You know I’m joking SB, second best no as I don’t compare myself directly to one other person, but self doubts of your worth of course, every day. It’s normal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd call second best a result, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's hard to be second when so many want to be...

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan over a year ago

Bradford

"Do you think you are ?"

Never

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

2nd best?

1st loser!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aren't we all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You know I’m joking SB, second best no as I don’t compare myself directly to one other person, but self doubts of your worth of course, every day. It’s normal. "

It's life I guess ahhh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldnt say I'm 2nd best - I doubt I make the top 2 in a 2 horse race to be honest

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

Comparisons are bunkum; you can have no idea about someone else’s life.

I’m good, but there’s room for me to grow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think I'm third most of the time but hey better than nothing

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

No...I'm way down the line x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2nd best that's the kids, dogs are 3rd, house and car are 4th I'm probably 19th

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By *rder66Man over a year ago

Tatooine

You're all first, everyone else are just visiting your reality.

The only person that truely matters is you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You're all first, everyone else are just visiting your reality.

The only person that truely matters is you."

You do too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2nd best that's the kids, dogs are 3rd, house and car are 4th I'm probably 19th

You are no way 19th lol

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I aspire to be second best.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't compete

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

I dream if getting as high as 2nd best

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By *olden PoleMan over a year ago

Thal

"I know I am.

But that's ok. Because second best is still one of the best

Oh no no no no no….second is the first loser, and we can’t have that can we Peckham girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I say second best is a good thing now as had so many responses

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By *ickshawedCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Nah, I'm frickin' ace

Unless this is a first the worst, second the best type question

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nah, I'm frickin' ace

Unless this is a first the worst, second the best type question

go for it

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan over a year ago

Bradford

I said never but the fact is we can only go on holiday when the cat can be accommodated at the cattery so second best I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2nd best that's the kids, dogs are 3rd, house and car are 4th I'm probably 19th

You are no way 19th lol "

I put myself there

I make sure everyone else is cared for way before myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah, I'm frickin' ace

Unless this is a first the worst, second the best type question

Can I be the one with the hairy chest? I'm fine with 3rd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I said never but the fact is we can only go on holiday when the cat can be accommodated at the cattery so second best I guess."

Lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I know I am.

But that's ok. Because second best is still one of the best

Posh!!

I didn't know you were still on here!!!

Xx"

I'm still here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nah, I'm frickin' ace

Unless this is a first the worst, second the best type question

Can I be the one with the hairy chest? I'm fine with 3rd."

Hey I've been 3rd before who cares ..

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

Second best at what ?

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By *estarossa.Woman over a year ago

Flagrante

I aspire to rise to the heady heights!

Second best what?

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

I like your bum OP, I hope this helps

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

No one is second best to anyone. We’re all different and if someone wants another over us, it’s just because we don’t meet their very personal preferences.

Or because they’re delusional. But mainly the preferences thing.

I am the best ‘me’ and I will be the first best for the right person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like your bum OP, I hope this helps "

Thank you

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

In what way? Relationship or sex wise no! If I thought I was I’d be gone in a flash. Home/family/kids etc. I’m way down the line

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

2nd best to my perfect sister although I must admit she is pretty perfect and led life by the book.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple over a year ago

Debauchery

I've no-one to compete with, so yay I'm the best.... unless it's eating chicken wings, those slippery little tings

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure I've been someone's best, worst and everything in between at some point. I'm not that bothered to be honest unless they're my only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In what way? Relationship or sex wise no! If I thought I was I’d be gone in a flash. Home/family/kids etc. I’m way down the line

Nora a bit of all I think

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"In what way? Relationship or sex wise no! If I thought I was I’d be gone in a flash. Home/family/kids etc. I’m way down the line

Nora a bit of all I think

Dog comes before me here!

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By *rincipessaWoman over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Absolutely certain I have been. But I won’t allow myself to be anymore. I deserve to be someone’s best

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In what way? Relationship or sex wise no! If I thought I was I’d be gone in a flash. Home/family/kids etc. I’m way down the line

Nora a bit of all I think

Dog comes before me here!

Bloody hell no pets here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Second best is pretty good when you consider everyone behind you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In what aspect?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know it’s cliched but I’m the best me there is and that’s what I choose to focus on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know it’s cliched but I’m the best me there is and that’s what I choose to focus on

Enjoy that though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been in the past. Infact I probably wasn't even that high up the list in some relationships. To be honest sometimes it was easier. Less pressure. Knew where I stood. Still got hurt.

I wouldn't do that again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we're talking running then I'm happily last!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have been in the past. Infact I probably wasn't even that high up the list in some relationships. To be honest sometimes it was easier. Less pressure. Knew where I stood. Still got hurt.

I wouldn't do that again "

Sending hugs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t think anyone likes the thought of being second best. If I found out I was someone’s second option I’d be off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If we're talking running then I'm happily last! "

If we're talking relationships then yes, way lower than 2nd

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

In here, maybe I am in the bargain basement section. But in real life I’m somewhere near the top stealthily

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But it's life we might not like it but some of us are....

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By *4bimMan over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"I don’t think anyone likes the thought of being second best. If I found out I was someone’s second option I’d be off. "

absolutely. id cut them off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you’re not first, you’re last…

Ricky Bobby knows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Who's he lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But it's life we might not like it but some of us are...."

Only one person can win the race a fact of life

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"But it's life we might not like it but some of us are....

Only one person can win the race a fact of life "

Who ?

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd be perfectly happy to be considered 2nd best at some things and mortified at others.

Depends at what, who's making that judgement and how important it is in the grand scheme of things.

I'm definitely the best 'me' that there is. Nobody is better at being me than me.

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By *red333Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do you think you are ?"
no not really but it might appear like that on here with the ratio of women to men

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd be perfectly happy to be considered 2nd best at some things and mortified at others.

Depends at what, who's making that judgement and how important it is in the grand scheme of things.

I'm definitely the best 'me' that there is. Nobody is better at being me than me.

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But it's life we might not like it but some of us are....

Only one person can win the race a fact of life

Who ?"

Always the winner ...

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

Don't mind being second best

No prizes for cumming 1st

Mr j

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey guy and girls and couples thank you for the replies.

I class myself a second best I'm fine with that it's life .

Enjoy your evening and weekend xx

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

At the moment, yes. And even that is pushing it. Regrettably.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 27th best at best

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I don't even make the fugly list.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think you are ?"

Absolutely...easy to feel like the booby prize. The second I get that feeling I'm done, I'm nobody's second best or back up plan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely not......I'm worthy of the whole bakery not just the crumbs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel number 1 and thats not me being cocky or big headed. But as a single dad, manage a lads and girls football team and hopefully give good advice to the kids. I always tell my son I made the mistakes so he never needs too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll take second, never wanna cum first

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"I don't even make the fugly list."

You are far from fugly!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Possibly in their eyes yes, second, third..... I view it as I am the alternative, and in my eyes alternatives are the best. They just dont know it yet.

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By *oanne ETV/TS over a year ago

Near Warrington

I was well down the pecking order according to the ex wife, but now I don't care xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't even make the fugly list."

Deff not PP x

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By *aptain Caveman41Man over a year ago

Home

I'm last