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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so i had a meet with a girl from a different site last night/ this morning. Reall nice looking girl, she drove down from liverpool to watford to stay in a hotel, which i thouht was a little strange. She told me she was on the pill even though i bought condoms, but at the end of the day i prefer not using them and ultimately its the ladies choice, so i was happy not to use them.

We shagged all night and again fron six till half ten this morning. Then as she gets out of the shower she tells me she isnt on the pill and has to get he morning after! And slips in she has two kids so dosent want anymore...what the fuck?!

I offered to drive her to a chemist after checkout and pay for it and she said she will do it later.

Cant help but think ive landed me a nutjob.

Anyone else had this before? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had it happen with ex gf's but not some random, women. Btw what other site was it ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why would you be foolish to trust her word anyway? ever heard of STI's??

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

think u may be right unfortunately !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

unwanted pregnancy is just half of your potential problems

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

May sound harsh but what a dumb thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so i had a meet with a girl from a different site last night/ this morning. Reall nice looking girl, she drove down from liverpool to watford to stay in a hotel, which i thouht was a little strange. She told me she was on the pill even though i bought condoms, but at the end of the day i prefer not using them and ultimately its the ladies choice, so i was happy not to use them.

I offered to drive her to a chemist after checkout and pay for it and she said she will do it later.

Cant help but think ive landed me a nutjob.

Anyone else had this before? X"

Why is your health her choice?! Not sure which one of you would be the daftest on this one at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why would you be foolish to trust her word anyway? ever heard of STI's??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nut job x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nut job x"

Her and the OP.

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By *exySwing3rsCouple over a year ago

In Your Hearts

OP - You mention in your profile that you are already in a relationship. You really should have been more careful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"May sound harsh but what a dumb thing to do. "

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I offered to drive her to a chemist after checkout and pay for it and she said she will do it later.

Cant help but think ive landed me a nutjob.

Anyone else had this before? X"

OK so you thought SHE had HER birth control sorted. What about YOUR birth control? Both partners have a responsibility here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"May sound harsh but what a dumb thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First word that springs to mind is the clinic lad so do your self a favour and get your tool a service

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"First word that springs to mind is the clinic lad so do your self a favour and get your tool a service

And don't shag your missus til you do!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I offered to drive her to a chemist after checkout and pay for it and she said she will do it later.

Cant help but think ive landed me a nutjob.

Anyone else had this before? X

OK so you thought SHE had HER birth control sorted. What about YOUR birth control? Both partners have a responsibility here."

well said!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"May sound harsh but what a dumb thing to do. "

I hate to sound rude, but my thoughts exactly.

Never trust ANYBODY but yourself!!!

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many other people has she visited and barebacked lately?

She's a nut job and you need to think about STI's.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

Schoolboy error... Lol

Playing roulette with you todger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I offered to drive her to a chemist after checkout and pay for it and she said she will do it later.

Cant help but think ive landed me a nutjob.

Anyone else had this before? X"

YES I HAVE . She really was a nutjob . Still haunts me to this day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"May sound harsh but what a dumb thing to do.

Up the creek no paddle sorry mate no boat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I offered to drive her to a chemist after checkout and pay for it and she said she will do it later.

Cant help but think ive landed me a nutjob.

Anyone else had this before? X"

What a dumbass ! In a relationship, cheating on your other half by having unprotected sex with complete strangers ? hope you're now having protected sex with your regular partner, that's a conversation I'd love to be in on !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know right. We had been talking for about four months on and off cam and i felt we were both really honest with eachother. But in person she was just as stunning but attitude wise, today obviously, just really different. I couldn't believe it. I even asked before cuming and she said to just do it!

As for my girlfriend, we haven't had sex in two months and i think i will be ending it with her soon anyway. And even if we become close again, i won't do anything until i know for sure im clean. I obviously dont want to hurt her, physically or emotionally.

Thanks for confirming my horrible horrible stomach turning doubts by the way.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"First word that springs to mind is the clinic lad so do your self a favour and get your tool a service

And don't shag your missus til you do!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why on earth would you go bareback with someone you don't know, condoms aren't just for pregnancy, what about STD's.

Lets hope two things dont happen here, you catching an STD, get down clinic and get tested, and CSA don't come knocking 9 months down the line

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By *o-jCouple over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Muppet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I offered to drive her to a chemist after checkout and pay for it and she said she will do it later.

Cant help but think ive landed me a nutjob.

Anyone else had this before? X

OK so you thought SHE had HER birth control sorted. What about YOUR birth control? Both partners have a responsibility here."
Listen to this lady she is so very right!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why would you be foolish to trust her word anyway? ever heard of STI's??

wow I can't believe you would even risk it!!!!!!!

gum clinic sir, post haste.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stupid boy!

You could have ended up with anything.. Much worse than an sti!

Tut..

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

are u nuts and why is the the choice the womans on birth control u took condoms u use them no argument. u mite aswell have stuck ur cock in a wasps nest u may get stung as much post on here 9 months from now wen shes tracking u down 4 maintenance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dumb and dumber springs to mind get yourself checked out ASAP. Cheaters never prosper they say

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it. "

Doesn't sound like a heat of the moment thing ! It was a controlled decision

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why would you be foolish to trust her word anyway? ever heard of STI's??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

shit happens won't cut it if he or especially his gf catches something as a result.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Indeed shit hapens and if every unprotected sex act tonignt manifests in a unwanted pregnacy or an STI then the world is doomed. I am not being complacent but the OP needs to have some medical tests and then if he is a daddy take full responsibility for his actions as does the (potential) Mummy including the medical tests!

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

i dont think you are the first and I doubt you will be the last to make this mistake but what is done cant be undone so try not to dwell on it and get checked out asap so u can get some peace of mind .. Wish you all the best !

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it. "

It is her fault too for saying he could play bareback and cum knowing full well she was lying. But birth control is NOT the females responsibility, and men really should realise that.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"I even asked before cuming and she said to just do it!"

So you obviously started off bareback aswell then, there was no hope from the beginning. -.-'

You DO realise that even if pregnancy was your only worry, you don't have to ejaculate for it to happen? Or did nobody have "the talk" with you?

And as for "I did it because she told me to"... REALLY?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best of luck OP she probably just winding you up , could be the same nutter I met

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Dumb and dumber springs to mind get yourself checked out ASAP. Cheaters never prosper they say

Definitely going to the clinic in two weeks time. I guess you would have had to have been there to understand the moment. She was stunning and we had a great time out for drinks first. She saidshe hadn't had it for a long time, why she was on the site, me too to be honest. But she was full of shit about everything after!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unsafe sex is a loaded gun just waiting to go off. In the heat of the moment surely consideration should have been given to your health. I know after the horse has bolted etc but you owe it to yourself and your partner to be fully checked. This is the problem that if your partner has no idea that you have been sleeping with someone else how could you be so selfish to risk her health. shameful.....

As for the female sadly if it transpires that she either falls pregnant or indeed claims that you are the father then sadly you are going to have to explain yourself to your partner. Likewise if you have contracted a STI you should take that as a shot across your bows & do the honourable thing & be a man, fess up and at least consider your partners health.

All this stress for unprotected sex. Hopefully you have learnt a very valid lesson and it all works out for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it.

It is her fault too for saying he could play bareback and cum knowing full well she was lying. But birth control is NOT the females responsibility, and men really should realise that."

Just because she said he could, doesn't mean he has to agree.

Any comeback whether it be pregnancy or STI, he only has himself to blame

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone else had this before? X"

...oddly enough.....no!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it. "

Well that's ok then ! as long as he's learned his lesson ! what a crock ! what about his other half ? and I'm not concerned with his infidelity and lack of moral fibre ! she could now well be the owner of all kinds of unsavoury and potentially harmful, possibly lethal diseases ! NO EXCUSES ! stupid & selfish end of !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We ALl make mistakes and I am certain the OP doesn't need telling he has been a wally believe me when I say he will know that already.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it.

It is her fault too for saying he could play bareback and cum knowing full well she was lying. But birth control is NOT the females responsibility, and men really should realise that."

do you think she would have agreed to go bareback had she known he was a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh deary me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dumb and dumber springs to mind get yourself checked out ASAP. Cheaters never prosper they say

Why wait two weeks?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all make mistakes in life and make decisions that can be life changing have you still got contact with this girl. You might have to contact her if you have got a dose she will need to know to get herself checked as well. I do hope things work out for you and please take care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

an unwanted pregnancy is easier to get rid of than aids, hope your going to go and get yourself tested before you pass anything onto your current partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes well I'm afraid this is a classic case of thinking with your dick isn't it.

It was a very stupid thing to do and no doubt you will have a little time of worrying about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it. "

yea but he wont learn if we all tell him not to worry. He's done a dumb thing, he's 27 not 17 and he asked outright "am I in trouble?". He claims he doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend emotionally and says he's safe in his profile but his actions say the opposite. He might be lucky and get away with no sti and no baby and I hope he does but I also hope he learns from his mistake.

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it.

It is her fault too for saying he could play bareback and cum knowing full well she was lying. But birth control is NOT the females responsibility, and men really should realise that."
what do u mean its her fault 4 saying he could play bare back. wen im offerd bare back i say no for my own safety, i know heat of the moment etc etc but silly move op silly move.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"an unwanted pregnancy is easier to get rid of than aids, hope your going to go and get yourself tested before you pass anything onto your current partner.

Good grief.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well at 27 you really should know better, having unprotected sex in this lifestyle is like playing Russian roulette with your life....really, you know all about STI's, AIDS etc? I suggest you get tested asap and not have unprotected sex with anyone else until the results are.

I really hope everything is ok with you and that you've learnt a valuable lesson. good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"an unwanted pregnancy is easier to get rid of than aids, hope your going to go and get yourself tested before you pass anything onto your current partner.

What an awful thing to say and not true either.

Not all unprotected sex will lead to STIs, not all STIs caught will be HIV and not all HIV+ patients will develop or die of AIDS

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me thinks you was thinking with the wrong head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You were happy not to use them, anything that happens be it pregnancy or STD is your fault. You made an informed decision. Next time don't think with your dick...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dumb and dumber springs to mind get yourself checked out ASAP. Cheaters never prosper they say

Why wait two weeks?"

I have always been told that need to wait 2 weeks as that is how long some sti take to show up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"an unwanted pregnancy is easier to get rid of than aids, hope your going to go and get yourself tested before you pass anything onto your current partner.

What a ridiculous, over the top comment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"an unwanted pregnancy is easier to get rid of than aids, hope your going to go and get yourself tested before you pass anything onto your current partner.

What an awful thing to say and not true either.

Not all unprotected sex will lead to STIs, not all STIs caught will be HIV and not all HIV+ patients will develop or die of AIDS

of course not all unprotected sex will lead to STIs, not all unprotected sex will lead to a pregnancy either. and i also didnt say that aids lead to death either

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so i am as honest as they come, she knew everything about me, and i thought i knew her. I waited a long time to meet her.

As for my other half as everyone keeps mentioning, we dent get physical anymore, our love life has well and truly died but believe me i wish mine had stayed dead....although not jinxing it to die now.

Its best to wait two weeks after having protected sex to get checked, unless you notice anything change then asap, as some sti's can taketo weeks to develop. I've never been, nor been such a prick before, i just like to be in the know in case i ever needed to...and now i do.

Thanks for all the responses, good and bad, although the ones calling me an idiot are pointing out the obvious.

And for those worried about my partner, don't be, trust me, she will be ok.

Thanks people

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Give him a break guys. Have been in his shoes and know exactly how he will me feeling. Yes he has made a big mistake , just like I did . Shit happens we just have to learn by it.

It is her fault too for saying he could play bareback and cum knowing full well she was lying. But birth control is NOT the females responsibility, and men really should realise that. what do u mean its her fault 4 saying he could play bare back. wen im offerd bare back i say no for my own safety, i know heat of the moment etc etc but silly move op silly move.

I said its her fault TOO! That is, they both should have made the decision. Why did she tell him to play bare? Why did he play bare??

We're treating the OP like a naughty schoolboy but it was her fault AS WELL.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"an unwanted pregnancy is easier to get rid of than aids, hope your going to go and get yourself tested before you pass anything onto your current partner.

What an awful thing to say and not true either.

Not all unprotected sex will lead to STIs, not all STIs caught will be HIV and not all HIV+ patients will develop or die of AIDS

I think the point that was being made was highlighting the worst case scenario. I think we all realise that not all unprotected leads to AIDS...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

And for those worried about my partner, don't be, trust me, she will be ok.

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By *exySwing3rsCouple over a year ago

In Your Hearts

If anything good comes out of this (if we can call it that) is that many others will read this and learn (albeit common sense but still keeps on happening).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x"

I don't think it is, he has effectively ruined his chance of meeting people by admitting he partakes in bare back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so i am as honest as they come, she knew everything about me, and i thought i knew her. I waited a long time to meet her.

Thanks for all the responses, good and bad, although the ones calling me an idiot are pointing out the obvious.

And for those worried about my partner, don't be, trust me, she will be ok.

Thanks people "

Interest take on being as "honest as they come".

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x

I don't think it is, he has effectively ruined his chance of meeting people by admitting he partakes in bare back"

Pretty sure he won't again!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x"

When it happened to me 2 yrs ago I didn't tell soul. Still havnt gone into details to this day.

So maybe you have a point

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Ok so i am as honest as they come, she knew everything about me, and i thought i knew her. I waited a long time to meet her.

Thanks for all the responses, good and bad, although the ones calling me an idiot are pointing out the obvious.

And for those worried about my partner, don't be, trust me, she will be ok.

Thanks people "

well said u seem sensible we have all been harsh bt u needed to learn, and u seem to know uv been a dick. hope all turns out ok and it is just a nervous few weeks and all ends well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"an unwanted pregnancy is easier to get rid of than aids, hope your going to go and get yourself tested before you pass anything onto your current partner.

What an awful thing to say and not true either.

Not all unprotected sex will lead to STIs, not all STIs caught will be HIV and not all HIV+ patients will develop or die of AIDS

Awesome counter argument ! denial in it's purest form !

Good luck to all subscribers of this sexual roulette doctrine !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x"

Not really, a bit of a stupid comment really. Why would somebody brag about being a dick in all honesty? I haven't had it in a while and got taken back by her looks straight off, shallow as that you ds but that's how it is. Also couldn't care what people think of me or i wouldn't have posted a conversation that makes me look and feel like a complete moron.

Just I've seen some good advice on here before and felt it was quite a friendly environment, i just wanted to know if others had experienced this and the outcome.

Your comment was just pointless. Had it even been the way you put it.

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By *adja_lazloCouple over a year ago

Solihull

"why would you be foolish to trust her word anyway? ever heard of STI's??

not about getting pregant for us, its the nastys that you can catch

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

some people find 'a problem shared is a problem halved' .. others carry the burden themselves ... dont think there is a right or wrong way to do it but just because someone chooses a different approach to me, i would not automatically assume they were lying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so i am as honest as they come, she knew everything about me, and i thought i knew her. I waited a long time to meet her.

Thanks for all the responses, good and bad, although the ones calling me an idiot are pointing out the obvious.

And for those worried about my partner, don't be, trust me, she will be ok.

Thanks people

well said u seem sensible we have all been harsh bt u needed to learn, and u seem to know uv been a dick. hope all turns out ok and it is just a nervous few weeks and all ends well

You will be fine OP. Keep your head down for a bit and try not analyse the situation to much it will send you mad. Get checked out then forget about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"some people find 'a problem shared is a problem halved' .. others carry the burden themselves ... dont think there is a right or wrong way to do it but just because someone chooses a different approach to me, i would not automatically assume they were lying "

Well said. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Every time this comes up , it's the same tirade of holier than thou comments !

Every Saturday night in every village , town and city tens of thousands late night shenanigans go on and yes - STI's and unwanted pregnancies do occur - but how many ? As a percentage of unprotected sex ? Does anyone actually know ?

Of course it could be seen as an unnecessary risk , but the op is just one of many who have been in the same position so before giving him such a hard time let's get things in perspective ?

We really hope it all works out for the op

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

so if she was a minger you would have used a condom? you cant cach ugly you know

your opening post did look ike you were looking for tea and sympathy and laying all the blame on her. 'ultimately its the ladies choice' ...did she say fuck me bare or go home? i doubt it. its always your choice as much as hers.

yes you have been stupid, yes you need to get checked, and yes you need to grow the fuck up and take some responsibility

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x

When it happened to me 2 yrs ago I didn't tell soul. Still havnt gone into details to this day.

So maybe you have a point"

I doubt it's fiction.

Who'd be daft enough to post something that might tempt many to push firmly on the big bad block button?

Naive? yes. Bullshitting? I don't think so.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x

Just I've seen some good advice on here before and felt it was quite a friendly environment, i just wanted to know if others had experienced this and the outcome.

Your comment was just pointless. Had it even been the way you put it."

You can't predict the outcome of this situation from the outcome of someone elses though. Does the lady know how to contact you if she is pregnant? Do you know how to contact her if how to contact her if you have contracted an STI? Not all unprotected sex ends badly and I hope it doesn't on this occasion for you and the lady.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time this comes up , it's the same tirade of holier than thou comments !

Of course it could be seen as an unnecessary risk , but the op is just one of many who have been in the same position so before giving him such a hard time let's get things in perspective ?

We really hope it all works out for the op

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well i would say you learn a lesson ... life has away of doing that to us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x

Just I've seen some good advice on here before and felt it was quite a friendly environment, i just wanted to know if others had experienced this and the outcome.

Your comment was just pointless. Had it even been the way you put it."

Why post something then if you already knew the answer?

Yes I know, it's because you can.

You have a g/f you are on a swingers site,so you are cheating on your g/f, you are meeting others for sex and meet a girl fuck her bb with no thought of your g/f then ask are you you being stupid?

Did you think that people would say go for it fill your boots?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said. Thanks."

If you need a friend to talk to mate pm me I am happy to chat and here to listen. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well i would say you learn a lesson ... life has away of doing that to us. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give the guy a break this site is full of dirty barebackers who make out they practice safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"so if she was a minger you would have used a condom? you cant cach ugly you know

yes you have been stupid, yes you need to get checked, and yes you need to grow the fuck up and take some responsibility"

As in you can't get pissed off if she wants you to wear one is what i meant, which i know is obvious and pointless me saying but i didn't put a great deal of thought in the opening message to be honest.

Been bothering me all day and just had to let it out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time this comes up , it's the same tirade of holier than thou comments !

Of course it could be seen as an unnecessary risk , but the op is just one of many who have been in the same position so before giving him such a hard time let's get things in perspective ?

We really hope it all works out for the op

"
Indeed good point well made see earlier!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you need a friend to talk to mate pm me I am happy to chat and here to listen. Good luck "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time this comes up , it's the same tirade of holier than thou comments !

Of course it could be seen as an unnecessary risk , but the op is just one of many who have been in the same position so before giving him such a hard time let's get things in perspective ?

We really hope it all works out for the op

I'm not the holier than tho brigade and people who had read a thread about cheating would know that I posted on there and I cheated!

Also you would see in other posts that we are against the anti bb threads/posts!

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By *o-jCouple over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let it be a lesson . Rubber up to all in future!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?"

He hasnt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so if she was a minger you would have used a condom? you cant cach ugly you know

yes you have been stupid, yes you need to get checked, and yes you need to grow the fuck up and take some responsibility"

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x

Just I've seen some good advice on here before and felt it was quite a friendly environment, i just wanted to know if others had experienced this and the outcome.

Your comment was just pointless. Had it even been the way you put it.

Why post something then if you already knew the answer?

Yes I know, it's because you can.

You have a g/f you are on a swingers site,so you are cheating on your g/f, you are meeting others for sex and meet a girl fuck her bb with no thought of your g/f then ask are you you being stupid?

Did you think that people would say go for it fill your boots?"

The question wasn't have i been an absolute bell end and risked my health?

Nice to know im not the only one on a site that experienced it.

Its easy to do it on a night out and a one night stand, that shit happens every night to thousands. I just wanted to know whether people on a swingers site had expirenced it. Its a different world to me afterall.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"so if she was a minger you would have used a condom? you cant cach ugly you know

yes you have been stupid, yes you need to get checked, and yes you need to grow the fuck up and take some responsibility

Been bothering me all day and just had to let it out."

Well in that case you have probably learned a valuable lesson and I hope that's all it is. But can you not see how disrespectful you are being to your current partner?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time this comes up , it's the same tirade of holier than thou comments !

Of course it could be seen as an unnecessary risk , but the op is just one of many who have been in the same position so before giving him such a hard time let's get things in perspective ?

We really hope it all works out for the op

I'm not the holier than tho brigade and people who had read a thread about cheating would know that I posted on there and I cheated!

Also you would see in other posts that we are against the anti bb threads/posts!"

Certainly didn't suggest you were !

My post was written before yours lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?"

Could not give one thought about a meet, ever again. Just needed to air some thoughts.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

He hasnt"

to be fair he hasnt, he has just knackered up a chance of meeting some people off the forums. only a small percentage of people use the forums.

What i hope he has done is realised the mistake he made and hopefully he has swerved not just an STI but also a knock from the CSA in 9 months time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thinking this post is a look at me post...

I mean why would a grown up male post something like this??

Bb sex with a stunning woman then trying so say was woman's fault.

Something doesn't ring true here x

Just I've seen some good advice on here before and felt it was quite a friendly environment, i just wanted to know if others had experienced this and the outcome.

Your comment was just pointless. Had it even been the way you put it.

Why post something then if you already knew the answer?

Yes I know, it's because you can.

You have a g/f you are on a swingers site,so you are cheating on your g/f, you are meeting others for sex and meet a girl fuck her bb with no thought of your g/f then ask are you you being stupid?

Did you think that people would say go for it fill your boots?

The question wasn't have i been an absolute bell end and risked my health?

Nice to know im not the only one on a site that experienced it.

Ffs read our above post

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?"

dont think he has at all .. hes made a mistake and put his hands up !!

we all make mistakes from time to time regardless of the magnitude and live to regret them .. i think that is just part and parcel of being human. I cant see any reason why he cant go on to have future meets once he has got the all clear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so if she was a minger you would have used a condom? you cant cach ugly you know

yes you have been stupid, yes you need to get checked, and yes you need to grow the fuck up and take some responsibility

Been bothering me all day and just had to let it out."

Why can't you get pissed off? Why can;t you turn round and say you don't do bareback and it's not open to discussion?

Grow a pair and stop trying to avoid taking responsibility for your actions.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

this is making your user name look a bit ironic though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

He hasnt"

The op knows he has made a mistake and knows to use condoms from now on so why would he ruin his chances just because he was asking some advice. Yes probably made things harder for himself but at the end of the day we are human and we all make mistakes and forgiveness should also be available on a swingers site as in life itself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only thoughts I would like to air OP, your question, am I in trouble?

A grown man would know.

A man who protests their honesty would not cheat.

A man who then blames a woman and makes it a woman's choice is irresponsible.

The only person I feel sorry for is your girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well said. Thanks.

If you need a friend to talk to mate pm me I am happy to chat and here to listen. Good luck "

Cheers pal, i just tried to message you and the other guy to say thanks, and if its ok ill be in touch if the shit hits the fan but it would not let me message.

Im off to bed. Stressed and tired. Thanks though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

dont think he has at all .. hes made a mistake and put his hands up !!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

He hasnt

he actually hasnt said he has learnt hos lesson or that he will use condoms in the future. in his OP he states that he doesnt like to use them so it sounds like he doesnt use them on any meet

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Yup.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said. Thanks.

If you need a friend to talk to mate pm me I am happy to chat and here to listen. Good luck

Cheers pal, i just tried to message you and the other guy to say thanks, and if its ok ill be in touch if the shit hits the fan but it would not let me message.

Im off to bed. Stressed and tired. Thanks though."

Hey dude stay safe sleep well chat to u soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only thoughts I would like to air OP, your question, am I in trouble?

A grown man would know.

A man who protests their honesty would not cheat.

A man who then blames a woman and makes it a woman's choice is irresponsible.

The only person I feel sorry for is your girlfriend."

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"Give the guy a break this site is full of dirty barebackers who make out they practice safe sex."

He didn't need to fuck her bare back - he chose to do so and he needs to face up and man up to the consequences - i just hope he hasn't passed on any nasty diseases to his innocent partner. Z

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

He hasnt

he actually hasnt said he has learnt hos lesson or that he will use condoms in the future. in his OP he states that he doesnt like to use them so it sounds like he doesnt use them on any meet"

That's a fair point but to be honest I think he might be overwhelmed by the response he has had lol

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

"Give the guy a break this site is full of dirty barebackers who make out they practice safe sex.

He didn't need to fuck her bare back - he chose to do so and he needs to face up and man up to the consequences - i just hope he hasn't passed on any nasty diseases to his innocent partner. Z"

as he previously stated that they no longer have an intimate relationship .. i think that is probably unlikely !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Definitely begging it from now on! Not for site readers, to hopefully somehow get meets back on, couldn't care about that, having a lot of people tell you what a bell end you've been, well it has an effect.
"Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

He hasnt

he actually hasnt said he has learnt hos lesson or that he will use condoms in the future. in his OP he states that he doesnt like to use them so it sounds like he doesnt use them on any meet"

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Make a note of the date, keep her details, make an appointment to get tested in two weeks as soon as you can on Monday.

If you end up with a child because of this don't take it out on the child.

Always remember that a stunning woman is not enough reason to lose all reason.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Good luck to all concerned...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"Give the guy a break this site is full of dirty barebackers who make out they practice safe sex.

He didn't need to fuck her bare back - he chose to do so and he needs to face up and man up to the consequences - i just hope he hasn't passed on any nasty diseases to his innocent partner. Z

as he previously stated that they no longer have an intimate relationship .. i think that is probably unlikely ! "

lol - a liar is a liar - who knows what he has told his partner? Z

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely begging it from now on! Not for site readers, to hopefully somehow get meets back on, couldn't care about that, having a lot of people tell you what a bell end you've been, well it has an effect.Do you realise you completely knackered any chance of a meet on fab now ?

1) you're in a relationship

2) you say on your profile that you're "safe"

3) you've also chosen 'safe sex' as one of your selection criteria.

I hope you are going to put a link to this thread on your profile too so that any potential meet knows full well that you don't mean a word you say and that you're actually quite a foolish person.

Harsh?

You betcha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

I didnt realise this gave carte blanche for sexist remarks!!!

tut tut tut

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The op is OK getting himself cheeked.And as for him not doing well here on fab after this ... He will .. You read some of the forums about them licking cum out of each other some here will only play bear back. Its there life .. Thay know the risks .OP MADE A Choice and its his life .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango "

The only difference is the op is here taking all the flak and the lady concerned is no where to be sene on this site shame she was not getting told as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango

The only difference is the op is here taking all the flak and the lady concerned is no where to be sene on this site shame she was not getting told as well "

Perhaps she not on here ?!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango

The only difference is the op is here taking all the flak and the lady concerned is no where to be sene on this site shame she was not getting told as well "

Makes you wonder why the op posted this in the first place? Reality or fantasy? Z

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The op is OK getting himself cheeked.And as for him not doing well here on fab after this ... He will .. You read some of the forums about them licking cum out of each other some here will only play bear back. Its there life .. Thay know the risks .OP MADE A Choice and its his life .

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango

The only difference is the op is here taking all the flak and the lady concerned is no where to be sene on this site shame she was not getting told as well

Perhaps she not on here ?!"

I think the op said they were off another site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

I didnt realise this gave carte blanche for sexist remarks!!!

tut tut tut"

How's that sexist?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible."

As i said before - i agree with you - the guy is just so wrong on so many different levels it's incredible, and he started the thread for what reason? Z

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread should be closed now its got stupid

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Why am I getting an image of the villagers running upto the castle... Flaming torches in hand screaming 'there is the monster'......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why am I getting an image of the villagers running upto the castle... Flaming torches in hand screaming 'there is the monster'......"

perfect people live perfect lives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible.

As i said before - i agree with you - the guy is just so wrong on so many different levels it's incredible, and he started the thread for what reason? Z"

Sympathy?

Lesson on the birds and the bees?

Girlfriend out?

Who knows lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"This thread should be closed now its got stupid"

Most threads would be closed really quickly with that reasoning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible."
alot here married girl friends playing away .. this site has a mix .. and maybe he will get his cheeks soon and i hope to god she don't turn up on his door step baby in arms .. no ones to blame only them .. As i say thay made this choice he trusted a woman he really did not know.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why am I getting an image of the villagers running upto the castle... Flaming torches in hand screaming 'there is the monster'......"

You forgot the pitchforks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why am I getting an image of the villagers running upto the castle... Flaming torches in hand screaming 'there is the monster'......"

Sorry wrong castle!! You want the next one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why am I getting an image of the villagers running upto the castle... Flaming torches in hand screaming 'there is the monster'......"

Sounds like a scene from shrek

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why am I getting an image of the villagers running upto the castle... Flaming torches in hand screaming 'there is the monster'......"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread should be closed now its got stupid"

Op asks a question, people have their opinion, freedom of speech and just because things don't go our way in life doesn't make them stop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible. alot here married girl friends playing away .. this site has a mix .. and maybe he will get his cheeks soon and i hope to god she don't turn up on his door step baby in arms .. no ones to blame only them .. As i say thay made this choice he trusted a woman he really did not know. "

I will say Jo that anyone who trusts a woman is quite clearly mad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All I know is my feet are freezing anyone got any condoms I can put on them lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"Why am I getting an image of the villagers running upto the castle... Flaming torches in hand screaming 'there is the monster'......

You forgot the pitchforks."

Not an accurate analogy - it's been a well behaved thread - a cheat starting a thread complaining about being lulled into going bare back as she was on the pill - sorry - that doesn't prevent the spread of venereal disease - he needs to look to himself and consider his partner and begin to take responsibility for his own actions. Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible.

As i said before - i agree with you - the guy is just so wrong on so many different levels it's incredible, and he started the thread for what reason? Z

Sympathy?

Lesson on the birds and the bees?

Girlfriend out?

Who knows lol

Just for advice actually and I've got some helpful people to talk to about it now, should i need to. That all.there are a lot of friendly and helpful people on this site.

Very tired now. Say what you will, im off to bed. Thanks again everyone. X

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible.

As i said before - i agree with you - the guy is just so wrong on so many different levels it's incredible, and he started the thread for what reason? Z

Sympathy?

Lesson on the birds and the bees?

Girlfriend out?

Who knows lol

Just for advice actually and I've got some helpful people to talk to about it now, should i need to. That all.there are a lot of friendly and helpful people on this site.

Very tired now. Say what you will, im off to bed. Thanks again everyone. X"

Sleep well, next to your partner who you may have passed vd to,as well as lied to, Z

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

To believe that he does not have an intimate relationship with her or that it may not happen given the risks he takes is not plausible.

As i said before - i agree with you - the guy is just so wrong on so many different levels it's incredible, and he started the thread for what reason? Z

Sympathy?

Lesson on the birds and the bees?

Girlfriend out?

Who knows lol

Just for advice actually and I've got some helpful people to talk to about it now, should i need to. That all.there are a lot of friendly and helpful people on this site.

Very tired now. Say what you will, im off to bed. Thanks again everyone. X"

Come on only 23 posts to endure

Can't slack of yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango

The only difference is the op is here taking all the flak and the lady concerned is no where to be sene on this site shame she was not getting told as well

Makes you wonder why the op posted this in the first place? Reality or fantasy? Z"

That was our 1st thought too, we posted the same x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango

The only difference is the op is here taking all the flak and the lady concerned is no where to be sene on this site shame she was not getting told as well

Makes you wonder why the op posted this in the first place? Reality or fantasy? Z

That was our 1st thought too, we posted the same x"

lol - i didn't read all the posts - so i'm not alone in my thinking then? Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"Stupid, stupid and even more bloody stupid!

Why men think with their cocks is beyond me!! It's not as if education is not out there!

And woman think with their fannies

Takes 2 to tango and they both made the choice to tango

The only difference is the op is here taking all the flak and the lady concerned is no where to be sene on this site shame she was not getting told as well

Makes you wonder why the op posted this in the first place? Reality or fantasy? Z

That was our 1st thought too, we posted the same x"

lol - i didn't read all the posts - so i'm not alone in my thinking then? Z

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

I will say Jo that anyone who trusts a woman is quite clearly mad

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well i am sure alot of woman can be trusted to tell the truth .. But all we can go on is what OP say .. thay made there bed now thay have to lay in it .. And it may have consequences.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

And yes fine him and his playmates go do whatever as it is their choice.

His girlfriend who has no idea has no choice.

I will say Jo that anyone who trusts a woman is quite clearly mad

well i am sure alot of woman can be trusted to tell the truth .. But all we can go on is what OP say .. thay made there bed now thay have to lay in it .. And it may have consequences."

You're probably the wisest and sweetest person that i have ever come across - i haven't met you but i would love to - you're lovely. Z

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ditto ... Us too xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the OP is probably regretting posting now. The fact that he was stupid is stating the obvious. It wasn't just his fault or just her fault, it was both of them.

Lots of valid points from posters.

The initial post may just have been bashed out on a keyboard amidst panic/stress/worry/guilt - only the OP knows if its fact or fiction; I actually hope its fiction, for the sake of all concerned. But if its fact, gum clinic, decide whether you want to remain on here/swinging or make a go of things with your girlfriend. You my friend, have a lot of long hard thinking to do. You can't turn back the clock, so learn to be sensible and learn from your errors.

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By *amschwingerzCouple over a year ago

West

"First word that springs to mind is the clinic lad so do your self a favour and get your tool a service

And don't shag your missus til you do!

Best 2 bits of advice..

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