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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yesterday I met my ex for coffee and after a few difficult topics of conversation he told me when we met I was too passionate probably because I'd never been treated properly in relationship. I didn't know if I should be insulted or flattered. I ended up insulted.
My mind was blown.
What things have people said or done that have blown your mind recently?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't have passion you have no creative imagination.
No passion no spirit.
No passion no lust for live.
I don't mean to offend but, are you sure he isn't a sociopath.  "
I agree . I am passionate. I'm a hopeless romantic too and I love that about me so I won't ever be changing.
Not offended. You could be right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And there is absolutely nothing wrong in being passionate. It fires the soul to make life worth living!
Think you ex is just trying to knock your confidence, don't let him. Chin up... |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"If you don't have passion you have no creative imagination.
No passion no spirit.
No passion no lust for live.
I don't mean to offend but, are you sure he isn't a sociopath.
I agree . I am passionate. I'm a hopeless romantic too and I love that about me so I won't ever be changing.
Not offended. You could be right!"
And no other eprson has the right to expect you to change, once they do, it stops becoming about enjoying each other to becoming about possession. If you can't Embrace, accept and love oneself, how you you do these with another.
A very attractive quality and you are fantastic who you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow - he moaned about you being too passionate, you’re well out of that one. What person ever moans about their partner being too passionate!!!"
…. Or to open and honest?? |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"It blows my mind that someone would meet their ex for coffee and post mortem their relationship "
It blows my mind that someone would assume the context of why two people would meet based on a part of a conversation they were not part of. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It blows my mind that someone would meet their ex for coffee and post mortem their relationship "
To be fair I wonder that too.
Thanks for answering the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It blows my mind that someone would meet their ex for coffee and post mortem their relationship "
It can be a positive learning experience, depending on your perspective of course  |
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Sounds to me like he has certain ideas about how women should behave e.g. what he is calling passionate , i've taken to mean you are sexual or sexually forward. He's also put that down to 'being treated badly in relationships' and not just viewed you as a sexual being.
Maybe you were too strong for him.
What has someone said to me that has blown my mind lately ....... uhmmmmm
I'll have to come back to you on that one cos no one has. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can never be too passionate. But you can have incompatible levels of passion.
He’s an ex for a reason. "
Exactly. Too passionate *for him*. Not too passionate! There’s an important distinction there. |
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"Yesterday I met my ex for coffee and after a few difficult topics of conversation he told me when we met I was too passionate probably because I'd never been treated properly in relationship. I didn't know if I should be insulted or flattered. I ended up insulted.
My mind was blown.
What things have people said or done that have blown your mind recently?
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I wonder if that means he felt your passion wasn’t properly controlled in previous relationships. Maybe your passion intimated him because he’s the man and should lead on that in a relationship. I hope not, but that’s what the phrasing makes me think. Abhorrent views, if so. There are still far too many people (men, if I’m being honest with my viewpoint) in the world who think they should control relationships. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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"If you don't have passion you have no creative imagination.
No passion no spirit.
No passion no lust for live.
I don't mean to offend but, are you sure he isn't a sociopath.
I agree . I am passionate. I'm a hopeless romantic too and I love that about me so I won't ever be changing.
Not offended. You could be right!"
dont be offended. you have a quality others hide away.
keep it, its you.
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"Yesterday I met my ex for coffee and after a few difficult topics of conversation he told me when we met I was too passionate probably because I'd never been treated properly in relationship. I didn't know if I should be insulted or flattered. I ended up insulted.
My mind was blown.
What things have people said or done that have blown your mind recently?
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I hooked up with a lady from fab once and we had an amazing afternoon of fun, she was an amazing squirter and pretty much every soft furnishing in the place needed to be cleaned.
I produce a fair amount of precum… nothing unusual in that…
Yet after departing she messaged to say we wouldn’t meet again as she didn’t like how wet my cock got…
Mind blown…! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone that puts you down is projecting their own insecurities on to you. Is usually emotionally unavailable and immature and knows it. But would be unlikely to admit it let alone address it and will most likely destroy you first in order to keep weaknesses hidden and keep up their false persona.
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