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Just been blocked and no idea why ?
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Not sure how she had the will power to not say "hasta la vista, baby", before blocking...
But check out the countless words you hate, phrases you hate or ick threads. It's a minefield out there. Say an innocent word and they're getting sick in their mouths.
And watever happens never ever say... moist panties.
I'm probably blocked by another 100 people now.
Point is, people are strange, anything can put people off, don't worry about it or overthink it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocked by many here - usually best to jump to the conclusion they have decided you're a piece of shit for whatever reason. But don't let it knock you down and be yourself cause there will be other people on your page!
Some people just don't know a good thing when it's in front of them right? (this is a joke if you have blocked me please don't report me) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had the same yesterday, have been speaking to someone for sometime and now I’ve been blocked, we wasn’t going to meet because they were too far away, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blocked by many here - usually best to jump to the conclusion they have decided you're a piece of shit for whatever reason. But don't let it knock you down and be yourself cause there will be other people on your page!
Some people just don't know a good thing when it's in front of them right? (this is a joke if you have blocked me please don't report me)"
I’ll give it till 3pm before you’re off again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blocked by many here - usually best to jump to the conclusion they have decided you're a piece of shit for whatever reason. But don't let it knock you down and be yourself cause there will be other people on your page!
Some people just don't know a good thing when it's in front of them right? (this is a joke if you have blocked me please don't report me)
I’ll give it till 3pm before you’re off again "
At this rate probably. I've upset some very influential people. It's like a man on the run out on here for me atm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?
I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.
Can you show me how quick your fingers are?
F"
Sure, how are we gonna do this though? Like a typing test thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?
I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.
Unblock me for fun "
Ah I'd never block you. Your cock is far too pretty. |
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By *m_hardMan
over a year ago
Swaffham |
Sometimes a really hot chat ends in me being blocked, because they wanked all the way to an orgasm.
If you have exchanged many messages and get blocked when you didn't do anything wrong, the person may be ego-dystonic about sex, be lacking in confidence or simply tired of the lies they told you throughout and want a reset.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?
I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.
Can you show me how quick your fingers are?
F
Sure, how are we gonna do this though? Like a typing test thing? "
Yeah, something like that
F |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?
I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.
Can you show me how quick your fingers are?
F
Sure, how are we gonna do this though? Like a typing test thing?
Yeah, something like that
F"
Following... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they accidentally blocked you?
I have actually done this before, too quick with my fingers.
Unblock me for fun
Ah I'd never block you. Your cock is far too pretty. "
Peen said don’t be a stranger |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
Yea it happens, try not let it discourage you.
We block most people that message and we have no intention of chatting to/meeting. That said if we have been chatting we say why before and leave it amicably. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens op, block in return and move on."
Yeah I've had this a few times or just stop replying.
Ive checked through messages and nothing odd. One hadn't blocked me and we thinking of meeting then noticed they meet another guy that week.
It could be so many reasons. Personal stuff, overwhelmed, other options.
At least when blocking you know it's a no. Its note frustrating when people dont reply it delete as you have no idea what's going on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea it happens, try not let it discourage you.
We block most people that message and we have no intention of chatting to/meeting. That said if we have been chatting we say why before and leave it amicably. "
I like this approach. Especially as you may have done something innocently to offend someone. Left knowing where you stand.
At least then you can course correct in future if it holds true. |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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Relax mate.
I go to check profiles who I have never even talked to and they have already blocked me! I do wonder why, but have to shrug it off as it is not worth my time getting upset by it.
Like you, I have also chatted fine and then got blocked for no reason known to me too. but life goes on and its them who are missing out! |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Yea it happens, try not let it discourage you.
We block most people that message and we have no intention of chatting to/meeting. That said if we have been chatting we say why before and leave it amicably.
I like this approach. Especially as you may have done something innocently to offend someone. Left knowing where you stand.
At least then you can course correct in future if it holds true."
Yup exactly. How are you supposed to learn/develop if not given the opportunity?
Feel sorry for the genuine guys on here tbh as the numpties make it hard work for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's either you pissed them off, you turned them off, or they just wanted to blank you off.
It happens. Consider that they did you a favour. Because clearly they're not people you should be wasting energy on. |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
"It's happened to me too, I can't understand as I'm always polite to them, wish they would just have the guts to say that there not interested anymore."
Perhaps they get inundated with messages (we do). I wouldn’t take it personally, after all it’s just a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve done this, sometimes it’s just because I’ve decided it’s not working for me and they’re not getting my hint (or even straight no) the whole ‘stay friends and chatter anyway’ thing becomes too much
I also won’t give feedback because a lot lot lot of the time it’s because of a red flag, others will want to see the same flag as I did. If I gave feedback, that would just make them more sneaky
If they’re actually a genuine person and listening to the conversation we’re having, I wouldn’t be pushed to these measures. Those genuine few are the ones I get to say a fond farewell to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just happened to me. I was chatting to a woman and getting on well. We swapped face pics and she said I was "handsome". I said I'd be up for meeting her and she said "That sounds good to me". Then suddenly I'm blocked. |
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I feel for you man, I share your pain.
I was talking to a charming young woman a while back and then nothing. My heart was broken. I thought we had something special, she was even a switch and witchy one at that!
Life is cruel good sir. Don't be sad that it ended, be glad that it happened. Also don't use that line when you dump someone, it doesn't go down well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked..... |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked..... "
Possibly just not her type? |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?"
Why block? Just don't bother with me |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with me"
Perhaps just no interest in meeting/chatting and would rather just block. |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with me" It could be they didn't like something you said on the forum |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with me"
That doesn't prevent you contacting her at any point (in theory). |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum"
Yeah I do have that effect |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum
Yeah I do have that effect " Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum
Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone"
You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum
Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone
You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years " lol I haven't blocked you |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Op seriously I understand yeah why I didn't do anything but please don't let it bother you its online and plenty more we can't always be someone's liking or they thought hey hey and it backfires at a later date I've been here for 9 years I'm still here because I've made some genuine fantastic friends and you know the rest keeps us going so keep your chin up everything happens for a reason you don't need to be the one at fault |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum
Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone
You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years lol I haven't blocked you"
I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones |
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It does happen a lot and most of the time you can never work it out.
I had a couple contact me arrange a meet for a massage. All went well and afterwards I had a very complementary message and a great verification then without any messages between us they blocked me.
I then realised why they needed a varification once they had one from a couple my verification was no longer needed and I was blocked.
As someone else has said just moved on. |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum
Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone
You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years lol I haven't blocked you
I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones " Thankyou. I joined the site 6 months after it opened. Did you have a different name back then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum
Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone
You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years lol I haven't blocked you
I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones Thankyou. I joined the site 6 months after it opened. Did you have a different name back then"
Yes I've had a few,I will tell you in a PM if you care |
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"It's quite bizarre,I clicked on a women's profile in the forum today, I've never spoke to her in the forum's or by PM, she's only been on fab 3months,anyway I'm blocked.....
Possibly just not her type?
Why block? Just don't bother with meIt could be they didn't like something you said on the forum
Yeah I do have that effect Don't worry about it I've blocked people from the forums and some have blocked me. You can't please everyone
You haven't blocked me have you,I've loved you from afar for years lol I haven't blocked you
I remember you about 8 years ago when I first went into the forums,one of the good ones Thankyou. I joined the site 6 months after it opened. Did you have a different name back then
Yes I've had a few,I will tell you in a PM if you care" Yes that would be good |
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