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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
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I think the demographic may shift slightly as those men who like ladies with a bit extra drift away in favour of men who like women without that bit extra.
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"Hi all
I have just had my surgery and was wondering if I will now have less guys interested in me or will there be guys who now will be interested "
Congratulations on your transition! You look wonderful and I sincerely hope it's everything you hope for. You must feel so much more comfortable in your own skin now.
I think the opinion expressed earlier is about right. You'll still attract guys, just a slightly different set.
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As above congratulations on your end goal and transition, I imagine the journey was tough!
You'll probably get less 'fab straight' guys now, buy im sure they will be replaced with more genuine suitors!
Good luck on the search |
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"Hi all
I have just had my surgery and was wondering if I will now have less guys interested in me or will there be guys who now will be interested "
Possibly less guys but more the ones interested will be better suited to you.
Quality not quantity |
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Congratulations on what has probably been a very long road to reach this point. I hope most people are wanting to find the joyful person, at peace with themselves, with whom they can have a Fab time. I hope so anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hiya,
Firstly congratulations, hope the recovery continues well.
Secondly, I do know exactly what you’re trying to describe. It can feel like you’re now this “halfway house” on here, those that specifically are looking for trans aren’t looking for you because you no longer have that specially extra something and those that are looking for women probably aren’t interested because of you past.
I’m not going to lie, it does happen to a degree but happily it’s a far less degree than I’d feared and whilst my history has been an issue for some, it’s been really pleasing to see how many there are around that take it in their stride.
I’ve had many differing versions of profile here since I joined, ranging from ones that have no indication of my past to full disclosure and the almost mid ground I have now which is fine for me, it does what I want, tells people who I am now without any shame about my past. I am who I am and if someone doesn’t want to meet me for that, I’d rather know up front.
Isn’t that what we all want after all ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I don't think you should be concerned about this, those who are aware of your transition into womanhood and are still interested are the ones who are worth your time. Don't let the men who view pre-op trans women as a fetish get you down and feel unwanted. What matters is the beginning of your new life and sexual exploration, congratulations Martene  |
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The main thing is you've surely gone through all the effort for yourself, there is someone for everyone but tripping over them is the hard bit.
In the right place to meet sex partners as a huge variety on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
I have just had my surgery and was wondering if I will now have less guys interested in me or will there be guys who now will be interested "
I would be interested in you before and after. Like someone said before, you will lose some guys that were interested in your male genitalia. But thats never been me. Its all about the femininity for me.
You will gain others. |
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Congratulations on everything you've accomplished, I hope things continue to go well and you enjoy your new chapter in life x
As for the guys - who cares? Those who have an issue with your past aren't worth your time, I'm sure a new wave of respectful gents who will accept you as you are will soon replace them.
Best of luck for the future x
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