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Do you have a 'type'?
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"Do you have a weakness for a specific look or body type?
Are you more about the person?
Be nice, and no body-shaming."
Personality pays a big role...but I would lie if I said I don't care about looks.
I like my guys stocky with big hands...lady has to be curvy...   |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I've been told I do. And maybe. Possibly. Almost certainly I do.
Slim, tall(er than me) men with beards.
But that's not set in stone, and it really depends on the personality of the person. |
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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Definitely more about the person and their attitude. I can be attracted to all types of bodies, as long as their personality clicks with mine"
This is very true, although I do like a curvy woman  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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A type no.
I do have certain aspects I find appealing, sometimes surprising but in terms of who I end up attracted to or even date based on the style of their appearance its a pretty broad spectrum. I've found myself dating goths and I've dated women who absolutely adore the colour pink (very girly princess stereotype). Very broad spectrum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do have a type! But I can never articulate what it is… I like someone confident, with a degree of reservedness, and someone who takes pride in their appearance. |
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"I've found myself dating goths and I've dated women who absolutely adore the colour pink (very girly princess stereotype). Very broad spectrum."
I married a goth with pink hair. It didn’t go well. |
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I am pretty sure most have one but would usually be based on lots of different things from physical characteristics to personality and behavioural traits and even social economic status for some. Horses for courses  |
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"Do you have a weakness for a specific look or body type?
Are you more about the person?
Be nice, and no body-shaming."
I'm definitely more interested in women with curves. I've found women who are obsessed with their weight can be uptight, women who are more relaxed with their body are more at home and relaxed with sex.
Louise is naturally sexy... I couldn't even tell you why particularly she turns me on so much... She just does xx
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I do love the goth / alternative aesthetic... And even better with a curvy butt in fishnets...
As a very broad generalisation... It also seems to indicate we'd have other things in common...in terms of music , sense of humour, movies etc
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I don't think I have a type, and I think that's made me struggle in finding people interested in me because I don't know whose type I am if that makes sense? You see couples together and you can see what they see in each other, and it's something I've kinda struggled with. |
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Looks wise I don't have a type.
My type, if I actually have one, is someone I can have an easy conversation with who has a similar sense of humour and outlook on life and is on a similar path.
All that combined with physical attraction of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks play a part in the initial instance, but personality can soon change that.
For me it's more about how I vibe with the person, do our personality compliment each others. If they have sexual tourettes then even better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% dark hair, curves in the right places, big real boobs, big round bum, but of jiggle, covered in tattoos/piercings, gothic/alt look.
Luckily I found all of the above in black
Finding similar is proving to be a struggle 
Silver
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have a weakness for a specific look or body type?
Are you more about the person?
Be nice, and no body-shaming."
If a connection is a type then lm guilty, a connection is what l look for,if the connection naturally flows then hey presto ..a mental connection is what l look for everytime, attitude and appetite is everything to me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been accused of having a type, and it really threw me. I’m pretty sure I don’t."
ALL the time I get this too, so passive aggressive and infuriating. And to top it off I don't have a type . I just don't want to fuck everyone lol |
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Nope...
No type as such... It's about finding sensuous people you click with. My veris show quite a varied group of meets...
However there are traits that I find particularly attractive (and some a massive turn off), but without there being a mental connection things aren't likely to get past coffee... |
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By *addyAWoman
over a year ago
Beside the Seaside |
Confident, not arrogant; a quiet vulnerability, but not needy; safe and adventurous at the safe time; someone who sees, rather than just looks.
Throw in a tight arse and sturdy thighs and I’m sold. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest like the curvier lady
Always have always will
It’s about the personality and fun to be with and big heart
Only my opinion of course
Happiness comes in all shapes and sizes
Coffee wake up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
Very specific.
Feminine, Glamorous women. (No plain Jane's)
No bigger than dress size 12 or taller than 5 Foot 7.
Preferably enhanced boobs too if they aren't naturally a decent size.
Who are at least reasonably intelligent, sane and not an alcy or junkie.
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"Brown bobbed hair and glasses!
Me in 2019 
Oh what have you changed....
I gave up the hairdresser
So I'm guessing the Bob...
Yes. My hair is a touch (lol) longer now "
But you still have the brown hair and glasses though |
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I used to have… for me it was brunettes and red heads with curvy bodies and nice big natural boobs..
These days I’ve gotten to love all shapes & sizes, girl next door types to slutty gilfs… variety is the spice of life as they say.
However busty redheads are still my kryptonite..  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Yes but its subconscious and I didn't realise it until it was pointed out to me. "
Exactly that. I genuinely had never noticed, partly because my exes have all been so different, and actually mostly don't conform to the "type" I find most attractive. |
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"I’ve been accused of having a type, and it really threw me. I’m pretty sure I don’t."
"ALL the time I get this too, so passive aggressive and infuriating. And to top it off I don't have a type . I just don't want to fuck everyone lol "
Maybe I have a lot of types. Plural. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a type doesn't tend to rule out non-preferred types though. I've had a great time with plenty of people outside my preference as well so it's swings & roundabouts.
Ultimately it comes down to people/attitude. |
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"Brown bobbed hair and glasses!
Me in 2019
Oh what have you changed....
I gave up the hairdresser
So I'm guessing the Bob...
Yes. My hair is a touch (lol) longer now
But you still have the brown hair and glasses though "
Yes |
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"Brown bobbed hair and glasses!
Me in 2019
Oh what have you changed....
I gave up the hairdresser
So I'm guessing the Bob...
Yes. My hair is a touch (lol) longer now
But you still have the brown hair and glasses though
Yes"
Shame I can't see your profile and hair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think I do. But I do like nice eyes and smile and a good sense of humour.  "
So your type is someone with nice eyes and smile and a sense of humour? |
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I always respond the same to this. Although I can find someone incredibly attractive, beautiful, and stunning even, if there's no sexual chemistry it will never work. It's more about how having a sexual connection.
I've been in situations when I've gotten into bed with a stunning girl only to find that the chemistry is off. Other times I've met a guy or girl who I don't necessarily find good looking but the chemistry is there. I guess that's why as far as sexual attraction goes, a person's gender doesn't matter to me. |
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Yes I do , years ago my sisters mentioned that the guys I date are of a similar type/look and personality.
I initially vehemently denied this, couldn’t see the resemblance but I have now come to realise that they were right….subconsciously I tend to be attracted to certain characteristics in a person.
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By *KloganMan
over a year ago
Ramsbottom |
I was just chatting to the receptionist at the doctors a few minutes ago, wasn’t taking too much notice I suppose, then she smiled and laughed and suddenly i thought she was beautiful.
So, I guess I don’t have a type as such, just a massive attraction to natural smiles and a big heart.
Oh and glasses… definitely glasses.. |
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Find myself drawn toward bigger guys, just because I feel I won't 'break' them.
Always loved curvy ladies.
Goths / rockers / craft beer lovers to the front.
But honestly, it's about the person and how we get on. |
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We’re both attracted to personalities as much as anything else, but when it comes to the visual qualities on show on Fab, Vixen is all about hairy chests, Viking vibes and cheeky smiles for men, and fantastic, large boobs for the ladies.
I adore a curvy woman with plump red lips, red hair and great boobs. Since being in fab, I’ve discovered a kink for women in glasses, and also wild, wavy hair - extra points if it’s dyed red, pink or blue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes mostly..I can find others hot but if you look like the following I'm bound to almost definitely find you hot.
Cute face
Nose piercing (adds 100 percent)
Brunette/black longish hair
Great hourglass waist ratio
If you're smaller, small boobs and butt is great but if it's bigger, also great.
But redheads are also amazing. And blondes with hot figures.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes mostly..I can find others hot but if you look like the following I'm bound to almost definitely find you hot.
Cute face
Nose piercing (adds 100 percent)
Brunette/black longish hair
Great hourglass waist ratio
If you're smaller, small boobs and butt is great but if it's bigger, also great.
But redheads are also amazing. And blondes with hot figures.
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So basically....females |
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"Yes mostly..I can find others hot but if you look like the following I'm bound to almost definitely find you hot.
Cute face
Nose piercing (adds 100 percent)
Brunette/black longish hair
Great hourglass waist ratio
If you're smaller, small boobs and butt is great but if it's bigger, also great.
But redheads are also amazing. And blondes with hot figures.
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Really narrowing it down there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes mostly..I can find others hot but if you look like the following I'm bound to almost definitely find you hot.
Cute face
Nose piercing (adds 100 percent)
Brunette/black longish hair
Great hourglass waist ratio
If you're smaller, small boobs and butt is great but if it's bigger, also great.
But redheads are also amazing. And blondes with hot figures.
So basically....females "
What didn't he cover there?
An albino?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes mostly..I can find others hot but if you look like the following I'm bound to almost definitely find you hot.
Cute face
Nose piercing (adds 100 percent)
Brunette/black longish hair
Great hourglass waist ratio
If you're smaller, small boobs and butt is great but if it's bigger, also great.
But redheads are also amazing. And blondes with hot figures.
So basically....females "
I do like them, yeah! |
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Think everyone has a type and you can see that on a lot of profiles I.e black only or tall or slim or large or this age, even seen odd profile saying blue eyes blonde hair Swedish viking type only Haha. And that's before you then search for type of personality people look for sub dom rough soft cor list is endless, so everyone has a type otherwise people will just fuck again with a pulse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face. I like a really pretty face. Brunette. Isn't face attractiveness subjective?"
Not necessarily,some people are considered universally attractive.
Robert Pattinson and Gigi Hadid are most attractive man and woman by scientists using the indicator of beauty by the Greeks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m revising that to hopeless romantics with incredible lips.
I actually have a type after all. It’s only taken me my entire life to figure that out."
You just needed some inspiration |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you lined up my sexual partners, I don't think there is much of a pattern
My longer term partners range from a man 25 years my junior to a woman 10 years my senior
They go fem, fem, fem, man, fem, man, man
Different people at different times have lit my fire
The only commonality is that I didn't go looking for anything with any of them |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Face. I like a really pretty face. Brunette. Isn't face attractiveness subjective?
Not necessarily,some people are considered universally attractive.
Robert Pattinson and Gigi Hadid are most attractive man and woman by scientists using the indicator of beauty by the Greeks.
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This sort of science is surely inessential. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face. I like a really pretty face. Brunette. Isn't face attractiveness subjective?
Not necessarily,some people are considered universally attractive.
Robert Pattinson and Gigi Hadid are most attractive man and woman by scientists using the indicator of beauty by the Greeks.
This sort of science is surely inessential."
Yeah it's not helping anybody.
Could be doing more valuable work.
Not bad if you look like 1 of them though.
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"yes, willing.
Here was me going to say breathing
I can meet that criteria
You more than meet that criteria
Oh...good
Ahem. "
I think I may have stopped breathing there for a minute |
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"yes, willing.
Here was me going to say breathing
I can meet that criteria
You more than meet that criteria
Oh...good
Ahem.
I think I may have stopped breathing there for a minute "
Mouth to mouth ? |
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"Face. I like a really pretty face. Brunette. Isn't face attractiveness subjective?
Not necessarily,some people are considered universally attractive.
Robert Pattinson and Gigi Hadid are most attractive man and woman by scientists using the indicator of beauty by the Greeks.
This sort of science is surely inessential."
And inaccurate, there's much better examples of universally attractive people. |
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Yes and no.
No in the sense that the women I find attractive generally can be hugely varied. Our playmates have ranged from slim blondes to curvy brunettes, tall, short, stacked or small breasted. I can find attraction in a wide variety of partners.
Yes in the sense that there are certain characteristics which take things beyond attraction into irresistibility.
Short, relatively curvy, darker skin tones though can be any ethnicity, brown eyes, brunette, good hair. A lot of "my type" of girls tend to be mixed race though it's more correlation than causation.
Trouble is that for whatever reason that type of girl is rarely into me haha |
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