Inspired by a couple of recent threads, it got me thinking how do people use this fab feature? I usually add to my friends list people I have met in real life or I am seriously thinking of meeting. Sometimes it fades away as it’s not too much interaction as initially expected and it’s ok. I realise I am not the best “fab” friend either and it’s got a lot to do with my avoidant attachment style so I apologise for being that crappy friend but I would really like to hear your thoughts.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite particular about who I have as a friend, I think I have about 5 or 6. It never goes past 10, that just panics me.
I'm only comfortable showing my face and other areas to guys I genuinely find attractive and whose penis I think I'd like inside me at some point.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re very similar actually, we have one or two we talk to regularly but we always forget to just reach out and say hi.
We must seem so ignorant but we’re honestly not! Just need a nudge every now and again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just an extra chance to perve people
They are never going to agree to meet me
Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license."
Bet you say that to all the boys ... Get out excuse no. 335A |
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"It's just an extra chance to perve people
They are never going to agree to meet me
Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license.
Bet you say that to all the boys ... Get out excuse no. 335A"
As the legend says, you caught me red-handed  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
We have a very small friends list consisting of people we've met socially and become real friends, people we've met for fun and would happily do.so again, people we've chatted to at reasonable length and would love to meet socially or for fun should circumstances permit....and that's it.
We don't add anyone on a whim, we have no interest in seeing extra photos from anyone else, nor looking to build a huge list of potential meets.
We can 100% guarantee that not one person on our friends list is there to view bonus photo content. 100%. Guaranteed. 
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"Inspired by a couple of recent threads, it got me thinking how do people use this fab feature? I usually add to my friends list people I have met in real life or I am seriously thinking of meeting. Sometimes it fades away as it’s not too much interaction as initially expected and it’s ok. I realise I am not the best “fab” friend either and it’s got a lot to do with my avoidant attachment style so I apologise for being that crappy friend but I would really like to hear your thoughts.
(Hope it makes sense)"
Makes total sense.
We tend to have a lot of coming and goings in our friends list for those exact reasons.
It's amazing how many friends requests we get with literally no interaction as well.
Like you we try and limit friends to those who are and those we would like to be. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"We have a very small friends list consisting of people we've met socially and become real friends, people we've met for fun and would happily do.so again, people we've chatted to at reasonable length and would love to meet socially or for fun should circumstances permit....and that's it.
We don't add anyone on a whim, we have no interest in seeing extra photos from anyone else, nor looking to build a huge list of potential meets.
We can 100% guarantee that not one person on our friends list is there to view bonus photo content. 100%. Guaranteed.
A"
Same as this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just an extra chance to perve people
They are never going to agree to meet me
Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license."
Your not on my friends list thought and I do get to London every so often |
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"Only those that jump through hoops and agree to have our names tattooed on their arse cheeks make our friends list."
That’s a commitment I’m willing to take for the sake of fab friendships. Booking my next tattoo appointment as I type this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.
All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x"
Yet you let me onto it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually my friends list would be those who have already seen me naked or are friends on fab and know it will be just that.
I've had exceptions to those rules before but not often. |
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I'm only comfortable showing my face and other areas to guys I genuinely find attractive and whose penis I think I'd like inside me at some point.
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Exactly. With an honourable extension to those who have already done it. |
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"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.
All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x
Yet you let me onto it? "
How else will I see your bikini pics Wonko  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.
All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x
Yet you let me onto it?
How else will I see your bikini pics Wonko "
My beach body is no where near ready  |
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"My friends list is v small. People I really want to meet or have met in the past .
I'm not always the most chatty. "
I’m quite similar. Plus I have a foreign language barrier which makes me very insecure about chatting in general. |
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"It's just an extra chance to perve people
They are never going to agree to meet me
Never say never Wonko. I’d meet you in a heartbeat. Just need a small plane and a pilot license.
Your not on my friends list thought and I do get to London every so often "
Thats true, I am not. (yet) |
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"Fab friends list is for men who I meet sexually/have a sexual interest In.
All my just fab friends go onto my hotlist with the social hosts so I can see their updates x"
That’s how I use my hotlist too, I like to see all the interesting updates! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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My friends list is small. It’s people I’ve met or I’m likely to meet.
I’m quite hard work chat wise so I wouldn’t recommend myself and I also upload a lot of photos which can get on the tits of some I’d imagine.
My hotlist, however, is my secret crush list |
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For us, our friends list is for folks we have met.
All random requests are deleted but we always answer why we are not adding them as friends, just basic manners. If they reply with a snipe or nasty comment, its a block, that simple.
We use FAB as a swingers meeting site for holidays, parties and socials, not for long term friendships as we feel to be a long term friend we would have to introduce you to our vanilla friends and that petrifies us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll usually look to add someone if a connection has been made and we're looking to move things forward, possibly to a meet because it's a lot easier to find them on the friends list |
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