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What’s your pet hate about Fab?
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Morning.
What gets on your nerves about Fab ? We all know it’s the copy and paste messages girls get and the unwanted cock pics being sent but what else apart from those gets on your tits (or moobs) ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answering questions in messages, when the answer is visible in our profile.
What about you? |
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By *tar80sWoman
over a year ago
Southampton |
The redundant questions. |
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Neither of those issues apply to me as I am a single fella.
Don’t really have any pet-hates about fab, other than it’s really hard to find a woman to sit on my face and read me extracts from Mills and Boon novels |
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The sheer volume of messages. Honestly, it’s a full time job to manage my inbox.
What gets to me most is having to reject so many worthy applicants, I feel so guilty - especially when the begging starts. But there’s only so much Felix to go around and I don’t want to make the winners feel less special. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The person I want being too far away |
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People always being up north not down where I am   |
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The fantasists and timewasters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friend Requests without sending a message
People I get on with being too far away
Breadcrumbing after they message me first
When a couple who both use the profile flirt with each other on the forums. We get it, you fuck! |
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The text speak in messages, I can never understand what they’re saying to me |
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The friend requests...the ignoring of blurb on profile...the stupid questions...erm quite a lot really  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Morning.
What gets on your nerves about Fab ? We all know it’s the copy and paste messages girls get and the unwanted cock pics being sent but what else apart from those gets on your tits (or moobs) ? "
The repetition sometimes.
Not much else.
But having been dicking around in the forums for around 15 years now, its natural I guess for the same questions to be asked, the same subjects to be discussed and the same patterns of rants, angst and whining to occur.
What annoys me the most is when people are given perfectly good advice and then change nothing, only to come back weeks or months later and ask the exact same question. As if Fab as a site and its population should change for them rather than they adjust themselves.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Finding too many brilliant people I want to get to know better, platonically or otherwise. You could easily dedicate a full working week to that sort of thing.
I like being paid too much though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forum trolls and the ones who feed the forum trolls.
It’s what they want. Ignore them. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"The forum trolls and the ones who feed the forum trolls.
It’s what they want. Ignore them. "
Also this. 
But just like an innuendo ......sometimes it's hard. So, so hard........  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding too many brilliant people I want to get to know better, platonically or otherwise. You could easily dedicate a full working week to that sort of thing.
I like being paid too much though."
Awww that's actually really adorable. Can I take mine back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking and talking to people so bloody amazing you would drag your balls over broken glass for then realising they are at least 80 miles away and that’s a lot of broken glass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The people I like are too far away to create a more proper friendship.
I wish you all lived in Manchester, we’d be going out more, I’m sure if it.  |
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"The forum trolls and the ones who feed the forum trolls.
It’s what they want. Ignore them. "
This!!!! |
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The Fab curse of everyone being at least 300 miles away from us
LvM |
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"Answering questions in messages, when the answer is visible in our profile.
What about you?"
Folks who view profile time and time again and then when you message them they ignore it but keep looking at profile. People who are on friends list but now as single guy and not a couple.. they stay on the list but don’t speak anymore. Yes I can unfriend them but liked them enough to have them on the couple profile as “friends”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People reporting you as fake because you don’t open their 63 messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ratios of the site.
People who lack common sense, sugarcoat things or say things just to please the women.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ratios of the site.
People who lack common sense, sugarcoat things or say things just to please the women.
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Trolls. Misogynistic attitudes. Rudeness |
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Guys putting this in f or couples veris
“Treat them with respect folks”. . Yeah cause most people don’t |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aside from the usual annoyances that we all have with fab. Probably the fact that anyone I actually like lives hundreds of miles away |
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I agree wholeheartedly with what has been already said above, but I somehow like Fab with its unique imperfections. My biggest pet hate is however, my inner saboteur.
But then, I guess, it’s got very little to do with Fab itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ratios of the site.
People who lack common sense, sugarcoat things or say things just to please the women.
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I do things to please the women   |
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Won’t read your message unless you attach a face pic. No you can’t see mine till I know you better! WTF? |
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Those who arrange meets and don't show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ratios of the site.
People who lack common sense, sugarcoat things or say things just to please the women.
Trolls. Misogynistic attitudes. Rudeness "
Yeah hate those guys too |
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Original posters on threads that only rely to a select few that they always interact with especially when the thread asks a question
Marc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Original posters on threads that only rely to a select few that they always interact with especially when the thread asks a question
Marc"
Ahhh yes, this for me as well. Like if the OP is a man and they only reply to the women. It's so blatant as well! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Single men who claim that they sole reason they can't get meets is the ratio of men to women and couples.
Here's a viable (although unrealistic) solution.
If all the single guys who really, honestly believe that to be the sole and only reason for their lack of success and enjoyment left the site then the ratios would almost immediately level up and the remaining single guys who didn't blame that, who used the tools available and other external options to meet and who didn't think that just by joining they'd be knee deep in tits, would live happily ever after.
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"Guys putting this in f or couples veris
“Treat them with respect folks”. . Yeah cause most people don’t "
I thought it was just me that found that cliche and lol |
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Mine is, I just can't keep up with the thousands of messages I get daily wanting to see my tallywhacker.... Sometimes I just want a normal conversation, not treat like a piece of meat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single men who claim that they sole reason they can't get meets is the ratio of men to women and couples.
Here's a viable (although unrealistic) solution.
If all the single guys who really, honestly believe that to be the sole and only reason for their lack of success and enjoyment left the site then the ratios would almost immediately level up and the remaining single guys who didn't blame that, who used the tools available and other external options to meet and who didn't think that just by joining they'd be knee deep in tits, would live happily ever after.
A"
Thinly veiled.
You're so wrong you know. You'd get such a shock. You're not worth telling though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single men who claim that they sole reason they can't get meets is the ratio of men to women and couples.
Here's a viable (although unrealistic) solution.
If all the single guys who really, honestly believe that to be the sole and only reason for their lack of success and enjoyment left the site then the ratios would almost immediately level up and the remaining single guys who didn't blame that, who used the tools available and other external options to meet and who didn't think that just by joining they'd be knee deep in tits, would live happily ever after.
A"
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Original posters on threads that only rely to a select few that they always interact with especially when the thread asks a question
Marc"
100%.
Yeh FAB is not clique is it ? |
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By *b72Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
The ghosts are the men on fake couples/wimrns profile who just want a dirty wank. |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
"The forum trolls and the ones who feed the forum trolls.
It’s what they want. Ignore them. "
Yes definitely....there's one in particular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The forum trolls and the ones who feed the forum trolls.
It’s what they want. Ignore them. "
And it's begun on this thread, again.
An action ignored soon passes, an action jumped on blows up. In such a case.
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Seeing the inside of people's vagina and arseholes, some need a Dr!
The random friends requests too.
Mrs |
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"The forum trolls and the ones who feed the forum trolls.
It’s what they want. Ignore them.
And it's begun on this thread, again.
An action ignored soon passes, an action jumped on blows up. In such a case.
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Agreed, so frustrating. I was tempted but resisted. Be strong people!
Don’t throw bread off the bridge!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who send images of themselves in action with others. Makes me question the whole consent thing |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
That it would be that everyone are too far away. |
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"Won’t read your message unless you attach a face pic. No you can’t see mine till I know you better! WTF?"
Or they don’t even have any photos themselves. |
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Profiles who add anyone and everyone as “friends” just so they get the fabs to be on page one of fabbed photos/vids. |
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People who do not read your profile.
I also wish Fab had a like button because some comments are great and deserve a |
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"Won’t read your message unless you attach a face pic. No you can’t see mine till I know you better! WTF?"
This is me, as I state in my profile I’m a bit strange and I have to like your face. It’s really just so neither of us waste anytime as if it’s a no quicker to get that part over with. Just for some perspective as to why people ask for a face pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The entitlement attitude of 'must be up for anything with anyone'
Then come back with 'it's a sex site'  |
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Guys messaging me asking to suck my cock. I’m sure my profile doesn’t even hint that I would say yes. |
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That a lot of guys id love to fuck are too far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People been
Upppp Northhhh
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"The text speak in messages, I can never understand what they’re saying to me"
Thank feck!!! I thought it was just me couldnt understand it!!!  |
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By *utie bootyMan
over a year ago
the manor that never was |
The shear volume of bullshit that gets posted on the forums, pretentious self indulgent tripe.
The novels for bios. The won't reply without a face pic, when all your showing is your tits and dirtbox but I've gotta show my face to the world. |
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"People been
Upppp Northhhh
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We like it here!!!!! |
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Finding someone who seems great, reading their profile I match their wants, I construct a great opening message with all the code words and references to their profile.
Then it never gets read! |
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Bored curious people time wasters ghosting spontaneously being blocked for no good reason and breadcrumbing practices.
Honestly it’s must less hurtful to politely decline than fuck others about. Rant over lol
Happy Friday all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Original posters on threads that only rely to a select few that they always interact with especially when the thread asks a question
Marc"
Even worse when you answer the question, gets ignored and then someone posts the same answer further down and gets responded too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wonko |
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Quite often my pet hate ("hate" is too intense a word in this case) is receiving delightful messages from women who are too geographically constrained. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Single men who claim that they sole reason they can't get meets is the ratio of men to women and couples.
Here's a viable (although unrealistic) solution.
If all the single guys who really, honestly believe that to be the sole and only reason for their lack of success and enjoyment left the site then the ratios would almost immediately level up and the remaining single guys who didn't blame that, who used the tools available and other external options to meet and who didn't think that just by joining they'd be knee deep in tits, would live happily ever after.
A
Spot on "
I say that as a former single guy.
I say it as part of a couple who solely look to meet single guys.
I say that as someone who meets single guys in clubs regularly.
I say that as someone who gets great messages from single guys all the time.
I say that as someone who sees positives in all groups andngenders on Fab.
A
*just before anyone dives in with 'oh look another single guy bashing post from a couple' comment as is often the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single men who claim that they sole reason they can't get meets is the ratio of men to women and couples.
Here's a viable (although unrealistic) solution.
If all the single guys who really, honestly believe that to be the sole and only reason for their lack of success and enjoyment left the site then the ratios would almost immediately level up and the remaining single guys who didn't blame that, who used the tools available and other external options to meet and who didn't think that just by joining they'd be knee deep in tits, would live happily ever after.
A
Spot on
Yeah it definitely wasn't a coincidence that I posted that as soon as somebody mentioned about the ratios.
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yeah sure |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North of Okehampton, South of Bideford |
Facebook statuses.
Who cares if you have been off line for 24 hours and now catching up with messages |
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Not sure I really have any, it’s a fun site and a good way of meeting people |
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Repugnant social attitudes. It's an interesting insight into humanity, perhaps, but not what I want for this site. |
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"Original posters on threads that only rely to a select few that they always interact with especially when the thread asks a question
Marc
Even worse when you answer the question, gets ignored and then someone posts the same answer further down and gets responded too
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God yes
Marc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the best profile's are on my doorstep and I cant play so close to work  |
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People sending freind invites without any intention of interacting with you |
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Single men who post on the forum looking for a playmate or couple with their "female friend" or "partner", when this imaginary friend doesn't even have a profile (or part of a profile) on Fab.
I mean, who the fuck are you trying to kid....eh? |
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The mind blowingly inane forum threads and the clearly thirsty ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The inbox abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The utter disrespect of some people |
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"The utter disrespect of some people "
I don't want to sniff your arm put...but love the green number...where from please |
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"The utter disrespect of some people
I don't want to sniff your arm pit...but love the green number...where from please "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The utter disrespect of some people
I don't want to sniff your arm put...but love the green number...where from please "
Haha!!! I’ll message you x |
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"The mind blowingly inane forum threads and the clearly thirsty ones "
You can always not bother reading them I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When guys just message the word 'hi' to you. |
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"The mind blowingly inane forum threads and the clearly thirsty ones
You can always not bother reading them I suppose "
I don't but I have to scroll through so many to find the good ones |
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"DRUGS!!!!!
Eh. What’s that gotta do with Fab? "
Look at your update section sometime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"DRUGS!!!!!
Eh. What’s that gotta do with Fab? "
A lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications.
While I think fab intended them to be a good thing and also a way of networking, and giving more sight of more profiles, I think they cause problems.
I've had men slag off other men that have verified me time and time again. It's horrible and not the true swinging attitude that should be present.
Besides that there's also the fact that if someone has verified one of your playmates you can look like some kind of psycho weirdo bunny boiler if show interest in them yourself.
They are a minefield! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles with no bio! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications.
While I think fab intended them to be a good thing and also a way of networking, and giving more sight of more profiles, I think they cause problems.
I've had men slag off other men that have verified me time and time again. It's horrible and not the true swinging attitude that should be present.
Besides that there's also the fact that if someone has verified one of your playmates you can look like some kind of psycho weirdo bunny boiler if show interest in them yourself.
They are a minefield! "
Agree! Also women end up going psycho over them!!! |
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"Profiles with no bio!"
I'll fill u in later bb |
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"Verifications.
While I think fab intended them to be a good thing and also a way of networking, and giving more sight of more profiles, I think they cause problems.
I've had men slag off other men that have verified me time and time again. It's horrible and not the true swinging attitude that should be present.
Besides that there's also the fact that if someone has verified one of your playmates you can look like some kind of psycho weirdo bunny boiler if show interest in them yourself.
They are a minefield! "
I see it as a filter. If someone stirs shit about verifications, it's a good reason to avoid them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications.
While I think fab intended them to be a good thing and also a way of networking, and giving more sight of more profiles, I think they cause problems.
I've had men slag off other men that have verified me time and time again. It's horrible and not the true swinging attitude that should be present.
Besides that there's also the fact that if someone has verified one of your playmates you can look like some kind of psycho weirdo bunny boiler if show interest in them yourself.
They are a minefield!
I see it as a filter. If someone stirs shit about verifications, it's a good reason to avoid them "
Isn't it just!
I've learned that now.
I think I'd only display couples and single females but even then I'm not so sure.
I just don't like hearing one guy do down another guy that I enjoy. There's absolutely no need. Pure insecurity on their part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple more -
1.Threads being taken over my flirting forummers.
It’s normally the usual suspects.
Take it private !
2.People who cut and paste the whole message when their reply is only pertinent to a particular part/point. It leads to ridiculously long posts. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Verifications.
While I think fab intended them to be a good thing and also a way of networking, and giving more sight of more profiles, I think they cause problems.
I've had men slag off other men that have verified me time and time again. It's horrible and not the true swinging attitude that should be present.
Besides that there's also the fact that if someone has verified one of your playmates you can look like some kind of psycho weirdo bunny boiler if show interest in them yourself.
They are a minefield! "
exactly and hence my disdain with verifications |
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"Verifications.
While I think fab intended them to be a good thing and also a way of networking, and giving more sight of more profiles, I think they cause problems.
I've had men slag off other men that have verified me time and time again. It's horrible and not the true swinging attitude that should be present.
Besides that there's also the fact that if someone has verified one of your playmates you can look like some kind of psycho weirdo bunny boiler if show interest in them yourself.
They are a minefield!
I see it as a filter. If someone stirs shit about verifications, it's a good reason to avoid them
Isn't it just!
I've learned that now.
I think I'd only display couples and single females but even then I'm not so sure.
I just don't like hearing one guy do down another guy that I enjoy. There's absolutely no need. Pure insecurity on their part. "
Yeah. But conversely, that's why I tend to display. I give people opportunities to stir shit early and often, so the fallout is less painful. It's easier to fuck people off before you develop a friendship |
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"DRUGS!!!!!
Eh. What’s that gotta do with Fab?
A lot!"
But Fab doesn’t promote them. Surely that the individual. |
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Bullshitters. And most of them are quite easy to see through. |
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"DRUGS!!!!!
Eh. What’s that gotta do with Fab?
A lot!
But Fab doesn’t promote them. Surely that the individual. "
The problems with Fab are, so often, tied up with the behaviour of the users |
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Guys that seem incapable of reading a profile but get all stroppy when you don't want to meet.
The guys that have no veris, but call you a timewaster because you don't want a 5 min quickie while their wife are at the shops, are a particular favourite x |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
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Hate is a strong word! But dislike fake profiles not verified from a meet after joining the site over a year ago. Also bad manners of some people! It costs nothing to have manners and be nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications.
While I think fab intended them to be a good thing and also a way of networking, and giving more sight of more profiles, I think they cause problems.
I've had men slag off other men that have verified me time and time again. It's horrible and not the true swinging attitude that should be present.
Besides that there's also the fact that if someone has verified one of your playmates you can look like some kind of psycho weirdo bunny boiler if show interest in them yourself.
They are a minefield!
I see it as a filter. If someone stirs shit about verifications, it's a good reason to avoid them
Isn't it just!
I've learned that now.
I think I'd only display couples and single females but even then I'm not so sure.
I just don't like hearing one guy do down another guy that I enjoy. There's absolutely no need. Pure insecurity on their part.
Yeah. But conversely, that's why I tend to display. I give people opportunities to stir shit early and often, so the fallout is less painful. It's easier to fuck people off before you develop a friendship "
True. Not all do it early enough though, annoyingly. |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"The forum trolls and the ones who feed the forum trolls.
It’s what they want. Ignore them. "
This, you get them mostly on all threads. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Single men who claim that they sole reason they can't get meets is the ratio of men to women and couples.
Here's a viable (although unrealistic) solution.
If all the single guys who really, honestly believe that to be the sole and only reason for their lack of success and enjoyment left the site then the ratios would almost immediately level up and the remaining single guys who didn't blame that, who used the tools available and other external options to meet and who didn't think that just by joining they'd be knee deep in tits, would live happily ever after.
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Spot on
Yeah it definitely wasn't a coincidence that I posted that as soon as somebody mentioned about the ratios.
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yeah sure "
People who edit the comments of others, not to add a harmless element of humour, but to fit their own narrative and agenda.
Basically rewriting what someone has posted to misrepresent what they said because they lack the ability to argue their view in a civil, rational and cognitive manner.
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I don't like that it's a really short month and then every 4 years has an extra day!
Also it's usually really cold
Oh this is about pet peeves with this site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pointless and totally unenforceable disclaimers. Sydney university etc. Total waste of space. |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
The ever increasing rejection...............   |
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"Pointless and totally unenforceable disclaimers. Sydney university etc. Total waste of space."
My disclaimers are amazing |
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"DRUGS!!!!!
Eh. What’s that gotta do with Fab?
A lot!
But Fab doesn’t promote them. Surely that the individual.
The problems with Fab are, so often, tied up with the behaviour of the users"
I get ya now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men who message me asking if I want to meet them. They can see when they try to message me that it says I'm not looking to meet men. I know I could block them all but I keep it open for forum related things.
And what use to annoy me was when I was looking for meets and I had no verifications meets on my profile, I would see profiles saying things like..
"If you are not meet verified don't message me"
Or
"You are not serious about meeting If you haven't met anyone by now"
I would think to myself.. okay okay hold on a minute I can't even get a single message never mind meet someone! It's not that easy for single guys.
I'd like the women who say this to sign in with a single male account and see where I'm coming from.
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women being referred to as girls |
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"women being referred to as girls "
Oh really I still consider myself a girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women being referred to as girls "
Grannies that don’t bring crumpets |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
The unrealistic demands if people om here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women being referred to as girls "
This gets me a little too, though I've been guilty of doing so.
I have a theory, it's not that I consider a Woman to be a Girl, or even consider the term as a young person/child.
It's that by accepting Females my age are Women, I have to accept that I'm a Man, therefore adult. |
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Those who can't help seeing their own reflection in every criticism or compliment and believe they are aimed directly at them.
Those who live their fab lives publicly through profile rants, updates and forum posts and then accuse others of talking about them.
Those who don't practice what they preach and dig and pick and mock at other peoples preferences and choices but criticise others who do likewise.
Those who choose to ignore all of the above because they might still be in with a chance... |
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By *addyAWoman
over a year ago
Beside the Seaside |
"Looking and talking to people so bloody amazing you would drag your balls over broken glass for then realising they are at least 80 miles away and that’s a lot of broken glass "
Laughing in to my coffee in a room full of strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely nothing tbh , l don't or won't take anything seriously here because if you do you'll get crushed so my advice to anyone here is do not let anyone take the fun out of it for you, enjoy everything you can... your way |
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People trying to message me on other apps because they're outside of my preferences and were blocked on here - Basically they think they're special and will be the exception. |
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By *alker69Man
over a year ago
Accrington |
People who put Cannot accommodate AND Cannot travel....but want to meet!  |
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"Guys messaging me asking to suck my cock. I’m sure my profile doesn’t even hint that I would say yes. "
Use your filters to block single guys and stop them messaging.
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Reading someone’s profile and matching their likes and wants to the letter, sending a good message and face pics, only for said great message to be deleted, often unread.
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"Morning.
What gets on your nerves about Fab ? We all know it’s the copy and paste messages girls get and the unwanted cock pics being sent but what else apart from those gets on your tits (or moobs) ? "
Read messages without a reply. Endless lines on profiles description. Asking the person to be creative when sending a message, like that ever happens in real life. Women that sends message but aren't creative themselves. Fill this bit out later either there's too much or non at all. People look at tour vids/pics and not even a fab. The older I get the grumpier I become |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Fab straight
But looking for saying something else
Viewing a guy's profile when supposedly looking for women defeats the purpose
Ignoring the information contained within the bio
Users at times not able to keep the conversation on the forums even after them not leaving a comment on the forum |
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Another one is getting a message saying “Hi” and upon reading their profile, they warn against sending the very same message they just sent |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Reading someone’s profile and matching their likes and wants to the letter, sending a good message and face pics, only for said great message to be deleted, often unread.
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In your eyes but aren't theirs important it needs to be mutually and even then not a guarantee |
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Getting multiple messages in a very short space of time from the same person when its clear they didn't read my profile. |
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"women being referred to as girls
Grannies that don’t bring crumpets "
I shared them with the 'girls' ....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women being referred to as girls
Grannies that don’t bring crumpets
I shared them with the 'girls' ....
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Do you mean you dropped crumbs down your cleavage |
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"Those who can't help seeing their own reflection in every criticism or compliment and believe they are aimed directly at them.
Those who live their fab lives publicly through profile rants, updates and forum posts and then accuse others of talking about them.
Those who don't practice what they preach and dig and pick and mock at other peoples preferences and choices but criticise others who do likewise.
Those who choose to ignore all of the above because they might still be in with a chance..."
Seconded. |
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"women being referred to as girls
Grannies that don’t bring crumpets
I shared them with the 'girls' ....
Do you mean you dropped crumbs down your cleavage "
Nothing falls that far down |
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The shit talkers, timewasters, fakes and fantasists. All lumped under the FS Bullshitter Umbrella. X |
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"The shit talkers, timewasters, fakes and fantasists. All lumped under the FS Bullshitter Umbrella. X"
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""pRoFfEsSiOnAlS""
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EdUcAtEd  |
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"The shit talkers, timewasters, fakes and fantasists. All lumped under the FS Bullshitter Umbrella. X"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those pointless disclaimers people still put up, people who use Kik (fakes), the constant 'fab me for popularity' posts, and all the dick pics. |
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"Getting multiple messages in a very short space of time from the same person when its clear they didn't read my profile. "
Hi
Hi
Hows u bb
Hi
U hawt
Hi
Y u ignore me u waste my time |
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""pRoFfEsSiOnAlS"
AND
EdUcAtEd "
Haha yeah, quite often the "educated" aren't capable of reading! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, arsy/narky profiles that complain about other people being narky.
And the ones that have lists on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting multiple messages in a very short space of time from the same person when its clear they didn't read my profile.
Hi
Hi
Hows u bb
Hi
U hawt
Hi
Y u ignore me u waste my time "
Alright our kid? |
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"Getting multiple messages in a very short space of time from the same person when its clear they didn't read my profile.
Hi
Hi
Hows u bb
Hi
U hawt
Hi
Y u ignore me u waste my time
Alright our kid?"
I've not had that message on Fab that I'm aware of |
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"Getting multiple messages in a very short space of time from the same person when its clear they didn't read my profile.
Hi
Hi
Hows u bb
Hi
U hawt
Hi
Y u ignore me u waste my time "
Haha. Its like we have the same inbox . You missed out the: U Ugly anyway. |
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""pRoFfEsSiOnAlS"
AND
EdUcAtEd "
YoU cAlLeD ? |
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"Also, arsy/narky profiles that complain about other people being narky.
And the ones that have lists on them."
This is one of those things I understand even if I don't do it. (Ok, my profile has some sarcasm right now, but it's hopefully vaguely amusing)
I remember first joining the site and just being inundated. And thinking "maybe if I tell people that X won't work, they'll stop doing X"
It's counterproductive at best, but I totally get why people do it. |
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My budgie loves it but the poodle can take it or leave it. |
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"Looking and talking to people so bloody amazing you would drag your balls over broken glass for then realising they are at least 80 miles away and that’s a lot of broken glass
Laughing in to my coffee in a room full of strangers. "
30 Dec 2020 pic That’s beautiful lingerie ya had on. |
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"My budgie loves it but the poodle can take it or leave it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, arsy/narky profiles that complain about other people being narky.
And the ones that have lists on them.
This is one of those things I understand even if I don't do it. (Ok, my profile has some sarcasm right now, but it's hopefully vaguely amusing)
I remember first joining the site and just being inundated. And thinking "maybe if I tell people that X won't work, they'll stop doing X"
It's counterproductive at best, but I totally get why people do it."
Yep, I get why they do it too but as you say, it doesn't do anything. We're all frustrated on here, literally all of us but you just have to keep your head down and shut up moaning! |
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"Getting multiple messages in a very short space of time from the same person when its clear they didn't read my profile.
Hi
Hi
Hows u bb
Hi
U hawt
Hi
Y u ignore me u waste my time
Haha. Its like we have the same inbox . You missed out the: U Ugly anyway. "
I was once (years ago) told something to the effect of, I was ruining Fab because I never talk to men.
It was this person's first message to me. I know pussies are magic, but they want mind reading as well? |
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"Also, arsy/narky profiles that complain about other people being narky.
And the ones that have lists on them.
This is one of those things I understand even if I don't do it. (Ok, my profile has some sarcasm right now, but it's hopefully vaguely amusing)
I remember first joining the site and just being inundated. And thinking "maybe if I tell people that X won't work, they'll stop doing X"
It's counterproductive at best, but I totally get why people do it.
Yep, I get why they do it too but as you say, it doesn't do anything. We're all frustrated on here, literally all of us but you just have to keep your head down and shut up moaning! "
Agreed |
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When someone I find attractive winks me and I send them a message and don't here anything back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People being here for months without being photo verified. It's just a piece of paper, takes 30 seconds to upload.
The vomit in your mouth status updates.
The judgement on the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ghosts are the men on fake couples/wimrns profile who just want a dirty wank. "
. I love a wank nothing fake about that |
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People making judgements on you the basis of the number of verifications you have… |
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"Reading someone’s profile and matching their likes and wants to the letter, sending a good message and face pics, only for said great message to be deleted, often unread.
In your eyes but aren't theirs important it needs to be mutually and even then not a guarantee "
Totally accept that.More frustrating than a pet hate.And the fact I’ve a face only a mother could love |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
The misogyny, misandry and pseuds. |
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I'd like a notification if someone quotes me in a forum post reply. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Reading someone’s profile and matching their likes and wants to the letter, sending a good message and face pics, only for said great message to be deleted, often unread.
In your eyes but aren't theirs important it needs to be mutually and even then not a guarantee
Totally accept that.More frustrating than a pet hate.And the fact I’ve a face only a mother could love "
What would you do without that as it's priceless |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
Whats to hate:
Fab is so non judgemental, inclusive and friendly.
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"Answering questions in messages, when the answer is visible in our profile.
What about you?"
This. |
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People saying they have run out of messages |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"Also, arsy/narky profiles that complain about other people being narky.
And the ones that have lists on them.
This is one of those things I understand even if I don't do it. (Ok, my profile has some sarcasm right now, but it's hopefully vaguely amusing)
I remember first joining the site and just being inundated. And thinking "maybe if I tell people that X won't work, they'll stop doing X"
It's counterproductive at best, but I totally get why people do it.
Yep, I get why they do it too but as you say, it doesn't do anything. We're all frustrated on here, literally all of us but you just have to keep your head down and shut up moaning! "
Agreed,Isn't it ironic...how some people just moan. |
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By *678Man
over a year ago
Surrey |
Not enough personal filters in search.
Other than that, personally think picture verification should be required before a profile can message.
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
Those who derail threads with promises of lashings of cake  |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Those who derail threads with promises of lashings of cake "
Oh, and those that try and stretch out forum threads to reach 175 and have the last word |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Those who derail threads with promises of lashings of cake
Oh, and those that try and stretch out forum threads to reach 175 and have the last word "
Hate that.
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Those who derail threads with promises of lashings of cake
Oh, and those that try and stretch out forum threads to reach 175 and have the last word "
... see |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Not reading my profile
Calling me baby/Hun etc,yuck
Profiles with no pics being able to wink and message (despite having filters on ).
Pests |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Threads ending at 175
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Threads that witchcraft makes last longer.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. As above.
Those damn messages after 175 posts.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean…come on?!?! Why is it 175 limit anyway. Bit of an odd number don’cha think?! |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Those who derail threads with promises of lashings of cake
Oh, and those that try and stretch out forum threads to reach 175 and have the last word "
... see ... oh my |
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