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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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Im not looking to date anyone with the notion of a relasionship but, if I did then, I would include what I was into here into any potential dating experiences. My "lifestyle" is part of who I am and I couldn't misslead anybody to think anything different.
They are then in the position of making an inform choice to date me or not.
But I not looking for a potential partner anyway.
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Not on any dating sites, and not really looking for anyone.
If I did enter into a relationship with someone then yes I would say that I'm in this lifestyle as its a part of who I am.
It would be great if I found someone in this lifestyle or be open to it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not on any dating sites, and not really looking for anyone.
If I did enter into a relationship with someone then yes I would say that I'm in this lifestyle as its a part of who I am.
It would be great if I found someone in this lifestyle or be open to it.
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Yep I've got chatting to people on other apps who are on here..I usually approach it by asking if they are on any other adult websites (my profiles indicate non vanilla and polyamorous) and that usually opens the conversation up. Still doesn't go anywhere though. A dating section here would go a long way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen a few people from fab on other dating sites and got me wondering....if you met someone from other site...would you tell them your on here? "
We actually met on plenty of fish, now married, now on her together. |
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I'm on dating sites aswell not logged in to any in a while but my intentions are made clear on them when I have been on and chatting that I'm not looking for any sort of commitment just to much in ny life right now for a full on relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I deleted my profile when I was dating someone from a dating app...
I wouldn't tell them I was on here because what I do prior to dating someone is not their business... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m on other dating sites and if I end up dating someone, I’ll most likely come off here - it’s what I’ve done in the past and then I end up back whenever I’m single again. "
Yeah that's my approach also. I experimented telling women i.was only looking for open casual when I was busy building a business and studying ams out of 40+ only 1 was happy with that. |
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I’ve always been open about this when I have met up with people on dating sites, and taken a break from it when I’ve started to see someone. Most women have been very non judgemental and very interested.
Currently deleted all dating apps and being a singleton for a while. |
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I do use other apps with some success, I do tend to say first def not on for anything serious and if it develops then mention fab to them. Most of the time turns out they are or have been on fab anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll either be on here or a dating site, not both at the same time. Not ready for a full relationship, still got some healing to do, but when I am ready I’ll leave here and look for someone long term. It wouldn’t bother me explaining that I had been on here, but I’m not looking for loads of conquests, just someone to have fun with. |
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"I've seen a few people from fab on other dating sites and got me wondering....if you met someone from other site...would you tell them your on here? "
Other ?
This is not a dating site.
No I wouldn't tell them right away. What would be the point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am on another dating site and I would tell them about my sexual preferences etc. would depend on the person I found if I would tell them about fab.
However I would leave fab if I found someone I connected with and was to pursue a relationship with.
Counter question:
Is there many people on Fab actually looking to date? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t stay on here if I met someone from a dating site (and it got serious). I’d be off!"
^ this.
I'm on a dating site and fellas from here who are on same dating site tend to have blurred lines and treat the dating site like fab ie a gateway for a f*ck.
I did meet up with a chap recently from dating site who was only a couple of years older than me, seemed way older than his years. There was no "oomph" in him  |
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I am on some online dating apps. For me, things get serious with someone once it becomes sexual. It’s at that point I hide my fab profile and concentrate on the relationship. I don’t share my fab experiences with them unless I sense it will be taken well.
If I have to choose, a ‘normal’ relationship is more important to me. But, ideally, I’d like to find someone who would be open to the swinging lifestyle. Meeting and dating someone I meet on Fab would be great. Interested parties will find a link to the application form at the bottom of this page.
*Please bear in mind that not all applicants will get an interview. |
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Depends on the relationship. Once we are at a place where we have discussed relationship boundaries openly and agreed them, I stick to my word.
I don't expect to know every detail about a partner including online activity. If I feel I can't trust them or like they don't trust me. It's not going anywhere further.
Testing me rather than talking openly is a red flag for me. If I call that out and they don't own it I am usually gone. |
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