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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Most users don't use the forums.

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford

I’d like anyone to get in touch with me, as long as I find them attractive.

Ah, I think I’ve just found the flaw in the plan

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you "

If only three was a 'meet requests' section of the forums....that would be ideal for this purpose....

A

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford


"Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!"

You’ll be wanting looks and a personality next

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Most users don't use the forums."

Okay … shot down … first answer …

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!"

Poor bio? Poor pics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you

If only three was a 'meet requests' section of the forums....that would be ideal for this purpose....

A"

Is there?

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Bare with me on this one…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill "

^^^ this

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you

If only three was a 'meet requests' section of the forums....that would be ideal for this purpose....

A

Is there? "

Always has been.

But as was pointed out earlier, you'd only be visible to less than 1% of the site. The other 99% doesn't use the forums, so a very limited market to advertise to.

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do to want them to reply I want them to block me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Bare with me on this one…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

^^^ this "

Haha thanks

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By *ommyTighMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!"

This is total bs - you expect a face pic on a profile but you don’t have one - really???

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you

If only three was a 'meet requests' section of the forums....that would be ideal for this purpose....

A

Is there?

Always has been.

But as was pointed out earlier, you'd only be visible to less than 1% of the site. The other 99% doesn't use the forums, so a very limited market to advertise to.

A"

I never knew this … where is the meet request in forum?

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you

If only three was a 'meet requests' section of the forums....that would be ideal for this purpose....

A

Is there?

Always has been.

But as was pointed out earlier, you'd only be visible to less than 1% of the site. The other 99% doesn't use the forums, so a very limited market to advertise to.

A

I never knew this … where is the meet request in forum? "

Go to the main forum page and scroll down.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I just scrolled down the threads…. Who knew ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!

This is total bs - you expect a face pic on a profile but you don’t have one - really???"

your timing for this post was almost scripted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you

If only three was a 'meet requests' section of the forums....that would be ideal for this purpose....

A

Is there?

Always has been.

But as was pointed out earlier, you'd only be visible to less than 1% of the site. The other 99% doesn't use the forums, so a very limited market to advertise to.

A

I never knew this … where is the meet request in forum? "

Oh goodness, don’t bother no posted a few in there. Nothing. …

*I don’t want s add beyond to make any remark to me about this!….

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"…

I never knew this … where is the meet request in forum?

Oh goodness, don’t bother no posted a few in there. Nothing. …

*I don’t want s add beyond to make any remark to me about this!…. "

I’ve had 2 drinks. I promise

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you

If only three was a 'meet requests' section of the forums....that would be ideal for this purpose....

A

Is there?

Always has been.

But as was pointed out earlier, you'd only be visible to less than 1% of the site. The other 99% doesn't use the forums, so a very limited market to advertise to.

A

I never knew this … where is the meet request in forum?

Oh goodness, don’t bother no posted a few in there. Nothing. …

*I don’t want s add beyond to make any remark to me about this!…. "

Have you been drinking

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By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8

It’s a nice idea, OP, and I hate being negative about anything.

But my thoughts (in addition to those already mentioned) turn to the fact people leave fab daily and new people join daily. So, every user would have to join the forums every day to see who’s posting, decide who the like and message them. That sounds to me like just searching fab.

Also, I’ve connected with people who ignored me the first time round. That could be because I wasn’t what they were looking for at the time, my profile now interests them, they’ve changed their preferred etc etc. Again, that necessitates me going back on the forum again.

Keep the ideas factory going though - one of them will turn out to be a belter!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".

Oh goodness, don’t bother no posted a few in there. Nothing. …

*I don’t want s add beyond to make any remark to me about this!….

Have you been drinking "

Yes. Does it show?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It’s a nice idea, OP, and I hate being negative about anything.

But my thoughts (in addition to those already mentioned) turn to the fact people leave fab daily and new people join daily. So, every user would have to join the forums every day to see who’s posting, decide who the like and message them. That sounds to me like just searching fab.

Also, I’ve connected with people who ignored me the first time round. That could be because I wasn’t what they were looking for at the time, my profile now interests them, they’ve changed their preferred etc etc. Again, that necessitates me going back on the forum again.

Keep the ideas factory going though - one of them will turn out to be a belter!!! "

Like the positive continuation

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

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".

Have you been drinking

Yes. Does it show? "

Yep, the thread waffling ...

... guilty aussi

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!

This is total bs - you expect a face pic on a profile but you don’t have one - really???"

I send one privately. I have other pics and am well verified.

I'm answering the OP... And what would work.

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim


"Bare with me on this one…

If people just asked on the forum if others were interested in them and if they should message…would that stop all the ‘I can’t get a meet’ …‘I don’t get a reply’ …. Kind of threads? That way you could save time sending messages which will be ignored and also it might reduce the number of messages the ladies and couples have to sort through as they have already said no or ignored the thread…

Does that make sense ? Or am I just waffling in my Friday chill

Final note…. Let me know if I should get in touch with you "

That would be awesome but only in a perfect world

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!

This is total bs - you expect a face pic on a profile but you don’t have one - really???

I send one privately. I have other pics and am well verified.

I'm answering the OP... And what would work."

Thank you for the thoughts good to have input

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You should definitely get touching.

I mean get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm a bit hazy this AM but isn't this kinda what happens amongst forum users anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You should definitely get touching.

I mean get in touch. "

What am I touching

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

I'm a bit hazy this AM but isn't this kinda what happens amongst forum users anyway?

"

Is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".

Have you been drinking

Yes. Does it show?

Yep, the thread waffling ...

... guilty aussi "

I read it back,… it makes complete sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You should definitely get touching.

I mean get in touch.

What am I touching "

Where would you like to start?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Any females can get in touch if they'd like to , preferably in my local area if possible

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only if they had a decent profile and a face pic.

Which is usually the issue in the first place!"

And where’s yours Mimi

??

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I don’t think people wouldn’t want the public rejection…

It wouldn’t bother me as we all can’t fancy everyone but it might bother others.

K

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"

I'm a bit hazy this AM but isn't this kinda what happens amongst forum users anyway?

"

Forum users don't meet.

They're just here to talk about sex. They don't actually do the sex.

A

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Gosh no. The forum is a very small pool of people compared to the rest of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You should definitely get touching.

I mean get in touch.

What am I touching

Where would you like to start? "

Your neck….

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You should definitely get touching.

I mean get in touch.

What am I touching

Where would you like to start?

Your neck…. "

Oh good start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You should definitely get touching.

I mean get in touch.

What am I touching

Where would you like to start?

Your neck….

Oh good start. "

Well got to start somewhere….and work toward the extra treat

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

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".

Have you been drinking

Yes. Does it show?

Yep, the thread waffling ...

... guilty aussi

I read it back,… it makes complete sense to me. "

You've been drinking too then (hic)

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