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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " But you’re a man and you joined. Where’s the line? Should I leave so you stand a better chance? Actually, don’t answer that | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. But you’re a man and you joined. Where’s the line? Should I leave so you stand a better chance? Actually, don’t answer that " I'd leave with you in solidarity | |||
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"No "they" don't... Maybe they need to encourage more women to join instead? " I try. I really try!!! | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " So how do you decide whos allowed to join and who isn't ...? | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " Are you gonna leave to help the cause? Who gets to choose who gets in and who doesn't? A | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. But you’re a man and you joined. Where’s the line? Should I leave so you stand a better chance? Actually, don’t answer that I'd leave with you in solidarity " Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one | |||
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"So we need to encourage a "hunger game" type selection process then? Yeah I can see channel 4 would gladly snap up that idea as part of one of their programmes. Hopefully it will be slotted after naked attraction though lol " Or it could be a Naked Attraction type thing so the women can choose the famous 5% | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " Should be the site supporter fee to message etc stop a lot of fakes. Yeah it should be like Christmas for them but it's not apparently. They are all too fussy. | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. But you’re a man and you joined. Where’s the line? Should I leave so you stand a better chance? Actually, don’t answer that I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one " I’ll join that one to even it up a bit | |||
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" Are you gonna leave to help the cause? Who gets to choose who gets in and who doesn't? A" I volunteer!! | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. But you’re a man and you joined. Where’s the line? Should I leave so you stand a better chance? Actually, don’t answer that I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one " Nah, I reckon half the women would leave with me as well | |||
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"I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one I’ll join that one to even it up a bit " Same. 3:2 isn't a bad raio for them is it LB? J | |||
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"I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one I’ll join that one to even it up a bit Same. 3:2 isn't a bad raio for them is it LB? J" No. I think we could have fun | |||
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"More mediocre men doesn't reduce the chance of someone being interested in someone actually interesting " What if they're all handsome bastards. And drink everybody's milkshake. | |||
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"More mediocre men doesn't reduce the chance of someone being interested in someone actually interesting What if they're all handsome bastards. And drink everybody's milkshake. " You'd have to ask the people who are more interested in aesthetics than substance | |||
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"No. I think we could have fun " Oh yes. | |||
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"I wouldn't say it's the amount of men but more the type of men. Does the number make it harder to stand out in messages? Absolutely. But it does also mean it's easy to make your profile stand out if the majority don't make that effort." This right here, the gents profiles that actually stand out are probably 1/100 Doesn't matter how many men, if you've a good profile you'll still stand out amongst the 1000's of cocks. Mrs | |||
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"May the best man win " It's the battle of the dicks Draw your weapon and prepare for what may come | |||
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"More mediocre men doesn't reduce the chance of someone being interested in someone actually interesting What if they're all handsome bastards. And drink everybody's milkshake. You'd have to ask the people who are more interested in aesthetics than substance " That's an awful lot of people on this site then. | |||
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"More mediocre men doesn't reduce the chance of someone being interested in someone actually interesting " Absolutely this. There are some blokes who wouldn’t get a meet if there were a million women on here and they were the only one. Numbers don’t make someone desperate | |||
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"I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one I’ll join that one to even it up a bit Same. 3:2 isn't a bad raio for them is it LB? J No. I think we could have fun " Ooo yay!!! Now it’s just the question of the site name….. | |||
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"Cream will always rise to the top " Hi. | |||
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"That's an awful lot of people on this site then. " Probably. But as they don't interest me enough for me to look at their motivations I can't explain them to you | |||
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"Cream will always rise to the top " Unfortunately so will 3 day old jizz left in a bathtub | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. So how do you decide whos allowed to join and who isn't ...? " Anyone who makes whiny posts about anything should be barred. I don’t care having millions of guys after the same girls as me, it’s ok , I can even put up with them sending me cock pics and offering to blow me, but the constant whining kills me…. | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " why are their too many men.. you worry about your profile. | |||
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"More mediocre men doesn't reduce the chance of someone being interested in someone actually interesting Absolutely this. There are some blokes who wouldn’t get a meet if there were a million women on here and they were the only one. Numbers don’t make someone desperate " I guess the problem it creates is just getting lost among all the other guys. | |||
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"More mediocre men doesn't reduce the chance of someone being interested in someone actually interesting Absolutely this. There are some blokes who wouldn’t get a meet if there were a million women on here and they were the only one. Numbers don’t make someone desperate I guess the problem it creates is just getting lost among all the other guys." An introduction that doesn't inspire me when surrounded by a sea of mediocrity isn't going to fare better standing alone or beside only ones that do inspire me. | |||
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"Cream will always rise to the top Unfortunately so will 3 day old jizz left in a bathtub " And that is the voice of a woman with experience! | |||
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"So we need to encourage a "hunger game" type selection process then? Yeah I can see channel 4 would gladly snap up that idea as part of one of their programmes. Hopefully it will be slotted after naked attraction though lol Or it could be a Naked Attraction type thing so the women can choose the famous 5% " Well, to be fair, almost 99% of the time the guy or lady I'm rooting for gets booted off after the second or third round anyway. I'm definitely not cut out to be Mr match maker for sure -D | |||
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"More mediocre men doesn't reduce the chance of someone being interested in someone actually interesting Absolutely this. There are some blokes who wouldn’t get a meet if there were a million women on here and they were the only one. Numbers don’t make someone desperate I guess the problem it creates is just getting lost among all the other guys. An introduction that doesn't inspire me when surrounded by a sea of mediocrity isn't going to fare better standing alone or beside only ones that do inspire me." This is true. I'm just saying the one that might inspire you could potentially get lost among the others | |||
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"No. I think we could have fun Ooo yay!!! Now it’s just the question of the site name….." Just messaged you my suggestion | |||
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"I guess the problem it creates is just getting lost among all the other guys. An introduction that doesn't inspire me when surrounded by a sea of mediocrity isn't going to fare better standing alone or beside only ones that do inspire me. This is true. I'm just saying the one that might inspire you could potentially get lost among the others " Excluding the obscene quantity of messages that results in bulk deletes on just joining or posting certain kinds of pictures, I do read every message. I might not be in the most receptive mood, but that won't ever be entirely down to the quantity of unwanted penii in my inbox. | |||
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"I wouldn't say it's the amount of men but more the type of men. Does the number make it harder to stand out in messages? Absolutely. But it does also mean it's easy to make your profile stand out if the majority don't make that effort." What he said! | |||
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"50 men and 10 women in a room. No one gets fucked so 40 men leave. 10 men and 10 women in a room still no one gets fucked. Fewer men does NOT make them any more attractive than they were before. 5 men in a room and 10 women and STILL no one gets fucked. 2 and a half ( yes i know ) men in a room and the women think fuck this and have an all woman piley on ..... " Granny's right. | |||
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"50 men and 10 women in a room. No one gets fucked so 40 men leave. 10 men and 10 women in a room still no one gets fucked. Fewer men does NOT make them any more attractive than they were before. 5 men in a room and 10 women and STILL no one gets fucked. 2 and a half ( yes i know ) men in a room and the women think fuck this and have an all woman piley on ..... " Clearly all the women were ugly lesbians | |||
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"50 men and 10 women in a room. No one gets fucked so 40 men leave. 10 men and 10 women in a room still no one gets fucked. Fewer men does NOT make them any more attractive than they were before. 5 men in a room and 10 women and STILL no one gets fucked. 2 and a half ( yes i know ) men in a room and the women think fuck this and have an all woman piley on ..... " Where’s this room with the women? Asking for a friend | |||
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"Got it, OP. So when does the cull begin, and who do I need to bribe to make sure I make the cut?" You are a keeper.... Put the kettle on , there's a love. | |||
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"50 men and 10 women in a room. No one gets fucked so 40 men leave. 10 men and 10 women in a room still no one gets fucked. Fewer men does NOT make them any more attractive than they were before. 5 men in a room and 10 women and STILL no one gets fucked. 2 and a half ( yes i know ) men in a room and the women think fuck this and have an all woman piley on ..... Where’s this room with the women? Asking for a friend " You could keep dixie on the door Woody ..... no peeking tho ... | |||
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"50 men and 10 women in a room. No one gets fucked so 40 men leave. 10 men and 10 women in a room still no one gets fucked. Fewer men does NOT make them any more attractive than they were before. 5 men in a room and 10 women and STILL no one gets fucked. 2 and a half ( yes i know ) men in a room and the women think fuck this and have an all woman piley on ..... Clearly all the women were ugly lesbians " Great tits tho | |||
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"Got it, OP. So when does the cull begin, and who do I need to bribe to make sure I make the cut?" Do you really want to be cut?! Okay then....... *Gets out sharp implement* | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " Well op since you've noticed that you fancy doing the Honours only takes one then the rest follow making more room for the rest of us guys | |||
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"I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one I’ll join that one to even it up a bit Same. 3:2 isn't a bad raio for them is it LB? J No. I think we could have fun Ooo yay!!! Now it’s just the question of the site name….." Elite fab 5% shaggers ? A | |||
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"Has anyone told OP that Platinum members have a ratio of 17 women to every man, so maybe he should ask about joining that group." Shhhh.....nobody mentions the platinum level | |||
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"Listen every man complains its so hard when they just join. Ive been here ten years im just saying it would make the site alot better if they started to like 50:50 the new members or something. Calm down. I know im a man and im on here state the fucking obvious mate " Ten years seems like a good run on the site so it would be fair to give someone else a chance don't you think | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " I am a queen though | |||
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".. Where’s this room with the women? Asking for a friend You could keep dixie on the door Woody ..... no peeking tho ..." You think I wouldn’t look? That’s cute. | |||
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"I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one I’ll join that one to even it up a bit Same. 3:2 isn't a bad raio for them is it LB? J No. I think we could have fun Ooo yay!!! Now it’s just the question of the site name….. Elite fab 5% shaggers ? A" Good shout! Cliquey Grinders | |||
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"No "they" don't... Maybe they need to encourage more women to join instead? " I wonder how many women have joined only to leave again a short time later? The vast majority on here I find to be decent people but those persistent aggressive types can be a real put off. | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " | |||
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"I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one I’ll join that one to even it up a bit Same. 3:2 isn't a bad raio for them is it LB? J No. I think we could have fun Ooo yay!!! Now it’s just the question of the site name….. Elite fab 5% shaggers ? A Good shout! Cliquey Grinders " Do we need brummie accents? | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " you just have to stand out from the crowd. You get out what you put in | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " i think so to only gorgeous men like me allowed | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. i think so to only gorgeous men like me allowed " Am I still in? | |||
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"Someone on another post, a man, said it's actually not as bad as you think. Why shouldn't anyone on here have as much choice as they can get? By your measure some perfectly decent men get excluded so that's a loss for not only women but couples looking for men. If my partner's experience is anything to go by being a woman on here is no dream and they aren't treated like Queens either. A lot of men think any woman on here is gagging for it and should just fall in with their wishes. In reality they are real women with lives, children and everything else, not porn stars or sluts for men's use." Oh | |||
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"Someone on another post, a man, said it's actually not as bad as you think. Why shouldn't anyone on here have as much choice as they can get? By your measure some perfectly decent men get excluded so that's a loss for not only women but couples looking for men. If my partner's experience is anything to go by being a woman on here is no dream and they aren't treated like Queens either. A lot of men think any woman on here is gagging for it and should just fall in with their wishes. In reality they are real women with lives, children and everything else, not porn stars or sluts for men's use." Well said. My wife has been expected to jump to people's tune a few times on here. Fortunately she can just move on but I should imagine some may decide its not for them. | |||
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"But then would they need to meet a criteria ? And what about the guys for guys? Do they want less women on here? Would that be fair to suggest? I think it would be unfair to reject some and not others. Filters help reduce …and there are plenty of them to be able to narrow down what you want… Unfortunately I guess that’s the nature of the beast …. " There’s a filter for beasts?!! Niche | |||
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"But then would they need to meet a criteria ? And what about the guys for guys? Do they want less women on here? Would that be fair to suggest? I think it would be unfair to reject some and not others. Filters help reduce …and there are plenty of them to be able to narrow down what you want… Unfortunately I guess that’s the nature of the beast …. There’s a filter for beasts?!! Niche" Just a rumour ssshhh | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " To many men to many men | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. i think so to only gorgeous men like me allowed Am I still in?" Come and join us on cliquey grinders, brucey. We need a forum boss!!! | |||
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" I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world " I can confirm this is absolutely not the case . Hundreds and thousands of thirsty men what a dream world Jesus Christ | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. i think so to only gorgeous men like me allowed Am I still in?" Well you like yourself and most of the women here appear to like you so i guess you're at the top of the pile | |||
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"We need some more gurls in ere! There's too many men too many many men. Tune." Bangerrr | |||
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" I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world I can confirm this is absolutely not the case . Hundreds and thousands of thirsty men what a dream world Jesus Christ" Water water everywhere and not a drop to drink. | |||
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"What can you do about the number of men on fab? Nothing What can you do about your profile and how you approach others? Everything. Your level of success - or whatever you want to call.it - is not the responsibility / fault of others" What he said!! It's not easy for women but it gets easier to filter with threads like this | |||
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"I'd leave with you in solidarity Thanks Joe! Even we started a rival app there’d be more blokes than women on day one I’ll join that one to even it up a bit Same. 3:2 isn't a bad raio for them is it LB? J No. I think we could have fun Ooo yay!!! Now it’s just the question of the site name….. Elite fab 5% shaggers ? A Good shout! Cliquey Grinders " If we ever move to Birmingham I'm definitely changing our name to that! A | |||
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"There are other men here? Can't say I've really noticed. " Maybe reality will bite sometime soon? !!! | |||
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"Got it, OP. So when does the cull begin, and who do I need to bribe to make sure I make the cut? You are a keeper.... Put the kettle on , there's a love." Result! Tea-making is a key skill of mine. | |||
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"I wish they had face pics as profile pics so we can swipe left through them all to find the right ones rather than having to wait for a face pic to be sent " Wish women had face pics too. Save us messaging the wrong ones. The entitlement of it | |||
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"Got it, OP. So when does the cull begin, and who do I need to bribe to make sure I make the cut? Do you really want to be cut?! Okay then....... *Gets out sharp implement* " Maybe. Do women prefer cut? I might start a thread on that as it feels like a question we need the answer to. | |||
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"I wish they had face pics as profile pics so we can swipe left through them all to find the right ones rather than having to wait for a face pic to be sent " Oh I'm not so sure ... there's some torsos that just suck you in regardless | |||
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"No "they" don't... Maybe they need to encourage more women to join instead? " Great response | |||
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"No mate not many men..theres not enough women lol.." Nail on the head | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. But you’re a man and you joined. Where’s the line? Should I leave so you stand a better chance? Actually, don’t answer that " lol. Point made! | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " Is this because of the meets that you can't get? | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. " No "they" should not start limiting the amount of men who can join.... Go to a club if you want limited amounts of men .. | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. No "they" should not start limiting the amount of men who can join.... Go to a club if you want limited amounts of men .. " Even that won't guarantee the OP a shag.. | |||
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"Its always been a terrible ratio on here but its gettin worse and worse. I bet any woman who joins here must feel like an absolute queen in a dream world they need to start limiting the anount of men who can join IMO before it gets ruined here. No "they" should not start limiting the amount of men who can join.... Go to a club if you want limited amounts of men .. Even that won't guarantee the OP a shag.." if he takes cake in a little sealed plastic container it would | |||
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"Yet I still cannot find who/what I am looking for! " Has Bono forgot the words? | |||
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"Lots of them have crap profiles with no effort so I don't think it matters how many there is. If you took away all the profiles with no bio and photos then there's probably actually more women and couples than single guys. " So here’s my thoughts. …. What are peoole bothered?… | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag..." I actually think there’s a lot of nonsense (aka fake) profiles on here. Those profiles that people set up as a test to see what it all about, basic/generic etc. and that’s make and female. because if there was more and more people joining as I keep hearing there’d be more activity surely. And I don’t see it. | |||
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"Lots of them have crap profiles with no effort so I don't think it matters how many there is. If you took away all the profiles with no bio and photos then there's probably actually more women and couples than single guys. So here’s my thoughts. …. What are peoole bothered?… " I don't know, I've always had fun here and have a very nice friends list | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag..." You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle | |||
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"You need platinum membership OP " Is that the one that comes with a BJ on Sunday mornings? I had that for a bit and it sucked | |||
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"You need platinum membership OP Is that the one that comes with a BJ on Sunday mornings? I had that for a bit and it sucked " | |||
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" Are you gonna leave to help the cause? Who gets to choose who gets in and who doesn't? A I volunteer!!" I’ll join you gorgeous. We can do auditions, and insist on them doing little dances, windmilling their willies and stuff. | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle " Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. " He's an elite shagger | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. " And I always thought 1 vs 100 was a quiz programme.... | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. And I always thought 1 vs 100 was a quiz programme.... " Imagine having to come up with 100 different chat up lines. Or do you think you could recycle some when out of earshot? | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle …what approach did he try?….asking fo…. " Ask the one who knows all on here, you know the one | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle …what approach did he try?….asking fo…. Ask the one who knows all on here, you know the one " Actually…I couldn’t give 2shits. | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. " He won a raffle, these nights actually do happen and invite only but not just 1 lucky guy | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. And I always thought 1 vs 100 was a quiz programme.... Imagine having to come up with 100 different chat up lines. Or do you think you could recycle some when out of earshot? " Think of it as no likey no lighty but naughty version | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle …what approach did he try?….asking fo…. Ask the one who knows all on here, you know the one Actually…I couldn’t give 2shits. " Just as well because he'd hamper you | |||
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"Stop moaning and get grafting. If an old git like me can make a success anyone can " But you have special shorts | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. And I always thought 1 vs 100 was a quiz programme.... Imagine having to come up with 100 different chat up lines. Or do you think you could recycle some when out of earshot? Think of it as no likey no lighty but naughty version " Haha it’s like a Bolton night cub then? | |||
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"Stop moaning and get grafting. If an old git like me can make a success anyone can But you have special shorts " You do alright too fella | |||
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"Just a question for the OP or anyone else if they knew the answer. Has the ratio actually changed in recent times? For all I know the ratio of men to women may have actually decreased... As others have said the ratio of men to women could be 1:50 but it wouldn't guarantee a shag... You could put 1 guy in a club with 100 women and depending on his approach he could still struggle Also. How did he get these 100 women in a room? ….asking for a friend …. And I always thought 1 vs 100 was a quiz programme.... Imagine having to come up with 100 different chat up lines. Or do you think you could recycle some when out of earshot? Think of it as no likey no lighty but naughty version Haha it’s like a Bolton night cub then? " | |||
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"Stop moaning and get grafting. If an old git like me can make a success anyone can But you have special shorts You do alright too fella " I definitely do, I've put those strong foundations down | |||
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"Yet I still cannot find who/what I am looking for! Has Bono forgot the words? " Don't you bloody start! What with your pics and your winking and living bloody miles away!! | |||
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"The ratio is always crazy and some women let the attention get to their heads and act like they're God's gift when in the real world they wouldn't get a look in. You send a polite message and get abusive responses and then wonder why so many women get abuse from men. The guys have become bitter as a result. Vicious cycle" Yep. I'm god's gift | |||
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"The ratio is always crazy and some women let the attention get to their heads and act like they're God's gift when in the real world they wouldn't get a look in. You send a polite message and get abusive responses and then wonder why so many women get abuse from men. The guys have become bitter as a result. Vicious cycle" | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. " Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. " | |||
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"Every dating or hookup site has a higher proportion of men to women. However, I believe Fab probably has one of the highest number of men to women. The women here tend to be have a sense of entitlement because of this. They put all sorts of criteria on their profiles before you can even talk to them! Such as no face pic and I'll just delete your message, no beards, vwe only need apply, muscular build only etc etc. If I were to put on my profile, I like slim brunettes, dress size in single figures (i.e. less than 10), firstly this would narrow the field significantly and secondly there would be absolute uproar by the women! Double standards are the order of the day." | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. " It's not just made up sexist crap. Fab has its own version of this too. Some single female profile actually openly stating that she has over 6000 unread messages in her inbox. Really makes you question the motivations of many Fab users on here, females included. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1435078 | |||
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"Every dating or hookup site has a higher proportion of men to women. However, I believe Fab probably has one of the highest number of men to women. The women here tend to be have a sense of entitlement because of this. They put all sorts of criteria on their profiles before you can even talk to them! Such as no face pic and I'll just delete your message, no beards, vwe only need apply, muscular build only etc etc. If I were to put on my profile, I like slim brunettes, dress size in single figures (i.e. less than 10), firstly this would narrow the field significantly and secondly there would be absolute uproar by the women! Double standards are the order of the day." So basically, women have standards and men don't? You can see the problem here... | |||
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"Every dating or hookup site has a higher proportion of men to women. However, I believe Fab probably has one of the highest number of men to women. The women here tend to be have a sense of entitlement because of this. They put all sorts of criteria on their profiles before you can even talk to them! Such as no face pic and I'll just delete your message, no beards, vwe only need apply, muscular build only etc etc. If I were to put on my profile, I like slim brunettes, dress size in single figures (i.e. less than 10), firstly this would narrow the field significantly and secondly there would be absolute uproar by the women! Double standards are the order of the day. So basically, women have standards and men don't? You can see the problem here..." The problem is more like "women can openly express their standards for men, but men can't openly express their standards for women". | |||
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"Every dating or hookup site has a higher proportion of men to women. However, I believe Fab probably has one of the highest number of men to women. The women here tend to be have a sense of entitlement because of this. They put all sorts of criteria on their profiles before you can even talk to them! Such as no face pic and I'll just delete your message, no beards, vwe only need apply, muscular build only etc etc. If I were to put on my profile, I like slim brunettes, dress size in single figures (i.e. less than 10), firstly this would narrow the field significantly and secondly there would be absolute uproar by the women! Double standards are the order of the day. So basically, women have standards and men don't? You can see the problem here... The problem is more like "women can openly express their standards for men, but men can't openly express their standards for women". " Course they can. I couldn't less if I aren't a guys type. | |||
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"So here we are again. Women should fuck everyone who messages, regardless. Got it " Dammit.... blocked. Thought I was in for a moment | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. It's not just made up sexist crap. Fab has its own version of this too. Some single female profile actually openly stating that she has over 6000 unread messages in her inbox. Really makes you question the motivations of many Fab users on here, females included. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1435078 " That’s one user. One. | |||
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"So here we are again. Women should fuck everyone who messages, regardless. Got it Dammit.... blocked. Thought I was in for a moment " | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. " Utter nonsense. That may have been your experience but it certainly isn’t mine and I am nothing special. I have an open, friendly profile with some smiley pics on my dating app and I get loads of matches. Yes, some don’t message but then I don’t message everyone who messages me, either. It’s called personal choice. The women I have chatted to have all been genuine and looking for whatever fits their lives at the time. Beware of making sweeping statements like ‘most women’. You have probably engaged with less than 1% | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. It's not just made up sexist crap. Fab has its own version of this too. Some single female profile actually openly stating that she has over 6000 unread messages in her inbox. Really makes you question the motivations of many Fab users on here, females included. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1435078 That’s one user. One. " Men get called out for not calling out misogynists amongst us, that even ONE such man existing is a stain on all of us men. Why can't it work the same way back either? I mean from what I can see online it's usually a given for the most security and space to be given to women to express the most puritanical and exclusive standards/selection criteria for men, but god forbid men do the same themselves. And for many women with such extensive and exclusive criteria for men, I'm often left wondering if their mental image and relationship with men is actually that healthy if they're throwing up so many hoops for potential male suitors to jump through just to get their attention and reply. I think there's a term for that... misandry? Except of course, it's not misandry, it's called "having standards", and treating every man with hostility and suspicion, demanding them to meet them 100% of the way before they reciprocate. | |||
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"So here we are again. Women should fuck everyone who messages, regardless. Got it Dammit.... blocked. Thought I was in for a moment " Red how many people are on your blocked list? | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. It's not just made up sexist crap. Fab has its own version of this too. Some single female profile actually openly stating that she has over 6000 unread messages in her inbox. Really makes you question the motivations of many Fab users on here, females included. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1435078 That’s one user. One. " and then there are us genuine swingers that have been here 11 years | |||
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"Every dating or hookup site has a higher proportion of men to women. However, I believe Fab probably has one of the highest number of men to women. The women here tend to be have a sense of entitlement because of this. They put all sorts of criteria on their profiles before you can even talk to them! Such as no face pic and I'll just delete your message, no beards, vwe only need apply, muscular build only etc etc. If I were to put on my profile, I like slim brunettes, dress size in single figures (i.e. less than 10), firstly this would narrow the field significantly and secondly there would be absolute uproar by the women! Double standards are the order of the day." Again, utter nonsense. The 1% of women with whom you may have engaged may have given off that impression, but that doesn’t mean you can make statements like “women here tend to…” The fact is, they are people. Human beings. With preferences and the absolute right to make choices. If they decide to state those preferences on their profile that is up to them and more power to them. Frankly, if you have a beard and are not vwe, you may not meet the preference of that particular woman, but you’re just as likely to meet those of another. I wouldn’t mind betting there are women on fab who would love to see a man owning his preferences and openly stating them on his profile. | |||
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"Sausage fest. Though it has always been like this. Most popular online dating/hookup sites are sausage fests. The only one that isn't is Bumble. And the reason why it's fallen so much in popularity is because it only allowed women to make the first move in messaging a guy they matched with. And surprise surprise... most women there never did message the guys they matched with. Proving the point that when it comes to online dating and hookup sites/apps, it's a fool's errand because men and women are there for different things: men actually want to match with women for sex or love, women just want to watch their matched number go up for ego kicks over wine and grapes. " Cant say I do dating sites. Why dont the men just get themself to a social/club to meet real people instead of doing all this online ego boosting to women? You guys are the ones doing it. | |||
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