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Does anyone take notice of interests on others profiles
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I don't think I have ever looked at anyone's interest lists.
Occasionally I look at mine to see if roleplay or phone sex or something else I'm asked for a thousand times a day has randomly added itself, but nope. |
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If I am fabbing the pics on someone's profile, then no I don't bother. As I usually get blocked for doing it.
If I am going to message the person for a compliment, then I might look at the interests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"before getting in touch with them?
Do you think any other things should be added to the interests categories and what would you like to see?….  "
They are rather random and simplistic. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No. I rarely look. I don't have any listed; I want to find out and discover someone's sexuality in a more fluid, organic approach. Those are the most exciting connections, where little things reveal themselves over time and you find yourself thinking about them and various scenarios.
Not some rather dull ticksheet which results in generic, I must appeal to you and feign an interest in it messages. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
It annoys me how vague the options are for interests on here, when someone specifies something like ‘spanking’ as an interest there’s no way of knowing whether that person is interested in being spanked or doing the spanking, similarly for things like fisting, blindfolds etc. I like being spanked and don’t like doing the spanking but when I see it as someone’s interest it could either mean we’re well suited in that aspect or totally unsuited, so it doesn’t really help much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It annoys me how vague the options are for interests on here, when someone specifies something like ‘spanking’ as an interest there’s no way of knowing whether that person is interested in being spanked or doing the spanking, similarly for things like fisting, blindfolds etc. I like being spanked and don’t like doing the spanking but when I see it as someone’s interest it could either mean we’re well suited in that aspect or totally unsuited, so it doesn’t really help much. "
That’s a very good point |
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"It annoys me how vague the options are for interests on here, when someone specifies something like ‘spanking’ as an interest there’s no way of knowing whether that person is interested in being spanked or doing the spanking, similarly for things like fisting, blindfolds etc. I like being spanked and don’t like doing the spanking but when I see it as someone’s interest it could either mean we’re well suited in that aspect or totally unsuited, so it doesn’t really help much. "
Never thought of that yes it's even more vague if it's a couple's profile. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"It annoys me how vague the options are for interests on here, when someone specifies something like ‘spanking’ as an interest there’s no way of knowing whether that person is interested in being spanked or doing the spanking, similarly for things like fisting, blindfolds etc. I like being spanked and don’t like doing the spanking but when I see it as someone’s interest it could either mean we’re well suited in that aspect or totally unsuited, so it doesn’t really help much.
Never thought of that yes it's even more vague if it's a couple's profile."
Oh yeah, I hadn’t thought of that either but I see what you mean…stating one of your interests as spanking could mean that one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked but you don’t want anyone else getting involved in the spanking at all….or one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked and you want someone else to get involved in the spanking by being spanked as well….or one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked and you’re looking for someone to get involved in the spanking by doing some spanking as well….or you both like to be spanked so you’re looking for someone to spank you both….or you both like to do the spanking so you’re looking for someone to spank or…repeat those options but only one of you is interested in spanking… |
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"It annoys me how vague the options are for interests on here, when someone specifies something like ‘spanking’ as an interest there’s no way of knowing whether that person is interested in being spanked or doing the spanking, similarly for things like fisting, blindfolds etc. I like being spanked and don’t like doing the spanking but when I see it as someone’s interest it could either mean we’re well suited in that aspect or totally unsuited, so it doesn’t really help much.
Never thought of that yes it's even more vague if it's a couple's profile.
Oh yeah, I hadn’t thought of that either but I see what you mean…stating one of your interests as spanking could mean that one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked but you don’t want anyone else getting involved in the spanking at all….or one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked and you want someone else to get involved in the spanking by being spanked as well….or one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked and you’re looking for someone to get involved in the spanking by doing some spanking as well….or you both like to be spanked so you’re looking for someone to spank you both….or you both like to do the spanking so you’re looking for someone to spank or…repeat those options but only one of you is interested in spanking…"
Same as fisting  |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
" that's a lot of spanking to think about "
I know, and a lot to write about…half way through I started to regret writing that but I was too far into it to quit and had to carry on till the end…I was going to do a full list of possibilities for just one of them being interested in spanking but i didn’t have it in me so I took the easy option and just said ‘repeat for just one being interested’ haha. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"It annoys me how vague the options are for interests on here, when someone specifies something like ‘spanking’ as an interest there’s no way of knowing whether that person is interested in being spanked or doing the spanking, similarly for things like fisting, blindfolds etc. I like being spanked and don’t like doing the spanking but when I see it as someone’s interest it could either mean we’re well suited in that aspect or totally unsuited, so it doesn’t really help much.
Never thought of that yes it's even more vague if it's a couple's profile.
Oh yeah, I hadn’t thought of that either but I see what you mean…stating one of your interests as spanking could mean that one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked but you don’t want anyone else getting involved in the spanking at all….or one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked and you want someone else to get involved in the spanking by being spanked as well….or one of you likes to spank and the other likes to be spanked and you’re looking for someone to get involved in the spanking by doing some spanking as well….or you both like to be spanked so you’re looking for someone to spank you both….or you both like to do the spanking so you’re looking for someone to spank or…repeat those options but only one of you is interested in spanking…
Same as fisting "
Yeah, same as anal as well |
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Oh heck yes. Every word. Even the Sydney Copypasta, just to see if it's been modified in some humorous way.
The current definitions are far too broad to be of any use.
Fred likes Watersports. So does Wilma.
Fred arrived with a canoe. Wilma brought a catheter.
And yet, despite all that...they both hit it off. |
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I’ve hardly looked at interests other than when single guys have bareback pics on their profile and they list safe sex as an interest 
All those ex girlfriends who give permission to have their naked bits out on a sex site so their ex boyfriend can find a new woman to stick their cock in 
I find that interesting… 
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"before getting in touch with them?
Do you think any other things should be added to the interests categories and what would you like to see?
Have a lovely evening all. "
Yep. As a single safe sex among other things and interest in SM, adults parties a bonus. As a couple those things but the big one is same room swapping. If not got that ticked and "just" soft swapping then no point in going further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might glance at their 'Interests' but usually I read their Bio. Get as far as BBC, or BWC, Gym fit, good looking etc then know I fit none of these requirements and leave. |
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"I don't think I have ever looked at anyone's interest lists.
Occasionally I look at mine to see if roleplay or phone sex or something else I'm asked for a thousand times a day has randomly added itself, but nope."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Doesn’t make a difference to us, just because we’re ‘interested’ in something doesn’t mean we do it, and we assume the same for others. Far more interested in compatibility from a politeness and physical attraction point of view before even thinking about discussing details x |
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