intentions of trying to have sex, dunno maybe that might get the spark/desire going? |
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"Wife gone off sex!! After being one horny lady!
Help!!! So what do you want out of this thread? Permission to shag others, advice from forumites as to what you should do? You say you're lonely but your wife is still there talk to her don't be lonely if shes there or has relationship broken down?
Was tongue in cheek. Can one delete these things!!! ?????"
nope the thread goes the 175 distance |
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just a thought xi'm sure yur heart is always devoted to her, but sumtimes we all need sum play