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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But does that make a good fuck?
How would you rate yourself firstly in looks department and fuckability
Let's see who's shallow enough to give themselves a 10... because none of us are "that" perfect
I'm a solid 5 in looks and 5 again in fuckability |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks 5 or 6
Sex 6 or 7, with rare glimpses of 9 & 10
I think who you're with sexually is quite often the decider
As much as you'd like them to, some people just don't bring the 9's & 10's out in you
And, for measure, there are some that would probably say the same about me
Attraction & compatibility in equal measures make for best results |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's not shallow if you say 10. I'd rather that then forced self deprecation alluding to a modesty/desire to be complimented.
Physically? I'd say I'm a solid 6. Chubby. Cute-ish face, good bum and boobs. The sort of body you can easily grab, enjoy the feeling of my skin under your hands. Bit too much of me but working on it. My hair is a bit frizzy though.
Sex wise? If you're really into me and I'm into you? Decent 7. Fuckability is about that feedback loop of desire to some extent. In my experience when someone is into me, my fuckability rocks up to an 8. People really want to fuck me when they're interested. Easily aroused by me.
Tl;dr? Six for physically, 7 for fuckability.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is thinking you’re a 10 shallow?
I don’t think I’m a 10 but I think I’m conventionally attractive. As for fuckability, I’m okay I think. I’ve never had any complaints. |
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"I prefer to get a rating from the other person. And of course give one in return  "
See, I reckon you're about an eight or a nine
Maybe even nine and a half in four beers' time 
This song is relevant for *every* thread today!
Jx |
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"I prefer to get a rating from the other person. And of course give one in return
See, I reckon you're about an eight or a nine
Maybe even nine and a half in four beers' time
This song is relevant for *every* thread today!
Jx"
That’s because it’s a top tune 
I’d give you one… or maybe 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be up to the person on the receiving end of the sex to say what you are same with if they find you attractive or not I'm sure we are all not everyone's cup of tea either in sex or looks |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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It's so difficult to rate yourself, isn't it? If I go by all the flattery from guys trying to bed me, I'm a 7 or 8. I'd have said maybe a 5 or 6 at my best.
In bed? I'd like to think I'm interactive, passionate and considerate, so maybe 6 or 7 on a good day?
But who knows, really. The opinion that's important is the one of the person into you. And if they're into you, it's probably high.  |
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Looks, could be anywhere between a 2 and a 10 depending on my own mood or the perception of the person seeing me. Generally, I believe myself to be attractive, and perfectly okay with the fact that I'm not attractive to everyone.
Sexually, it's all about the chemistry. With my partners I'm definitely rocking a high 9 to 10 scenario. With more casual encounters, I reckon my enthusiasm and skills still put me pretty high, and generally I know before that stage if the chemistry is there and so don't actually play with anyone where I think it will fall flat. I haven't had consensual sex with someone I didn't feel that with for years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fuck better than I look.
I also kiss better than I cook!
Possibly why I'm single
You kiss like your life depends on it. Solid 10 in that department. "
Somethings should never be half hearted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I look better than I fuck.
I work really hard on things like makeup so I'd say I was a real world 8 or a fab 10 for looks but I'd suggest I'm only a 5 for bedroom skills...
... Unless you're into very visual roleplay as your kink. |
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"But does that make a good fuck?
How would you rate yourself firstly in looks department and fuckability
Let's see who's shallow enough to give themselves a 10... because none of us are "that" perfect
I'm a solid 5 in looks and 5 again in fuckability"
How can you rate yourself on looks to one woman i may be attractive and to another I'm not, I'm a 5 and a 5  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But does that make a good fuck?
How would you rate yourself firstly in looks department and fuckability
Let's see who's shallow enough to give themselves a 10... because none of us are "that" perfect
I'm a solid 5 in looks and 5 again in fuckabilityHow can you rate yourself on looks to one woman i may be attractive and to another I'm not, I'm a 5 and a 5 "
Very true..not saying you should judge ones ability yourself
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Good face (most of the time), decent bod. Lacks height. Reckon it's a 7 overall. 7.5 maybe.
Good looking enough to get dates, which is lucky as the sex is average (we can't all be the 'best you've ever had', can we?). Might not win any awards, but not yet been thrown out of bed either. |
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Looks...8 on a good day, when I've done hair, make up and made an effort.
Fucks... Probably a 4, good kisser but not as supple as I used to be, don't want to do 537 different positions, prefer to be pleased these days rather than do the pleasing. |
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Looks…. I’d say 6/7. I won’t make you vomit, but you’re not gonna snap your neck with a double take at my beauty.
Fuckability. 5 for style. I’m clumsy & dorky. But I would give myself a solid 10 for enthusiasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason! 
Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.
Except me…. I aim way way way too high "
I count on it, it's how I pull the hot guys. |
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I rate myself a 10 in every department.
What shallow people rate me is out of my control.
What those who don't fancy me rate me is out of my control and they can't rate me on the fuck scale cos they don't fancy me and won't be fucking me.
What those who fancy me rate me as is out of my control and what they want to rate me on the fuck scale will be according to how 'they' like to fuck ... so that's out of my control too ..
I'm a 10. |
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"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!
Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.
Except me…. I aim way way way too high
I count on it, it's how I pull the hot guys. "
Does it work?
There’s a few absolute hotties…. Should I go for it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!
Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.
Except me…. I aim way way way too high
I count on it, it's how I pull the hot guys.
Does it work?
There’s a few absolute hotties…. Should I go for it? "
Shy kids don't get sweets you know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given that most of us are trying to get into someone's knickers or get out of them...I'm not sure compliments are to be believed.
Someone is never more complimentary than when they're trying to get you out of your knickers...apparently.
So you'd need to ask the people who have had the 'pleasure' cos I don't see what they see...solid 2  |
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Why is it shallow to have high self esteem?
I'm realistic enough to be aware that how I see myself is most definitely not how others see me. I value myself but I have not control over what anyone else thinks of how I look or for that matter how I fuck |
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
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Can’t rate myself and wouldn’t want to. As someone already said, if the compliments on here were to be believed, we must all be 10’s. I know I’m not a 10 or anywhere near. I look in the mirror and see many flaws, but I would rate myself as average for looks and fuckability will all depend who I’m with. If I’m into them I will definitely make more of an effort than if I’m not that bothered by them.
We all like different things so I might be a 10 to one guy and a 2 to another. I’m happy not to be everyone’s cup of tea as long as I’m someone’s lol |
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"So basically I'm a 10.
How conceited ! 
Yep!
i gave myself a 10 "
I'm reminded of that great philosopher Justin Bieber who advised that if I liked the way I looked that much I should go and love myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I constantly punch above my weight on here for some reason!
Everybody lowers their standards on fab don't ya know.
Except me…. I aim way way way too high "
I always "aim" high  |
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"Why is it shallow to have high self esteem?
I'm realistic enough to be aware that how I see myself is most definitely not how others see me. I value myself but I have not control over what anyone else thinks of how I look or for that matter how I fuck "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is one of those threads where you hope your lovers don't rate you (or then again, maybe you hope they do)."
No it's a bit of fun...."why so serious" |
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Probably a 5 for looks. Too fat but tall helps a lot.
For sex I hope I’m higher, although as others have said it’s really how others rate me. I’m sure there have been a few 3s but with the ones who matter it’s been much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is one of those threads where you hope your lovers don't rate you (or then again, maybe you hope they do).
No it's a bit of fun...."why so serious""
I have never been called serious. Other terms such as sarcastic, ironic, idiot, burke, chatty, shallow...but never serious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is one of those threads where you hope your lovers don't rate you (or then again, maybe you hope they do).
No it's a bit of fun...."why so serious"
I have never been called serious. Other terms such as sarcastic, ironic, idiot, burke, chatty, shallow...but never serious. "
Never watch The Dark Knight either |
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I'm about average in looks but being tall appears to counteract that a little.
My personality makes up for my visual deficiency somewhat.
My self proclaimed sexual ability then makes up for some of my lack of personality.
I'd say I probably average about 7/10 across all areas.
Apart from that I'm fucking awesome.. or is that awesome fucking.. I can't remember.
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