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over a year ago
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Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers  .
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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yes and once was staying overnight in a hotel the bed was soaked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Short and sweet answer - yes from a penetrative point of view.
From a male point of view you tend to lose the feeling - that’s my experience anyway. It kind of feels like fucking a jelly. The sensual friction evaporates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Yes, I have a video on my profile and it sounds like I'm fucking a puddle.
Just doesn't feel as good when it's too wet. |
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It can slip out more easily if it’s really wet, but that just means you need to find a better position.
Not sure how anyone can enjoy sex too much, or that being a bad thing? Sounds like the other person’s problem. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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If she's that wet even before you've dropped your drawers and she's seen Stephen and the Twins, then she's either just coming out of an extremely long dry spell sex wise, or she has a subscription to Tena.  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what Mrs shiv, I'll be honest, kind of, yes...
I love making women squirt and having them, messy down there - but I find when it comes to actual sex it can make it all feel less tight you know? Certain positions help that but in terms of basic missionary I find it's not as pleasurable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never! Never never!
I get the lack of sensation some guys talk about but I personally love the feeling of wetness.. I especially love licking an extremely wet pussy or having her sit on me….. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know what Mrs shiv, I'll be honest, kind of, yes...
I love making women squirt and having them, messy down there - but I find when it comes to actual sex it can make it all feel less tight you know? Certain positions help that but in terms of basic missionary I find it's not as pleasurable!"
Yeah it’s amazing for other things but for actual penetration it’s not enjoyable for me either. |
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No, I love a wet woman, shows me she is excited. Have been with women with opposite problem and needing lube to endure penetration is comfortable, so now really relish a wonderfully wet pussy.
Slips in easy (even dvp), makes delicious squishing sounds, and of course wonderful to eat too! |
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If I’m slipping out a bit too often, then it’s just a reason to change position. And I’m fine with that. It’s a compliment, if anything.
So, er, no. I don’t think ‘too wet’ is a problem.
I can imagine maybe it’s frustrating for you, as the woman - if you’re really enjoying being on top (for example) and keep having to stop and guide me back in again. If being so slippery is stopping you from enjoying the exact position you wanted. |
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By *eastXMan
over a year ago
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Why would someone stop if she is wet. Can you elaborate? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
Why would someone stop if she is wet. Can you elaborate?"
You loose most of the friction from being too wet and it’s just not pleasurable for either of us. Stopping for a while or drying yourself off is sometimes needed to get some of that feeling back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suppose like most things sexual it going to depend on the people involved. An ex off mine used to get super wet but it wasn’t a problem for either of us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I guess my question was is having to stop a major inconvenience or do you not mind?. I’ve felt embarrassed a bit in the past having to ask if we can stop to give me some time. It’s not very sexy is it |
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By *eastXMan
over a year ago
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
Why would someone stop if she is wet. Can you elaborate?
You loose most of the friction from being too wet and it’s just not pleasurable for either of us. Stopping for a while or drying yourself off is sometimes needed to get some of that feeling back. "
I think that is alright, and the friction can be gained by adjusting the angle and the position if needed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess my question was is having to stop a major inconvenience or do you not mind?. I’ve felt embarrassed a bit in the past having to ask if we can stop to give me some time. It’s not very sexy is it "
Just a minor inconvenience 
Just make it part of the play |
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If it gets too wet and unpleasurable just switch back to oral kissing for a bit even hugging, that will always work, no need to actually stop, but everyone is different, but agree with the guys here it's such a turn on when woman get that much aroused. Trust we love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the sensation when F is extremely wet, yes it takes some of the sensation away but it let's me know I'm doing my job right!  "
Or I'm thinking of a woman fucking me instead
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By (user no longer on site)
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So Mrs Shiv I always enjoy your posts on here. For me it's not a showstopper at all... Wetness is an indicator of turnedonness (if there is such a word!)so I'm always happy to feel a damp point of entry... If that damp point of entry feels like diving into the deep end then I agree with other posters that you lose a bit of that sensitivity. Am now off to listen to a bit of Wet Wet Wet  |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
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"I guess my question was is having to stop a major inconvenience or do you not mind?. I’ve felt embarrassed a bit in the past having to ask if we can stop to give me some time. It’s not very sexy is it "
I think that's the issue sometimes. Almost have to fake needing the toilet so you can dry up a bit.... |
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There is a fine optimal point when a man is turned on exceptionally so from a woman's wetness, relishing in that squelching sensation in tandem to the movements of intromission. However, if she becomes too wet, then yes, it can affect the play.
It's not the end of the world and it's certainly not frustrating because the intermission to clean up/dry up coincides with kissing and 'coital-care'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess my question was is having to stop a major inconvenience or do you not mind?. I’ve felt embarrassed a bit in the past having to ask if we can stop to give me some time. It’s not very sexy is it "
I would say it wouldn’t be an inconvenience as I would sense the lady not to be enjoying it as much, and it becoming a distraction. I would be happy either way, but imagine that the wetness would reappear as we got going again. It’s a real turn on for me but mutual benefit has to come first, so making sure both are happy, comfortable and enjoying it is top of the list |
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"I guess my question was is having to stop a major inconvenience or do you not mind?. I’ve felt embarrassed a bit in the past having to ask if we can stop to give me some time. It’s not very sexy is it
I think that's the issue
sometimes. Almost have to fake needing the toilet so you can dry up a bit.... "
If that's what she need to do to increase her pleasure than I'm good with that, that's why I'm there to pleasure her |
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Speaking personally, I absolutely don’t mind if we’re talking wetter than an otter’s pocket. Yes, sleeping in the resultant wet patch can be tiresome, but I view a women being very wet as the highest compliment. Yes, sex is a different at that stage, but that’s sex.
I’m ashamed to admit, though, that I never viewed it from the woman’s point of view ie you might not be enjoying it. If you wanted to stop for a bit, of course I’d be ok with that. Anything else just feels selfish. I’d only want to be with someone who feels comfortable at any given time.
We can either do other things or just cuddle and chat for a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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No .. if she's wet she's really enjoying herself ..why spoilt it ?... don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Yep .. needs a certain degree of friction to get to the edge.. lol
Too wet less friction .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess my question was is having to stop a major inconvenience or do you not mind?. I’ve felt embarrassed a bit in the past having to ask if we can stop to give me some time. It’s not very sexy is it "
Well ... I actually think that being asked to stop in mid-flow can be one of the best things ever - it really builds up tension and desire, it prolongs pleasure through more anticipation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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These are the kind of things I get really paranoid about .
I was married to someone who would put me down for anything he could think of and it does leave you with so many hang ups .
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"These are the kind of things I get really paranoid about .
I was married to someone who would put me down for anything he could think of and it does leave you with so many hang ups .
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Most of the hang ups were probably his, just projected on to you. You are you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These are the kind of things I get really paranoid about .
I was married to someone who would put me down for anything he could think of and it does leave you with so many hang ups .
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Snap.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Personally, I love it when she's soaking wet. It's such a turn on and feels great |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"These are the kind of things I get really paranoid about .
I was married to someone who would put me down for anything he could think of and it does leave you with so many hang ups .
Snap. "
I’m sorry that happened to you both. Some people are just really shitty and project their own insecurities onto others. I totally relate to being paranoid about it though  |
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Yes they can. Not to mention the mattress damage. |
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"These are the kind of things I get really paranoid about .
I was married to someone who would put me down for anything he could think of and it does leave you with so many hang ups .
Snap.
I’m sorry that happened to you both. Some people are just really shitty and project their own insecurities onto others. I totally relate to being paranoid about it though "
Yes, it’s much more about their insecurities than anything about you.
Getting really wet? Change positions, or stop doing p-i-v and do something else. It shouldn’t even be something to question, it’s just part of who we are.
Hope you can shake off their behaviour and enjoy yourself as you are in future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's matter of opinion. For me wetter the better I love being soaked in female Cum and juices. For others it may not be such a turn on. If your a woman I wouldn't worry about being to wet, most men love that ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t think so.
The wetter the better…
Our last serious girlfriend almost drowned H regularly whilst she was fucklicking underneath.
I loved the way it made her hair curl  "
Thank you for the well thought out answer. I appreciate your honesty. Anytime H needs some volume in her hair, let me know. I’d love to help in anyway I can. |
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"I don’t think so.
The wetter the better…
Our last serious girlfriend almost drowned H regularly whilst she was fucklicking underneath.
I loved the way it made her hair curl
Thank you for the well thought out answer. I appreciate your honesty. Anytime H needs some volume in her hair, let me know. I’d love to help in anyway I can. "
I bet she's using.. |
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Yes I have had this issue with someone that I’ve met as it kept slipping out |
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"I guess my question was is having to stop a major inconvenience or do you not mind?. I’ve felt embarrassed a bit in the past having to ask if we can stop to give me some time. It’s not very sexy is it "
Its just part of sex, it's not sexy or un sexy.
While from the guys pov you loose sensation if shes overly wet I find it a massive turn on. Feels like I'm doing a good job. Just pull out, I like to go back down because I LOVE eating pussy full stop but a super wet one is just heaven, give myself quick wipe to dry off & all is good to carry on. |
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"I don’t think so.
The wetter the better…
Our last serious girlfriend almost drowned H regularly whilst she was fucklicking underneath.
I loved the way it made her hair curl
Thank you for the well thought out answer. I appreciate your honesty. Anytime H needs some volume in her hair, let me know. I’d love to help in anyway I can. "
Oooh! |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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never too wet but I did have a woman who gushed soooooooooooooo hard I could not keep my cock in her when she gashed and when she sat on my face I almost drowned *literally, I could not breath. |
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
never too wet but I did have a woman who gushed soooooooooooooo hard I could not keep my cock in her when she gashed and when she sat on my face I almost drowned *literally, I could not breath."
Bring your hat and snorkel |
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
never too wet but I did have a woman who gushed soooooooooooooo hard I could not keep my cock in her when she gashed and when she sat on my face I almost drowned *literally, I could not breath.
Bring your hat and snorkel "
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
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Yes, never have sex on a hill with a woman that's too wet. When we were finished I tried standing up and slid all the way down to the bottom and ended up in a river...which I swear wasn't there beforehand  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can a woman be too wet?
I know it sounds great in theory and it means she’s really turned on but have you ever had sex with a woman and she’s just been too wet?. Is it frustrating that you have to stop for a while to let her “dry up” a bit?.
This is a serious issue guys and I need answers .
never too wet but I did have a woman who gushed soooooooooooooo hard I could not keep my cock in her when she gashed and when she sat on my face I almost drowned *literally, I could not breath."
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