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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a meet some months ago with an "attractive couple" with pictures to boot. The agreement of the first meet was that "mr" would meet me first for safety, understandable I thought. Then if things went well things would move on from there. When I met "mr" it soon became apparent there was no "mrs" when all he wanted was photos of me naked and offered to help me get an erection for the sake of the camera. Don't get me wrong I'm no homaphobe but my profile clearly states straight. I promptly left. Then bollocked myself for being so gullible. The whole scene can be a bit of a con but I'm glad I've stuck with it and met some nice genuine peeps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a meet some months ago with an "attractive couple" with pictures to boot. The agreement of the first meet was that "mr" would meet me first for safety, understandable I thought. Then if things went well things would move on from there. When I met "mr" it soon became apparent there was no "mrs" when all he wanted was photos of me naked and offered to help me get an erection for the sake of the camera. Don't get me wrong I'm no homaphobe but my profile clearly states straight. I promptly left. Then bollocked myself for being so gullible. The whole scene can be a bit of a con but I'm glad I've stuck with it and met some nice genuine peeps."
unless verified and meeting at a club, we always ask for phone chat with both there present. and even do this regardless on many occasion |
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"I had a meet some months ago with an "attractive couple" with pictures to boot. The agreement of the first meet was that "mr" would meet me first for safety, understandable I thought. Then if things went well things would move on from there. When I met "mr" it soon became apparent there was no "mrs" when all he wanted was photos of me naked and offered to help me get an erection for the sake of the camera. Don't get me wrong I'm no homaphobe but my profile clearly states straight. I promptly left. Then bollocked myself for being so gullible. The whole scene can be a bit of a con but I'm glad I've stuck with it and met some nice genuine peeps."
Id not meet just one half....it's a bit like viewing a car without the wheels on... hope you have more success next time  |
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Oh don't get me wrong I've had some great meets since and to be honest the whole thing opened my eyes up to a scene that I knew little about. In a way I'm glad it happened as it pointed out a pitfall that never crossed my mind. Whilst still reasonably new to the scene, I've wised up very swiftly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally if I am meeting a couple I am meeting a couple, not one half and I wouldn't expect one half to arrive without the other. You only have yourself to blame, if you are meeting a couple, both people would and should be there, no compromise at all, no safety rubbish. If you are arranging to meet a couple, you are potentially the one not safe as you are single, they are a couple, he has therefore come to 'protect' her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh don't get me wrong I've had some great meets since and to be honest the whole thing opened my eyes up to a scene that I knew little about. In a way I'm glad it happened as it pointed out a pitfall that never crossed my mind. Whilst still reasonably new to the scene, I've wised up very swiftly"
Happy days then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That reminds me of a 'couple' me and my ex was talking to many years ago
We was quite new to all this and got chatting to this 'couple' in the old MSN rooms, i said it was years ago lol
The guy told us his wife was very fussy about who she played with so first meet would be just him for a 3sum and if we impressed him enough to think his wife would want to play with us he would bring her next meet
As i said we was new to all this but not flipping stupid  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
We have all made mistakes - especially at the beginning of our internet meeting careers. I certainly have. However, it has taught you something valuable which you have evidently taken on board.
A little older, a little wiser. |
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"Oh don't get me wrong I've had some great meets since and to be honest the whole thing opened my eyes up to a scene that I knew little about. In a way I'm glad it happened as it pointed out a pitfall that never crossed my mind. Whilst still reasonably new to the scene, I've wised up very swiftly"
Lesson learned then.....
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