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"I’ve been in a few FLR’s and I feel happiest and most content with that dynamic. I don’t really look for a relationship that isn’t female led now. "
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I had that in the past, problem was i ended up being too demanding for him, it would have to be with someone happy to give full control to me including finance. |
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"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high" 
You must live in an alternate universe. "
Not at all...we all know women get there own way eventually....but only women will deny it and say it's mutual |
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Yes I do and it's fucking wonderful. I have tried D/s with a man and was OK but having a Domme sub dynamic is much better for me. I generally prefer play with women anyway in friendships or casual scenarios but there is something quite magical about a Mistress. I suspect it may be the person that makes it particularly wonderful
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"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high" "
Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself |
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"I had that in the past, problem was i ended up being too demanding for him, it would have to be with someone happy to give full control to me including finance. "
Exactly this, it's very time consuming. |
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"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"
Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself"
But you must be because a man told you you are |
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"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"
Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself
But you must be because a man told you you are "
Ah yes I must remember to get a male to teach me how to SQUIRT too |
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"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"
You must live in an alternate universe.
Not at all...we all know women get there own way eventually....but only women will deny it and say it's mutual"
I’m sure this happens sometimes for a while but I promise you (can I do mansplaining to another man?) that it doesn’t happen all the time. Thinking it does is really not good. |
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"In reality all relationship's are FLR...anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves. They say "jump" we go "yes dear, how high"
Never ever has this happened to me I'm definitely not kidding myself
But you must be because a man told you you are
Ah yes I must remember to get a male to teach me how to SQUIRT too "
Yes, and if you’re really good he’ll tell you the best position in which to achieve a vaginal orgasm. Isn’t that exciting! |
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My own personal experience of a FLR was at the beginning quite stressful and hard work, however as the dynamic grew ,we both assumed our positions in time.
I was at the time running my own company and by no means a doormat to the outside world I was in charge,but within our FLR She was,I can only hope one day to experience this type of loving relationship once more. |
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"My own personal experience of a FLR was at the beginning quite stressful and hard work, however as the dynamic grew ,we both assumed our positions in time.
I was at the time running my own company and by no means a doormat to the outside world I was in charge,but within our FLR She was,I can only hope one day to experience this type of loving relationship once more. "
Good to hear that it worked once upon a time  |
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"It’s definitely something that happens OP on here and elsewhere. Wouldn’t say it’s too kinky at all and I’m sure you can find others into the same dynamic. It’s not for me though  "
Well I hope I at least find others into similar areas, would kind of like to chat with them and see how it works in real life, I’d love to find someone to try it with but that I feel is just a matter of keep on saying it and eventually I may find someone x |
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"It’s definitely something that happens OP on here and elsewhere. Wouldn’t say it’s too kinky at all and I’m sure you can find others into the same dynamic. It’s not for me though
Well I hope I at least find others into similar areas, would kind of like to chat with them and see how it works in real life, I’d love to find someone to try it with but that I feel is just a matter of keep on saying it and eventually I may find someone x"
Have you tried a local munch |
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"It’s definitely something that happens OP on here and elsewhere. Wouldn’t say it’s too kinky at all and I’m sure you can find others into the same dynamic. It’s not for me though
Well I hope I at least find others into similar areas, would kind of like to chat with them and see how it works in real life, I’d love to find someone to try it with but that I feel is just a matter of keep on saying it and eventually I may find someone x
Have you tried a local munch "
I need to, however I do worry that I’m already tarnished as a single male before attending these type of events. It just adds to the usual apprehension of attending something like that. X |
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-Not sure why it would be too kinky for here (or more than anything male-led for sure). Ticking S&M might help you (ie to go with spanking and role play, Fab is maybe a couple of boxes short on kinky stuff). You could also consider changing your title to just 'sub' for this, as being Vers or Switch can put some people off it they want total obedience or domination.
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"-Not sure why it would be too kinky for here (or more than anything male-led for sure). Ticking S&M might help you (ie to go with spanking and role play, Fab is maybe a couple of boxes short on kinky stuff). You could also consider changing your title to just 'sub' for this, as being Vers or Switch can put some people off it they want total obedience or domination.
--pt"
Good points, thank you for the advice |
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"-Not sure why it would be too kinky for here (or more than anything male-led for sure). Ticking S&M might help you (ie to go with spanking and role play, Fab is maybe a couple of boxes short on kinky stuff). You could also consider changing your title to just 'sub' for this, as being Vers or Switch can put some people off it they want total obedience or domination.
--pt
Good points, thank you for the advice "
There are definitely a lot of people into this sort of thing but as with everything its trying to navigate to find a dynamic for you. I would recommend munches as mentioned above or even your local club might offer kink nights too which are always good to learn a lot from |
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Clubs are worth considering, esp you have the personality that doesn't clash (or doesn't mind) some very dominant people in even a social setting. I found the one I partly joined a real turn-off myself, despite knowing someone there already.
But club goers in general are just a fraction of a percent of the whole market so to speak (even the more 'normal' Fab meets when compared to typical Fab people). Best is to always keeping Searching and be prepared to keep reaching out.
Everything is out there somewhere. pt |
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